Congrats Gaily04, may your LO always make you happy and proud. Amin.
When you were complaining of vjay pain, I wanted to comment that it could be labour o, buh I didnt want to give you false hope.
Nice BS! So you mean all the NHIS plan failed and you had to pay for delivery?


Iffffffy, you alone know what is best for you.
DomesticViolence against the man/ woman should never be encouraged.
Marriage is tough enough without throwing punches in.
Take care of you and your LO. You will be fine.

Joysa, you are good to go.
The grading is normal for that gestational age buh will you wait 42 weeks again till you induce if your LO doesnt come by 40 weeks?


Mitchyy, for me o, if I really like that woman and value her friendship, I would bold face and tell the woman her kids are too unruly in a non- critique manner.
Before I do, I will first find out if they are like that everywhere( church, school, grannies, cousins etc) or just with me ( to know if I am a pushover or enabler).
Tell her there are many ways to discipline a child without spanking. That child will cooperate ni sharperly. Your child is a reflection of you.
If she no wan gree, leave her to her headache
Children need rules to guide them to proper behaviour.
For 3 years and above.
-When they come visiting, right at the doorstep in front of their mom tell them you can only let them in if they obey the rules and that once they break your rules you will have to send them home. Dont let them just say okay or yes. They should say " I promise to obey all your rules"
That way if and when you send them out, their mom will know they broke a rule.
They wont be allowed till the next day when you start all over again. You must send them out with no reward/ snacks once the rules are broken cos there is no reward for bad behaviour.Dont compromise o! You can even send the main offender out and leave the other one till later.
When they go 15/ 30 minutes without breaking rules then you may reward them with snacks and high fives. So they will be more inclined to behave well.
Soon they will behave very well when they are around you and the mom will want to find out your secret magic.
When concocting your rules, start simple. With like 3 rules or so and add as the days pass by.
- dont stand or jump on the chairs.
- dont touch what isnt yours....keep your hands to yourself. etc.
Once they break a rule, be firm and remind them of their promise and boot them out.
See it as a training time for when your soldiers start arriving

What part of Abj r u? Its been raining well in my area in d last 1 week. Heavy rain sef.

ozycy:

Rain Ke, when was that?
Na una wey dey river state dey enjoy rain and better weather

Sugah, sorry about your mom.
Quick recovery is her portion by God's grace.
Amin.



Iyabetajos,I had to go inside the rain to get this for you.
Oya stop crying and smile, shebi you know you shouldnt be stressed at all. Baby is using extra-time so dont put pressure on him.

Iffffffy:
The abuse was much both physical and emotional, he certainly not the cool, cal amd collected man I fell in love with, he changed, I continually asked him what the problem was, he had nothing tangible to say.
I did what an average woman wouldn't do for him, I endured involving pastor, relatives and so on. The last straw that broke the camel's back, just a day b4 shonde's case, he started again, I picked a screw driver and promised to stab him if he nears me, what if he had near me and I did, what would have happened to me? What would have been the fate of my son?
I deserve to be happy though I'm shattered presently... Why me? Why must it be me?

I share ur pain my sister but i will encourage u 2 pray more even though u re nt wt him anymore. it is well wt u nd ur son

UmmTwins2:
Don't worry pls,u'r nt past ur due date so Y worry? At exactly 37wks, scan showed that my cervix was firmly closed, nothing was happening down there n it gave EDD as 31st Oct (didn't rely on dt date though seeing as it Ws so late in my pregnancy) bt I Ws still thinking I might port to November cos all my scans gave btw 20th to 31st, only for me to give birth abt 24hrs later on 10th at 37w1day. So relax yr mind, u'll soon be missing all ds "u $ me" moments wt ur lo o, when u have him/her to urself it's well wt u dear, u'll soon share ur BS by God's grace.
Congratulations Olubankemi, God bless d ejire. E ku owo l'omi may God strengthen u. rofemiguwa Congrats, may God keep n bless our princess, may she continue to be a source of joy. Amin
Welcome to all d new preggies, wishing u a smooth preggy ride n swift delivery inshaAllaah. Madam zaynie, bizness is really booming kisses to our ebony queen n her egbon too

Thanks ummTwins2 I just pray I don't pass my EDD cos I'm already having waist pains and is not funny. Remain blessed. #kisses

@sugar darling, please dn't fret. as the Lord live, ur mum 'll be fine IJN amen.

rejoice03:
@zimunachimdi thks for dat price tag on d list but dis price I doubt if it is obtainable in Abuja. The Hanger I priced around here is about 7k/9k. Mama zaynie thks for d list also. Abuja tins are expensive oh. I may end up sending one of my SIL in Lagos and she wil send to us.
@ginababy pls how did u buy dis ur diaper bcaus am planning to buy for like 6month suppply bcaus no one to dash me sometin around here I don't realy knw pple in here. So I realy have to buy all I need myself. TIA.

I can't remember posting anything abt diaper. Bt I sha bought in small quantity 4 just 2 knw which will b good enough 4 baby b4 I will start buying in bulk. So try to buy in bit first 2 b sure of d product dat serves well in terms of holding urine/poo n eradicates diaper rash. The idea or concept of buying in bulk can b applied leta.

@mum zaynie, thank you so much. I've followed them out before and they do so everywhere. I'll try and be more firm now becos i actually don't have that energy for unruly kids. I'll rather conserve my strength and save it for labor

@hajarahbadmus, serendipityF, soonest, missmalachi, babythug, dhabeautyjas, airforcewife, presVa, thank you so much for torchlighting the matter. I appreciate your responses!

Iyabetajos:


i just feel depressed n tired unecessarily....i want cold water n gala...

Just cold water and gala? Oya give us your location let's mail it to you asap

zaynie:
Congrats Gaily04, may your LO always make you happy and proud. Amin.
When you were complaining of vjay pain, I wanted to comment that it could be labour o, buh I didnt want to give you false hope.
Nice BS! So you mean all the NHIS plan failed and you had to pay for delivery?


Iffffffy, you alone know what is best for you.
DomesticViolence against the man/ woman should never be encouraged.
Marriage is tough enough without throwing punches in.
Take care of you and your LO. You will be fine.

Joysa, you are good to go.
The grading is normal for that gestational age buh will you wait 42 weeks again till you induce if your LO doesnt come by 40 weeks?


Mitchyy, for me o, if I really like that woman and value her friendship, I would bold face and tell the woman her kids are too unruly in a non- critique manner.
Before I do, I will first find out if they are like that everywhere( church, school, grannies, cousins etc) or just with me ( to know if I am a pushover or enabler).
Tell her there are many ways to discipline a child without spanking. That child will cooperate ni sharperly. Your child is a reflection of you.
If she no wan gree, leave her to her headache
Children need rules to guide them to proper behaviour.
For 3 years and above.
-When they come visiting, right at the doorstep in front of their mom tell them you can only let them in if they obey the rules and that once they break your rules you will have to send them home. Dont let them just say okay or yes. They should say " I promise to obey all your rules"
That way if and when you send them out, their mom will know they broke a rule.
They wont be allowed till the next day when you start all over again. You must send them out with no reward/ snacks once the rules are broken cos there is no reward for bad behaviour.Dont compromise o! You can even send the main offender out and leave the other one till later.
When they go 15/ 30 minutes without breaking rules then you may reward them with snacks and high fives. So they will be more inclined to behave well.
Soon they will behave very well when they are around you and the mom will want to find out your secret magic.
When concocting your rules, start simple. With like 3 rules or so and add as the days pass by.
- dont stand or jump on the chairs.
- dont touch what isnt yours....keep your hands to yourself. etc.
Once they break a rule, be firm and remind them of their promise and boot them out.
See it as a training time for when your soldiers start arriving

dts y i wanna b a teacher ova n ova again lol.high 5 !!!
@gaily congrats dear may he b a source of joy to ur family.

Gaily04:
Hippeeee, our prince charming has arrived, we thank God.

#ProudlyTeamMay

Congrats Gaily04 my wonderful class captain. Welcome bomboy. Biko come and give us bs as e dy hot

@ sugah, it's well with your mum ..the surgery will be a success, Amen.

Congrats Gaily04 , I'm specifically happy for you, love d way you dey 'jinger' .. God bless your lil prince

Ajuwarhodes, Jamesbridget13, Flourish89, SexyMum1, OnyxGem10, Tracysparkle, Creamchiccb, what's happening now my teamies? Are you ladies okay? Its been ages!

@cutienik, raptor2, esof1, una wan join the others hide too? Abi na weather?

#teamjuly

Gaily04:
God is still in charge, just believe and He will do wonders beyond your imagination. Happy mama Gaily04 reporting live with her prince charming

33. Prettyhurts



#Teammayforsupernaturalandeasydelivery

Present mommy. Waist pain is becoming too much

zaynie:
Sugah, sorry about your mom.
Quick recovery is her portion by God's grace.
Amin.



Iyabetajos,I had to go inside the rain to get this for you.
Oya stop crying and smile, shebi you know you shouldnt be stressed at all. Baby is using extra-time so dont put pressure on him.

,choi........cleaning my tears jare...dnt mind dis men!dey will just give person belle n nt b pampering u......thank u jare.

mitchyy:


Just cold water and gala? Oya give us your location let's mail it to you asap

pls put plenty ice cubes in d cold water ohh.

ozycy:

I think say na only me wey no no wetin be date fruit, I had to goggle it an what I saw I dont think I know the fruit ooo

Its also called dabino. That brown fruit sold in wheel barrow. Used alot during muslim fasting. Hope this helps.

Iffffffy:
The abuse was much both physical and emotional, he certainly not the cool, cal Why me? Why must it be me?

Dear, its better u took that step. I can advocate patience in marriage for all but PHYSICAL ABUSE. God will take care of u and ur son

olatebony:

#TeamJuly Roll Call: Please waddle out and answer present if you hear your name. *adjusts oversize glasses and skirt*

Present Ma'am! So very sorry, had a very busy day and catching up with missed pages here? Na 6 units course..Pwhew!... No be small task. Doing very good,baby fine and dh great. Thanks for checking on us.
#Teamjulyforeasiestdeliveries#

All of u should do and make sure u give me a daymate. July17. Else i will collect 1 big basket of tomato and gipee tank of pms. Swify delivery for all of u by God's grace

sugah:
It feels like iv been in a trance this week. I shared a story about how a toxic marriage landed my sister in a life and death situation and how we were hiding my sister's kidney tranplant from my parents.......well my mum has found out about it and has been in the hospital since Sunday. My mum would be going in for surgery in the morning, please say a prayer for her..




You need the support of your family and friends at this time. Stay strong for your LO, you would be fine.

May they both come out victorious

Gaily04:
Hippeeee, our prince charming has arrived, we thank God.

#ProudlyTeamMay

Congratulations dear. Sweet bs indeed. God be praised

olatebony:

#TeamJuly Roll Call: Please waddle out and answer present if you hear your name. *adjusts oversize glasses and skirt*

Present Ma'am! So very sorry, had a very busy day and catching up with missed pages here? Na 6 units course..Pwhew!... No be small task. Doing very good,baby fine and dh great. Thanks for checking on us.
#Teamjulyforeasiestdeliveries#

All of u should do and make sure u give me a daymate. July17. Else i will collect 1 big basket of tomato and gipee tank of pms. Swify delivery for all of u by God's grace

Gaily04:
Hippeeee, our prince charming has arrived, we thank God.

#ProudlyTeamMay

Congratulations dear. Sweet bs indeed. God be praised

@ Mitchy present ma,
Mama's have torchlight the issue for you, I think you should do what they adviced, especially ma zaynie's advice. I can't stand kids that are stubborn and unruly, they really piss me off. I will rather not have them scatter things in my house.

@ ifffffffy, you are very bold and courageous to have walk out of the marriage, physical abuse in marriage is a No No for me, it only takes someone that is courageous to walk out of the marriage. The Lord is ur Strength, hope ur LO is fine.

@ Gailyo4, congrats on the birth of ur son may he always be a source of joy to your family., your Bs is sweet and precise, I tap from ur blessing.

@ Iyebetajos, cry cry like me, I cry at every slight thing. Even if Sun wire me on the way, even with my umbrella I will be crying in my heart, then when I get to my house I will unleash the cry, Mam zaynie and Mitchy has given you the gala and cold water, so your request has been granted.. Just hang in there July is around the corner.

@cutienik, how is you na.
#TeamJuly #.

Sugah, how is ur mum now. God be with her.
Zaynie, i love ur advice. 3 gbosa 4 u.

Sugah, how is ur mum now. God be with her.
Zaynie, i love ur advice. 3 gbosa 4 u.

Gaily04:
Hippeeee, our prince charming has arrived, we thank God.

#ProudlyTeamMay

Congrats ma'am, may he bring joy to you and your family.

MumFiyin:
What part of Abj r u? Its been raining well in my area in d last 1 week. Heavy rain sef.

Really aminGwarinpaaxis.
Which side er you.

This is my third o,ve a lovely boy n girl want another boy to complete the squad

feddy27:


Welcome teamiee!

Feel free to mingle..

Pay your dues to Zaynie

Are you a first time mum?

@ Sugah, Ur mum will be fine..

tejirikennedy:
This is my third o,ve a lovely boy n girl want another boy to complete the squad

Great.. weldone mama and happy bumping

mitchyy:


@cutienik, raptor2, esof1, una wan join the others hide too? Abi na weather?

#teamjuly

My able captain, I no hide oh, academic wahala no let me see road oh. Lots of assignments and my project topic no be beans oh.
Ayam doing perfectly okay.