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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 8:03pm On Jun 02, 2016
dannyben5:
My third quest.ladies what is that 1 thing that can make you not to trust him anylonger? Cc:all the ladies here
Once he gives me a reason not to. Could be a lie or so.....
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 8:03pm On Jun 02, 2016
dannyben5:
av been observing, now my quest.why is it that girls can never summon the courage to walk up to a guy she like even if she dying inside to have that guy?


This cos our tradition sees it as a taboo for a girl to ask a guy out.

I created a thread saying am crushing on a guy nd pple started calling me names nd insulting me. Why cos is a taboo is not right.
But I will prefer those insult than dying inside me wit d feeling.

As d saying goes is better to express ur feeling to someone than to keep quite nd die in silence cos of wat d society wil say.

Is better to talk nd die than keep quite nd die.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 8:03pm On Jun 02, 2016
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 8:04pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


Ha lol . Its up to you guys o. Twaci did a very good job by creating this thread so u guys should take a cue wink
Thanks dear. You all made it happen kiss
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:
Keep the questions coming guys cheesy

Ia.mlegend1
Mu.va
S.lyisaac
J.ubrealguy
l.ezz
What's tat one food you are can't eat without shuting your eyes to savor the taste?? (500 marks) grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
charijee:
Watch out for any woman who pretends to be comfortable with your side chick....Once again, I say, watch out

What happens to loving and staffing just one ...by so doing......you've wisely shielded yourself against so many pickles
For me, I don't cheat tongue I'm a 'one lady' dude
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
Susan404,
What's the fastest,surest way to your heart..... I wanna travel tat path...embarassed embarassed
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 8:06pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
lol....you never jam grin
Them nor plenty na. Majority will rather wait for the guy.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Maxi112: 8:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
kaziblake:
it's my business cos I'm a member here
stop ass licking my moniker, I owe u know explanation


bye for now
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 8:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
Smellymouth:
How does putting on eyeliner work?

I feel like the process resembles something from a "SAW" movie and I can’t understand how a pencil around such a sensitive area isn’t excruciating.



Lol for me I dont know cos I dont apply eyeliner or any form of make ups on my face.
Those who does dis wil tell u better.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl

Cutehector.. You know your babe better and that's why every relationship must go through the "getting to know each other better phase"

What rocks my boat could sink yours.

Your babe might be the type that loves you pestering her consistently until she forgives you. And on the other hand, she might prefer that you just allow her to cool off ,then apologize.

It all boils down to one thing... "Understand your partner"

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MUVA(m): 8:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
I must give one girl belle inside this thread today grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 8:08pm On Jun 02, 2016
ireneony:
to us it marks a new beginning in our sexual life.
Cos it's our pride..
Our first encounter (sex) is very painful.
For a lady to give her virginity to a man, she must have really love him.

After from virginity, women don't forget the men they sleep with. They always keep count.

It's just like the first time I got admission...
Are you stating this based on facts or just stereotypes?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 8:09pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijaboiy:
Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.

more often than not, the make bestie is the guy most girls have as the emotional seatbelt.

You talk to him when you have issues with your man and he gives you advice from a man's point of view.

It's not necessary per say, but I guess that depends on the girl in question. It's generally not advisable.

By 'you' do you mean the boyfriend (lover) or the girl?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Laveda(f): 8:09pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijaboiy:
Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.


Well, personally, there's absolutely no need for a male bestie when I'm in a serious relationship cheesy
My boyfriend must possess everything I see in that so called bestie.

There's every possibility that such relationship might escalate into something else if she's one who's emotionally weak.

I do not advise such. angry

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by charijee(f): 8:09pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
For me, I don't cheat tongue I'm a 'one lady' dude
Yeah right, you don't tongue...
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jun 02, 2016
MUVA:
I must give one girl belle inside this thread today grin

Oya go to bed undecided
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kaziblake(f): 8:11pm On Jun 02, 2016
Maxi112:
stop ass licking my moniker, I owe u know explanation


bye for now
Ass licking kwa?
Shior! Abeg shift

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 02, 2016
slyIsaac:
Susan404,
What's the fastest,surest way to your heart..... I wanna travel tat path...embarassed embarassed

Let OGA smelly catch you. My hand no dey ooo
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 8:11pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

And how many girls will make the first move on the first date?

Don't be a joker. grin



A lot of ladies who think dat intimacy nd sex r part of them. Some ladies date cos of sex dont forget dat.

But if she doesnt make any form of move or reaction or body language than know dat u av to keep off ur mind frm intimacy or sex frm ur mind.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ireneony(f): 8:12pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

Are you stating this based on facts or just stereotypes?
no..

base on myself
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Purpletee(f): 8:12pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl

Depends on how serious the offense is.
Just apologise immediately then give her some space before apologizing again.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MUVA(m): 8:13pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:

Oya go to bed undecided
Bad belle grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 8:13pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
more often than not, the make bestie is the guy most girls have as the emotional seatbelt.

You talk to him when you have issues with your man and he gives you advice from a man's point of view.

It's not necessary per say, but I guess that depends on the girl in question. It's generally not advisable.

By 'you' do you mean the boyfriend (lover) or the girl?
I mean the girl.

More often than not girls who are involved in this always see nothing bad in it. They think they can control it and that their boyfriends are unnecessarily territorial & jealous but when things happen they begin to look for excuses.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jun 02, 2016
charijee:
Yeah right, you don't tongue...
Oh, thank God she knows grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


Let OGA smelly catch you. My hand no dey ooo
For suzy,am ready to battle it with anyborry o...


You no answer my own question o....
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by zicoraads: 8:16pm On Jun 02, 2016
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijaboiy: 8:17pm On Jun 02, 2016
Laveda:


Well, personally, there's absolutely no need for a male bestie when I'm in a serious relationship cheesy
My boyfriend must possess everything I see in that so called bestie.

There's every possibility that such relationship might escalate into something else if she's one who's emotionally weak.

I do not advise such. angry
Okay...that's cool.

But at the bolded you should know your boyfriend cannot possess everything you see. The main thing is if he is trying his best then you should have no problem, cos even you as a girl cannot possess everything he is looking for.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 8:17pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl
For her to be your girlfriend, you must know how she thinks.

Does she believe in true but fast apology or one who believes everything should be handled at a slow pace?

You must also know about gifts. Will she see gift giving as a cheap way to get forgiven or a sincere gesture.

If you do not know either of this, approach her with a humble, not too flashy gift and ask for her forgiveness. If she refuses, go through her friends. If this still don't work, give her time to cool off.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 8:17pm On Jun 02, 2016
dannyben5:
My second quest.is a girl's love more pure than that of a guy? Cc:twaci and others


Dis question hard oooo, for my opinion no one love's is pure for each other cos no one is perfect u cant say who is pure nd not.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 8:18pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijaboiy:

I mean the girl.

More often than not girls who are involved in this always see nothing bad in it. They think they can control it and that their boyfriends are unnecessarily territorial & jealous but when things happen they begin to look for excuses.

I once read a relationship article when I was 14 and the expert said, having friends of the opposite swx while in a relationship is wrong, back then I only had male friends so I didn't see the biggie.

But guys are very possessive people, so, I think girls who think rolling with another guy while in a relationship is cool are immature and need to get their priorities examined

If you're with someone, you should respect said person enough to minimize or cut off ties with people of the opposite sex. If your bestie thought you were that awesome, he would've made a move before your guy got to you....

Some girls are just greedy, the more male attention, the better. It gets them high

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 8:18pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl


The first thing is to apologize(very very important) cause you don't want her thinking you feel no remorse. Then you let her cool it off and then you apologize again and again till she accepts grin

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