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I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Inspinia: 5:59pm On Apr 16, 2016
Following my previous lamentations on my aggressive fiancee.(You can check my profile to follow-up).

it had gotten really worse. When I first made my report on nairaland, it made front page and she is an active Nairalander and she saw it. She knew I was the one and she is the one in regard. And she took it out on me violently which I also came back to report on Nairaland again which she also saw and continued and continued to torture me.

I finally did what Nairalanders advised me to do. I broke up with her and cancelled all wedding plans.

When I told her about it. I was expecting some emotional reaction. But she didn't flinch. Instead, she told me that I cannot break up with her that she will continue to hunt me for as long as possible and any lady I affiliate my self with will be hunted down by her as well. She refused to leave my house and insisted that I "make her leave".

I left my own house for her and returned to my friends place to squat pending when I'm able to travel back to my dad's house as I'm not ready to die.

Life is really an irony. I never for once in my life believed that I, as a man would end up in such situation at the hands of a 23 year old lady. I have decided to leave everything behind especially my house as I believe God will give me another one just as He gave me this past one.

Thanks to Nairaland for saving me as this is the end of my lamentation. Now I shall return to my original moniker smiley

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:06pm On Apr 16, 2016
U just left ur house? For a lady who isn't ur wife? How dumb is that?



U betta go bak in thr and throw her the fvck out from your house!

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by africanrapper: 6:07pm On Apr 16, 2016
you are extremely lucky o.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Vinshu(f): 6:12pm On Apr 16, 2016
Wow.

I must say, I really wish to meet that girl. She was able to torture you and finally, win a house! Wow. Anyway, I'm sorry about your dilemma. Let her be. You can't beat her as this proves it. She is stronger than you and way out of your league.

So move on with your life or beg her for forgiveness so she can take you back.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 16, 2016
Imagine. In this link below is a thread on ladies saying they like tough and authoritative guys to handle them because they know they themsleves are stubborn and only a more tough guy can handle them.

https://www.nairaland.com/3052232/ladies-authoritive-guy-n-gentle#44761166

And i keep wondering; in this scarce husband generation. Someone is still dreaming of a lion or wild hyena to tolerate their stubborn misbehaviours

Now op this your particular thread has shown that a stubborn lady is a potential killer especially with wahala. I wonder where they expect to see unreal toughness that can tolerate a stubborness that has already reached the peak at age 23

Anybody with simple psychic understanding knows that a stitch in time saves nine. In other words, its gud to caution oneself b4 one goes too wild such that to find a wilder spouse to tolerate it might be difficult. And once a gown has become oversized, slimfitting such a gown is benefitial than looking for a large-sized person to wear it.

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by goodmorning40: 6:13pm On Apr 16, 2016
Eeeyaaa! U run away to friend for a Girlfriend. That means u will run away to heaven for a wife

Anyway that shows ur a gentle man, but if u value the house u can quietly repossess it from her
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Inspinia: 6:13pm On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
U just left ur house? For a lady who isn't ur wife? How dumb is that?



U betta go bak in thr and throw her the fvck out from your house!

I tried to do that but It didn't work. Instead I got more bruises and I tell my colleagues at work it was an accident. So I let go

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Inspinia: 6:17pm On Apr 16, 2016
goodmorning40:
Eeeyaaa! U run away to friend for a Girlfriend. That means u will run away to heaven for a wife

Anyway that shows ur a gentle man, but if u value the house u can quietly repossess it from her

How sir?
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:20pm On Apr 16, 2016
Inspinia:


I tried to do that but It didn't work. Instead I got more bruises and I tell my colleagues at work it was an accident. So I let go
wait I don't get, she beat u? In ur own house? shocked
Dis is serious. So how are u tryna cope in terms of accommodation? Cuz u can't stay with a friend forever

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:22pm On Apr 16, 2016
Vinshu:
Wow.

I must say, I really wish to meet that girl. She was able to torture you and finally, win a house! Wow. Anyway, I'm sorry about your dilemma. Let her be. You can't beat her as this proves it. She is stronger than you and way out of your league.

So move on with your life or beg her for forgiveness so she can take you back.
that is the only way! grin op listen to vinshu
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by goodmorning40: 6:22pm On Apr 16, 2016
Inspinia:


How sir?

Go and buy like four police men storm the house with them and let them give her one hour to pack and leave and let her report to the station to sign an undertaking of her keeping away from the house and u r safety .after that vacate the house for some time before u move back in

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:24pm On Apr 16, 2016
goodmorning40:


Go and buy like four police men storm the house with them and let them give her one hour to pack and leave and let her report to the station to sign an undertaking of her keeping away from the house and u r safety .after that vacate the house for some time before u move back in
and why would he carry four policemen all because of a 23 year old girl? Hw silly dat is.



Op pls lower ur pride and beg her for forgiveness, like stage it as if u mean it. Den once she accepts.. on a nice day wen she is off guard, throw her out.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Nobody: 6:25pm On Apr 16, 2016
ROTFL!
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by jubrealguy(m): 6:26pm On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
U just left ur house? For a lady who isn't ur wife? How dumb is that?



U betta go bak in thr and throw her the fvck out from your house!
baba, u no juzz wan take chill pill atall.......lol
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by jubrealguy(m): 6:28pm On Apr 16, 2016
Vinshu:
Wow.

I must say, I really wish to meet that girl. She was able to torture you and finally, win a house! Wow. Anyway, I'm sorry about your dilemma. Let her be. You can't beat her as this proves it. She is stronger than you and way out of your league.

So move on with your life or beg her for forgiveness so she can take you back.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by jubrealguy(m): 6:28pm On Apr 16, 2016
Vinshu:
Wow.

I must say, I really wish to meet that girl. She was able to torture you and finally, win a house! Wow. Anyway, I'm sorry about your dilemma. Let her be. You can't beat her as this proves it. She is stronger than you and way out of your league.

So move on with your life or beg her for forgiveness so she can take you back.
Really?
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:29pm On Apr 16, 2016
jubrealguy:
baba, u no juzz wan take chill pill atall.......lol
lmao grin cheesy omo u check am out na.. na serious falling of hand...


How small girl go successfully throway man from him own house just like dat.. even beat am ontop...



These are times when I won't be sorry to beat a girl black and blue... like beat the real shitt into her...

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Justycxx(m): 6:29pm On Apr 16, 2016
OP i'm totally ashamed of you. What has happened to your brain? If you feel you can't throw her out by yourself then sell the house, use the cash to get another house elsewhere.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Inspinia: 6:30pm On Apr 16, 2016
goodmorning40:


Go and buy like four police men storm the house with them and let them give her one hour to pack and leave and let her report to the station to sign an undertaking of her keeping away from the house and u r safety .after that vacate the house for some time before u move back in

If you read my previous threads. I mentioned it that her father is a soldier. A military man. Trust me I've tried police. It didn't work. I'd not just leave my house like that. It's after I tried everything I had to do the last thing.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Inspinia: 6:30pm On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
and why would he carry four policemen all because of a 23 year old girl? Hw silly dat is.



Op pls lower ur pride and beg her for forgiveness, like stage it as if u mean it. Den once she accepts.. on a nice day wen she is off guard, throw her out.

Hmmm

Sounds ok
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Vinshu(f): 6:32pm On Apr 16, 2016
jubrealguy:
Really?

Yeah
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:32pm On Apr 16, 2016
jubrealguy:
baba, u no juzz wan take chill pill atall.......lol
Shey u can see how everyone isn't throwing shades at the babe for beatin him...


Buh if na guy wey beat d babe nw, dem go yarn say all men are wife beaters. angry



See any babe wey go fvck up for my house eh.. d kyn sounding wey I go sound am.... she go see all the stars in the sky

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Vinshu(f): 6:35pm On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
Shey u can see how everyone isn't throwing shades at the babe for beatin him...


Buh if na guy wey beat d babe nw, dem go yarn say all men are wife beaters. angry



See any babe wey go fvck up for my house eh.. d kyn sounding wey I go sound am.... she go see all the stars in the sky

Take it easy.

A man is not allowed to hit a woman
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by jubrealguy(m): 6:36pm On Apr 16, 2016
donbenedict:
lmao grin cheesy omo u check am out na.. na serious falling of hand...


How small girl go successfully throway man from him own house just like dat.. even beat am ontop...



These are times when I won't be sorry to beat a girl black and blue... like beat the real shitt into her...
u sabi wetin our society don b now..........all ds gehs, ehn...u gaaz dey fear dem, some na mammy water, ogbanje, aje, awon iya osoromoniga.....u give am one slap lik ds, she go juzz die go bak inside water......na big wahala, e dey pain ooo buh i don see ds kind murder case before, since den....jeje ni omo eko nlo

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:36pm On Apr 16, 2016
Vinshu:


Take it easy.

A man is not allowed to hit a woman
storry, but she is allowed to beat him up and take up his house right?

Mchew... look leme tell u smth, anyday she try am, say she fvck up. Eh. The kyn lighting.... gosh... I no wan describe am..

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Greene66: 6:39pm On Apr 16, 2016
You've got to be kidding me
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by donbenedict(m): 6:39pm On Apr 16, 2016
jubrealguy:
u sabi wetin our society don b now..........all ds gehs, ehn...u gaaz dey fear dem, some na mammy water, ogbanje, aje, awon iya osoromoniga.....u give am one slap lik ds, she go juzz die go bak inside water......na big wahala, e dey pain ooo buh i don see ds kind murder case before, since den....jeje ni omo eko nlo
I knw say some sef go carry hot water pour for the guy.. some sef will go to the lenght of pouring him petrol and lighting him up.. it's happening real...


But person like me no go allow dah kyn tin happen.. I will just kill her befor she kills me..


Na why I dey fear yoruba and Benin ladies... their heart eh.. e black pass devil own when they are terribly scorned.

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Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Fmartin(m): 6:40pm On Apr 16, 2016
U wan chop nd clean ur mouth abi
D girl no gree.. She wan teacher u lesson.. grin
end time things..
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Hypolyta: 6:41pm On Apr 16, 2016
You are b.itch yourself man.. How does a lady get u to play by her rules?? Unless she got your balls by a knife beside them, there's really no way a biatch can go this far.. U sure u r not a lesbian??
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by Sunkyphil(m): 6:45pm On Apr 16, 2016
some ladies are wolves in sheep's clothing;wen they are about to 'enter' they pretend to b gud but wen u finally marry dem na ww2
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by firstking01(m): 7:01pm On Apr 16, 2016
Mehnn, you are weak, you are weak man.
Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her But She Refused To Break Up With Me by firstking01(m): 7:05pm On Apr 16, 2016
Vinshu:
Wow.

I must say, I really wish to meet that girl. She was able to torture you and finally, win a house! Wow. Anyway, I'm sorry about your dilemma. Let her be. You can't beat her as this proves it. She is stronger than you and way out of your league.

So move on with your life or beg her for forgiveness so she can take you back.
This is a total waste of cyber spaceundecided...if it were me i'd beat the living daylight out of her

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