Good morning romancelanders, hope y'all are doing
good, anyway I created a thread few weeks ago
here https://www.nairaland.com/3085244/need-advice-please-read which I followed some advice
posted in the comments.
Well, I went ahead to give my girlfriend the money
she asked for, and she promised to stay, though I
was happy a little at first but still filled with doubts.
The following day, I was unable to pick her calls
throughout because I was busy at work and the
next day, she called and I asked her to come over
to see me at my house, though I was very ill
because of the sadness and depression I had when
she was threatening me she's leaving.
Anyway, she told me she's working somewhere so
she refused my invitation. then I called one of her
close friend living nearby her to confirm if she's
really going to work and I felt more sad when her
friend told me she is at home. well she came
4(four) days after my invitation. I was excited
though she did not even spend up to an hour before
she left, she didn't let me touch her (not sex) just
to hold her hands or even just a Peck and when I
tried to force a Peck on her cheek, she pushed me
away and walked out. ever since she's been rude
and not submissive at all when I call her, she
shouts on phone and sometimes hissed and hung
up. a lot of excuses are not left whenever I ask her
to come over, it's so unusual unlike before.
Anyway, I decided to go meet her somewhere to
ask her what was wrong again, she told me nothing
that she's got a job somewhere at her aunt's place
which we both know it's a lie and even before
finishing our discussion, she hissed and walked out
of my sight leaving me standing in front of crowd
with her junior sister present, peeps I felt
humiliated, I've never been humiliated like that in
my life and much more because of a woman, I felt
sad,
Anyway to cut long story short, I had give her a
break, she didn't call, I didn't call her for like a
week+, I stayed strong, I had that feelings that
there are other fishes in the sea and I invited a
friend to discuss it with which I got some points
that boosted my ego of letting her go. Though I
grief sometimes but I didn't let it weigh me down.
So anyway she called me last night and asked why
she haven't seen my call that it's been up to a
week now, I told her I was busy and I had to make
it short, (not giving her much time) to talk more so
I told her not to waste her call card so I hung up.
Then I see sent a text after which read thus " You
treated me so cheap after I begged you and did
what you asked me to do for you, I believed every
word you said, but you changed your feelings &
behavior thereafter, I'm not that cheap to beg
someone to stay. you humiliated me, you made me
feel worthless, but I'm not."
She has called me this morning again to explain
some things to clarify her walking away in front of
the crowd the other time, she did not apologize
though, she said no word of apology just
explanations so I told her to take care of herself
and I hung up.
That's all.
Now I'm worried of what to do next, please advise

Do u really need us to tell you to let go?

I just don't gerrit

Twaci:
Do u really need us to tell you to let go?
I just don't gerrit

naso

I will Tell you what next to do...........Slam your head your on the wall 7 times....if you dont know what to do after that, then your case is hopeless.

Hmmm, you still dey here dey aks qwesion. I beg let her go. I'm sure there's someone playing the surugede dance for her else she won't treat you like shit.

The earlier you let her go the better for you or else she will keep using you and you will keep begging.

So d handwriting on d wall is stil not clear to u. Whc kind advice u want again.Ur girlfriend maltreated u ds way and dont u kno she's no more interested in d relationship again? She cant evn apologized cus of her ego, and here u are seekn 4 advice. Dere are beta ladies out dre, dat wil treat u with respect if u give dem d chance. Focus more on ur career and urslf, true love wil find u one day.

guy u fall my hand ooo... look for another babe jor

Gee.... let her go. the moment she started the threat of leaving u, she lost it (she lost her position). Let her gO..... she ain't worth it

jst allow it continue like dis......develop dis non challant attitude towards her....

wait wait wait. she lied about being pregnant to get money from you and then says she is no longer interested in the relationship but would stay only if you give her money.

Boy if you don't get outta here with this bs.......
na by force to love? see how you are being treated because you are pnssy whipped. The worst part is you stupidly gave her the money just to keep her in a relationship she doesn't want to be in (prostitution)

i will give you no advice because you continue to be blinded by pnssy

OK so thanks y'all for all your advises, but one thing is still bothering me cos I still use to see her in my dream and sometimes I miss her, I still think about her almost everyday when I sleep and wake up. And at the same time I still grief sometimes, I think I'm still in love with her but I'm really trying to be more stronger to let go because of the way she's been acting rudely back then before the last time she called me, but since the then she hasn't called. though she was so sober when last we talked on phone unlike before that she used to shout and hang up angrily. please what can I do now, I think I'm losing it I've never been in love like this ever since I've been dating, it still hard for me to let go of her I'm just pretending to be strong