Please matured advice needed.
I've fallen in love with my friend's ex-girlfriend, I don't know what to do, he still pesters this girl and gets jealous which leads to fight and argument whenever he sees her around a guy. They've broken up since last year and he still shows up causing problems with her.
I'm confused, don't know if I should proceed to having a relationship with her or not.

Please, I need advice on what to do

Leave her alone. Respect your friendship with your friend.

Smh. How long have you been friends with your friend & how good of a friend is he? Friendships tend to last longer than most relationships, so I'd be careful which side I choose if I were you. You sure don't wanna lose a good friend because you're "in love", when in reality it's probably "in lust".

pinkyliceous:
Leave her alone. Respect your friendship with your friend.

How do I make the feelings I have for her go

DonnaCorleone:
Smh. How long have you been friends with your friend & how good of a friend is he? Friendships tend to last longer than most relationships, so I'd be careful which side I choose if I were you. You sure don't wanna lose a good friend because you're "in love", when in reality it's probably "in lust".

we've been friends since last year

Proceed!












Don't ask me why

skarlett:
I thought bros had a certain code

Well, we they usually do. But sometimes you can't help the outcome of somethings. That's why its inherent you stay away from somethings.

drizzy009:
Please matured advice needed.
I've fallen in love with my friend's ex-girlfriend, I don't know what to do, he still pesters this girl and gets jealous which leads to fight and argument whenever he sees her around a guy. They've broken up since last year and he still shows up causing problems with her.
I'm confused, don't know if I should proceed to having a relationship with her or not.

Please, I need advice on what to do

Does she feel the same way about you?

drizzy009:
we've been friends since last year

Is it worth it? Just remember that you'll be mortal enemies afterwards as you claim he still has feelings for her. Don't be a Brutus. You probably just want her because she's taboo/ unattainable because of the friendship. The "love" won't even last 5 minutes, I can bet!

ShaqFu:
Does she feel the same way about you?

I think she does, but I'm not sure, she told me to wait that relationship isn't meant for her now because of how he's treating her

dragonEmperor:
Proceed!













Don't ask me why

why

I ain't there with you. But I think it's a feeling along the line 'forbidden fruits taste best'. It's most probably lust driven by curiousity. To qualify this as love is, well, too early for me.

DonnaCorleone:


Is it worth it? Just remember that you'll be mortal enemies afterwards as you claim he still has feelings for her. Don't be a Brutus. You probably just want her because she's taboo/ unattainable because of the friendship. The "love" won't even last 5 minutes, I can bet!

How sure are you it won't last 5 minutes

drizzy009:
How sure are you it won't last 5 minutes

Sure enough to bet my last dirty penny on it

Look, do what you want.

DonnaCorleone:


Sure enough to bet my last dirty penny on it

Look, do what you want.

lol.. Ok
But if I decide not to date her.
How do I let go the feelings I have for her

drizzy009:
I think she does, but I'm not sure, she told me to wait that relationship isn't meant for her now because of how he's treating her

Well I believe you should wait, since she has already to you to wait, but if you want to take the bull by the horn, just approach your friend and let him understand a few things...

Make sure he's in a good mood when you do approach him.

ShaqFu:
Well I believe you should wait, since she has already to you to wait, but if you want to take the bull by the horn, just approach your friend and let him understand a few things...

Make sure he's in a good mood when you do approach him.

i don't think I can ever approach him because of his temper

drizzy009:
lol.. Ok
But if I decide not to date her.
How do I let go the feelings I have for her

The heart can be a fickle thing. IDK when you'll let go, but it's probably gonna happen the next time another pretty thing in a skirt crosses your path.

What do you like about this particular girl anyway?

drizzy009:
i don't think I can ever approach him because of his temper

That's why you should approach him when he is in a very good mood. You seem scared of this friend of yours?

DonnaCorleone:


The heart can be a fickle thing. IDK when you'll let go, but it's probably gonna happen the next time another pretty thing in a skirt crosses your path.

What do you like about this particular girl anyway?

How passionate she is about music even though she can't sing, how caring she is towards people, she's funny most times and most especially her beauty.. So much more sha

drizzy009:

How passionate she is about music even though she can't sing, how caring she is towards people, she's funny most times and most especially her beauty.. So much more sha

Ok. Why did they break up?

ShaqFu:
That's why you should approach him when he is in a very good mood. You seem scared of this friend of yours?

scared of him ke. I'm not scared of him. I'm not just the fight/argument type

Guy the truth is, You have been coveting this your friends babe for a very long time, even before they got separated.

That's the simple truth, take it or leave it.

drizzy009:
i don't think I can ever approach him because of his temper

I am glad u know he has a temper.
That guy will kill u o o o

DonnaCorleone:


Ok. Why did they break up?

I'm not quite sure, but I think it's because of his jealousy and insecurity.

AmiLaHoit:



I am glad u know he has a temper.
That guy will kill u o o o

lol

drizzy009:
I'm not quite sure, but I think it's because of his jealousy and insecurity.

Maybe you should find out the reasons. Jealousy & insecurity don't usually flare up over nothing, unless he's a nut.

I honestly don't think this is a good idea for you, but then again, it's your life, so..

DonnaCorleone:


Maybe you should find out the reasons. Jealousy & insecurity don't usually flare up over nothing, unless he's a nut.

I honestly don't think this is a good idea for you, but then again, it's your life, so..

Aii. Thanks

drizzy009:
scared of him ke. I'm not scared of him. I'm not just the fight/argument type

Then tell him your mind. If he can't deal with it, its his problem.

drizzy009:
I think she does, but I'm not sure, she told me to wait that relationship isn't meant for her now because of how he's treating her

hhhahahahaha see dis mumu oh,
It's obvious u've executed ur plans already and it failed. Why bother us bro? Ur a bitc.h nigga already