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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Odunharry(m): 6:31am On Apr 05, 2016
I doubt there's any

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Sistem007(m): 6:33am On Apr 05, 2016
I will examine the circumstances surrounding her cheating on me, to know if it was actually my fault and to know if she was emotionally compelled into doing it...but if it was an outright deliberate offense or something she does regularly but was caught that day, there will be divorce and not forgiveness (Even the bible says infidelity is the only ground for divorce so I think I wont be doing the wrong thing). Mayb after the divorce I will forgive her.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by ipreach: 6:33am On Apr 05, 2016
I have confession to make.....




i cheated on my wife last week with a colleague in the office
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tosyne2much(m): 6:35am On Apr 05, 2016
Chanchit:
I do not have a problem with a cheating wife as long as I do not know. But for me not to know, she must have worked with the CIA before.


On a second thought there is one reason, if I travel out of the country for a long period of time.
Hahaha lmao cheesy
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 6:37am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

Go cheat na wether ur husband go forgive u
u think say na western world we dey
we are African, we don't care how many she slept with b4 marriage. ..but sleep with another one after marriage, Naija man can never forgive u...
All the Aristoism b4 marriage
All the numerous bf b4 marriage
All the people husband she don sleep with b4 marriage, those ones nor do am
u fit cheat o bt make I nor catch u
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by barnabas91: 6:37am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

on a serious note, can you give me the verse to that passage of the Bible.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Princedapace(m): 6:41am On Apr 05, 2016
foyeks2001:

The Holy Bible doesn't give room for divorce my brother... If u send her away, ur creator will ask u of that sin, u refused to let go on judgement day...pls kindly forgive when someone seeks for your forgiveness, its 4 ur own good

There is room for divorce as long as infidelity is concerned. If my wife can cheat on me, she can kill me o. I will forgive o but she will go home.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by menxer: 6:42am On Apr 05, 2016
If for whatever reason my wife had a fling with another man and asks me for forgiveness, I would forgive without looking beyond the reason she gives, if there is any. If the reason she gives has to do with my failings, I work on myself to correct it.

After all, I wouldn't say I have not done same and go asking for forgiveness.

Variety being the spice of life is a bitter truth no one wants to be on the wrong side of.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by narrowpathy(m): 6:42am On Apr 05, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


I hope the word "divorce " is still in ur dictionary? Many women are readily opting for it just in case you've not noticed, and as for financial support, helloooooo! don't u have eyes to see that most women are standing their own grounds without their husband's support? I've personally seen lots of marriages where the wife is the breadwinner of her home and no one knows about it unless u are extremely close to the family to notice the difference, my dear it's only d undying love she has for her husband that can make her stay, millions of kids are being raised in a broken home, don't forget that, so i see no tangible reason whatsoever for her to be obliged to remain with a cheating husband.
well personally I've never seen a woman who stays in marriage just because of ordinary love. There's always a tangible reason she isn't leaving and even at that most women confess they cheat low key to at least even the game and not feel like losers.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Oladat(m): 6:44am On Apr 05, 2016
From experience,it is very difficult to forgive.I have a cheating wife,I caught her not quite four weeks ago.For me that is the end of the marriage,but because of family pressure,we are still living together.We've been married for 7 years,we are blessed with 2 lovely boys,and of course,I enjoyed it while it lasted.the most painful part of it is that I trusted her so much so that I never suspected her of cheating.Now,I've started seeing someone else(something I haven't done in 7 years),and she knows it.My intention is to frustrate her out of my home.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by CopyLearner: 6:45am On Apr 05, 2016
AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it
and when you cheat,it's an accident abi? There's no excuse for cheating. If it happens, be ready to forgive if she acknowledges and is remorseful
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by just2okworld(f): 6:47am On Apr 05, 2016
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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Shiningmama(f): 6:47am On Apr 05, 2016
ipreach:
I have confession to make.....





i cheated on my wife last week with a colleague in the office

Pls if you find out your wife cheated on you, what will you do.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tosyne2much(m): 6:47am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.


Of course to forgive is divine but lemme tell you something, don't cheat on your husband hoping forgiveness is divine, therefore, he will forgive you


The blunt truth is that almost every man will not forgive a cheating wife indeptly. No matter how faithful she has been
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by jozee08(m): 6:50am On Apr 05, 2016
[quote author=missbronze post=44104228]If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


quoting out of context dear! what happened there was enabled by God just to show us what we the Christians are doing to Him our creator! besides Hosea and everybody knws she was a harlot!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tosyne2much(m): 6:51am On Apr 05, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
May God bless you for this comment.. A man who totally forgives a cheating wife is synonymous to God
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 6:51am On Apr 05, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
Of course.. Have seen it happen several times... So u are absolutely right
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 6:51am On Apr 05, 2016
I can only forgive her if na Dangote she sleep with and Dangote handover this him new refinery to me or if na Buhari she sleep with and Buhari handover presidency to me....After all she don dey knack other guyz b4 I marry her
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Dreambeat: 6:52am On Apr 05, 2016
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PureWays:
What if there isn't any kid between them yet, do you still think he should forgive her?
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Taryur3(m): 6:52am On Apr 05, 2016
TheProphetess:


Why?
Why the double standards?
Why can men sleep with too many women and it's good?
The same way you're wishing you'll never come across a girl like her is the same way any self respecting woman won't want to come across you.
No one wants to be serviced by over used dick.
Lwkmd...Prophetess...Prophetess.which one is overused dick?Dick doesn't slack and u know the opposite did.Well may God grant us the bones of our bone.but any woman that intends to cheat in marriage doesn't deserve forgiveness because they can easily kill the husband.Prophetess...pray for a good husband and never try to cheat in return if your husband cheat.pray for him and talk to him maturely.it's well with you.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by ipreach: 6:53am On Apr 05, 2016
Shiningmama:


Pls if you find out your wife cheated on you, what will you do.

I will forgive her as she did to me and then advice her and help her cut off everything that will lead to repetition of such again.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tosyne2much(m): 6:56am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
What if you travel for let's say a year and half? Consider the fact that you ain't no saint either.
Bro, no matter how you embellish cheating it doesn't change the fact that it's evil


If I may get you right, so because I travelled for a year gives my wife a licence to cheat?
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Shiningmama(f): 6:56am On Apr 05, 2016
Oladat:
From experience,it is very difficult to forgive.I have a cheating wife,I caught her not quite four weeks ago.For me that is the end of the marriage,but because of family pressure,we are still living together.We've been married for 7 years,we are blessed with 2 lovely boys,and of course,I enjoyed it while it lasted.the most painful part of it is that I trusted her so much so that I never suspected her of cheating.Now,I've started seeing someone else(something I haven't done in 7 years),and she knows it.My intention is to frustrate her out of my home.

So you want to tell me you've been faithful to your wife for 7 years? Meanwhile you too have started cheating on her. So pls forgive her
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by eemogkay: 6:58am On Apr 05, 2016
If it were me, I will forgive her once she promise not to do that again.



In actual fact, the fault may be from the man. Ask her why she have to do it. Make up to her she might stop it.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by oketoyinboshola(m): 6:58am On Apr 05, 2016
It easy to say buy difficult to do, the LOVE I have for her, can make me forgive her. But she must ask for forgiveness.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Shiningmama(f): 6:59am On Apr 05, 2016
ipreach:


I will forgive her as she did to me and then advice her and help her cut off everything that will lead to repetition of such again.

Good to here this. All these people saying they can't forgive, meanwhile they are not saints. God is watching
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by streetzdreamz(m): 7:00am On Apr 05, 2016
Weird,most of the comments says "i cant forgive,the memory lingers and keeps haunting" seems we all forgot the major culprit in this scenario is we men,its only in rare occasions you see a woman bring home another mans child, even if she will you will never get to know until things goes south,but on the other hand a man cheats,even brings his mistress home,delivers the child and either keep her as a second wife or take full responsibility for the child,and tells his wife it was a mistake,asking for forgiveness,subjecting his legit wife to a constant reminder of what led to the developments,why is it a one way thingy?it should be in for a penny in for a pound,cheating should be frowned at no matter what,women shouldn't be made to forgive a cheating spouse when a man wont ever forgive his cheating wife,guess its the way we were made though,i for one wont forgive a cheating wife cuz i wont ever cheat on her,the day i do is the day the relationship starts crumbling,cuz of guilt and a constant reminder of what happens if she does thesame, ofcourse only if your conscience ain't seared already.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by 9jatatafo(m): 7:00am On Apr 05, 2016
It will be very hard ooo. She better leave the house and go and marry the man she cheated with.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by adebayo3449(m): 7:01am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.


i can neva love her again
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by macino1(m): 7:03am On Apr 05, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
So on point
Men often see their wives as what they are protecting, providing for, satisfying, etc. (whether this is rightly or wrongly done is another question). So, for any other man to have access to his wife will be a clair robing of his ego by his wife and the cheating partner.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by bluestone2015: 7:05am On Apr 05, 2016
Hmm. Who is better? A wife that cheated once and prostitutes who men snatch off the streets daily and take as wives.
Same men who will not forgive will marry a woman who has left her third husband.
Same men who will not forgive will marry a woman that has aborted several times.
You are ready to push out your cheating wife who has asked for forgiveness and probably willing to marry another woman who is worse that her.

Who is fooling who?

Be wise. Do not let ego rob you your happiness. You probably want to send a cheating wife away so that your neighbors will not say that you are not a real man. Same neighbours will not be there to help if you marry someone worse.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by engrhorla(m): 7:10am On Apr 05, 2016
Guys n ladies, why shld a wife cheat in the first place?

Cheating is not rape! It's a carefully thought out act, it's no accident! The wife must have done such for a 'gain'

Cheating for me is borne out of 'lack of contentment' and it can never be justified

A cheating woman can do ANY thing - her greatest value has been compromised

For the ladies, don't try to think but men do it! You are conditioning your mind for 'unhappiness'

For the guys, what you sow is what you reap! Above all, the Bible says 'Love ur wife' - if you so much love her, she will think 1000 times before she open her legs!

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