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Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by goodfornothing(m): 10:18am On Feb 22, 2016 |
poshestmina:Nonsense! |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Amhappy(f): 11:05am On Feb 22, 2016 |
goodfornothing: There is no law that defines how marriage is being run. The couple,society and situations are what determine what happens in any home. To say a woman's assistance is complimentary where she is the sole provider or the major provider in her home is like not being true to reality. In an ideal case a woman's role is complimentary however there is no idealism any where in the world. If you want to be sincere to yourself you will agree that Nigeria is tough and most women are playing roles that they are not supposed to be playing in a normal day even in the most difficult situation. The average life span in Nigeria is between 50-60 and most times men dies first leaving their wives with little or nothing. Most widows trained their kids single handedly unlike in the past where the family of the late husband will take over the duty. Her income is compulsory. There are men who are sick,bedridden and cannot work,their wives income is not complimentary,it is compulsory. There are those who have retired or were retrenched,their wives income is very compulsory. There are many Nigerian graduates who are underemployed in Nigeria and cannot afford the basics of good food,shelter and education. Their wives income is very compulsory. You are the same guys who goes about accusing Nigerian girls of being lazy,not being supportive and waiting for already made man but your ego will not even allow you at the same time to appreciate and acknowledge that their effort is needed. My dear i don't believe in idealism because i live in reality. If you want to take statistics,you can start from your family(father's and mother's side) and your friends,you will get like 50 families. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by bukatyne(f): 1:24pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Mamatee07: Well I have since learnt that different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
ronald4lif:My dear tell him ok. Probably he is the type dat wont touch his crying baby on d bed,instead he will go call d wife pounding cocoyam for soup in d kitchen to comw pick up d baby. Its so touching dat women dez days do d jobs of d supposed man of d hse n still do theirs too. A loving and caring man wouldnt mind cooking for his family even when his woman is sound n less busy. Uderstanding differs sha. All men wan marry woman wey get source of income. So its also good u knw how to do domestic chores as well...i rest my case 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Creamish(f): 1:51pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
DeMekus: What happens when she's sick of heavily pregnant? Or maybe work takes her away on course or some kinda meeting? Would you resort to burger and fries till she returns? Should she in her condition cook for U? hmm.. Well as a woman, it's best U study the man U are dating before U marry him.. So U don't come writing Tales by Moonlight when trivial issues like this come up. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by DeMekus: 9:51am On Feb 27, 2016 |
Creamish:LOL! I guess the emboldened also applies to searching bachelors. Don't marry a lady who believes her man must share the kitchen routine with her. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by bummyla(m): 9:47am On Jun 03, 2016 |
Sorry Bros! O Enjoying Cooking! I Spend Greater Time In The Kitchen Than Else where in the house! And I Do Not Wear Or tie Apron! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by goodfornothing(m): 9:37am On Jun 12, 2016 |
bummyla:Very wrong. The kitchen is not in your jurisdiction. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 12, 2016 |
What if you lose your wife and become a widower, won't you still enter kitchen to prepare food for your kids? |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Sometimes the way you comment I usually feel na me dey talk. Thanks for dropping the knowledge bomb before me |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:13pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
DeMekus: You still haven't answered the question. Should the African woman stay at home and wait for the man to bring in the bacon? Since it was un-African in those days for the woman to work. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:19pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Cammo: But it happens. That's that real world not fantasy. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:23pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
When I see topics like this, Im just not bothered. Like they say whatever floats your boat mate. If you like cook for your family, if you like insist its a woman's job. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by DeMekus: 4:38pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:I've always maintained that a man should allow his wife exercise her freewill if it wouldn't ruin their marriage. Most women hate being the sit-all-day-at-home housewives, especially the educated ones. They like to engage in activities that relates to their course of study; primarily for its practicality before monetary benefits for family support. It doesn't matter if the husband is rich or not. So it would be unwise to try to stop them. Notwithstanding, the kitchen belongs to the woman as making financial provisions for the family belongs to the man. It's not debatable! |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by bummyla(m): 11:08pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
goodfornothing: Na You Talk Am! Come Pursue Me! LOL! |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Amicable24: 10:53am On Jun 13, 2016 |
PresVA:A million likes for you jor |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
goodfornothing: God bless you. God bless me with a man who knows his responsibility as a husband and father, and bless him immensely well to be able to take care of his family with me adequately, without complains and bless me enough to be supportive and be a good wife, Amen... By God's grace , i will not be a Man in my marriage. Amen oooo. |
Re: Men Are Not Supposed To Be In The Kitchen. by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:12pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
DeMekus: Its very debatable but that's your opinion. No one was born with an apron, the first man to cook was Jacob in the bible when he made porridge for Esau. |
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