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Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by 400billionman: 3:25pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel: 2. Dont ask him for money. He is ur boyfriend, not your father or husband. So you see, number 2 wasnt missing, you purposely ommitted it. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by lafayette(m): 3:25pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Skibofire(m): 3:26pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
priscaoge:u reside in owerri? |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Odunharry(m): 3:26pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
I don't allow anybody do number 4 for me |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Ghost447(m): 3:29pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel:9. Accepting gifts or demanding money from men. |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by bilo1(m): 3:30pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Cutesexy1:and 2 think that u re extremely beautiful plus ur cooking skills is amazing 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by AreaFada2: 3:31pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel: What evidence do you have that ladies who did not do all the things you listed end up more happily married in later life than all those who did? I remember talking to a lady sometime last year. She insisted on "a no sex" courtship for 18 months before marriage. After marriage, the guy would go 3 months without asking for sex. Maybe the guy was collecting sex outside all along. I guess after the subpar sex she offered after marriage, the guy was like "mtschewwww, na this yeye sex na him you dey shakara put since?" The marriage didn't survive the third year. She was flabbergasted about why the marriage failed. I just folded my arms and looked at her pitifully. It did not occur to her that missing sexual synchrony was the cause. Some women can keep fooling themselves. They cannot stomach the truth anyway. And plenty of guys are ready to tell them what they want to hear. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by 400billionman: 3:32pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
latinoKingdom: My dear i tire. A lady came to my house and spent 4 weeks, she refused cooking or shopping for the house, even when i offered her money. But she eats the one i cook, claiming we aint married. Did little or no house cleaning. She kept claiming visitor for 4 good weeks and mind you she didnt offer sex. What kind of mentality is that ? She put pressure on my cooking, shopping and doubled my chores while offering nothing in return. Men dey endure things. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by AreaFada2: 3:38pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
400billionman: You sef be another. And you tolerated that nonsense for so long? You fall men hands gan. She should get her takeway with her money. Does she not know how much hotel accommodation costs? Meanwhle, one yeye boy will be nyanshing her on your behalf. Chai! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by abbey621(m): 3:38pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
All these experts on what's right or wrong in a relationship yet with all their wisdom they are the ones that easily fall prey. I've never been the type to believe that all relationships must follow the exact same rules, if you see cooking and washing his clothes as slavery then I'm sorry to say this but if you eventually get married you would see the marriage as slavery also. People like you talk the talk but can't walk the walk, at 20 you are full of confidence, at 26 your confidence slows to 50% and you start being flexible on some of these rules and at 30 your confidence is basically 10%, at this point you would not only sleep on the same bed but sleep on the floor with him if you have to. Finally at 35 you realize you've lost all confidence, you realize that all your younger ones and friends are married with kids because they did what you considered as slavery and/or abomination. Sooner or later, you find yourself as a second wife or a baby mama and finally realize that talk is cheap but not many can back it up! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by AbrahamLincoln(m): 3:40pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel: Get a man "bia" to the fvcking "tch" |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by 400billionman: 3:41pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
AreaFada2: I don nyash am before o. Dunno what her problem is. I don't start any relationship without voicing my interests. They will normally be the first to ask for money. So i will ask how i will get my money back. 7 years backwards, ladies were not this money conscious... |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by flokii: 3:44pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
@OP you're obviously a teenager with no experience atal.. Life is not always d way you picture it in your head or d way you expect it to be.. some things will happen along d line that can change your perception about life (if you think it'a a lie ask those suicidal guys).. it's so complicated |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by leTrizzle: 3:46pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel: But it is right to turn him to ATM shey? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel:Except this I agree with every other Sexual pleasure is mutual and its for 2 adults (not children). You're not doing him a favour neither are u expected to have sex with a stranger u don't know b4 But others are very correct 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Richy4(m): 3:52pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
this one sounds like my scarf tying course mate in Uni way back |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nusaf: 3:56pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel:Madam, abeg which one be Goes blessing? |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by talktonase(m): 3:56pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
darlenese:I wont be surprised that OP is a victim her self. |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
[color=#770077][/color] winterfell007: Off topic, but, there's this question I have always wanted to ask, How many guys do you think a lady needs to "open her legs" for before she gets married? Thanks |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Badoox(m): 3:59pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
400billionman:chai. That's wickedness na. She couldn't even try to help cook. |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Yewandequeen(f): 4:02pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
latinoKingdom:investment |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by johnchiii(m): 4:02pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
3 5 7 and 8 are the abominations, but the rest ,you can't do without such in present 21st century relatiomship |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Eyepencil: 4:02pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
missyadorable:. Lol...6 and 7 are the same thing. I can opt to do 7 on my own. |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by popcykaylah(m): 4:03pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
93damsel:But you can collect money from a man who is your boyfriend abi?? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by Nobody: 4:04pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Gwan2: Lol @ your love deflating, But it I was the said lady and you requested that of me, automatically my love for you would have deflated while you are still waiting to deflate yours. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by latinoKingdom(m): 4:04pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Yewandequeen:investing in what?? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by amokeme(f): 4:05pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
latinoKingdom:how about he keeps his money? (this is actually the root of women's problem ) Cooking for your bf because you feel like is not wrong. But cooking for him because he feels it's his right is the issue. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Must Stop Doing These Things It's Abomination Not Love by 400billionman: 4:06pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Badoox: She still opened her mouth and told me that i am very wicked. Haha |
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