missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

Shiningmama:


Good to here this. All these people saying they can't forgive, meanwhile they are not saints. God is watching

GANJAFARMER:
Hehe , I will o

I have this miniature toto reading meter that will send back signals of every activity down there to my laptop or mobile phone . From the number of thrust to the amount of fluid deposited if any and would also record if any foreign body eg condoms was present and it will have the capacity to give me the exact time using body heat as an indicator.This meter is designed in such a way that it could analyze and tell that something different fitted into that cavity.
You wanna try ?

McCarlito:
Where is the person she cheated together with

We just have to discuss
Because he will be explaining to the devil why he arrived early to hell

PureWays:
What if you travel for let's say a year and half? Consider the fact that you ain't no saint either.

Taryur3:

You are a learner.you never jam ogbanje asshole.go and marry ashawo that bleeps around and then blame your self for everything. Body go tell you after 10months

missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.

haul:
Well I'm a liberal person when it comes to women and religion but logical when it comes to business and politics. I don't really see marriage as big deal for sharing emotions and all that. The way I see marriage is different, the only reason someone like me is going to getting married is for mental stability of my kids, so they can grow up with both parents.

However, before tying the knot, I lay my plans to her which her, she agrees with me that we can bring a woman to our matrimonial bed for one nights stand, she can even be the one to woo the girl for me, and I can be the one, she can also see a man she likes to have a fling with in our bed and we both agree to be in bed for 3some. I don't have problems with all these things cause I don't see sex as a big deal sofar we both agree to it.

I for one see marriage as a contract mostly where we both agree to things before doing it. yeah, I'm that liberal more like open marriage. Reason I can't just marry someone who loves me but understand and shares my sentiments. Call me wierd or you can't do it , this is the way I plan to live my marriage.

She knows who I'm shagging,I know who shes shagging no need for games, no need she shagging behind my backs with no condoms to bring home some disease, so no need me shagging behind her backs to bring her disease since the whole 3rd party will be with us in bed so we can see whatsup.

We practically don't cheat behind eachother cause we will be cheating together.

AfroKnight:


Lol. We were talking about women who decided not to divorce their cheating husbands. So I was surprised that you still presented divorce as an option.

Anyway, all I'm saying is that you should not expect a man to endure and stay married to his cheating wife just because many married women endure cheating.

Why are you making a case for the woman sef? Are you cheating on your hubby?

Good morning.

ipreach:
I have confession to make.....





i cheated on my wife last week with a colleague in the office

modelmike7:
. . . This is seriously serious.... All the best man!!

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

ipreach:


I will forgive her please

narrowpathy:
well personally I've never seen a woman who stays in marriage just because of ordinary love. There's always a tangible reason she isn't leaving and even at that most women confess they cheat low key to at least even the game and not feel like losers.

Siena:


If your head was screwed on the right way, you would be civil with your tongue, and understand that forgiving a cheating spouse is a thing of choice. If you had half a brain, you'd be dangerous.

My choice is NOT to forgive my wife if she cheated on me. Deal with it, and shove off.

YelloweWest:

What if u make a mistake and sadly she retaliates?

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

abimic:

Yes bro, I would never o, never ever at any cost! I go love my wife wella ehn,so I can only marry a lady that's up to date.

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

SexyStrawberry:


i really want to reply this mundane mentality of urs, but I've vowed never to use insulting words on anyone here on Nairaland, not to talk of someone i cant even see or know what he/she looks like coz my reply wont be pretty at all being that I'm a blunt kinda person, i talk without decorating my words to soothe the ears. So u are lucky, don't quote me again pls. Thank u.

PapiDShipCapt:
My sister, forgiveness in this scenario is dead and gone