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Please Read, Advice Me by Djbond(m): 11:33am On May 31, 2016 |
Good morning romancelanders, hope y'all are doing good, anyway I created a thread few weeks ago here https://www.nairaland.com/3085244/need-advice-please-read which I followed some advice posted in the comments. Well, I went ahead to give my girlfriend the money she asked for, and she promised to stay, though I was happy a little at first but still filled with doubts. The following day, I was unable to pick her calls throughout because I was busy at work and the next day, she called and I asked her to come over to see me at my house, though I was very ill because of the sadness and depression I had when she was threatening me she's leaving. Anyway, she told me she's working somewhere so she refused my invitation. then I called one of her close friend living nearby her to confirm if she's really going to work and I felt more sad when her friend told me she is at home. well she came 4(four) days after my invitation. I was excited though she did not even spend up to an hour before she left, she didn't let me touch her (not sex) just to hold her hands or even just a Peck and when I tried to force a Peck on her cheek, she pushed me away and walked out. ever since she's been rude and not submissive at all when I call her, she shouts on phone and sometimes hissed and hung up. a lot of excuses are not left whenever I ask her to come over, it's so unusual unlike before. Anyway, I decided to go meet her somewhere to ask her what was wrong again, she told me nothing that she's got a job somewhere at her aunt's place which we both know it's a lie and even before finishing our discussion, she hissed and walked out of my sight leaving me standing in front of crowd with her junior sister present, peeps I felt humiliated, I've never been humiliated like that in my life and much more because of a woman, I felt sad, Anyway to cut long story short, I had give her a break, she didn't call, I didn't call her for like a week+, I stayed strong, I had that feelings that there are other fishes in the sea and I invited a friend to discuss it with which I got some points that boosted my ego of letting her go. Though I grief sometimes but I didn't let it weigh me down. So anyway she called me last night and asked why she haven't seen my call that it's been up to a week now, I told her I was busy and I had to make it short, (not giving her much time) to talk more so I told her not to waste her call card so I hung up. Then I see sent a text after which read thus " You treated me so cheap after I begged you and did what you asked me to do for you, I believed every word you said, but you changed your feelings & behavior thereafter, I'm not that cheap to beg someone to stay. you humiliated me, you made me feel worthless, but I'm not." She has called me this morning again to explain some things to clarify her walking away in front of the crowd the other time, she did not apologize though, she said no word of apology just explanations so I told her to take care of herself and I hung up. That's all. Now I'm worried of what to do next, please advise |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by Twaci(f): 11:42am On May 31, 2016 |
Do u really need us to tell you to let go? I just don't gerrit ![]() |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by kratosonofzeus: 11:43am On May 31, 2016 |
Twaci:naso 1 Like |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:46am On May 31, 2016 |
I will Tell you what next to do...........Slam your head your on the wall 7 times....if you dont know what to do after that, then your case is hopeless. |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by LifeIsSoEasy: 11:47am On May 31, 2016 |
Hmmm, you still dey here dey aks qwesion. I beg let her go. I'm sure there's someone playing the surugede dance for her else she won't treat you like shit. The earlier you let her go the better for you or else she will keep using you and you will keep begging. |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by tee59(f): 12:20pm On May 31, 2016 |
So d handwriting on d wall is stil not clear to u. Whc kind advice u want again.Ur girlfriend maltreated u ds way and dont u kno she's no more interested in d relationship again? She cant evn apologized cus of her ego, and here u are seekn 4 advice. Dere are beta ladies out dre, dat wil treat u with respect if u give dem d chance. Focus more on ur career and urslf, true love wil find u one day. |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by sirjakez(m): 12:21pm On May 31, 2016 |
guy u fall my hand ooo... look for another babe jor |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by ndujekwu(m): 12:28pm On May 31, 2016 |
Gee.... let her go. the moment she started the threat of leaving u, she lost it (she lost her position). Let her gO..... she ain't worth it |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by crismark(m): 1:11pm On May 31, 2016 |
jst allow it continue like dis......develop dis non challant attitude towards her.... |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by VampireeM(f): 1:34pm On May 31, 2016 |
please dump her insensitive a$ss!! That gal wants to manipulate you and keep you as a maga cause she knows she you truly love her.. IMO, ignore her completely whether she calls or not, even though it hurt |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by omega25red(m): 1:40pm On May 31, 2016 |
wait wait wait. she lied about being pregnant to get money from you and then says she is no longer interested in the relationship but would stay only if you give her money. Boy if you don't get outta here with this bs....... na by force to love? see how you are being treated because you are pnssy whipped. The worst part is you stupidly gave her the money just to keep her in a relationship she doesn't want to be in (prostitution) i will give you no advice because you continue to be blinded by pnssy |
Re: Please Read, Advice Me by Djbond(m): 11:16am On Jun 02, 2016 |
OK so thanks y'all for all your advises, but one thing is still bothering me cos I still use to see her in my dream and sometimes I miss her, I still think about her almost everyday when I sleep and wake up. And at the same time I still grief sometimes, I think I'm still in love with her but I'm really trying to be more stronger to let go because of the way she's been acting rudely back then before the last time she called me, but since the then she hasn't called. though she was so sober when last we talked on phone unlike before that she used to shout and hang up angrily. please what can I do now, I think I'm losing it I've never been in love like this ever since I've been dating, it still hard for me to let go of her I'm just pretending to be strong |
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