Inspinia:
Following my previous lamentations on my aggressive fiancee.(You can check my profile to follow-up).

it had gotten really worse. When I first made my report on nairaland, it made front page and she is an active Nairalander and she saw it. She knew I was the one and she is the one in regard. And she took it out on me violently which I also came back to report on Nairaland again which she also saw and continued and continued to torture me.

I finally did what Nairalanders advised me to do. I broke up with her and cancelled all wedding plans.

When I told her about it. I was expecting some emotional reaction. But she didn't flinch. Instead, she told me that I cannot break up with her that she will continue to hunt me for as long as possible and any lady I affiliate my self with will be hunted down by her as well. She refused to leave my house and insisted that I "make her leave".

I left my own house for her and returned to my friends place to squat pending when I'm able to travel back to my dad's house as I'm not ready to die.

Life is really an irony. I never for once in my life believed that I, as a man would end up in such situation at the hands of a 23 year old lady. I have decided to leave everything behind especially my house as I believe God will give me another one just as He gave me this past one.

Thanks to Nairaland for saving me as this is the end of my lamentation. Now I shall return to my original moniker

If the house is yours and not rented apartment, Involve the Law enforcement agency about your case. She is not your wife. Even if you run to anywhere, you are not safe as she has determined to hunt you according your post.

I still don't believe this story...Naija man behaving like Oyibo man...leaving your house for your gf not even your wife.

I wanted to type the kind of slap and combo I will give to her mouth if this crap happened to me but I froze after I saw the part where he said HER FATHER IS A SOLDIER. then I realised I have to think critically about my choice of decision...

Inspinia:
Following my previous lamentations on my aggressive fiancee.(You can check my profile to follow-up).

it had gotten really worse. When I first made my report on nairaland, it made front page and she is an active Nairalander and she saw it. She knew I was the one and she is the one in regard. And she took it out on me violently which I also came back to report on Nairaland again which she also saw and continued and continued to torture me.

I finally did what Nairalanders advised me to do. I broke up with her and cancelled all wedding plans.

When I told her about it. I was expecting some emotional reaction. But she didn't flinch. Instead, she told me that I cannot break up with her that she will continue to hunt me for as long as possible and any lady I affiliate my self with will be hunted down by her as well. She refused to leave my house and insisted that I "make her leave".

I left my own house for her and returned to my friends place to squat pending when I'm able to travel back to my dad's house as I'm not ready to die.

Life is really an irony. I never for once in my life believed that I, as a man would end up in such situation at the hands of a 23 year old lady. I have decided to leave everything behind especially my house as I believe God will give me another one just as He gave me this past one.

Thanks to Nairaland for saving me as this is the end of my lamentation. Now I shall return to my original moniker

And everybody goes home happy,u get to be free,she got a house..c'est fini.

BTW,we need to talk when u get ur next house..comman date me,I need a house too.

yungbeef:
I wanted to type the kind of slap and combo I will give to her mouth if this crap happened to me but I froze after I saw the part where he said HER FATHER IS A SOLDIER. then I realised I have to think critically about my choice of decision...

Lolz

Op is somewhere reading all ya comments and be shaking head like......dem dese ones dunno anything.....na only op know d kind demon he dey live with. Nigg z nt a 2yr old nor a fool.....I think he did what he thought was best for him....leave my house, ah no leave na hin make some pple dey kirikiri lik ds.

Hahahahahaha hahahahahaha lol

A man said he broke up with the girl but she won't break up with him.
Looooool hahahahahahahha

Let me assume that you had been under a spell before now. Since you ve been able to call off the wedding I think to some reasonable extent your senses are back.

Now let's get down to business, someone poisoned you and admitted to your face that they did it, equally threatened to do worse and all you could do in defense was to leave your house for them. . Hahahahahahahhahaahahahahhhahhahahhah a standing ovation!! Round of applause!! For the only man whose house was on fire instead of looking for a solution to quench the fire he went out hunting for Bush rats.

I don't blame you for whatever happened before you broke up because I assumed you were controlled from the other side what about now you have your senses back?

Poisoned me? And admitted she did it? Taaaa! Na vulture go eat her flesh




















... Love has killed more than any disease

MzLarem:
And everybody goes home happy,u get to be free,she got a house..c'est fini.

BTW,we need to talk when u get ur next house..comman date me,I need a house too.

Vinshu:

Take it easy.
A man is not allowed to hit a woman

well the op is not a man, and the babe don pass woman so....

ibullem:

I don't know how to lie

Inspinia:


I tried to do that but It didn't work. Instead I got more bruises and I tell my colleagues at work it was an accident. So I let go

Just dey lie u hear. Ur fagbor dia

So, OP, you practically left your home for a lady whom you ended a relationship with!? When Chelsea sacked Mourinho, did they run away from Stamford Bridge and allow Mourinho to take over? Have you considered the possibilities of her making away with or destroying your properties? Bros, you are not a man! You allowed d bae too much room to challenge your authority right from the onset. Now you're crying wolf! Nnwanu! Kwantinue!

Inspinia:
Following my previous lamentations on my aggressive fiancee.(You can check my profile to follow-up).

it had gotten really worse. When I first made my report on nairaland, it made front page and she is an active Nairalander and she saw it. She knew I was the one and she is the one in regard. And she took it out on me violently which I also came back to report on Nairaland again which she also saw and continued and continued to torture me.

I finally did what Nairalanders advised me to do. I broke up with her and cancelled all wedding plans.

When I told her about it. I was expecting some emotional reaction. But she didn't flinch. Instead, she told me that I cannot break up with her that she will continue to hunt me for as long as possible and any lady I affiliate my self with will be hunted down by her as well. She refused to leave my house and insisted that I "make her leave".

I left my own house for her and returned to my friends place to squat pending when I'm able to travel back to my dad's house as I'm not ready to die.

Life is really an irony. I never for once in my life believed that I, as a man would end up in such situation at the hands of a 23 year old lady. I have decided to leave everything behind especially my house as I believe God will give me another one just as He gave me this past one.

Thanks to Nairaland for saving me as this is the end of my lamentation. Now I shall return to my original moniker

If this whole fake story ia true, then Please ask Katherine Jenner to take u to a nice doctor for gender swap. You are need to be wearing g-strings and bra and lipstick and sanitary pad.

but the entire story looks cooked up. I don't believe it

The house must not worth nothing to you, or perhaps you did not invest in it with your money, else I see no reason a 23 year old who's not married to you can just run you over like that.

Inspinia:


I tried to do that but It didn't work. Instead I got more bruises and I tell my colleagues at work it was an accident. So I let go

you have male cousins, brothers. go with them, and throw that girl out from that house.. remember she's just a woman..she no get gun nah..

Dis OP is really annoying..I will rather not say anything....is it her house or your house?...sheo..u better go and see a pastor

Malayy:
you have male cousins, brothers. go with them, and throw that girl out from that house.. remember she's just a woman..she no get gun nah..

I tried. She also has brothers too and uncles who are soldiers.

frozenSun:


If this whole fake story ia true, then Please ask Katherine Jenner to take u to a nice doctor for gender swap. You are need to be wearing g-strings and bra and lipstick and sanitary pad.

but the entire story looks cooked up. I don't believe it

That's your business bro.

olac21:


Fvctard..that's what you're!a woman is allowed to hit a man right?

Cc Mynd44. Rule 2

Inspinia:


I tried. She also has brothers too and uncles who are soldiers.

which means the uncles and brothers are in support of that. it's high time you involved your parents.. you can also take the matter to the police. this is intimidation. we're not in military regime..

so you think packing out of your house is the solution ehn? where art thy brain.
enu eni ni a fi ko meje, since you are no longer interested, there is no going back about it. going by your updates, that lady can kill you at any time in marriage if you accept the silly sorry she'll tell you

go to the police station, arrest her and they'll help you evacuate her from your house. she'll sign an undertaking too or better still sue her cos she's threatening your life.

mizthorlu:
so you think packing out of your house is the solution ehn? where art thy brain.
enu eni ni a fi ko meje, since you are no longer interested, there is no going back about it. going by your updates, that lady can kill you at any time in marriage if you accept the silly sorry she'll tell you

go to the police station, arrest her and they'll help you evacuate her from your house. she'll sign an undertaking too or better still sue her cos she's threatening your life.

What part of "Her father is a soldier" did you miss? Police will arrest soldier pikin? Lol maybe soldiers have taken over the house op no just tell us ni.

Na only op understand wetin him eye see. Una just dey comment

Malayy:
which means the uncles and brothers are in support of that. it's high time you involved your parents.. you can also take the matter to the police. this is intimidation. we're not in military regime..

I dunno how the military woreva works, maybe op can tweet it so that male activist's online can help him.

op case is strong o

Alaye don't dull . It happens to a friend and a neighbour of mine . Na so so fight every time . We had to call police on them . Both of them was locked up. The DPO had to settle the case . He asked him to give the girl 5k to leave .( her tfare to wherever she is going ) And he gave us to police men so the girl can packed her things. You should involved the police or better still , report her to her parent . Don't allow a female to tell you what to do. Girls of nowadays sha

I won't put a blame on op like others did. Thank God u have not married her yet, it would have been worst. If God uses dis little misunderstanding u are having with dis girlfriend of urs to expose the jazebel in her, u should thank him (almighty God). Just rent another accommodation. If the house is rented, of course landlord knows u are his tenant and rightful owner of the rooms. Bring area boys and truck to pack ur properties. Area boys will instigate fear in her and there will be no disturbance when packing ur properties. It is only a person who never fall in the hand of deadly relationship will never understand op's plight. U don't handle women with muscle.

U have done well

Guy u be learner? Get a lawyer invovled in this issue and everything will be solved .Tell the lawyer everything then he goes to give the girl her moving out notice. The lawyer will take you to the police station so that she will be escorted out by the police on the day she is supposed to pack out of your house.If the house is not yours but a rented apartment then u can find another accommodation if u can't stand her heat afterwards.The girl and her people should be aware that u have involved a lawyer because your life is no longer safe.This will check her planned future disturbances and attacks shikenna! Even soldiers know now they can't mess with the law.She should even be given a restraining order by the court through your lawyer not to come within a mile close to u ever.Heck she even poisoned u,let your lawyer know about this it's important.Lastly never ever go back to dating her again she was badly raised.Let her people deal with her bad behaviour themselves.Good luck!

Guy reading your thread made me wonder if truly there men that could this be weak.

O boy you should go and meet your landlord or agent and inform them that you have moved out of the apartment. That's the only way to chase her out. I would have said you should let them know the truth but they might not be willing to play along.

This is one weird story though. Are there really crazy girlfriends like this? Na wa o.

oluworld2:

If the house is yours and not rented apartment, Involve the Law enforcement agency about your case. She is not your wife. Even if you run to anywhere, you are not safe as she has determined to hunt you according your post.

Exactly on point..

Op,Since you are not legally married to her and she is issuing out threat on you, running away from her will not stop her from accomplishing what she intends to do to you. If you can pretend to get some of her threats recorded, get the law enforcement agents involved.Also have her family involved to sign an undertaking which must be signed at any court within your jurisdiction.

She should be arrested and asked to move out of the house. You MUST have your house back if it is not a rented apartment.If it is a rented apartment, let it go.

You cannot run away from issues like this as she can hire even armed robbers to kill you. She can sleep with any person in order to kill you if she wants.