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How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 06, 2016 |
as the topic implies, how do you come to terms with the fact that you cannot be with that guy/man or that girl/lady that you really care about & makes you go head over heels anytime you see or hear him/her speak. how do you accept it and move on especially when you really really love the person to the extent that he/she is constantly the Queen of your thoughts? (on the assumption that 'true love' still exists in this age where almost every male & female is just another domiciliary of the Mount Rushmore of lüst and sexual perversity) you may have some questions swimming in your minds - like "what could possibly separate me from the love of my life?". well, there are dozens of unplesant mishaps & circumstances that could create a rift between you and the love of your life: •he/she may be seeing someone else during that particular period and hence, may not agree to date you. •distance may also be the raison d'trê as to why you cannot be with him/her •he/she may not feel the same way that you feel about him/her •the frosty & unpredictable claws of death could also snatch the love of your life away from you. etcetera etcetera. . . . . . . if you were ever on the horns of such a dilemma, what would be your next course of action? would you soldier on & do everything possible to get him/her?(especially if he/she doesn't feel the same way that you feel about him/her) would you let go? move on? if yay, then how do you hope to achieve that? how would you comfort yourself? and how would you live with yourself knowing that you had permitted who could have been your better half to slip away from your butterfingers without even putting up a fight? the floor is open to all. . . . . . ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by falconey(m): 9:14pm On May 06, 2016 |
![]() how hard can that be? time will tell. we don't always get what we want , life taught me that. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:16pm On May 06, 2016 |
falconey: you wanna input something, sir? |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by falconey(m): 9:23pm On May 06, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: What a courtesy! when did i become a "sir" , the last time you quoted me...........You accused me of chasing underage romanceland girls. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:25pm On May 06, 2016 |
falconey: let's not derail. |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by SlimHan(f): 9:31pm On May 06, 2016 |
I just had this thought less than 2 hours ago. I can't just believe he is actually gone.Over 6months nd it seems I ve been deceiving myself that I have moved on. Tried dating other guys to forget him, meeting new people, even adding more to my skills sef just to be busy but didn't work. Well, just like falconey said, time will tell cos I really wish to 4get too knowingfully well that we can never be together again. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 06, 2016 |
I once dated three ladies which are older than me, two of the ladies got married though it was an arranged marriage by the parents of both parties, the 3rd one got admitted to a college in the US of A. believe me when i say to you, that the Love we had was so strong that it can turn Thesok from gay to straight. but you see life has thought me, how to be a man in hardtimes, IN life a king must rule with his head and not his heart, i let go of three of them and maintain close friendship with them, now though im not a gold digger but there is not a single request i made or will make from each of them that wont be granted, is it purchasing of smartphone, laptop, money in my bank account? etc. you see my brother the truth is that three of the ladies are far far richer than me and are on another level, so two got married to very rich guys, so instead of crying and thinking with my heart, i let them go and think with my head, now i still enjoy them, i still fork them and enjoy their husband's money. |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 06, 2016 |
like they say, 'surulere'. This is the litmus test to really ascertain if your feelings are true ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 06, 2016 |
SlimHan: hmmmm touching. |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by godofwar666(m): 9:39pm On May 06, 2016 |
If we can re-think and take a few step ahead before falling in love with who doesn't give a sheet about us The problem be say we keep falling for those that doesn't love us and the one will fall for also fall in love with someone that doesn't give a sheet about them! Na irony of life be that #I_dont_give_a_booshit #who_love_don_epp? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:39pm On May 06, 2016 |
skarlett: even Dr.Sid can't be patient forever o ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by blayde(m): 9:40pm On May 06, 2016 |
man it kills me,especially when u see d best tin u thought u ever had slipping away. Tried hating her but find myself loving harder. Deleted her 4rm my social media handles and later added her back again.. Wish we could start tins over again. |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:40pm On May 06, 2016 |
falconey:BRO ITS A WIN WIN situation. |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by ireneony(f): 9:43pm On May 06, 2016 |
Darkenedrebel create topic about love ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:44pm On May 06, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: its not forever jor. If its true it will stand the test of time ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 06, 2016 |
ireneony: No be small, me sef follow surprise o ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 06, 2016 |
ireneony: don't get it twisted. I just wanna see how you earthlings feel about such things ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 06, 2016 |
godofwar666: who love don help? . . . even Ted Bundy fell in love ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by llaykorn: 9:52pm On May 06, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: Amazing! Now that it's about love, you're out of your comfort zone. My brother! |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by ireneony(f): 9:56pm On May 06, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:tell us your own story first ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by godofwar666(m): 9:56pm On May 06, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:bro I dey surprise as I see u dey write on this sections na wetin make show 4 here be dat ooo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by nikkypearl(f): 9:59pm On May 06, 2016 |
to be factual..sometimes, it really hard to get over the one you truely love! even after moving on,they keep running through your mind! |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by ronald4ever(m): 10:00pm On May 06, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAI: Braggadocio, stay thematic, you're off topic. It's not every time you should brag about the number of phantom women you have dated. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Fadedjeans: 10:07pm On May 06, 2016 |
[quote author=darkenedrebel post=45379792]as the topic implies, how do you come to terms with the fact that you cannot be with that guy/man or that girl/lady that you really care about & makes you go head over heels anytime you see or hear him/her speak. how do you accept it and move on especially when you really really love the person to the extent that he/she is constantly the Queen of your thoughts? (on the assumption that 'true love' still exists in this age where almost every male & female is just another domiciliary of the Mount Rushmore of lüst and sexual perversity) you may have some questions swimming in your minds - like "what could possibly separate me from the love of my life?". well, there are dozens of unplesant mishaps & circumstances that could create a rift between you and the love of your life: •he/she may be seeing someone else during that particular period and hence, may not agree to date you. •distance may also be the raison d'trê as to why you cannot be with him/her •he/she may not feel the same way that you feel about him/her •the frosty & unpredictable claws of death could also snatch the love of your life away from you. etcetera etcetera. . . . . . . if you were ever on the horns of such a dilemma, what would be your next course of action? would you soldier on & do everything possible to get him/her?(especially if he/she doesn't feel the same way that you feel about him/her) would you let go? move on? if yay, then how do you hope to achieve that? how would you comfort yourself? and how would you live with yourself knowing that you had permitted who could have been your better half to slip away from your butterfingers without even putting up a fight? the floor is open to all. . . . . . ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by OmaFresh(m): 10:12pm On May 06, 2016 |
i'll start fuckin bitches, , , simply simple |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Fadedjeans: 10:16pm On May 06, 2016 |
Love isn't always 'sweet'. I'm learning that. I've loved someone who didn't exactly like me back. The person sorta liked someone else. So I've moved on. Actually I didn't; I'm loving from a distance. I find it intriguing to love, but not completely. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 06, 2016 |
Yes. His accnt Was hacked! ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 06, 2016 |
Re: How Do You Accept That You Would Never Be With The Love Of Your Life? by olac21(m): 10:28pm On May 06, 2016 |
SlimHan: You broke up or he died? |
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