It's very simple, if someone isn't into you don't force it. You don't only disgrace yourself, the respect is totally gone. People fall out of love for one reason or the other, trying to force them to come back wouldn't help the situation.

I and my friends were having a ladies night out and a dude came to say hi. Ofcourse I greeted him back because he didn't mean any harm, he was just being friendly. And 30mins later some random lady walks into the rest room to ask me funny questions in an authoritative way.

I'm like e gba mi o, do I know you? Are u a police? Go ask your boyfriend why he came to our table or are u gonna warn every lady here.

For the ladies who do that shit of policing your bfs, going through his phone and all, is that gonna change the fact that he may meet someone fantastic tomorrow and dump you? Most of these guys are seriously choked, they want out. And being too possessive and dramatic worsens everything! If your man is cheating, use your senses and leave. If u can't, settle things amicably. Don't go about asking all his friends about him, killing yourself or warning every lady, it reduces your value greatly.

Btw i'm missed Thesonofmark and lalasticlala so much.

Jadekitana:
It's very simple, if someone isn't into you don't force it. You don't only disgrace yourself, the respect is totally gone. People fall out of love for one reason or the other, trying to force them to come back wouldn't help the situation.

I and my friends were having a ladies night out and a dude came to say hi. Ofcourse I greeted him back because he didn't mean any harm, he was just being friendly. And 30mins later some random lady walks into the rest room to ask me funny questions in an authoritative way.

I'm like e gba mi o, do I know you? Are u a police? Go ask your boyfriend why he came to our table or are u gonna warn every lady here.

For the ladies who do that shit of policing your bfs, going through his phone and all, is that gonna change the fact that he may meet someone fantastic tomorrow and dump you? Most of these guys are seriously choked, they want out. And being too possessive and dramatic worsens everything! If your man is cheating, use your senses and leave. If u can't, settle things amicably. Don't go about asking all his friends about him, killing yourself or warning every lady, it reduces your value greatly.

Btw i'm missed Thesonofmark and lalasticlala so much.

Preach

Gbam! Op, u said it all *CHop knuckle* ..



















But i knw some gurls willnt still learn

Jadekitana:
It's very simple, if someone isn't into you don't force it. You don't only disgrace yourself, the respect is totally gone. People fall out of love for one reason or the other, trying to force them to come back wouldn't help the situation.

I and my friends were having a ladies night out and a dude came to say hi. Ofcourse I greeted him back because he didn't mean any harm, he was just being friendly. And 30mins later some random lady walks into the rest room to ask me funny questions in an authoritative way.

I'm like e gba mi o, do I know you? Are u a police? Go ask your boyfriend why he came to our table or are u gonna warn every lady here.

For the ladies who do that shit of policing your bfs, going through his phone and all, is that gonna change the fact that he may meet someone fantastic tomorrow and dump you? Most of these guys are seriously choked, they want out. And being too possessive and dramatic worsens everything! If your man is cheating, use your senses and leave. If u can't, settle things amicably. Don't go about asking all his friends about him, killing yourself or warning every lady, it reduces your value greatly.

Btw i'm missed Thesonofmark and lalasticlala so much.

Correct. Mortal kombat

Jade woun't you fight over Phyno?

hmm

Story for the gods

So true i agree with u

When the devil is set to pursue a woman from her marriage she would start by checking her husband's phone instead of her to find out whether her father, grandfather and great grandfather were ever faithful to their wives - Mugabe (2016)

this is so true...and sometimes the guy in question isnt worth the stress...

am not suprise cus most of the them don't have value in the first place, so there is nothing to lose..

Even if its your husband?

chydii:
Even if its your husband?

Even if its husband yes i wont fight bt b graciuos take care of my kids

If u as a wife nd a mother is fyting for a grown up man who knows wat is right nd wrong yet wont do d ryt thing

Who is goin to bring up d innocent kids well in sound morals so as nt to b gullible like deir dad

If husband starts misbehaving my kids becomes my priority cos tru dem my legacy lives long

halfricanadian:
So true i agree with u

A guy that knows his value wouldn't give ladies reason to fight over him.

So you no go fight if Dangote na your husband?

Kondomatik:
A guy that knows his value wouldn't give ladies reason to fight over him.

Hmmmmmm true

Kondomatik:
A guy that knows his value wouldn't give ladies reason to fight over him.

Hmmmmmm true
Funny one is dat nt every one dat fyts over u wants u or truly loves u dey do dat for wat dey wud gain from u dats all

Females on NL can form Jane bond sha...

Hope when you see your fiance or that guy you've rubber stamped as husband materi start flirting with different women tomorrow ya'll will jejely break off the relationship and not fight for love.

If you don't do stupid / childish things, then you not in love.

My 2cents.

So, does it mean you gonna fold your arms and watch another woman snatch your Godfearing, caring and loving husband/boyfriend from you....no, i think thats cowardise @miss op.

jade+kitana=front page

youngest85:
jade+kitana=front page

Stop the ass licking.

makydebbie:
this is so true...and sometimes the guy in question isnt worth the stress...

and if he's worth the stress, what'll you do??

That was how my neighbor's daughter had her face stabbed with a bottle and completely disfigured by her boyfriend's ex. The girl who did this is yet to be arrested and the stupid boyfriend is showing 'I don't care attitude " he even drove her out of his house.

She stay in the hospital for two months, I wonder why girls waste their lives cos of a man. What is she fighting for?? Now she paid with her face!

I can't fight with a woman over a man, never. It's not worth the shiiiiiiiit!

Ramon92:
and if he's worth the stress, what'll you do??

pray

i agree wiv u op,neva fight ova a guy,its nt worth it

A woman that fights/attacks another lady b'cos of her man instead of facing the man is the bigger coward.

firstking01:
So, does it mean you gonna fold your arms and watch another woman snatch your Godfearing, caring and loving husband/boyfriend from you....no, i think thats cowardise @miss op.

Jadekitana:
It's very simple, if someone isn't into you don't force it. You don't only disgrace yourself, the respect is totally gone. People fall out of love for one reason or the other, trying to force them to come back wouldn't help the situation.

I and my friends were having a ladies night out and a dude came to say hi. Ofcourse I greeted him back because he didn't mean any harm, he was just being friendly. And 30mins later some random lady walks into the rest room to ask me funny questions in an authoritative way.

I'm like e gba mi o, do I know you? Are u a police? Go ask your boyfriend why he came to our table or are u gonna warn every lady here.

For the ladies who do that shit of policing your bfs, going through his phone and all, is that gonna change the fact that he may meet someone fantastic tomorrow and dump you? Most of these guys are seriously choked, they want out. And being too possessive and dramatic worsens everything! If your man is cheating, use your senses and leave. If u can't, settle things amicably. Don't go about asking all his friends about him, killing yourself or warning every lady, it reduces your value greatly.

Btw i'm missed Thesonofmark and lalasticlala so much.

oh my goodness you completely expressed the way I feel... like I'm so stunned this is exactly what I've been trying to tell people

Ginaz:
That was how my neighbor's daughter had her face stabbed with a bottle and completely disfigured by her boyfriend's ex. The girl who did this is yet to be arrested and the stupid boyfriend is showing 'I don't care attitude " he even drove her out of his house.

She stay in the hospital for two months, I wonder why girls waste their lives cos of a man. What is she fighting for?? Now she paid with her face!

I can't fight with a woman over a man, never. It's not worth the shiiiiiiiit!

So, what has d bf got to do with the bf being Stupîd? U said ex-gf, which means he ain't even cheating on d new gf, so, na him fault say d ex never got over him? Thus, stabbing the other girl? U really don't know why he is behaving the way he does, u really don't know ur nebos dota's contributions into what brot d fight in d 1st place. Abi na d boy talk say make d ex stab him current bae?

So, why is he now termed "stupid"?

See as dem de contradict demselves. 1. Dey are not worth it, 2. Girls who fight over a guy is doing so because of what she will gain from him.

If number 2 is correct, then it makes number 1 invalid. Btw, it came from d same person.