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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 12, 2016 |
Fvine: THANKS SIS. IM ENCOURAGED 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 12, 2016 |
mamakendra: MY SISTER IT IS O. BECAUSE SINCE I STOPPED THE DRUGS MY SWOLLEN LEGS HAVE COME BACK. I READ IT SOMEWHERE WHERE SOMEONE ALSO COMPLAINED OF THE SAME REACTION. IT IS WELL O 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mamadsquare: 11:54am On Apr 12, 2016 |
Good morning fruitful mamas, I declare that by the power in the name of Jesus, our womb's shall carry glorious seeds before the end of the year. Madam @fvine, thanks for your selfless service on this thread. 4 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by lalabu(f): 12:41pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
liliamaka2003:Nawa o,eyes don see alot and ear don hear alot,may almighty God smile on us,have mercy and pick our calls now...Me don stop to dey call friends and family since,even on facebook i dont update so that no one will try to ask me silly question..It is well my sister this is our season where they have laugh at us they will laugh with us this year in Jesus name. 4 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
lalabu: Amen ooo. Thanks Dear 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Redeemed: Amen ooo. It shall be a testimony unto us all! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Ayauche: Thanks my Dear. God bless our wombs 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Baaby: 1:54pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Supermama: Tks so much Ma & I said amen to ur prayers. God bless u |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Fvine: 2:11pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Rachie83: 2:12pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
liliamaka2003:Hmmmmm na wa oooo.When one has no child in Africa/Nigeria, it's not the source of ones pain but the people around who wont mind their business.Can you just imagine what people kept saying?I distanced myself from my friends to avoid question that is touching and that has really helped me not to think about my childlessness.I also stopped chatting people up, posting pictures/status on fb cos of same reason.By the time God answer our prayer with a child i will proudly upload it on fb.So you can minimise your contact with people so as to avoid adding salt to your injury-Cheers 3 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Fumbaby: 2:15pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
99billiondollar: If there is any kedi store around you, you can inbox me your number while I send my membership code so that you can buy it lesser. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Jumpy: 2:15pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
chichung91: Really powerful message!! |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by apese: 2:43pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Fumbaby: Ok ma , when am ready , ttc has been taking alot from me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by tsquaure(f): 3:28pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
35. Alwaystrue, 36. FOTMAG, 37. Omankem, 38. Peacefulwealth, 39. FavourMSJ, 40. Beegurl, 41. Hotmomma, 42. Lilyspringamour, 43. Precy22, 44. Waistbead 45. Mumigrace, 46. Legendsmother, 47. Janix2, 48. stina4u, 49. Oleayo, 50. Redeemed 51. Rute 52. Gsawlah 53. NoLuvLost 54. Mumydidi, 55. Omowunminow, 56. Sammiejo, 57. Chyvia, 58. Babyadorable, 59. Peddylov, 60. Ayashow, 61. Ayaakanoh, 62. Perculiar, 63. Wonyi, 64. enatasha, 65. 99billiondollar, 66, cathibok, 67 Doromay, 68. Jennygurl, Father remember All these sisters. Visit their homes. Let them testify in Jesus name amen 3 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mamadsquare: 4:01pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cutemum22: 5:15pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Rachie83:it is well wit you sis...baby dust to you all..God will answer all your innermost wishes.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cutemum22: 5:17pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
tsquaure:AMEN..From ur mouth to GOd ear..it is well.. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by zaynie(f): 5:58pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Its sad that some people rejoice over other people's pain. Don't be surprised that these same people may envy you over one reason or the other. I know someone who has been ttcing for a while. Her bestfriend also happens to live right next door to her. This person so much love the kids, one day she called me and was crying profusely, she and her friend had a misunderstanding and her friend instructed her kids not to eat with her or even greet her, to the extent that she locked the kids in and they were shouting this lady's name. After they settled, the lady asked her friend what she did to deserve such alienation, she said her life is perfect, she has a good man, a good job, a good car. There was nothing to fight her with but with the kids. The woman is dead now ( may she RIP), she spent years making up for what she did. Her first child isnt even 10 yet. While she was ridiculing my friend, she didnt know that the kids that she was using as a weapon won't grow up to call her mom. Such is life. No one knows tomorrow. Just pray, keep praying. Don't just ask for a child from God, describe what you want. And pray that He grants you many years of motherhood. People will always find ways to pull you down, don't give them that satisfaction. Hold on tight to the promise of God. Have faith and believe. Your babies will come, at the right time. Don't let anyone push you to curse God. 19 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by apese: 7:20pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
liliamaka2003:I pray that the most high heavenly Father will make your dream be really. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by MamaOO: 7:22pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
sorry to barge in like this, but i'm just saddened by the insensitivity of people (especially Nigerians) to other people's plight. I have discussed this issue with one of my best friends, who happens to be TTC for close to two years now how people just open their mouth wide and let forth rude and hurtful words. My advise.. give anybody that asks stupid questions stupid answers. If they are rude to you, be rude to them as well. No need keeping mum and letting anybody inflict more pain on you. If you give them stupid and rude answers, they will know not to cross their boundaries again. I have done this with one woman before. This woman lives in DH's city cos I used to live in another state. When I moved to be with him and they introduced me to this woman, she was so nice and jovial. At that point, we were not trying to have a baby so we were actually protecting. But this woman will see me anywhere and be like "Eyyy, you're not pregnant?" or be like "I want to see belle inside you when next I see you oo" It got me thinking and I actually told my DH and my TTC friend how she's getting on my nerves and I will insult her one day. Like this woman does not even know if I am having trouble conceiving, you will just be rubbing it in my face all the time. What if I was actually having problems, wont I break down and cry one day in her presence and embarrass myself? Fast forward to when I was actually pregnant, January this year. I went to a gas station to get gas at night, saw this woman.... you know what she did? She actually grabbed me and was touching my belly saying "Ha, Iyawo! No belle again? Its the new year oo. I thought you should have been pregnant by now?" I was so mad and angry. What's your own ma? Why are you crying more than the bereaved? We are not even related so how does it affect you if I am yet to get pregnant or not? I went home and told DH. Few days later, DH's goddaughter was having a birthday and she was invited. I refused to greet her or grant her audience. She kept her distance from me. But this idiot still went ahead and said to DH "I can bet my life on it, your wife is pregnant" DH had to tell her yes, she is indeed pregnant. Da Fvck? Which kain monitoring spirit be this na? I was actually pissed at DH for telling her in the affirmative that I was pregnant. She be witch? But that one was like "They don't hide pregnancy na. It will show one day. So why lie?" I just hissed. I resolved to stay far away from her and shun her at all opportunity I get. The last time we went someplace I knew she was gonna be, I just locked my face up, I was 4 months gone then. She started shinning teeth when she saw me coming, but when she saw my countenance she recoiled and avoided me throughout that day. Give anybody that ask you foolish questions or rub it in your face that you still are yet to get pregnant, the foolish treatment and they will never cross your path again. I know my TTC friend's struggle. I never rub my pregnancy in her face and I never probe her. We make jokes out of it and I even encourage her to research and offer my own suggestions not mock her. God will give you all double for your trouble and shame all your adversaries. It is well with your souls 21 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by legendsmother(f): 7:37pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Hahahahahahah laugh wan kill me die ah some people can talk anyhow sha "Iyawo u never fat o" "Iyawo we don tire. To call u Iyawo we want mama baby" "Iyawo u never dey ROLL?" "Iyawo I go tell my brother to do u well make u fat o" Na wa such stupid questions sef are uncalled for not to talk of most of the Husband's inquisitive friends God help person jareh! 4 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
How can people be mocking God? How can someone laff at another person because of child? Did they create themselves? If u reach 23 and u never marry wahala! U buy too many wedding asoebi, Dem go ask u when be ur own wedding? U no buy the asoebi, Dem go say u dey jealous d bride! U marry after wedding night everybody dey find belle even those Wey tie the fallopian tubes spiritually o. U do gragra get belle Dem go talk say Una too quick. U born and baby reach six months, dey will start reminding u to get pregnant for baby number 2. U get pregnant again for number 2 they start abusing u that Na so the thing dey sweet Wey u no fit wait make the first one grow small? U space pikin for two years pere Dem go dey shout say it's too long. U born plenty and no money to send Dem to school Na Dem olofofo go first talk. How can we please omo-Adamu (children of Adam)? I pray for every fruitful mother here and even myself because I also pray for more children (donno how it will happen o) that we won't only give birth to children. We will give birth to wise and intelligent children. Children that wont be called in kirikiri or kuje prison. Children that kings, queens and princes will want to wine and dine with. Children that will be humble and God will lift them up. Children that will be more than a million children. Children that will make our names to be in the front page of Forbes magazine for good. Children that their names will be written in Halls of Fame. Me o, I know that I will go for my children's graduation in Harvard and other Ivy League schools but that Harvard I will grace that podium because of my children. Amen With looooooooooooooooooooooooong life will God satisfy us to see our greatgrandchildren. And at the end of everything, we will enjoy eternal life with our Father in heaven. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by apese: 7:56pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
chichung91: I think visiting the doctor is the best option she can take. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mitchyy(f): 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
I saw this on frontpage and decided to share. It doesn't matter how long you've been TTC. When its your time to shine, even you would find it hard to believe. Don't ever give up, dear mamas-to-be. And never give anyone the room to make you sad with their hurtful words. Your baby is on the way and you will have the last laugh... 11 Likes
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sanrima(f): 8:44pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
@ cherrymum, mamaoo, legendsmother, you ladies want to tear my belle with laugh. sincerely there is nothing you do that you can please all oh. may god help his children in this TTC journey. @ mama zaynie, hmmm such is life, i wish some people will take a minute pause to have a rethink. thanks for always finding time to encourage us here. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Favouredmom(f): 9:03pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
If everyone mama here starts to talk, the pages will be filled with story. Like someone said earlier, you have to stand your ground and believe that this too shall pass. I know that feeling of hopelessness people can inflict on you. I recall so many instances where even church members give you that weird stare few months after the wedding hoping to see your tummy protuding. Some are sincerely concerned but the majority just want to mock you. And when you attempt to play with their kids, especially young mothers in your age group, you can sense the friction. Someone has even said it to my face before that "I can't understand yet what it feels to nurse a child" I got home that day and cried my eyeballs out, even DH couldn't fathom why I was inconsolable. There was a day they asked pregnant women in church to wait after the service and one oversabi woman was dragging me to the meeting. I was highly embarrassed At some point I had to leave bbm, stopped chatting people up and even withdrew a bit from FB. I only pick calls from people I want to talk to and at that same time we relocated abroad so just a few sincere friends have my number. TTC is a very tough journey, I don't pray it on any of my friends but some people's actions, inactions and words make it harder. I was fortunate to have an understanding MIL, otherwise I don't know how I would have coped. As much as possible, avoid situations and instances where you will be questioned about your condition if you can. I'll say when people ask silly questions, give them the answers they deserve or redirect them to God right there because GOD WILL SURELY DO IT! TTC should never make us cowards. One day you will surely overcome. The journey is hard enough, you don't need additional headache. What these people have failed to realise is that children born after TTC are not ordinary children because God specially created them for a purpose and they need to come at the right time, not too early and not too late. They are not 'gbogbo ero' children I've even decided not to let any of my friends know about my status till I put to bed by God's grace. You don't know who is who. When my miracle comes all eyes will see and ears will hear what the Lord has done To everyone mama trusting God for their miracle babies, relax, ignore side talks because people will always have something to say no matter what. Focus on the ONLY ONE that can do what no man can do. Your testimony is here in Jesus name 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Thanks my wonderful family. May God Almighty come to our rescue today. Amen 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by sugah: 9:53pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
Nigerians do not know where to draw the line. We are quite insensitive people. And its not just to TTC women. Someone that gets married at 23 would ask a single 30year old lady what she was doing when her mates where getting married. My former secondary school mate that got married in 200level at 21 chatted me up on BBM(i was 27) to advice me not to be too selective with men oh cos im getting old. I thank God I was selective cos I married the best of the best! Someone that gets pregnant on her wedding night would ask you why you are not pregnant yet after 2whole years. My colleague whose wife got pregnant on their wedding night said I wasn't ready to be pregnant yet, if I was ready id have sex 3times daily....I know he had good intentions so I always used to laugh it off. I did not have sex 3times a day before I became pregnant, God did it. My DH's aunty that I called to say hello chastised me for 'doing sisi and not wanting to give them a lil dh'. I sternly but politely told her that it was God that gives children and when He was ready he would bless us. This was just some weeks after my myomectomy and I was still in pains. I promised myself I wasn't going to call her again and I told my dh what she said and went ahead to relay the msg she wanted me to give dh..a cousin of his just gave birth to twins. My 'big bros' suggested I give my dh our local food so he would have strength to impregnate me. I gave him same reply, it is God that gives children and He would bless us at His right time. When you decide to have your kids with little spacing you would hear, na wa! Na every year she dey born. She nor dey tire? She no know family planning? Someone asked another mama on the pregnancy thread recently, 'Are you pregnant again'? Nigerians are very nosy and insensitive! If you chose to stay off social media, do so because you want to and not because friends or foes are pushing you to depression. 8 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Dammol(f): 10:33pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
35. Alwaystrue, 36. FOTMAG, 37. Omankem, 38. Peacefulwealth, 39. FavourMSJ, 40. Beegurl, 41. Hotmomma, 42. Lilyspringamour, 43. Precy22, 44. Waistbead 45. Mumigrace, 46. Legendsmother, 47. Janix2, 48. stina4u, 49. Oleayo, 50. Redeemed 51. Rute 52. Gsawlah 53. NoLuvLost 54. Mumydidi, 55. Omowunminow, 56. Sammiejo, 57. Chyvia, 58. Babyadorable, 59. Peddylov, 60. Ayashow, 61. Ayaakanoh, 62. Perculiar, 63. Wonyi, 64. enatasha, 65. 99billiondollar, 66, cathibok, 67 Doromay, 68. Jennygurl, Almighty Father, we thank you for your love, mercy and the gift of life. Thank you for the gift if the fruit of the womb you will give unto your children this 2nd quarter of this year. We ask for forgiveness of our sins and grace to live a holy life . Lord, we pray that you bless your children with the fruit of the womb, that before this quarter runs to an end everyone on this list will have a testimony of conception and pregnancy to the glory of your name in Jesus Name. Amen. 4 Likes |
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