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A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:03pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!! This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho ![]() Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!! If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t. 46 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by DemiGoddess(f): 12:10pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
True talk Mimz...somehow sha ![]() Honestly, if married women put just 10% of the energy they use in senselessly suspecting their husbands into paying attention to their hubby then, infidelity wouldn't be this common. Why beat up the ![]() Where were you? Before he married you, you were probably doing something that attracted him, wearing clothes that drew him close, saying stuffs that quickened his breathing and after marrying you, you unceremoniously turned to a frigging withered hag! ![]() And you are ranting 'cause another beat you at your game ![]() Just go get your husband back. Anyhow sha, a man who's gon' cheat, gon' cheat. But what is a lady doing with a married man ![]() God can't give me that hubby cause Amadioha never disappoints ![]() I protect and guard what is mine reasonably jealously ![]() 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:10pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Yup, it's 50 shades of fücked up. I don't think the gentry in the society do such - it's those possessive and ill-mannered Viragos that go about assaulting those they suspect to be screwing their hubbies. But then again, it's more rampant among females cos they tend to act based on emotions rather than reason. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:11pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:11pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband. Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife ![]() The way some people think sef? ![]() 19 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 12:13pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Sharap there. Is Nigeria governed by the Koran or the Bible?. This is a felonious act and you are busy talking what's in or not in the precepts of Islam. So if a married man is fond of going to shāg at a bordello, his wife should pick up arms against the sëx workers in that particular whöre house? And yet you say you are smart? ![]() 64 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by lodscott(m): 12:17pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
pls add (graphic photos) next tym to prepare our minds.and yes you're right to some extent. no one knows the full story behind. anything av learnt is that things arnt always exactly as said, a lot of things must have gone down that you can't possibly know about 2 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
The lady can technically beat the mistress up o, if she's the violent type. I think that's somewhat understandable. But if she beats the mistress with maybe two slaps, she should beat the husband with like 8 ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Both parties are wrong and gender based violence should be condemned in the strongest terms. The wife obviously took out her frustration and anger on who she felt was her match. Let's look at it from this angle : some girls no dey hear word, their selfishness, greed cum wickedness is unrivaled. How on earth would you know a man is married with kids yet go on to frolic with him, have sexual encounters with him and wait for this....chop his money at the detriment of his family. Single guys don finish for market? Ofcus we know why girls would rather date a married man than a single guy, it's cos of the money. She got what she deserved. When the man gets his reward too, it would also be well deserved 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
So why is one person paying for the sins of two ![]() daretodiffer: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 12:20pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
daretodiffer: no way Has the right to take the life of another person no matter how grave the offence is.. It will only amount to homicide... Did you even consider whether the young girl knew if the man was married or not ? Perphaps he lied to her that he was a widower, divorcee or even an old bachelor ? Secondly, if she can treat the lady this way, why not treat the husband the same way. WTF ? And lastly, even if you will fight a husband snatcher, should it go to the extent of cutting her hair, tearing her clothes and dragging her around unclad.. Who knows, some of the friends that followed her to fight the girl might even be banging her husband secretly too. Cheers 14 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
kramfonos:Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well. I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel? Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache 14 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
fair enuf ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() MrsPhyno: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
kramfonos: Shame on you too! We are talking about responsibilities, this one is talking about assault ![]() ![]() Can you please swerve? 6 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 12:22pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:Oh you have the strength to argue with that girl who is the personification of D.U.M.B. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by midehi2(f): 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
the wife for jam agbero girl this can even make her loose the husband shes fighting for, he can probably send her packing, clean up that girl and marry her some women no get sense atall... there are other ways to tame your husband not this barbaric way ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:23pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:I am talking about responsibilities o/blame o That woman and her friends can go to jail for GBH. They could have handled it some other way without laying a finger on her. 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 12:24pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
mimzy:This instance has a lot to do with the typical nigerian woman's inability to know her priority. 3 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 12:24pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
mimzy: There are so many single men out there... Why d'hell would a woman decide to ruin another woman's marriage? If the husband decides to cheat and a f000l allows him use her as an instrument, then she is as guilty as the husband (if she is indeed aware that he is married). Though I believe they went too far by beating her up but some mistresses need to be taught a very good lesson before they let ur husband be. Some might be stubborn when all you intend to have with them is a diplomatic woman to woman talk.. It may have been the case with this unlucky mistress...who knows? The hubby will answer loads of questions but the mistress shuld be warned to back off. 5 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
@ the bolded. WORD!!! ClassCaptain: 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
ClassCaptain: Literally speaking, she has a right to kill her ![]() My problem was with the Op who put the full blame on the man. That was why I phrased it that way. If you noticed most people attack her actions with she should blame her husband and I FIND THAT HARD TO BELIEVE. Right to life shouldn't be absolute, IMO. 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:28pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Women are literally their own enemy. The two women would have team up and deal with the man and not the other way round. The man and his wandering dick shld be made to pay for his crime. Only God can save us from useless married men. Mecheww 5 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 12:28pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
daretodiffer:I suppose the OP identified the husband, his wife and her friends as well as the lady that was beaten up as christians or moslems right ![]() Bloody marvelous. 3 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
mimzy: You cant be too sure about the bolded. We were only informed about the way the mistress was treated. We are yet to be informed about what went on at home with the husband. 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:30pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Sweetie, i am in no support of the cheats but there are so many ways to deal with a situation like this instead of being brutal like this. hian. What if the lady had died in the process? Creamish: 2 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
daretodiffer:I'm surprised at your comment 8 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
joseph1832: Did you skip the moral part of the argument? I reacted to the Op's opinion, and she is highly likely to be an adherent of the two religions. Try being smart for once! 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Exactly, the man should have been the one at the receiving end, not the mistress. This is just too inhumane cassieblake: 2 Likes |
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