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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 3:15pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:
Why am I smiling at the pixs? cheesy

its inhuman...Yes.. Brutal...Yes... Uncalled for...YES...


...but i'm still smiling ... dat wifey musta been thru a lot..so tey dem cut hair..chai.. grin
Out of respect for you, I'll refrain from saying what I have to say.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 3:42pm On Apr 13, 2016
pinceprinz:


cheesy This one's head is not correct oh, I mean, u dey think say na d same rule of law wey US dey use na hin dem dey use for Saudi? Abi what exactly are u trying to say when you said adultery no be crime ? Oh, go to Saudi and commit that atrocity and see if dem na go throw u boulders till you take your last breath. Ogbeni, the stoning to death thing isn't a gender biased thing , don't dare paint it to be so. You don see your zombie for here?
Can you quote in the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, where it explicitly say, I repeat, explicitly say, that "adultery is a crime?".

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 3:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
Out of respect for you, I'll refrain from saying what I have to say.

Therez a lil devil in everyone Joe. Ur free to spill ur guts. This mistress was having an affair with the husband of a woman who helped her get a job.. she had the affair for a year. The wife got a job for this ingrate.

Abeg.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 3:47pm On Apr 13, 2016
Lezzlie:


A married woman who finds her husband greasing the carnals of another should first seek to warn off the supplanting whøre. But it is a difficult asking.

The cognitive abilities of women aren't built for such rendering of logicality in a heated circumstance like that. She will strike, and she'll choose the most disposable of the them, and it has to be the whøre.

Once a woman finds out about her husband's secret squeeze, every odd behaviour of the husband, every unexplained financial denial, every night of cold response, every lack of complement of her looks will suddenly have an answer:

It's in the warm thighs of the LovePeddler: Her reactions shouldn't always be reasonable.

Exactly!!
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
Can you quote in the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, where it explicitly say, I repeat, explicitly say, that "adultery is a crime?".

Are u really asking me this question ? , Joking? or is this your way of saying hi? Clarify or if yo serious, reread my lines paying a lil more of your attention to draw reasonable inference please!

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 3:54pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
Still, that doesn't give the wife and her friends that right to assault the mistress.

The wife should have taken this ish up with her husband. If she had caught them defiling her matrimonial home, then I'll understand, but to assault her like this, is not it.

If she had the balls, why didn't she beat her husband with her friends? You wouldn't be surprised that her husband might be the one chasing the mistress up and down.

Explain the bolded better cos the mistress confessed to having an affair with the husband for a year.. smiley
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:14pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


Explain the bolded better cos the mistress confessed to having an affair with the husband for a year.. smiley
I meant if she had caught them in her matrimonial bed/home.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:20pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife undecided

The way some people think sef? undecided
The above surprised the Shiits outta me!! shocked


Please tell Me your accnt was hacked. shocked

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 4:21pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
I meant if she had caught them in her matrimonial bed/home.

Whatz the difference? Hearing a confession and actually catching them...does one make the heart ache less than the other?

Are you saying that it is ok to beat her up when shez caught red-handed?
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:21pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


Therez a lil devil in everyone Joe. Ur free to spill ur guts. This mistress was having an affair with the husband of a woman who helped her get a job.. she had the affair for a year. The wife got a job for this ingrate.

Abeg.
So? Of course emotion will always take over reason when women are involved. One would have expected her to know who initiated the whole thing, the mistress or the husband.

Or did it bother anyone that may be husband coerced the mistress into having an affair with him, like sleep with me, or loose your job. I'm sure you've heard of such tales?

And I intend to keep my guts intact, it means very much to me, thank you very much.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:25pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


Whatz the difference? Hearing a confession and actually catching them...does one make the heart ache less than the other?

Are you saying that it is ok to beat her up when shez caught red-handed?
In the court of law emotions aren't used as evidence, facts are!. That's the difference.

I'm saying its wrong of her to attack her, that if she had done that in her home, then I can be understood and it may fly in court.

The wife assaulted the lady, that's for sure, not just assault, but pre-meditated assault.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 4:25pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
So? Of course emotion will always take over reason when women are involved. One would have expected her to know who initiated the whole thing, the mistress or the husband.

Or did it bother anyone that may be husband coerced the mistress into having an affair with him, like sleep with me, or loose your job. I'm sure you've heard of such tales?

And I intend to keep my guts intact, it means very much to me, thank you very much.

Whatever happened, the mistress is guilty. Once she decided to sleep with the hubby, she became guilty. She must av known that she wont be celebrated when caught but she still decided to fvck on nwayz.. So if ur wife decides to sleep with her boss cos she was threatened of her job, u will approve cos it's not her fault?

Let's be realistic here pls..
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:27pm On Apr 13, 2016
pinceprinz:


Are u really asking me this question ? , Joking? or is this your way of saying hi? Clarify or if yo serious, reread my lines paying a lil more of your attention to draw reasonable inference please!
May be I misunderstood you. Might I be so bold to ask you what you meant?
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:32pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


Whatever happened, the mistress is guilty. Once she decided to sleep with the hubby, she became guilty. She must av known that she wont be celebrated when caught but she still decided to fvck on nwayz.. So if ur wife decides to sleep with her boss cos she was threatened of her job, u will approve cos it's not her fault?

Let's be realistic here pls..
My dear, being realistic means being reasonable. The mistress is guilty? What about the husband? Did it occur to you that may be the man might have been the one who started the whole affair? Funny you blame the mistress and accuse her of being guilty and you totally ignored the husband.

If my wife decides to cheat on me just to keep her job, I trust she would see the need to tell me that her boss is sexually assaulting her, from there, I'll handle it.

This is why I make damn sure that I'll get married to a woman who respect reason and logic, not one who is a slave to her emotion and her religion.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 4:33pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
In the court of law emotions aren't used as evidence, facts are!. That's the difference.

I'm saying its wrong of her to attack her, that if she had done that in her home, then I can be understood and it may fly in court.

The wife assaulted the lady, that's for sure, not just assault, but pre-meditated assault.

We are on the same page on the assault.

What i am trying to understand is your stand on the mistress. Is she right or wrong? Was it ok for her to date a married man?
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 4:34pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
My dear, being realistic means being reasonable. The mistress is guilty? What about the husband? Did it occur to you that may be the man might have been the one who started the whole affair? Funny you blame the mistress and accuse her of being guilty and you totally ignored the husband.

If my wife decides to cheat on me just to keep her job, I trust she would see the need to tell me that her husband is sexually assaulting her, from there, I'll handle it.

This is why I make damn sure that I'll get married to a woman who respect reason and logic, not one who is a slave to her emotion and her religion.

@bolded.. read thru my earlier post.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife undecided

The way some people think sef? undecided

Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:36pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


We are on the same page on the assault.

What i am trying to understand is your stand on the mistress. Is she right or wrong? Was it ok for her to date a married man?
Why the focus on the mistress? The husband is now left totally in the loop.

Now, I'll ask as regard the emboldened, from which perspective are you coming from, religion, moral or logic?.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:38pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


@bolded.. read thru my earlier post.
I did. I'm just bothered you seem more intent on killing the mistress than the man.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
May be I misunderstood you. Might I be so bold to ask you what you meant?
In plain, simple English? OK smiley

In Saudi Arabia, the price of adultery is sentence to death by stoning so, don't do it@ all when you're there even if you're a human right fundamentalist till you reach your West where you are free to even fukc your Dad's wife in the open street without even sleeping in the police den overnight...

Only if you'd understood Pidgin English, this woulda sounded better sad . Poor u mate!

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 4:41pm On Apr 13, 2016
pinceprinz:

In plain, simple English? OK smiley

In Saudi Arabia, the price of adultery is sentence to death by stoning so, don't do it@ all when you're there even if you're a human right fundamentalist till you reach your West where you are free to even fukc your Dad's wife in the open street without even sleeping in the police den overnight...

Only if you'd understood Pidgin English, this woulda sounded better sad . Poor u mate!
Well only if you had appropriately stated your statement there wouldn't have been any need for this. tongue
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 13, 2016
Estharfabian:
The above surprised the Shiits outta me!! shocked


Please tell Me your accnt was hacked. shocked

Nope! It takes two to tango
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 4:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
I did. I'm just bothered you seem more intent on killing the mistress than the man.

If you read my posts and understood my stand, we wont be having this conversation. wink


Lemme help u understand where I truly stand on this. The wife and her friends were wrong to have beaten her and disgraced her. A non-violent confrontation shuld av sufficed. A confrontation with the hubby too shuld occur.

D'u understand now?

joseph1832:
Why the focus on the mistress? The husband is now left totally in the loop.
Now, I'll ask as regard the emboldened, from which perspective are you coming from, religion, moral or logic?.

Re-read my stand above. Not sure why U think we are in different boats. The only difference btw us is I believe the mistress is as guilty as the husband..

Please quote where I said the husband is not guilty..
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
Well only if you had appropriately stated your statement there wouldn't have been any need for this. tongue

shocked, Look at this man oh, Which language will be more appropriate than the one cooked in and by citizens of Mama Afrika? cheesy You too funny my guy!
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:
Nope! It takes two to tango
Babe, pls stop this already grin grin grin

Yo getting too hilarious for my liking
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by DemiGoddess(f): 4:55pm On Apr 13, 2016
joseph1832:
So if the lady is a slut_ what is the husband, Rambo?.

Nope.

He's a blasted son of a b!tch who deserves to die by chinese water torture.

I was writing from the wife's point of view and not the husband's which is pretty much obvious.

Did I ever glorify the man's ass?

So either you have problem understanding or you just trying to spite me.


Please don't ever get sarcastic with me again 'cause it never goes down well.


Thank you fine sir!

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Lezzlie(m): 4:58pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


Exactly!!
That coming from you is an endorsement of some sort wink cheesy
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Okijajuju1(m): 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2016
mimzy:
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.


You are filled with wisdom..


The lady that was assaulted should just go to court and watch the wife spend some quality time in prison.

And the damages she should sue for in Civil Court should be large enough to keep the woman bankrupt for life.




Attacking the partner your spouse is cheating on you with is much more stupid than attacking your spouse.

Why attack anyone?

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by pweetychyka(f): 5:09pm On Apr 13, 2016
She jez loosed her hubby for this inhumane act of hers.....

And to dose her friends too, they myt be playing with their home too without knowing undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided!
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 5:09pm On Apr 13, 2016
DemiGoddess:


Nope.

He's a blasted son of a b!tch who deserves to die by chinese water torture.

I was writing from the wife's point of view and not the husband which is pretty much obvious.

Did I ever glorify the man's ass?

So either you have problem understanding or you just trying to spite me.


Please don't ever get sarcastic with me again 'cause it never goes down well.


Thank you fine sir!
Hey calm down, no need to start issuing ultimatums. I reacted to what I saw, you should have understood that. Or was it explicitly written that you were speaking from the wife's point of view? I'm not clairvoyant I'll have you know.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by joseph1832(m): 5:12pm On Apr 13, 2016
Okijajuju1:



You are filled with wisdom..


The lady that was assaulted should just go to court and watch the wife spend some quality time in prison.

And the damages she should sue for in Civil Court should be large enough to keep the woman bankrupt for life.




Attacking the partner your spouse is cheating on you with is much more stupid than attacking your spouse.

Why attack anyone?
Nuff respect to you my fine sir! You're filled with wisdom that many nigerians seem to lack.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by pweetychyka(f): 5:14pm On Apr 13, 2016
She jez loosed her hubby for this inhumane act of hers.....

Anyways, who knows maybe she is the troublesome type dats y her hubby decides to find peace in a mistress!

And to dose her friends (very wrong set of friends) who should have given her a very good advice but they rather teamed up wit her to carry out dat shit, they myt be playing with their home too without knowing undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided!

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