joseph1832:
... *cough cough ^^^^^

Ishilove:
Joseph la wetin na?

Ishilove:

Take benylin Mr ogbeni

joseph1832:
Just saying good morning.

Mizmycoli, goodmorning to you also, I still like you though, just thought you should know.

Goodu Goodu morning Mr Joe.

It's okay to like me

But you know every nau.
Lol

MizMyColi:

Goodu Goodu morning Mr Joe.
It's okay to like me
But you know every nau. Lol

Ishilove:

Fire, ice, side by side, deep rumbiings in the middle, and then... a warm ocean bed

Goodmorning sir

joseph1832:
Yes I know, but I don't know every oh.. Lol.

It's good it stays that way for now sha

postmann:



The perfect topography of a thrilling romantic voyage
An essence of a never-dying intrigue
Renewed each moment like a model's frequent change of Apparel
Heart-ensnared, eyes-fixated
The next tide, the previous inferno
The bitter-sweet; the immortality of the unpredictable you.

Ishilove:

This is so lovely...so poetic, so sensual...

You really should write more because it is making my ishi to gbaka'm



Joseph 1832, writing with innuendos like this can be downright more romantic than erotika.

MizMyColi:


It's good it stays that way for now sha

joseph1832:
_Postmann has his charms, I have mine, remember, different strokes for diFferent folks.

But please, make sure your ishi is scratched so it won't itch your again.

postmann:


Your reaction oozes of majority.

joseph1832:
LOL. Majority?

joseph1832:
Postmann has his charms, I have mine, remember, different strokes for diFferent folks.

But please, make sure your ishi is scratched so it won't itch your again.

shaybebaby:
Fatherhood can change a man's life. It also changes his brain, in ways that it seems to equip dads with the very same "baby sense" that's often attributed to moms.

From an animal kingdom perspective, human dads are unusual. They belong to a group of less than 6 percent of mammal species in which fathers play a significant role in rearing offspring. In these species, paternal care often involves the same behaviors as maternal care, with the exception of nursing. [History's 12 Most Doting Dads]

But how does fatherhood change a man's brain? Science has only recently delved into the neural and hormonal mechanisms of paternal care, but so far the evidence suggests that mothers' and fathers' brains use a similar neural circuitry when taking care of their children. Moms and dads also undergo similar hormonal changes that are linked to their brain and behavior changes.

Here are five ways men's brains change when they become fathers:

Dad's brain looks like mom's

Taking care of a child reshapes a dad's brain, causing it to show the same patterns of cognitive and emotional engagement that are seen in moms.

In one recent study, researchers looked at brain activity in 89 new parents as they watched videos, including some that featured the parents' own children. The study examined mothers who were their children's primary caregivers, fathers who helped with childcare and gay fathers who raised a child without a woman in the picture.

All three groups of parents showed activation of brain networks linked to emotional processing and social understanding, according to the findings published May 27 in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. In particular, fathers who were their children's primary caregivers showed the kind of activation in emotional processing seen mostly in primary caregiver moms. The results suggest there's a parenting brain network common to both sexes.

Dads experience hormonal changes, too

Pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding all cause hormonal changes in mothers. However, researchers have found that men also undergo hormonal changes when they become fathers.

Studies in animals and people show that new fathers experience an increase in the hormones estrogen, oxytocin, prolactin and glucocorticoids, according to a recent review of studies by psychologist Elizabeth Gould and colleagues from Princeton University. [Men vs. Women: Our Key Physical Differences]

Contact with the mother and children seem to induce the hormonal changes in dads, the researchers said. In humans, dads who show more affection toward their children also tend to have higher levels of oxytocin, the researchers said.

The effects of fatherhood on testosterone levels are less clear. Human dads show a decrease in testosterone, which researchers say may work to make the fathers less aggressive and bring them closer to their children. But some rodent dads show an increase in testosterone, which is possibly linked to their heightened protective behaviors.

It remains unclear to what degree such changes in testosterone are the cause or the result of different parenting behaviors, the researchers said.

"Nevertheless, infant contact itself seems to modulate endocrine systems and activate neural circuitry in fathers in a manner that is strikingly similar to that in mothers," [/b]the researchers wrote in their study, published in October 2010, in the journal Trends in Neurosciences.

A puff of oxytocin boosts dad-baby bond

Although dads who participate in childcare show an increase in oxytocin levels, the reverse also occurs; the hormone seems to increase childcare behavior. In a recent study, researchers found that sniffing a dose of the "cuddle hormone" gets fathers more engaged while playing with their kids, and their children are more responsive in return.

Does this mean an oxytocin spray makes a good Father's Day gift? Not yet. The researchers warned that the hormone has a variety of effects on behavior, and not all of them are positive.

[b]New neurons in dad's brain

Fatherhood also affects dads at the neuronal level. The birth of a child seems to induce development of new neurons in the brain of fathers, at least in animal studies.

Researchers say that these new neurons may develop in response to what the scientists call environmental richness, that is, the new dimension that a child brings into the life of a dad.

Studies have found that voles that met up with their pups showed increased cell growth in the hippocampus region of the brain, which is linked to memory and navigation. Other studies have found that new neurons in the olfactory regions of the brain enable father mice to recognize their pups.

Dads are sensitive to their children's voices

Although it is generally thought that a "maternal instinct" makes moms incredibly good at picking out their baby's unique cry, a recent study suggests that, in fact, dads are just as good as moms.

To compare parents' performance in baby-cry detection, researchers asked 27 fathers and 29 mothers to pick out their babies' cries, from among the cries of five infants. On average, parents were able to detect their babies' cries about 90 percent of the time, and men did just as well as women.

- See more at: http://www.livescience.com/46322-fatherhood-changes-brain.html#sthash.euG67DNa.dpuf


sorry, the naysayers were saying...?

Ishilove:

You took the meaning literally. It means my 'dada' dey scatter. I'm a sucker for sweet words

postmann:

Sorry, bro. I've edited.

Forgive my carelessness (in the middle of something)

joseph1832:
LOL. I took its meaning metaphorically, which means the dada between ya legs dey ishi for postmann's gbaka'm. LMaO.

Abi I lie? Me sef na sucker for woman sha. Every mallam with him own kettle.

Ishilove:

Joseph, how can your mind be so... carnal??

Stop equating romance with sex. Postmann's poems are the stuff Victorian age gentlemen used to woo their love interest. Some of Charles Dickens books comes to mind

joseph1832:
LOL. I took its meaning metaphorically, which means the dada between ya legs dey ishi for _postmann's gbaka'm. LMaO.

Abi I lie? Me sef na sucker for woman sha. Every mallam with him own kettle.

postmann:


Joseph the inflamer.

joseph1832:
My mind is the reflection of the age we are in my dear. Victorian age gentlemen are hardly found around anymore, neither do people read Charles 'Dickens' anymore... What's obtainable in the post modernist era we are, is the blazing features of female overtures, embedded in careful and artistic design of lines itched along curvy hips, protruding ass and succulent boobs.

Oh how I love this age, this stage a place where making hay while the Sun shines leaves you sated, and your libido singing "Hallelujah Amen".

Its a glorious age my dear Ishi.

postmann:


Joseph the inflamer.

joseph1832:
LOL. The only flame I carry is used to inflame those who make mockery of a man, just because he doesn't earn more money than them, or rather, because he chose to lead an honest life.

postmann:


Not true. I see your flames extending far beyond that.

Ishilove:

I'm a conservative Victorian age woman, Joe. You should know that by now

lezz:
Night, comely princess.
Your budding blooming is within your reach.

Ishilove:

I'm a conservative Victorian age woman, Joe. You should know that by now

postmann:




Then you must well acquainted with romance and love in its truest and purest form. Blossoming in a steady heat of the Sun, yeilding its fruits in due season. Unlike the hastiness of the age, baked prematurely and hastily in the oven of lust and premature expulsion

joseph1832:
I hear you. But conservatism have never rebuffed the workings of good loving and awesome sex. Have it? Lol

Ishilove:

My dear, you have said it all. I am very well acquainted to romance in it's most gallant and unselfish form. Ahhh, the days of my youth...

[b]The hastiness of the contemporary age is vulgar, [/b]wouldn't you agree? No school like the old school