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"Mugun" raised to power 3!
The day you will realize your folly that "the act is still on-going", you'll probably have a heart attack!

Even God Himself (in his mercies) ...draws a "red line" which no one must cross ....else there is No Forgiveness!
That red line is "Blaspheming the Holy Spirit".
Go and read your Bible to find out.

How much more an ordinary humanbeing?

Look, l can only ask you to "keep it up"!



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PureWays:
Really??
Your kind of man is so rare, I pray you don't get in the hands of a bad woman..

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

Arsenate:
I won't expect her to forgive me. She should just walk away
I'm no hypocrite; I judge and treat people using the same standard I will love them to do me.

udumosam23:



Amen. God doesn't offer a bad gift. He has given me a wife I'm contented with.

If you depend on Him for a spouse, He will give you too.

If you have already and you're not satisfied with what you have, He can still fix it. He is the author of life and love. Anything He touches changes from bad or worse to perfect.

When you find Him, you've found life and love.

missbronze:
why I made reference to that, is to show there is no sin that isn't worth forgiving. No matter how heavy it may seem.


Do you know the bible that preached about divorcing on the ground of cheating, also preached about forgiveness.


'Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us'. That was the prayer our Lord himself taught us. So, in this context, don't you think all sin should be forgiven (even adultary), if we want God to forgive us too?

TheProphetess:


Why?
Why the double standards?
Why can men sleep with too many women and it's good?
The same way you're wishing you'll never come across a girl like her is the same way any self respecting woman won't want to come across you.
No one wants to be serviced by over used dick.

Taryur3:

Lols....Dick ain't slack .78percent of men are still very active at 80.but the reverse is the case for the opposite gender.so it's not good for ladies to cheat.double standard is common in America not in Nigeria.we regards to them as slots...Ashawo.

PureWays:
As thought provoking as this may sound, it's the truth..

Taryur3:

yea...@Pureway...you know the truth always sounds bitter.

Taryur3:

Lols....Dick ain't slack .78percent of men are still very active at 80.but the reverse is the case for the opposite gender.so it's not good for ladies to cheat.double standard is common in America not in Nigeria.we regards to them as slots...Ashawo.

TheProphetess:
I thought Nigerians keep claiming to be Christians. I thought your bible said not to commit sexual immorality and adultery?

Small time you'll go to church and shout gods name.

Also I'm not really understanding your point. Try explaining again.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

Taryur3:

The prophetess...if you are a nigerian ,I see no reason for you to direct those questions to me.am only telling you that females suffered it more when it comes to cheating and feel rejected.thanks.

TheProphetess:


Okay. I see.

I posed those questions because it seems like the consensus in this country that if women cheat it's bad but if men cheat it's forgivable even though people claim to be religious and religious books warn not to commit adultery.
It's just hypocrisy.

PureWays:
Yes it is hypocrisy.
Deal with it ma'am.

TheProphetess:


No I refuse to.
The same way black people refused to 'deal with it' when they were treated badly by whites.

diva90:


And once he cheats, what happens? You see the unfairness in that statement? It means that any woman that catches her husband cheating is also entitled to divorce him

TheProphetess:


Okay. I see.

I posed those questions because it seems like the consensus in this country that if women cheat it's bad but if men cheat it's forgivable even though people claim to be religious and religious books warn not to commit adultery.
It's just hypocrisy.

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

dare2differ:
look at them

Who are the husbands of those cheating married men?

Or Are they married to stones?

Don't worry you will never know

SexyStrawberry:
Men will never ever forgive a cheating spouse, [b]so why should women forgive their men for cheating on them?[b] i don't get it, for me the equation has to balance, [b]as long as u as a man will never forgive me for cheating, i will never forgive u as well[b] coz I'm not Jesus' younger sister, and any man who claims he has forgiven his spouse, check very very well, she'll never enjoy that union ever again.

Perfectdanny:

First of all, we don't need your forgiveness cos we bought you from your parents..

Secondly, So you don't know a 'BOSS' when you see one

daretodiffer:
We know your mother is a property. We also know that he is her owner



@Op, that is if you get to know

foyeks2001:


A sin that a man refuses to forgive his wife or sin a woman refuses to forgive her husband will hinder one from making heaven... Pastor W.F. Kumuyi....choose wisely

streetzdreamz:
Weird,most of the comments says "i cant forgive,the memory lingers and keeps haunting" seems we all forgot the major culprit in this scenario is we men,its only in rare occasions you see a woman bring home another mans child, even if she will you will never get to know until things goes south,but on the other hand a man cheats,even brings his mistress home,delivers the child and either keep her as a second wife or take full responsibility for the child,and tells his wife it was a mistake,asking for forgiveness,subjecting his legit wife to a constant reminder of what led to the developments,why is it a one way thingy?it should be in for a penny in for a pound,cheating should be frowned at no matter what,women shouldn't be made to forgive a cheating spouse when a man wont ever forgive his cheating wife,guess its the way we were made though,i for one wont forgive a cheating wife cuz i wont ever cheat on her,the day i do is the day the relationship starts crumbling,cuz of guilt and a constant reminder of what happens if she does thesame, ofcourse only if your conscience ain't seared already.

myking95:

Most women cheat on good guys...like they derive pleasure from it. Not too long ago in the university, met this pretty (like 8.5/10, natural, with extra polishing 9/10) homely girl in my 100l we were teenagers then. I'm not the emotional type but I swear I loved that girl like life itself.. Not just sex but I just enjoyed being with her, like her presence had a physical soothing effect on me. By the way I'm tall, good looking, intelligent the whole faculty knew that, my mind is another thing sha, acing the difficult subjects provided I didn't have beef with the lecturer and d subjects interested me and I'm definitely not proud just introverted, multiple scholarships ensured that I lived very comfortably as a student and could afford to be very generous to her and people in general. Wasn't gonna force d sex thingy even tho opportunities were there, I luvd her for her. Wen we agreed for the whole matters to start, Di's girl gave me an std..that she had been treating for over 6 months meaning she did it on purpose. Strain had become resistant to most drugs by then..took me over two full years of doctors visits, tests injections, prayers and d rest ( staph tinz), she also was preggy for someone else and i jx kept quiet to see what wud happen, lady tried to put it on me, even after i broke up, this girl did tinz which i wnt put out here.I jx shut down the matter in my mind..she never apologized in fact when I confronted her with the results she jx acted with indifference till I her reser with a slap, she got on her knees begging and all that. The most painful part is when i realized dat she did all these because she believed i wouldnt do anything abt it since i loved her, this is someone I showered with affection till her own sad face literally gives me heartburn. Academics suffered for 3 semesters had to put in effort to get my 2:1 on track tho I had an extra year in d end. I won't be a sissy about it, a man has to experience stuff to gain maturity, but me having a cheating wife? Im not divorcing her, not touching her, protecting my assets at all cost, separating from her, and then I'll probably have kids from multiple ladies outsyd, no love just sex and kids preferably under a contract in c Ronaldo fashion. I jx like being honest. As a man chase your dreams, let success and money be part of it, but not a woman to avoid stories that touch. And most importantly for the 4 years I was with her I never cheated, 2 ladies have lived with me but even then no. U get d drill