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Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 10:14am On Apr 11, 2016
OPEN DISCUSSION, let hear ur view
A wife asked her husband to drop her off
at a
friends house, where a wedding reception
was taking place. He responded that he
would be
too busy throughout the day in the office,
and
gave her some money to use as taxi for
transport. He left for the office. The wife
took a Taxi to the wedding reception,there
she met a fine Girl and they got talking to
each other.
Soon they became friends. In the evening
when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked
the
Woman how she was going home. She
replied that her husband was too busy in
the office to
pick her up so she would use a taxi. The Girl
responded; "My boyfriend brought me here
and would be coming to pick me up. I just
spoke to him on the phone and he's on his
way. Why don't you join me in his car and
we would drop you at your house"The
woman
agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's
car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front
passengers seat of the car and asked the
Woman to sit at the backseat, which she
did
confused and perturbed. Then the Girl
introduced her new friend to her boyfriend.
When the man turned around to greet the
woman, he recognized her as his wife.
Nothing much was said along the way. He
dropped
the wife at home first as planned and
proceeded
to drop the Girl at her house.........
The question now is: If you were the wife,
what would
you do when your husband returns home? If
you
were the husband, what would you say to
your wife when you return home.
Please open discussion..

Lalasticlala
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by byvan03: 10:33am On Apr 11, 2016
Returning home to where? Only a mad man will return home. It's safer to disappear from there grin.

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 10:49am On Apr 11, 2016
Nothing to say from either parties. The marriage has run its course.

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 11, 2016
I do not have any explanation to make. In as much as I ve given birth and d marriage is not new then am off. Thank God am a career woman. I don't need his money because I already have my business to take care of my kids. Marriage is messed up already so I no get time for heart attack cos of one stupid man or love...

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 11:00am On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:
Returning home to where? Only a mad man will return home. It's safer to disappear from there grin.
are u telling me you would leave your home? Like forever
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 11:01am On Apr 11, 2016
postmann:


Nothing to say from either parties. The marriage has run its course.
don't you think it can be settled?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 11:03am On Apr 11, 2016
MissMalia:
I do not have any explanation to make. In as much as I ve given birth and d marriage is not new then am off. Thank God am a career woman. I don't need his money because I already have my business to take care of my kids. Marriage is messed up already so I no get time for heart attack cos of one stupid man or love...
for better for worse.in good nd bad tyms..or those oath no mean anything again.remember?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
for better for worse.in good nd bad tyms..or those oath no mean anything again.remember?
for better for worst, after cheating on me? Last time I checked STD is still in existence... Make one man come kill me abi? I m not interested

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by joseph1832(m): 11:07am On Apr 11, 2016
How can the man be that _stupid? Shouldn't he have known the wife and the girlfriend were at the same event? undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 11:21am On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
don't you think it can be settled?

It can, bro. But there's no explaining away the obvious; that a husband has found someone else more interesting, someone more worthy of little sacrifices and risk. Which other way can a man make his wife know that the spark is gone?

If the marriage stays, it'll only exist and not live.

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by byvan03: 11:44am On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
are u telling me you would leave your home? Like forever



I will make sure am forgiven before I enter that house.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by SirShymexx: 11:50am On Apr 11, 2016
Lol.

She should accept defeat and applaud the side-chic for winning. grin

Life's all about competing.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:09pm On Apr 11, 2016
MissMalia:
for better for worst, after cheating on me? Last time I checked STD is still in existence... Make one man come kill me abi? I m not interested
don't u think she must have seen signs of this while they were single before going ahead to marry the man? Plus maybe there is something he is not getting from his wife that made him do side chick?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:10pm On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:




I will make sure am forgiven before I enter that house.
lol..funny..na still ur house sha..u no go eat that day be that..food poisoning is real

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:13pm On Apr 11, 2016
postmann:


It can, bro. But there's no explaining away the obvious; that a husband has found someone else more interesting, someone more worthy of little sacrifices and risk. Which other way can a man make his wife know that the spark is gone?

If the marriage stays, it'll only exist and not live.
true sha..the spark can be brought back though.. Have seen a situation were a man caught his wife cheating..after everything they settled and are living happily till today..everything forgiven nd forgotten.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:15pm On Apr 11, 2016
joseph1832:
How can the man be that _stupid? Shouldn't he have known the wife and the girlfriend were at the same event? undecided undecided undecided
ignorance could lead to a lotta things..maybe he didnt ask..love dey shack u know?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:17pm On Apr 11, 2016
SirShymexx:
Lol.

She should accept defeat and applaud the side-chic for winning. grin

Life's all about competing.
maybe she would re enter in the competition..??

Lalasticlala I think you should allow this page grace the front page so people can air their views..
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by byvan03: 12:27pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
lol..funny..na still ur house sha..u no go eat that day be that..food poisoning is real



People should learn to go for separation or divorce than disgrace themselves. Marriage is not by force. Food poison is better, stabbing while asleep is real too.

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:37pm On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:




People should learn to go for separation or divorce than disgrace themselves. Marriage is not by force. Food poison is better, stabbing while asleep is real too.
that one na harsh death o
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:

The question now is: If you were the wife,
what would
you do when your husband returns home?



Talk to him.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by lynnfeb(f): 12:40pm On Apr 11, 2016
I will not utter one word. Its not even just the cheating, he had the guts to go drop her at home, height of disrespect.

My days r numbered in that house.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:40pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:

Talk to him.
just talk? How would you start the conversation pls?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Dyt(f): 12:41pm On Apr 11, 2016
Depends on my mood oo
I am a drama queen
But its my husband o not boify
Hormones will dictate
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:42pm On Apr 11, 2016
lynnfeb:
I will not utter one word. Its not even just the cheating, he had the guts to go drop her at home, height of disrespect.

My days r numbered in that house.
yea..but don't u think u are making it too easy for the side chick?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by SirShymexx: 12:43pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
maybe she would re enter in the competition..??

Lmao @ re-enter the competition when she's already in the competition. grin

But I feel for the woman - that's an awkward situation. grin
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
just talk?

What else should I do? Throw a tantrum? Go mad? Would it solve the problem? I guess not.


How would you start the conversation pls?

Something like: I think, we need to talk. Tell me what is going on between you and the girl.
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:44pm On Apr 11, 2016
Dyt:
Depends on my mood oo
I am a drama queen
But its my husband o not boify
Hormones will dictate
mood would be bad in such situation..everybodys mood...so what will you do?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:45pm On Apr 11, 2016
SirShymexx:


Lmao @ re-enter the competition when she's already in the competition. grin

But I feel for the woman - that's an awkward situation. grin
really awkward
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Apr 11, 2016
SirShymexx:


Lmao @ re-enter the competition when she's already in the competition. grin

But I feel for the woman - that's an awkward situation. grin

Whether she is in a competition is up to her. There is no competition if she leaves and there is no competition if he decides to stay with his wife or decides to leave her.

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Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by stteejax(m): 12:46pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:


What else should I do? Throw a tantrum? Go mad? Would it solve the problem? I guess not.




Something like: I think, we need to talk. Tell me what is going on between you and the girl.
and after he tells you everything?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
and after he tells you everything?

What do you mean by "everything"?


Something like, it was nothing, only s.ex or something like "I have fallen in love with this girl"?
Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by Dyt(f): 12:49pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
mood would be bad in such situation..everybodys mood...so what will you do?
Did you read the drama queen part?
Muchechecheche
No one can predict
Not even the husband to me and the boify to her
One thing o know for sure is, he will ask her to get down with immediate effect
But me go just sit dey look
Body language alone can make him wanna enter the ground

I have stopped taking cheating with a tip of my finger nail
Cheating is a serious crime in my book

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