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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Bolade005: 7:51pm On May 02, 2016 |
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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 8:34pm On May 02, 2016 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 8:36pm On May 02, 2016 |
NashvilleTN: Finally This is someone who understands where I am coming from 100% If this were to be US Teebillz would be popping champas right now because he just hammered and he would be free to every carry more babes with Tiwa paying for it. Its the same thing that happens when we have celebrity divorce cases where the low life wife is cleaning the husband out and NL women would tell us thats the benefit of living in a civilized society 1. Teebillz is a useless guy and everyone knows it I would never advise my sister nor my daughter to even wave to someone like that. But Tiwa chose to marry him because he fits into the brand. Do you think Tiwa would have married a guy who drives a 2011 Honda and worked with ECOBANK who doesnt have time to turn up at parties and doesnt have an instagram account? Teebillz fits her idea of the bad boy celebrity to complete the Nigerian Beyonce narrative Its like Khloe and Kourtney Kardashian marrying baggage filled guys like Lamar Odom and Kanye West. When she married a "normal" guy like Kris Humphreys you know what happened, Or Alicia keys and Swizz Beats Just like DBanj wont just marry a normal fine girl who works as customer service with Glo. The brand Tiwa Savage was built together, We have women who meet a rich man and claim half of a rich guys wealth even though they werent there when he was building it but now a guy whom Tiwa herself admitted sourced his personal fund to launch her first video. If the story had been a lady sacrificed her school fees to sponsor Olamide into limelight and later Olamide claims she is lazy, stealing his money etc Everyone would condemn the guy for dumping the person who lifted him up 4 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 8:41pm On May 02, 2016 |
NashvilleTN: Except for one thing - fraud. Tbillz effectively defrauded his client. That is grounds for termination and even prosecution. Interestingly, it's the story of multiple entertainers esp rappers. Their managers were ripping them off. Same even happened with beYonce and her dad. Unfortunately for tbillz, he is an unsympathetic fellow , with his babymama baggage , his lousy Instagram persona (shittin on the haterz), and the silly suicide drama. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 8:44pm On May 02, 2016 |
A40: You dont know with women especially when they wanted things done their way. They have 3 kids oldest 10, The wife told him then his 10yr old son was starting to misbehave getting poor grades in school and reports he was fighting getting suspended It was serious gbege before the guy decided to come back also because she claimed she was stressed with 3 kids, he hired a live in Nanny after a while she said Nanny wouldnt do because the kids werent listening to nanny and "I didnt have the kids with Nanny". I dont want my son to become another American statistics of black boys All the blackmail and family meeting where they gave the guy an ultimatum. And she was like we would manage whatever we have. Money isnt as important as the life of your kids. If na you dey in this position and your wife gave you this kain preaching wetin you for do? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 8:51pm On May 02, 2016 |
some malicious humor this should be tiwas next cover https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiF6-0UTqtc tbillz tbillz tbillz At first we started out real cool Taking me places I ain't never been But now, you're getting comfortable Ain't doing those things you did no more You're slowly making me pay for things Your money should be handling And now you ask to use my car Drive it all day and don't fill up the tank And you have the audacity To even come and step to me Ask to hold some money from me Until you get your check next week You triflin', good for nothing type of brother Silly me, why haven't I found another? A baller, when times get hard, I need someone to help me out Instead of a scrub like you, who don't know what a man's about Can you pay my bills? Can you pay my telephone bills? Do you pay my automo' bills? If you did then maybe we could chill I don't think you do So, you and me are through Can you pay my bills? Can you pay my telephone bills? Do you pay my automo' bills? If you did then maybe we could chill I don't think you do So, you and me are through Now you've been maxing out my card Gave me bad credit, buyin' me gifts with my own ends Haven't paid the first bill But instead you're headin' to the mall Goin' on shopping sprees Perpetrating to your friends like you be ballin' And then you use my cell phone Callin' whoever that you thinks at home And then when the bill comes All of a sudden you be acting dumb Don't know where none of these calls come from When your mommas number's here more than once You triflin', good for nothing type of brother Silly me, why haven't I found another? A baller, when times get hard, I need someone to help me out Instead of a scrub like you, who don't know what a man's about 3 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 8:53pm On May 02, 2016 |
A40: Look at the bold and compare it to what she did. How was he supposed to get the money she was asking him for Would Yobo be asking Adaeze for light bill money when he knew she has no job other than to twerk on instagram. If he asks he is just trying to embarrass her and probably shame her out of the marriage |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 8:57pm On May 02, 2016 |
NashvilleTN: Exactly what many people are going through.If you tell one to slow down and wait,they will make you their enemy. I am not saying people shouldn't work but we need to know what is priority and what is not, how can we blend our career with family? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 8:58pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter:That is, sacrifices have to be made to maintain the union and she doesn't want to be the one to make them? So she is disgruntled. raumdeuter:That is, sacrifices have to be made to maintain the union, he has made them, she doesn't like the outcome, so she is disgruntled. At the end of the day, having to make sacrifices for the union is not that big a deal - IFF they are both committed to it. If one partner has a transactional attitude, on any metric, any kind of trauma means you are skating on thin ice. That's a "fair-weather" union - hope it don't rain dude ![]() There is literally no solution here, as she is a "transactioneer", but as a man his best option would have been to force the route that means he makes bank, which over the long-term slightly mitigates his risk. But all such talk will be moot if a man chooses right. I hope we don't meet the kind, and if we do, we don't see the situation. Like I said earlier, many spouses are "contingent good spouses". raumdeuter:Well if he didn't know his spouse before, he does now. He should act accordingly in future to keep his marriage. I believe in the sanctity of marriage - once in, you do your utmost to make it work, maintain and improve it. It may sound cheesy,but one of the roles of a spouse is to love away any hard outer shell, their insecurities, hurt, bitterness and past trauma. Choose wisely, KYS (know your spouse ![]() TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 8:59pm On May 02, 2016 |
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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 9:00pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter: i guess women don't know what they want it doesnt seem like a big deal to me, because my dad was in saudi arabia for ten years and was home one month a year. from when i was ten. this was the norm for most doctors in nigeria in the 90s. it was kind of hard on my mum, in retrospect, but we more or less turned out fine. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by NashvilleTN: 9:06pm On May 02, 2016 |
oyb: The fraud thing is merely an accusation. I am sure Tbillz will give you a very different account of the story. Couples argue over money, so it is nothing new and does not always end in divorce. Bottom line is that Tbillz did not help himself with his baggage and the way he broke the story on Instagram accusing his mother in law and cursing his father. What an idiot, even contemplating suicide. But Tiwa was also very quick to retaliate with a lot of vengeance with that interview. And if this were in the Western world, Tiwa will most certainly pay for it. Just two years into the marriage, she is now a mega-star with alot of money and he is left with absolutely nothing. If the case was reversed and Tbillz was the mega-star and tiwa had nothing; we will all be asking for Tbillz head. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 9:08pm On May 02, 2016 |
Bolade005:I have often said on here - and with a straight face ![]() TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:11pm On May 02, 2016 |
oyb: Life is changing nowadays. Maybe your mom was a civil servant who priortized the family over her career, Maybe had more help or a support system where many uncles can stand in for your dad and flog/discipline you on his behalf But a young naija family in Yankee, both couple ambitious and no support system of community helping you train... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by NashvilleTN: 9:11pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter: It's always easy for women to play the victim card and that is why laws in the western world are protective of women. Tbillz is now suddenly lazy, but when he sold his car to pay for Tiwa's first video, he wasn't lazy and useless. I am sure Tbillz paid more than 1.5 million for that video. Now he gets fired for "stealing" 1.5million naira. They are both players and this is all a game. Tbillz is a slowpoke for sure and he will be looking for another foolish rich girl to marry. Tiwa will soon start dating someone with more cash and swag and the game will continue. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:13pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter: Tiwa would have married whoever she fell in love with that tickles her fancy. Women don't analyse men deeply like you guys do before marriage and that is probably our greatest weakness. The Kardasians are different, everything about them is business, even the air they breathe would be sold if possible. But I get the commercial angle you guys are coming from, and I guess it's valid but on a second thought, he was duly paid for all his efforts, so isn't this new angle pure sentiments? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 9:18pm On May 02, 2016 |
NashvilleTN: well, he who is down fears no fall. i guess for tbillz it was a case of if there is no more milk for me , i will kill the cow [the brand] so tiwa strikes back and quickly, in a way that will ensure she controls public sympathy. if public sympathy turns against her, those endorsements will die. she has taken full control of the narrative. www.nairaland.com/attachments/3669724_cheqqqywwaamut1_jpegbdc1108f54e6182856f516b8218f288d looks like she has won the first round |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:19pm On May 02, 2016 |
Kimoni: What do you think the guy in question should have done? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:25pm On May 02, 2016 |
Kimoni: Na only JJC guys go believe that. Over 85% of women analyze men critically before they marry thats why over 90% of women marry up. If it was random we would have like a 50-50 spread of marrying up and marrying down at inception of the marriage. It's only men who stupidlyy fall in love . Women as someone once said here are constantly negotiation upwards. They start dating the village wrestler, dump him for the man who has a shop in town, next dump him for the richer guy who has a bigger shop in Lagos and finally dumps him for the rich guy who just flew in from Europe If Tiwa just met Teebillz today when she is a millionaire and he is broke, they would never marry max dem go sleep together 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Bolade005: 9:26pm On May 02, 2016 |
TV01:90% you say?, pls 99.9% of them would be served if their parents pick spouses for them. It's disheartening how these girls have rubbished the institution of marriage by basing their choice of men on the one with the fattest account or the most "swaggerlicious", this is peculiar to the younger ones. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:27pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter: He should have taken up the offer. The family will turn out fine. She wanted to have her way at all cost, and she did exactly what she needed to do. That's the power of a woman and that's why I laughed. What she did is very familiar ![]() Meanwhile Dayo, did you see Kaffy's husband birthday message to her? What do you think? He is deeply in love with her and vice versa? 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:29pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter: Did Kaffy marry up? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:30pm On May 02, 2016 |
oyb: She's winning all the rounds. Wanna bet? Did you see Freeze make a U-turn after listening to Tiwa and all she had to say? She probably said just 1/100th of all she had to say. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Bolade005: 9:31pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter:Bro, e no go even see her pant. I can bet it with you, now that TBillz is out of the way, she's going to marry way up. She's probably going to end up with someone in the league of Don Jazzy or son of a billionaire. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 9:32pm On May 02, 2016 |
NashvilleTN:He probably fumbled his best chance of making good. No one of her status will look at him again. Whatever he does now in the same vein will be with a much less viable prospect. He'll only make it good on his own hustle - and hardly anyone with the connections to help will touch him. Even then is obvious character flaws will probably ruin it. NashvilleTN: Bolade005:This is but scene 1. It's not over by a long shot. For her, I see a "Jenny" type situation. Her "brand" can't afford for her to be rollin' with a small boy - no matter how much swag. And the men of the requisite status to marry her, will be few and not want the risk or the baggage. Date perhaps, not marry. Before marriage she was also close to last chance, I don't see her prospects are now improved. And as ever, the children go un-remarked upon. Divorce is always lose all round. Whatever the divorce advocates say. It would have been better all round for them to work it out, and even better for her to have not made such a calculating, but short-term decision to marry him. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:33pm On May 02, 2016 |
Kimoni: That means you have seen someone who played that card previously. The guy sef don wise up he is now saying he \is going to Naija to chase contracts. If the wife likes she can cry blood he wont bulge for what his eyes saw in these last 1yr Kimoni: How much is Kaffy worth? Minus the cameras most people on this forum might even be richer than Kaffyand I dont know what the husband does. Blindly I can guess the man is probably richer than her because thats the general pattern with many females |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 9:34pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter:Exactimundo - except that they tend to think short-term and want it right now. Reapers, not sowers. TV 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:34pm On May 02, 2016 |
Kimoni: Public opinion is already on Tiwas side, the fastest way to lose credibility is to slightly even criticize Tiwa in this situation, Who knows what frezze saw in those 24hrs between the 1st and 2nd post 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 9:38pm On May 02, 2016 |
Bolade005: I know the son of a very rich man who met Tiwa way back like 5yrs ago and the way the girl was "jumping" at him, He knew he could have gotten play if he wanted. But he was used to many girls he just passed on the opportunity |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by NashvilleTN: 9:41pm On May 02, 2016 |
Bolade005: I can bet you she will soon start rolling with a billionaire's son or a billionaire himself. I predict Musa Danjuma, he's divorced Caroline. I am just looking at the previous posts and I can see that raumdueter did a terrific job of analyzing the story. To me, the interview gave Tiwa away. It was so obvious she was seeking public sympathy and she got it. Let's just wait for her next move. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Bolade005: 9:41pm On May 02, 2016 |
raumdeuter:They're all the same with just few exceptions. It's all about the money to most of them. 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:42pm On May 02, 2016 |
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Maybe not as rich as Tiwa cuz of Tiwa's endorsements but she's also not doing badly for herself as a mega star. The hubby is one of P-Square dancers or back up singer...not sure but she is way higher than him in social status and earnings. Pls read the birthday message and let me have your thoughts. 1 Like |
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