joseph1832:
By all means bruv, you want to be bring a shovel and a hoe so we can start the digging?

What klutziness...your wife said she'd be attending a wedding reception and your side-chick also asked that you picked her up from a wedding reception...and yet he was so clumsy that he didn't bother to inquire the address of the reception his wife said she'd be attending in order to cross his Ts...I'm sure if I were to be the man in question, I would had it mapped out from start to finish - Michael Scofield style.

- I would know the places my wife would be visiting and her activities for the day.

-and beforehand, I would have also instructed that voluble side-chick to never address me as boyfriend.


What's there to talk about? - the wife either forgives him or dissolves the marriage.

darkenedrebel:
What klutziness...your wife said she'd be attending a wedding reception and your side-chick also asked that you picked her up from a wedding reception...and yet he was so clumsy that he didn't bother to inquire the address of the reception his wife said she'd be attending in order to cross his Ts...I'm sure if I were to be the man in question, I would had it mapped out from start to finish - Michael Scofield style.

- I would know the places my wife would be visiting and her activities for the day.

-and beforehand, I would have also instructed that voluble side-chick to never address me as boyfriend.


What's there to talk about? - the wife either forgives him or dissolves the marriage.

But the question still remains: how can the guy be that _stupid?.

postmann:


I don't eat at the cafeteria, neither do I drink from the pub.

Yet you and her were dragging skirt?
Tell it to the birds.

I believe it's a fictitious story.

darkenedrebel:
What klutziness...your wife said she'd be attending a wedding reception and your side-chick also asked that you picked her up from a wedding reception...and yet he was so clumsy that he didn't bother to inquire the address of the reception his wife said she'd be attending in order to cross his Ts...I'm sure if I were to be the man in question, I would had it mapped out from start to finish - Michael Scofield style.

- I would know the places my wife would be visiting and her activities for the day.

-and beforehand, I would have also instructed that voluble side-chick to never address me as boyfriend.


What's there to talk about? - the wife either forgives him or dissolves the marriage.

joseph1832:
By all means bruv, you want me to be bring a shovel and a hoe so we can start the digging?

Oohhhhh How lame.

cococandy:

Yet you and her were dragging skirt?
Tell it to the birds.

How did you know that? I never mentioned her name.

cococandy:
Oohhhhh How lame.

Well it takes a lame duck to know a lame duck.

cococandy:
I believe it's a fictitious story.

Well what are you, a regular Einstein. LMAO.

Mindfulness:


It's not?

You are either selfish, delusional or morbidly jealous or all of them. No offense.

Hahahahahaha

cococandy:
I believe it's a fictitious story.

Yes it is, but I wouldn't be taken aback if it were to be a true life occurrence...I've seen the case of a man who unwittingly flirted with a woman online who later turned out to be his spouse - they met on a dating site and never shared photos of one another until they decided to go on a blind date and gadzooks!!!

Life is a cascade of strangeness and nothing is new under the sun.

joseph1832:
But the question still remains: how can the guy be that _stupid?.

He is not stupïd - he's only careless...okay, and a little bit stüpid too.

@cococandy,
If you don't mind, there's a question begging for your attention.

postmann:
@cococandy,
If you don't mind, there's a question begging for your attention.

Okay you win.

It's boring already.

cococandy:

Okay you win.

It boring already.

Ok.

cococandy:

Which home? What's homely about that?

he is still your husband na?



U r pretty..

Mrs0J:
Well as for me, I won't be in that car, will use Taxi to go home. When he comes back, I won't confront him, he will explain himself by himself, then only then will I tell him my mind.

and your mind would be?

Postman na footballer.. Attacker precisely.. Lol

Mindfulness:
Very straightforward and interesting.



Even if you promised to stay faithful? And what feelings? Hor.niness, affection, infatuation, love?

If I fail to live up to the end of my bargain, that is, with respect to the promise I made, it would be as a result of something beyond my control and that something is called LOVE.

If am Hot, she can cure it for me....lol.

But to be honest, after thinking hard about it, it could be any of this feelings, am human and what it means is that, I was putting my feelings before hers, no apologies for that.

Having said all that, I think best policy is self discipline/control. There are some actions that have ripple effect.

Fkforyou:
Well I guess everybody is different....

She can get angry if she wants too, but she shouldn't lay her frustration on me cos it won't make me regret my decision to act on my feelings,she is on a long thing,

If she wants to stay fine, I will continue to love her to the best of my ability, but if she wants to leave, its all the same.

If she cheats on me, she is leaving no two ways about that and that's one of the reason I won't blame her for wanting to leave me as stated in the paragraph above.


On a side note; I don't understand the concept
" Worth fighting for "....how can someone risk something as fragile as trust and starts to weep when you were the one that made the decision to break it in the first place.

true..

darkenedrebel:
What klutziness...your wife said she'd be attending a wedding reception and your side-chick also asked that you picked her up from a wedding reception...and yet he was so clumsy that he didn't bother to inquire the address of the reception his wife said she'd be attending in order to cross his Ts...I'm sure if I were to be the man in question, I would had it mapped out from start to finish - Michael Scofield style.

- I would know the places my wife would be visiting and her activities for the day.

-and beforehand, I would have also instructed that voluble side-chick to never address me as boyfriend.


What's there to talk about? - the wife either forgives him or dissolves the marriage.

mentioned ignorance earlier on the mans part for failing to get the location from his wife..d man dull finally..U na bad guy..Scofield things

stteejax:
he is still your husband na?



U r pretty..

Lol not after what happened in that story.


Thanks

postmann:


Nothing to say from either parties. The marriage has run its course.

You believe in divorce/separation when a husband cheats?

That's strange.

cococandy:

Lol not after what happened in that story.


Thanks

you welcome..its not the first La..shit happens.. You could forgive nd forget..

bukatyne:

You believe in divorce/separation when a husband cheats?
That's strange.

strange in what sense mam?

stteejax:
strange in what sense mam?

Strange for the poster I quoted.

bukatyne:

Strange for the poster I quoted.

ok

bukatyne:


You believe in divorce/separation when a husband cheats?

That's strange.

Why should that be strange?
I must be the meanest "misogynist" you know.

Well, hear it loud and clear from me: a woman can leave her husband on the grounds of cheating but if she does remarry she's in an adulterous marriage.

I know you're a christian.

stteejax:
and your mind would be?

Either am staying and we work things out depends how remorseful he is and willing to change or I leave the marriage.

Mindfulness:


Easy mehn, it's only NL. You are too emotional.

Of everything I've seen you preached, I never thought you're a cheat expert!!!

Mrs0J:


Either am staying and we work things out depends how remorseful he is and willing to change or I live the marriage.

every sane person would want 2 work things out..Reason ? Simple,he was caught..so he would show remorse and might make you feel he has changed...
But cool sha..its better to work things out than leave your home for one side chick olosho
My opinion

stteejax:
The Girl
responded; "My boyfriend brought me here
and would be coming to pick me up. I just
spoke to him on the phone and he's on his
way. Why don't you join me in his car and
we would drop you at your house"The
woman
agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's
car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front
passengers seat of the car and asked the
Woman to sit at the backseat, which she
did
confused and perturbed. Then the Girl
introduced her new friend to her boyfriend.
When the man turned around to greet the
woman, he recognized her as his wife.
Nothing much was said along the way. He
dropped
the wife at home first as planned and
proceeded
to drop the Girl at her house.........
The question now is: If you were the wife,
what would
you do when your husband returns home? If
you
were the husband, what would you say to
your wife when you return home.
Please open discussion..

Lalas.ticlala

The bolded is the part I dont quite get. Why d'hell will I allow d b1tch get in the car to start with? Right there and then b1tch takes a hike!!

Creamish:


The bolded is the part I dont quite get. Why d'hell will I allow d b1tch get in the car to start with? Right there and then b1tch takes a hike!!

you know some ladies na...maybe she did not want to cause a scene..reason she ignored..some ladies are like that