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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by CharlieMaria(m): 11:14pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
thanks A've been checked for infections and am free of that. The obvious reason the doctor said was my body wasn't producing the required testosterone I need to erect or produce active sperm cells. This alone is a broad topic because alot of factors can affect testosterone production including genetics( inherited from birth) supplements could help but won't fix the real problem, and might have to be taken indefinitely. Thanks for your suggestion I will ask the doctor tomorrow.
Bro pls just pray your Rosary, and watch a speedy end of the issue
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by aspirebig: 11:15pm On Apr 10, 2016
Who has the final say? Jehovah has the final say ...2ice
Jehovah turns my life around, 2ice
He makes a way, where there is no way. Jehovah has the final say...





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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by flightz(f): 11:15pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
masturbation in the lab. I manage to get a Lil erection in the process.
I wish you well. I have always wanted to ask this question; did the lab people tell you expressly to masturbate? Were you given space to do it or they watched you do it?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
weebee:
Get close to a beautiful girl of your choice. Be friends and later tell her what your predicament is. She will fall in love with you and decides to marry you for who you are. Bros trust me few years to the marriage you will get her pregnant. You will have 2 boys and a girl. You are not impotent! How God will do it I don't know but it will happen.
thanks so much am just worried I might tell the wrong person who will disappear the next day after telling her.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by tunwe(m): 11:20pm On Apr 10, 2016
uwadia79:
my broda,thank God for u, I am 37years my joystick is below 3inches I have not expirience puberty,all my siblings are married and u say u get problem.go thank God for ur life
No girlfriend no sex I hide from my peers

Are you just trying to braze the guy up, or you are for real. I thought that is just oyibos problem. Tinnie Winnie structure does not prevent erections and sperms production. Can be undesirable by some partners.
If well used, can deliver satisfactions to others.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Coraje(m): 11:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

My dear, that's life. When it throws all the evil and hurts at u. When uve tried all and it seems there is no hope. Just remember that Jesus (God) is mighty to save(heal and deliever). This is no motivational talk. I have times like yours In my life but God always saved me when I turned to him

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
kowalsky:


but you developed secondary sexual xteristics as I grew older.. you experienced puberty?
yes i did. Thanks.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
Not sharing information because the requestor isnt humble enough to ask isnt pride, it is a cosmic law to provide solutions only when asked in humility, its called the Law of Non-Interference. Who knows he might be paying back some Karma and his stubborn ego doesnt give way. The lesson here might be humility for him and he has inadvertently refused to learn.

He is 24, may be at 25 he will be humble, may be in the next lifetime. So far, I havent seen him ask humbly for that solution from me, he will walk the surface of the earth searching for solution that is just in front of him, because he was too stubborn to beg for it. And I mean beg for it. He prefers suicide to begging. Who cares ? He will always come back, existence is eternal, so is experience.

He needs a solution that was the reason he made the post(a way of begging) so people can offer him a solution, you sound childish sorry to say.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by sped1oro(m): 11:29pm On Apr 10, 2016
@ OP, the solutions that have been given from page 1-11 are quite inspiring, however, i will advise that you take your time to reflect on these solutions i am going to proffer because i have seen people with this plague, got healed and lived a healthy and happy life thereafter. My wife and i had more than 2 years delay trying to conceive, my wife was diagnosed of infections, high prolactin and other medical conditions. Worse of it all, she was diagnosed of TUBAL BLOCKAGE. I also went for series of tests and analysis, i was diagnosed of low sperm count and some other sperm deficiency conditions.
To cut the story short, my wife is 6 months pregnant and the solution was not more than LIFESTYLE CHANGE. Though I am a practicing muslim, i have never consulted anybody whether imam or pastor or otherwise for any solution in my life because my faith frowns at it but when the issue of INFERTILITY came up, i tried holding up to that principle and it really worked for us. Alternatively, i have read about fruits and other organic substance for curing all kinds of diseases and ailments, some of these fruits and organic items are today made into food supplements but here is my advise, start taking fruits such as WATER-MELON, CUCUMBER, TOMATO, PINE-APPLE, GARDEN EGGS, LOTS OF VEGETABLES, GINGER, GARLIC AND BLACK SEEDS. If you can afford to go on these fruits and vegetable therapy for 6 months, your potency will be restored without surgery or any procedure. Stay away from alcohol and sugar as much as you can.
I hope this works for you as well

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by wandeykul(f): 11:29pm On Apr 10, 2016
jashar:


what is right with you? undecided. Must you display your ill mannerisms for all to see?. If you don't like what some one did/is doing what happened to;'Do you mind not derailing the thread and focusing on the topic? Thank you'.

SheeeEeeesssshhhhh!!!!
Sorry o madam,i never knew dharay was fucking you,dis 1 you carry hin matter for head,his dick is indeed a miracle cos it has done wonders in ur life.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 10, 2016
tunwe:

@OP___
You said while growing up, you noticed your scrotum was smaller than your junior brother. Are two of yours testicles descended(inside scrotum). Just wondering what caused your pathological diagnosis. Undescended testicles, other than being carcinogenic (testicular cancer), also inhibit them doing their usual work of producing and storing male hormones(androgens & &testerones).
we bath together when we where kids. We don't have undesended testicles but my testes is smaller and my scrotum strongly holds together like it's cold or something. I wish I can really explain.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiggyB242:


He needs a solution that was the reason he made the post(a way of begging) so people can offer him a solution, you sound childish sorry to say.
Is sounding childish, an offense ?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by kingmassa(m): 11:36pm On Apr 10, 2016
I took time to read all most all d post and solution but the major solution I saw here is for you to look unto Jesus. Bro Jesus has the final say... Try attend winners chapel pertake of the holy communion as drug dosage 3X dialy if after 3wks u no share testimony den try oda means
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Apr 10, 2016
Tem12:


@op hope you received my request?
yes i did pls check ur mail thanks.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 10, 2016
a2personal2013:
Op, I'm so sorry to hear about your predicament. I am quite busy at the moment but want to let you know that there is hope medically.

Urologist can do a testicular biopsy where your sperm can be harvested and used artificially to fertilize a females egg. This can then be implanted (IVF). As for the erection, several studies are in very high stages where there are positive results.

Don;t give up and never regret being the good man that you are. Life is full of other options
thanks alot God bless you.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by maxti: 11:42pm On Apr 10, 2016
cocoama:
lol you are funny. Where did i state that?

I had to read your post again. Just to be sure cheesy
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by trending1: 11:44pm On Apr 10, 2016
Good day bro

You seem to have a spiritual upbringing and as such I will guide in that line
First of all God made you perfect for God is perfect you are the exact replica of him Gen 1:26-27
You are blessed and commanded to be fruitful and multiply Gen 1:28
Your being alive and prosperous is a result of God's blessing without sorrow Proverbs 10:22
For God has no hand in your predicament he wont make you in his image to suffer that is confusion 1 Corinthians 14:33
God's will for you is to prosper and live in health so you see your ailment is not of God 3 John 1vs2
Your inability is a lie from satan who knows very well to play on your ignorance hiding the truth is satans native tongue John 8:44
There are facts all around of the existence of God only fools doubt it Psalm 14:1

If you are interested in getting your life in order, i will still be glad to guide you be blessed

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by bennymark(m): 11:48pm On Apr 10, 2016
Una wey Una pr*ck dey stand, hope yu now understand whhy u shudnt waste d SP preganting people's daughter indiscriminately
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 10, 2016
preggi:


Dear Great One,

Please share the info and overlook his "arrogance" since you are older and more knowledgeable than him.

@ Grossintel please in the name of the Almighty apologise to him and get solution. I am sorry won't diminish your person.

Once again pls share the solution
All I asked was he should read my post again and understand the real problem not making a wide assumption. Their are alot of factors to be diagnosed before attempting a treatment or therapy, because it worked for him doesn't mean it will for another. A doctor or urologist totally understands this that is why they diagnose the same problem differently when it comes to male fertility. No sentiments but if he really wanted to share a solution he would freely do that.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 10, 2016
flightz:
I wish you well. I have always wanted to ask this question; did the lab people tell you expressly to masturbate? Were you given space to do it or they watched you do it?
Yes they tell you to masturbate and release in a sterilized jar given to you. Lol, they don't watch you, you will be taken to a private room with all the space and time you need.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by liciouspee(f): 11:57pm On Apr 10, 2016
If I may, taking your life ain't going to solve ur problems rather it will add to them(spiritually). There are rare cases of impotent men still fathering a child, it doesn't have to be thru penetration but by insemination ie ur sperm is taken when ur testosterone count is a little high n inseminated into ur wife or gf. As for ur love life, that shouldn't be a bother to u, get d necessary medical attention you need n d time is right d one who will be there for u, support u, be patient n try all d remedies with u will come. Just have faith n be positive ALWAYS. Peace Bro!

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 11, 2016
missyadorable:
This is what fits some of you guys

If your pen.is and hormones were working properly,by now you would be on nairaland bragging about your sexual exploits with hoes and bitch.es

Or be a baby daddy,impregnate girls and deny

Honestly,i dont pity you.

Your comment is one of the silliest I have read in recent times.

I'd advise you visit a quiet place and ponder about Life for five minutes. If you still did not learn anything afterwards, I am sorry, but your case might be spiritual.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by flightz(f): 12:02am On Apr 11, 2016
grossintel:
Yes they tell you to masturbate and release in a sterilized jar given to you. Lol, they don't watch you, you will be taken to a private room with all the space and time you need.
good. So those who see masturbation as sin, I wonder how they go through such session. Maybe they rebuke the lab people and start preaching to them?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 12:04am On Apr 11, 2016
flightz:
good. So those who see masturbation as sin, I wonder how they go through such session. Maybe they rebuke the lab people and start preaching to them?
I think they have a way of extracting it directly from your testicles. But that won't be pleasant at all..

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Contumely: 12:12am On Apr 11, 2016
talk2oc:
Dear Grossintel. I can understand your pain. I have a similar problem and I was not aware until after my weeding. My wife and I decided to stay and fight together when we found out. First we went to hospital and ran series of test after which some medications we prescribed. Unfortunately non worked after one year. We did our own research and made a discovery of a certain fertility drug manufactured in Germany and we called our Dr.and she gave approval for us to use it. The drug was not here in Nigeria and we imported it from Germany. After taken it for 3 months we went for tests and I was completely healed and two months later my wife got pregnant. You can give it a trial and stay positive. Is never fault
which drug is dat sir?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Gracito(f): 12:16am On Apr 11, 2016
I Can beg on his behalf, yeah? Please, please, help the young man if you can. Please. Biko.
BiafranNigerian:
No, DipoDee, I am not a demon-possessed or a Sociopath. Have you noticed that some of you spent so much time-energy chastising me to provide the solution than ask him to beg for it ? Is it not odd ? That a sick person with erectile dysfunction is NOT ready to beg for free solution, but you find it easy to insult me to provide him the solution ? That is the chief reason people have problems in their lives. I have seen 11 pages on this thread, and no one, no single person has solution for him. And yet, he doesnt want to beg to get a real shot at the solution ? Hell No, my good fellow, Life is not fair, and I am not here to make it fair. Allow the man to suffer enough to become humble or be humbled by his fate.

Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by SAEJO: 12:17am On Apr 11, 2016
dharay99:
sorry, ionne read long
posts, summary plz
And a comment like this is getting likes, on a topic like this?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by flightz(f): 12:22am On Apr 11, 2016
grossintel:
I think they have a way of extracting it directly from your testicles. But that won't be pleasant at all..
this topic just spark my interest the more. One more question, do you get sexually attracted to males, especially naked ones or soft porn involving males?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 12:24am On Apr 11, 2016
Gracito:
I Can beg on his behalf, yeah? Please, please, help the young man if you can. Please. Biko.
Dont carry his cross, allow him the liberty of liberating himself. Apparently, he will have to go through the cycle to really learn lessons about meekness. More chemicals will do him no good. I can categorically say, that there is no lasting solution in the conventional pharma industrial complexes out there, the solution is just as expensive as being humble enough to beg for it. They think am half-baked, half-educated quack ? Far from it, I am as ultra-scientific as any human being can ever be.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 12:26am On Apr 11, 2016
flightz:
this topic just spark my interest the more. One more question, do you get sexually attracted to males, especially naked ones or soft porn involving males?
no I don't am very straight. I detest gay porn, am not homophobic though.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by flightz(f): 12:27am On Apr 11, 2016
madjune:
I'm well aware of problems like this.

It's on the rise due to our increasingly synthetic diet.
Too much fatty diet can lead to this atimes.

Testosterone shots are only good in the short run but if not sustained, you will notice a rapid decline throughout life.

And, the shots have their side effects.

The drug Clomiphene Citrate is designed to address this problem...it helps the body to renew it's testosterone production.

What I don't know so far is, if it has dire side effects but I doubt.
the man that thought me hormone chemistry kept mentioning Clomiphene.. And he has very tiny voice and looks younger than his age. Maybe he his using the drug, maybe.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Mattex001(m): 12:28am On Apr 11, 2016
I'm sorry about this.... I trust solution is on its way! By God's grace!

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