Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.

Yup, it's 50 shades of fücked up. I don't think the gentry in the society do such - it's those possessive and ill-mannered Viragos that go about assaulting those they suspect to be screwing their hubbies.

But then again, it's more rampant among females cos they tend to act based on emotions rather than reason.

She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

... Nairalanders

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. [s]She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband[/s]

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

Sharap there. Is Nigeria governed by the Koran or the Bible?. This is a felonious act and you are busy talking what's in or not in the precepts of Islam.

So if a married man is fond of going to shāg at a bordello, his wife should pick up arms against the sëx workers in that particular whöre house? And yet you say you are smart?

pls add (graphic photos) next tym to prepare our minds.and yes you're right to some extent. no one knows the full story behind. anything av learnt is that things arnt always exactly as said, a lot of things must have gone down that you can't possibly know about

The lady can technically beat the mistress up o, if she's the violent type. I think that's somewhat understandable. But if she beats the mistress with maybe two slaps, she should beat the husband with like 8

Both parties are wrong and gender based violence should be condemned in the strongest terms. The wife obviously took out her frustration and anger on who she felt was her match. Let's look at it from this angle : some girls no dey hear word, their selfishness, greed cum wickedness is unrivaled. How on earth would you know a man is married with kids yet go on to frolic with him, have sexual encounters with him and wait for this....chop his money at the detriment of his family. Single guys don finish for market? Ofcus we know why girls would rather date a married man than a single guy, it's cos of the money.
She got what she deserved. When the man gets his reward too, it would also be well deserved

So why is one person paying for the sins of two you just contradicted yourself my dear

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

no way Has the right to take the life of another person no matter how grave the offence is.. It will only amount to homicide...

Did you even consider whether the young girl knew if the man was married or not ? Perphaps he lied to her that he was a widower, divorcee or even an old bachelor ?

Secondly, if she can treat the lady this way, why not treat the husband the same way. WTF ?

And lastly, even if you will fight a husband snatcher, should it go to the extent of cutting her hair, tearing her clothes and dragging her around unclad..

Who knows, some of the friends that followed her to fight the girl might even be banging her husband secretly too.

Cheers

kramfonos:


Hogwash! The man is wholly responsible for his philandering and ,if anyone should be publicly assaulted, it's him. He approached her even though he's married. He has no respect for his marital vows. The mistress is a free agent. She hasn't broken the law since there's none barring a female from frolicking with a married man.

It's appalling that you, a female, would support a female being physically assaulted for a man's sins yet, on other threads, you'd curse every male who justifies female abuse? Signs of bipolarity or confusion?

Shame on you!

Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache

fair enuf

MrsPhyno:
The lady can technically beat the mistress up o, if she's the violent type. I think that's somewhat understandable. But if she beats the mistress with maybe two slaps, she should beat the husband with like 8

kramfonos:


Hogwash! The man is wholly responsible for his philandering and ,if anyone should be publicly assaulted, it's him. He approached her even though he's married. He has no respect for his marital vows. The mistress is a free agent. She hasn't broken the law since there's none barring a female from frolicking with a married man.

It's appalling that you, a female, would support a female being physically assaulted for a man's sins yet, on other threads, you'd curse every male who justifies female abuse? Signs of bipolarity or confusion?

Shame on you!

Shame on you too!

We are talking about responsibilities, this one is talking about assault Where did I recommend assault? If I would recommend anything, what do you say to a bullet in the head? Mtchewww

Can you please swerve?

darkenedrebel:


Sharap there. Is Nigeria governed by the Koran or the Bible?. This is a felonious act and you are busy talking what's in or not in the precepts of Islam.

So if a married man is fond of going to shāg at a bordello, his wife should pick up arms against the sëx workers in that particular whöre house? And yet you say you are smart?

Oh you have the strength to argue with that girl who is the personification of D.U.M.B.

the wife for jam agbero girl


this can even make her loose the husband shes fighting for, he can probably send her packing, clean up that girl and marry her


some women no get sense atall... there are other ways to tame your husband not this barbaric way

darkenedrebel:


Sharap there. Is Nigeria governed by the Koran or the Bible?. This is a felonious act and you are busy talking what's in or not in the precepts of Islam.

So if a married man is fond of going to shāg at a bordello, his wife should pick up arms against the sëx workers in that particular whöre house? And yet you say you are smart?

I am talking about responsibilities o/blame o

That woman and her friends can go to jail for GBH. They could have handled it some other way without laying a finger on her.

mimzy:
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.

This instance has a lot to do with the typical nigerian woman's inability to know her priority.

mimzy:
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.

There are so many single men out there... Why d'hell would a woman decide to ruin another woman's marriage? If the husband decides to cheat and a f000l allows him use her as an instrument, then she is as guilty as the husband (if she is indeed aware that he is married).

Though I believe they went too far by beating her up but some mistresses need to be taught a very good lesson before they let ur husband be. Some might be stubborn when all you intend to have with them is a diplomatic woman to woman talk.. It may have been the case with this unlucky mistress...who knows?

The hubby will answer loads of questions but the mistress shuld be warned to back off.

@ the bolded. WORD!!!

ClassCaptain:


no way Has the right to take the life of another person no matter how grave the offence is.. It will only amount to homicide...

Did you even consider whether the young girl knew if the man was married or not ? Perphaps he lied to her that he was a widower, divorcee or even an old bachelor ?

Secondly, if she can treat the lady this way, why not treat the husband the same way. WTF ?

And lastly, even if you will fight a husband snatcher, should it go to the extent of cutting her hair, tearing her clothes and dragging her around unclad..

Who knows, some of the friends that followed her to fight the girl might even be banging her husband secretly too.

Cheers

ClassCaptain:


no way Has the right to take the life of another person no matter how grave the offence is.. It will only amount to homicide...

Did you even consider whether the young girl knew if the man was married or not ? Perphaps he lied to her that he was a widower, divorcee or even an old bachelor ?

Secondly, if she can treat the lady this way, why not treat the husband the same way. WTF ?

And lastly, even if you will fight a husband snatcher, should it go to the extent of cutting her hair, tearing her clothes and dragging her around unclad..

Who knows, some of the friends that followed her to fight the girl might even be banging her husband secretly too.

Cheers

Literally speaking, she has a right to kill her . I didn't mean KILL HER

My problem was with the Op who put the full blame on the man. That was why I phrased it that way.

If you noticed most people attack her actions with she should blame her husband and I FIND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE.



Right to life shouldn't be absolute, IMO.

Women are literally their own enemy.
The two women would have team up and deal with the man and not the other way round.
The man and his wandering dick shld be made to pay for his crime.

Only God can save us from useless married men.
Mecheww

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

I suppose the OP identified the husband, his wife and her friends as well as the lady that was beaten up as christians or moslems right

Bloody marvelous.

mimzy:
So why is one person paying for the sins of two you just contradicted yourself my dear

You cant be too sure about the bolded. We were only informed about the way the mistress was treated. We are yet to be informed about what went on at home with the husband.

Sweetie, i am in no support of the cheats but there are so many ways to deal with a situation like this instead of being brutal like this. hian. What if the lady had died in the process?

Creamish:


There are so many single men out there... Why d'hell would a woman decide to ruin another woman's marriage? If the husband decides to cheat and a f000l allows him use her as an instrument, then she is as guilty as the husband (if she is indeed aware that he is married).

Though I believe they went too far by beating her up but some mistresses need to be taught a very good lesson before they let ur husband be. Some might be stubborn when all you intend to have with them is a diplomatic woman to woman talk.. It may have been the case with this unlucky mistress...who knows?

The hubby will answer loads of questions but the mistress shuld be warned to back off.

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

I'm surprised at your comment

joseph1832:
I suppose the OP identified the husband, his wife and her friends as well as the lady that was beaten up as christians or moslems right

Bloody marvelous.

Did you skip the moral part of the argument?
I reacted to the Op's opinion, and she is highly likely to be an adherent of the two religions.

Try being smart for once!

Exactly, the man should have been the one at the receiving end, not the mistress. This is just too inhumane

cassieblake:
Women are literally their own enemy.
The two women would have team up and deal with the man and not the other way round.
The man and his wandering dick shld be made to pay for his crime.

Only God can save us from useless married men.
Mecheww