Mindfulness:


What do you mean by "everything"?


Something like, it was nothing, only s.ex or something like "I have fallen in love with this girl"?

if he said d first one..ur reaction would be?

And the second one also..what would be ur reaction here also?

stteejax:
if he said d first one..ur reaction would be?

And the second one also..what would be ur reaction here also?

Either way, I would ask him how he feels about me and if there is anything I did that made him act the way he did. I would also ask if he is still interested in working things out between us and if yes, how he intends to go on about it.

Dyt:

Did you read the drama queen part?
Muchechecheche
No one can predict
Not even the husband to me and the boify to her
One thing o know for sure is, he will ask her to get down with immediate effect
But me go just sit dey look
Body language alone can make him wanna enter the ground

I have stopped taking cheating with a tip of my finger nail
Cheating is a serious crime in my book

nice..real nice..
And if he refuses to tell her to get down? You would cause a scene right(drama queen)? Would that really solve anything?

stteejax:
true sha..the spark can be brought back though.. Have seen a situation were a man caught his wife cheating..after everything they settled and are living happily till today..everything forgiven nd forgotten.

Caught his wife cheating?
Now that's a different kettle of fish altogether. Nah! I commend that man, whatever be the reason behind his decision.

For me she's damaged goods!

#PleaseCallMeSexist

Mindfulness:



Either way, I would ask him how he feels about me and if there is anything I did that made him act the way he did. I would also ask if he is still interested in working things out between us and if yes, how he intends to go on about it.

that's really nice..wife material...
Still want other people to comment on this topic.. This mod boys will not move this post to FP..if its snake now or tonto dike..or one farmer killing one beautiful animal..he 4 don reach fp

stteejax:
that's really nice..wife material...

Still want other people to comment on this topic.. This mod boys will not move this post to FP..if its snake now or tonto dike..or one farmer killing one beautiful animal..he 4 don reach fp

I am sure more people will comment soon.

postmann:


Caught his wife cheating?
Now that's a different kettle of fish all together. Nah! I commend that man, whatever be the reason behind his decision.

For me she's damaged goods!

lol @ damaged goods..they could be a reason for her action u know? To mention a few..like maybe the husy ain't always around..up to a year sometimes due to work..not supporting her though..just saying

Mindfulness:


I am sure more people will comment soon.

love the way u would v handled d situation.. My only prob is what if after everything he still goes back and do the same thing? You know us men? If its in the blood then its really hard to stop..seen men that could kill for their wives yet still cheat..

stteejax:
lol @ damaged goods..they could be a reason for her action u know? To mention a few..like maybe the husy ain't always around..up to a year sometimes due to work..not supporting her though..just saying

Husband not being around for 5yrs isn't an excuse. Except she was raped, or drugged or under a spell, there'd be no turning back. And if she has a role to play in the 3 reasons l mentioned, then I'll consider it as if she willingly spread her legs for another man to hit her vulva.

You know how foolish most women can be:
Paying a guy a visit in his house knowing it's the two of you alone and she believes "she's got this". Some of them get raped, coerced, drugged and all that in situations like that.


***modified ***
There is no excuse under the sun for a married woman to take off her clothes before another man, lay on a bed and spread her legs for him to ravage her.

stteejax:
love the way u would v handled d situation.. My only prob is what if after everything he still goes back and do the same thing? You know us men? If its in the blood then its really hard to stop..seen men that could kill for their wives yet still cheat..

Well, I know what type of a man I am married to. I didn't rush into marriage.

postmann:



Husband not being around for 5yrs isn't an excuse. Except she was raped, or drugged or under a spell, there'd be no turning back. And if she has a role to play in the 3 reasons l mentioned, then I'll consider it as if she willingly spread her legs for another man to hit her vulva.

You know how foolish most women can be:
Paying a guy a visit in his house knowing it's the two of you alone and she believes "she's got this". Some of them get raped, coerced, drugged and all that in situations like that.

so a damaged good she remains? Some men really make their wives cheat on them though..vice-versa

Mindfulness:


Well, I know what type of a man I am married to. I didn't rush into marriage.

that's really nice congrats...wish u all d best in ur marriage...

stteejax:
that one na harsh death o

Harsh enough for a cheating / lying bast*ard, that's why I think is better the man stays away from home and make peace before returning.

stteejax:
nice..real nice..
And if he refuses to tell her to get down? You would cause a scene right(drama queen)? Would that really solve anything?

Scene?
If he chooses her above me
What am I still doing in the said marriage?
People like me don't fight o
So crazy yet calm

Make it more realistic na. How will the woman be quiet in the car up to the extent that the cheating husband will drop her and still have the guts to go on to drop his girlfriend! Haba!!
E no real na. It cant and wont ever happen to me o but if I were the wife, of course the girlfriend would come down from that car. I dont care if its in the middle of nowhere we drop her. At most she can be given trans to go to her house. Me & Hubby will continue home. At home, there will be long talks and explanation and serious repentance from him. Even at that, eeh... hmmm.... e no go easy o. Why will someone cheat on me when I can never do same?! My Husband is not the type sha and we undastand ourselves. He cant take cheating and I cant take cheating too. N we established this while courting sef.

stteejax:
so a damaged good she remains? Some men really make their wives cheat on them though..vice-versa

Bro, I'm close to rounding up a topic on the meaning of traditional marriage. Whatever the husband may do, terminate the marriage as a woman if you must. You simply can't be married to him and have another man into your body. It's a curse!

postmann:



Bro, I'm close to rounding up a topic on the meaning of traditional marriage. Whatever the husband may do, terminate the marriage as a woman if you must. You simply can't be married to him and have another man into your body. It's a curse!

yea it is

stteejax:
that's really nice congrats...wish u all d best in ur marriage...

Thanks.

byvan03:




Harsh enough for a cheating / lying bast*ard, that's why I think is better the man stays away from home and make peace before returning.

I understand

Loisemm:
Make it more realistic na. How will the woman be quiet in the car up to the extent that the cheating husband will drop her and still have the guts to go on to drop his girlfriend! Haba!!
E no real na. It cant and wont ever happen to me o but if I were the wife, of course the girlfriend would come down from that car. I dont care if its in the middle of nowhere we drop her. At most she can be given trans to go to her house. Me & Hubby will continue home. At home, there will be long talks and explanation and serious repentance from him. Even at that, eeh... hmmm.... e no go easy o. Why will someone cheat on me when I can never do same?! My Husband is not the type sha and we undastand ourselves. He cant take cheating and I cant take cheating too. N we established this while courting sef.

u never jam..glad for u nd ur husy though

Mindfulness:

Thanks.

you welcome

stteejax:
you welcome

Give your thread a new title. I don't think it can hit fp with this one. It is too vague.

Mindfulness:


Give your thread a new title. I don't think it can hit fp with this one. It is too vague.

any suggestion?

postmann:



Husband not being around for 5yrs isn't an excuse. Except she was raped, or drugged or under a spell, there'd be no turning back. And if she has a role to play in the 3 reasons l mentioned, then I'll consider it as if she willingly spread her legs for another man to hit her vulva.

You know how foolish most women can be:
Paying a guy a visit in his house knowing it's the two of you alone and she believes "she's got this". Some of them get raped, coerced, drugged and all that in situations like that.


***modified ***
There is no excuse under the sun for a married woman to take off her clothes before another man, lay on a bed and spread her legs for him to ravage her.

It's not?

You are either selfish, delusional or morbidly jealous or all of them. No offense.

stteejax:
any suggestion?

Your husband cheats. Now what?

Mindfulness:

Your husband cheats. Now what?

nice..Thanks..Like ur moniker

stteejax:
nice..Thanks..Like ur moniker

Likewise.

Mindfulness:

Likewise.

thanks mam

stteejax:
thanks mam

You're welcome.

Mindfulness:


It's not?

You are either selfish, delusional or morbidly jealous or all of them. No offense.

It took you a while to stomach up the courage to quote me.
But you be careful with your choice of words towards me now. I have little caution for uncultured females, your being married notwithstanding.

Let me make a pretence at civil discourse even though you've prepped me up for all eventualities.

Yes, 5yrs isn't an excuse for cheating. The only decent option is if she can't keep her body, she files for divorce on the grounds of marital abscondence.

But she simply can't stay put in a marriage "waiting" for her husband's return while spreading her legs for another man to ravage and pummel. And present another man's child to her husband.

She's nothing but damaged goods!!! The only honourable path for her is divorce if she's going to cheat.

Unlike us men, you women don't just cheat out of impulse. You cheat with premeditation. Carefully deliberating and weighing the options. And then you prepare your mind. I don't forgive cheating women even though I'm yet to encounter one.

#pleaseCallMeSexist

Dead horse...flogging
cheating...overflogged
Fuel...

weh the cattle rearer? ??...China

who e deh find...petroleum minister.
#muchadoaboutcheating

postmann:


It took you a while to stomach up the courage to quote me.
But you be careful with your choice of words towards me now. I have little caution for uncultured females, your being married notwithstanding.

I needed to "stomach up courage" to quote someone online?
I have to be careful because someone threatens me online?

This is funny.

Let me make a pretence at civil discourse even though you've prepped me up for all eventualities.

Yes, 5yrs isn't an excuse for cheating. The only decent option is if she can't keep her body, she files for divorce on the grounds of marital abscondence.

But she simply can't stay put in a marriage "waiting" for her husband's return while spreading her legs for another man to ravage and pummel. And present another man's child to her husband.

How did another man's child enter the discussion now?

Just for your information, she can if she wants to and there is noting you can do about it because you won't even find out.

She's nothing but damaged goods!!! The only honourable path for her is divorce if she's going to cheat.

You are entitled to your opinion.

Unlike us men, you women don't just cheat out of impulse. You cheat with premeditation. Carefully deliberating and weighing the options. And then you prepare your mind. I don't forgive cheating women even though I'm yet to encounter one.

#pleaseCallMeSexist

And that's why you will never find out and that's why we don't need your forgiveness.