naijaboiy:
Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.

safarigirl:
I once read a relationship article when I was 14 and the expert said, having friends of the opposite swx while in a relationship is wrong, back then I only had male friends so I didn't see the biggie.
But guys are very possessive people, so, I think girls who think rolling with another guy while in a relationship is cool are immature and need to get their priorities examined
If you're with someone, you should respect said person enough to minimize or cut off ties with people of the opposite sex. If your bestie thought you were that awesome, he would've made a move before your guy got to you....
Some girls are just greedy, the more male attention, the better. It gets them high

I Love this!

The only problem I have with some girls is that they can give advises but they may not follow it.

I hope you're not one?

dannyben5:
My second quest.is a girl's love more pure than that of a guy? Cc:twaci and others

naijaboiy:
Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.

Good question

Having a male bestie is as important as having a female bestie, it all depends on the lady's choice. Some of us prefer a guy to a lady.

It is necessary, for me, I dont know about others, it's nice to have someone to talk to when you're confused about some certain things going on in your relationship, guys tend to know things about theirselves, and they give good advice, a good bestie can advice me on how to handle my relationship because he knows better.


Handling a bestie and a lover requires a lot of maturity, a lady should know where to draw the line between her boyfriend and her bestie, and try not to do things that will make her lover feel insecure or jealous, she should give them different treatments..."I guess the ladies will understand what I mean here"

mhiz:


I don't really believe in having besties. But I believe the male friends helps us put things in perspective when we're having problems with our partners. IMO sha.

Twaci:
Good day nairalanders!

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help

Ladies in the house! Who's up?

Laveda
Diddyydiva
Adeh39
Lanicky
Omotayor123
Dollyjoy
Refiner
Ivyy or ivvy
Mimzy
Optional1
Mysticalgal
Farano
Safarigirl
Misspicy
Ishilove
Estharfabian
Michellla
Cherryice
Sinaj
Missmary
Charijee
Taashamania
Dechanel
Tohphaz....
.
.
...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun

slyIsaac:

What's tat one food you are can't eat without shuting your eyes to savor the taste?? (500 marks)

naijaboiy:

I Love this!

The only problem I have with some girls is that they can give advises but they may not follow it.

I hope you're not one?

Cutehector:
Fifth question

If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?


Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.




So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl

adeh39:



Good question

Having a male bestie is as important as having a female bestie, it all depends on the lady's choice. Some of us prefer a guy to a lady.

It is necessary, for me, I dont know about others, it's nice to have someone to talk to when you're confused about some certain things going on in your relationship, guys tend to know things about theirselves, and they give good advice, a good bestie can advice me on how to handle my relationship because he knows better.


Handling a bestie and a lover requires a lot of maturity, a lady should know where to draw the line between her boyfriend and her bestie, and try not to do things that will make her lover feel insecure or jealous, she should give them different treatments..."I guess the ladies will understand what I mean here"

zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

mimzy:

Ha lolz. This one pass me oooo

naijamakossa:
my last question

why do ladies find it very difficult to forget about the one that break their virginity or their first lover even when they are already dating someone else

I bet any guy in this room they are ready to leave u for that dude that break their virginity or their first lover


so ladies why

mimzy:


Ha lol . Its up to you guys o. Twaci did a very good job by creating this thread so u guys should take a cue

naijaboiy:

But I hope you know that in every 10 male friends for example, about 9 will not mind going beneath the sheets with you.

I have a lot of friends who always give me tales of girls they've slept with who have boyfriends.

So when those guys get into serious relationships they are wary of those guys coming in the disguise of friendship cos they know those guys also have the same intention like they did to other people's girlfriends while they were single.

zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

naijaboiy:

I respect your opinion. But are you trying to say you can't make mature relationship decisions without involving a 3rd party?

If I check very well most of the so called problems are just petty quarrels that will naturally fizzle out when you are both settled.

Why do you feel there is a need to let someone else know? Why do you feel you must have an emotional trash can?

Lastly, I don't think it's balanced to compare having a female bestie with a male bestie. First of all most guys in serious relationship don't do female besties, I guess you know what having a female friend means to most guys.

Secondly, female besties don't always do the "job" male besties do for you girls so more often than not they are hardly threats to girls.

zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

SAINTSAMURAII:
LADIES do u know that the sperm from a guy's big penis can be used to cure pimples, black spots and all facial problems? ladies have u tried applying semen on your faces? cc twaci, ivyy, mimzy and others

STFUareyouG0d:
Ireneony why you ignoring me?


That's my question for you

safarigirl:
the more excruciating thing is applying mascara IMO.

The eyeliner wish can get messy before you get it right, but it's pretty straightforward as opposed to drawing a brow...i'm yet to get the hang of drawing brows

optional1:
Am off gotta read mention my name if u want me to ans any question.


See u guys later!

Twaci:
Now this might be true as I have read articles to back it up.

But I don't think I have the guts to try out it....yet.

naijaboiy:
Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.

chisco82:

I agree with her bro. Provided she choose the right person, the right advice and the right issue to seek advice for.
You just said it that there are pretty quarrels, that means there could be ones that a not.
She talks about drwing a line and that is very important.
Kudos to that girl~adeh99