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Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 4:55pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: Yawnss! Couldn't even read this trash that you wrote above, too many grammatical errors. Lol @ unintelligent woman, funniest thing I've heard today.... One thing is for sure though, I'm smarter and way more intelligent that you would ever be. Infact it's truly confirmed that... you are not an educated illiterate but actually an UNEDUCATED illiterate who relies on the spellcheck of his cheap phone to save him from grammatical disgrace! Look at this slowpoke forming...my friend get out of here... You are a disgrace to men out there! |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by wingeddove(m): 5:11pm On May 18, 2016 |
Two wrongs do not make a right.Probably,I want to be of the opinion that your friend need you to do this so as to have a refuge of justification that after all,she is not the only one in this shoe(what I want to call emotional defense).I will urge you to stand and defend your marriage.You can do this by trusting God to rebuild your home again.I will like you to watch this movie titled "war room".Do not let this mistake you are about to make destroy you! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by Nitefury: 5:19pm On May 18, 2016 |
nwaanambra1: You're a mad man..... In a good way though.. Lol |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by jollymolly: 5:24pm On May 18, 2016 |
@PreciousBro and@diva90 Please you guys should stop cursing eachother out. Like the Diva90 said everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to it.When someone give an advise,they give it out of personal experience,what they have witnessed or from knowledge. Dont judge people cos you dont know what they have been through. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by gazilion: 6:02pm On May 18, 2016 |
@jollymolly, I really feel your pain! It is quite disheartening you have to pass through all these in a young marriage. You have a great sense of respect for your marriage and I can see you still want it to succeed despite the hurts. You deserve better! However, I will advice that you do not do anything stupid. Two wrongs will not make a right and cheating on your husband at this time, will violate your conscience and will taint your character with guilt. The pride of fidelity will be wiped off and till you die, you will always look back to wish it never happened. You will always remember you took a wrong step during this storm and the scars may never be wiped off. Please, be patient at this time. Tolerate him. Cut the ties with your ex and with wisdom also cut ties with your cheating friend. Your marriage is not broken yet and will not be broken in Jesus name. PRAYERFULLY TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND. Do not disrespect him in anyway cos' he is still the head. The pain of being caught in the act is killing him too. Finally, prayerfully ask God to separate him from the ladies who are wrecking your home and marriage. Shalom. jollymolly: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by nuelski10: 7:12pm On May 18, 2016 |
Watch the movie War Room, it will help you alot |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 7:24pm On May 18, 2016 |
jollymolly: Thank you jare! Evidently this born fool @preciousBro doesn't know this. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by treasuredkids(f): 8:16pm On May 18, 2016 |
Eya! I thought u were mature and I was actually seeing sense in what u were saying but u've proved otherwise with your utterances. Too bad I dnt have a demented upbringing like yours. Look elsewhere to spill ur bile pls. PreciousBro: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:17pm On May 18, 2016 |
treasuredkids: You are a yelping puppy. I could smell your sycophancy for female validation and a few likes from your pathetic post. Your parents left you off in a bush for some meagre employment in a security post. You better stick to ãSs-kissing and shît packing as your day job. Why did you quote me again? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:21pm On May 18, 2016 |
Âshewo diva90 having a filled day with some amorous kick mentioning me. You better dont brooke your self to death with an infected stick. Hârlot! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:31pm On May 18, 2016 |
jollymolly: It is also my right ti call out a misleading post when i see one. You dont pass the wrong messsge to readers especially when kids like yourself abound here. You and all women should take pride in the uniqueness of being chaste ,it is what differentiates you from men. Uphold womanhood and not try to measure with men on every wrong doing. Your chastity is the essence of your desirability. I did nothing wrong here just pointed a harlôt in diva90. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 10:34pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: I have told you to shamelessly go back to school you slowpoke.... What the hell is Brooke? You can't even spell and write properly. Now tell me who is unintelligent here? Hehehe Tell that your ashewo harl0t of a mother to enroll you in school. She clearly failed in raising you right! Like I previously said.... You are a disgrace to your entire lineage. Nonsense! Stupid cock sucker! |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:37pm On May 18, 2016 |
diva90: lol...You dont have to follow my line of insults .wife of an armed robber 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 10:40pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: You are obviously delusional! I'm sooooo glad that everyone can see that you ARE NOT making sense! You are a big fool! And I will continue to put you in your place! You have to spend hours of your day responding to people who confront you. So sad that Your level of ignorance stinks! You have not made a single sense... Go back and read all your responses.... Mentally sick people like u should be banned from nairaland. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 10:42pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: Neither do you. I have your time my dear and unlimited wifi, keep burning your N500 naira data plan. Wretched thing! you are the fool that said he doesn't respond to rubbish but yet you are here responding like a lost soul. I guess you have just proved that what ever u are responding to makes perfect sense. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:43pm On May 18, 2016 |
I know you are so shallow you would'nt know "brooke is an obsolete word for brook and hence acceptable still ol smh You are not attentive and abreast to things. Indomie generation? Certainly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 10:44pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: Hahahahahahahahaha! Guess you are out of words! It is your unfortunate FATHER that is An ARMED ROBBER |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 10:46pm On May 18, 2016 |
PreciousBro: Look at what you wrote! Does it make sense? Read it again.....Hehehehe illiterateeeeeeeee!!!!!!!! |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 10:51pm On May 18, 2016 |
haha PreciousBro never runs out of words. You can sleep well now. And by the way i didnt "write it SMH I taya for this diva of shame. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by diva90: 2:20am On May 19, 2016 |
PreciousBro: You are just a sore LOSER!!!!! Bye f00l! Next time learn to respect people's opinions or better still jump off a bridge .... Easy way to silence yourself' ! |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by An0nimus: 5:34am On May 19, 2016 |
preciousbro and diva90 una for kukuma lock una sef for one room 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 5:55am On May 19, 2016 |
diva90: hahaha Whatever pleasure you derive from quoting me is what beats me lol But i know it is just to cover face knowing you have been exposed for what you truly are. A woman with easy virtue and a morally unequipped shekpe-background whöre. Dont let the numerical increase in likes fool you o... those are from closet feminists who aren't ready to play scape-goats and get pummelled like you. slût ! And the likes' just like a dîck to a bimbõ like you can never be satisfying enough to give you a night rest, especially when you have been slapped hard by the truth and known for what you are 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by chacoonder(m): 7:24am On May 19, 2016 |
jollymolly:Oh!!!..and you call yourself a wife!!...Shame unto YOU. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by Eteo: 8:18am On May 19, 2016 |
OP, Carry out ur friend's advise at ur own peril. She will be the one to inform ur husband...even if she doesn't, so u can open ur two eyes and let ur friend lead u to doom...what is marriage? Marriage is a union of two forgivers...pls forgive ur husband, he has apologised, to err is human, to admit that one has erred is super- human, to.forgive is divine...work on ur marriage and save ur marriage...the grass is not greener on the other side ooo...or u think that the new man u re abt to Bleep will not Bleep anyone else apart from u Abeg wake up from ur slumber Don't repay evil with evil...God is involved in ur marriage and He is watching u...the Bible says that all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial...pls don't defile ur body, rem d vows u took to keep ur body exclusively for ur husband till death... Last line: stop that friendship wt that woman. The bible says that bad company corrupts good morals. She is bad influence, believe me. Surround urself wt women of virtue who will encourage u to be good! Shalom!!! |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by jollymolly: 8:21am On May 19, 2016 |
Yes I am a wife, a mother and an amazing one at that, I have ABSOLUTELY nothing to be ashamed of. You can keep the insult to yourself.chacoonder: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by Nobody: 9:05am On May 19, 2016 |
I hate this thread, everyone says he made a mistake keep the marriage strong but to me it's bull sheet, I don't do double standards am sure we'd be blasting the wife if the reverse were the case. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by eyinjuege: 9:13am On May 19, 2016 |
pcguru1: Are you not a Nigerian? You should know us by now na. Many Nigerian christians according to posts on NL are also in support of adultery btw, provided its by the man regardless if its with a fellow married woman or not. That's why each person should just live their lives by their conscience and not what any joker thinks cos your moral compass is prolly better than the person you're seeking advice from. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by Dabbyfab: 10:28am On May 19, 2016 |
Op after one year and he still behaving this way. I don't agree with what some people said that he is ashamed of what he did, I don't believe it. This a sign that he is still having an affair. Find out if he is still having an affair, and if still doing it, chop and clean mouth like someone said if your concience permits you. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by treasuredkids(f): 10:39am On May 19, 2016 |
Too bad. Many are mad but few are roaming. We will soon find you in the refuse dump where u are posting from. Sick demented attention seeking fellow with no future ambition. Better go get a life cos social media is not one. PreciousBro: |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by PreciousBro: 12:31pm On May 19, 2016 |
treasuredkids: You and intelligence are darkness and light respectively. If you had a life i doubt you'd refrain from paying heed to your own advice. Who cursed you with this perpetual state of mentioning me upandan groping for attention like a sick piglet. Ambition? You are living up to yours following me. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by Jahblessme: 1:01pm On May 19, 2016 |
@OP Please do whatever makes you happy. If it's praying that will give you joy,go ahead. If it's a young hot virile guy,your choice. No one here has a right to tell you what will soothe the pain you feel inside.Some will say forgive-Is that what will make you feel at peace? Some will go for revenge- Is that what will give you joy?Some break things,some cut up clothes,some feed laxatives for weeks till he's almost pooing his intestines..Choose your own brand. Your friend is cheating back and happy cos that's what suits her temperament and maybe that's what makes her feel attractive and loved,that does not mean it's right for you. Tailor your response according to your personality.The end result should be that you are happy and that's all. Good luck. |
Re: My Husband Is/was Cheating And I Am At Point Of Cheating On Him by treasuredkids(f): 1:09pm On May 19, 2016 |
Its bad when u lack understanding of the words u use. Anyway what's expected of someone who knows how to speak English both formal and informal and still cannot make a head of what he's saying. Quite pathetic. Learn to differentiate between constructive criticism and a destructive one, identify complements for what they are and stop washing ur stinking garments for all to see. No one is interested in them PreciousBro: |
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