Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

You reason like a cretin!

So, in this 21stcentury, you just want to sit your lazy ass at home and start reproducing babies everywhere?

And someone like you will still come to the fore and champion the gender equality bill?

Now, I see the reason why Nigerian women would forever be below Nigerian men and would always be treated like trash!

Amelian:



Of course i will support, but dont ask blantantly what am i bringing to the table.. As if thats what you are after.. Its very crude and unsensible.. A goodwife always supports her husband , i dont dispute such.. Asking , makes u look like a gold digger..

No man will know that you are 17 in number in this austerity moment and not ask you what you are bringing to the table

And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table...I wonder why God didn't bring me in the early generation where men are Men.

Do you still need an explanation?

misspicy:

Obviously you chose to read her post upside down or to suit your understanding


She meant she wants to marry a man who is capable of taking care of her and does not demand or expect her to bring anything to the table

which is her choice and she is entitled to it and should not be called shameless,because there is no shame in that

2 baba is 41...let's see when he gets to Oga bello's age..lol

Perfecttouch:
2baba is a learner

Amelian:





Awwh! Funny but the rich ones will not ask u what are u bringing to the table... And thats fact.

All these quotations u r making is over rated..

yes, you may say that..
but real women wont settle down being dependent on men's wealth..

Where is the 18th one? I count 17&1/4 people plus a bodyless hand in that picture and one of them is the factory himself I believe (from the topic). Op, hope you aren't misleading us?
Guy are u for real or u are joking. Haba u Don see 1/4 person before. Abeg if na joke make u stop am o. [color=#990000][/color]

[quote author=Solitude101 post=46303555]Where is the 18th one? I count 17&1/4 people plus a bodyless hand in that picture and one of them is the factory himself I believe (from the topic). Op, hope you aren't misleading us? [/quote


Bro, u get time to count?

misspicy:

Why should she,that is her choice and she is okay with it

we all have difference preference



BTW long time daretodiffer

Yea longtime daretodiffer
I pray u ladies will not marry a man that will beat u up because u refuse to give him 100naira.
Read most of the tales going on between couples who are having it hard financially, its either the man breaks his wife head or the wife breaks his head or even stab and cut to pieces.
Poverty is a disese and curse, please reject , dont welcome poverty into yur lives..
Simple!

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

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Omo beere Osi beere

Amelian:




Yes for this economy.. I have married friend, when he was single, started selling fish , all types of fish,and chicken with assorted, then he graduated to having two cold rooms and a shop, he bought a car and married a very beautiful Lady. She wasnt working o. Then before 1year, their child came, before 3years they had another one.. The wife became bored at home and wanted to work, the guy now opened a supermarket shop for her some spaces after his own shop.
Now the guy is into film making and also managing his cold room.. His wife and kids and so robust, u go pray to marry.. That my friend is a very kind man .. God will bless him.

Do u think is by wearing coat and tie ? Trekking all around marina looking for marketing jobs..
Life don pass that stage o...

All the top jobs have been taken, there are no jobs out there... Sit down and think what u can use yur brain and hands for to make money...
Leave white collar job alone..
A whole lekki, there was no welder.. The company had to come to mainland to take welder who will work for them.... Can u imagine?
Siddon there dey do, white collar.

And u think u are making sense with nonsense u are saying? Man and woman combine together to build a good future. What of if there are financial challenges for ur man in future which I'm sure may happen. U will leave him for another rich and comfortable man. Life is not a bird of roses. If u are looking for a very comfortable single guy in this era, u go old o. Thing started booming for me 5 years into my marriage. That's why I can't look at any other woman cos my wife bears a lot for me.

demeele:
Omo beere Osi beere

Siddon there... U hear?
A colleague of mine got married, to a guy. Not knowing the guy is jobless but deceived her that he had a job. She and the guy split the wedding bills into two.. Only God knows where d guy got his own money from. After bn married , she moved into the guy self contained flat believing things will be better.. All through the first year she was feeding both of them and giving him transport fare .. Believing things go better.. Landlord came , to swallow shame she paid the rent.. She was living like this for two and half years, when one day , she didnt have money to give to him.
The slap the guy gave her that minute , she was shocked.. She had to remove her last 500naira and give the guy.
That day she packed out of his house, and went to stay with her gf. To cut long story short, she has divorced him and remarried again.
Living ok nw... So ladies, who are castigating me, in Jesus name. U all will marry poor men..... Amin Jesu..!

OGA BELLO, OLU AIYE FOSHOFOSHO.... I THUA NOBODY BUT I THUA . SHAN SIR!

OGA BELLO, OLU AIYE FOSHOFOSHO.... I THUA NOBODY BUT I THUA . YOU SHAN SIR!

carammel:
This one has only 18? Try barrister and Kwam 1

kwam 1 na boss.

Amelian:



Of course i will support, but dont ask blantantly what am i bringing to the table.. As if thats what you are after.. Its very crude and unsensible.. A goodwife always supports her husband , i dont dispute such.. Asking , makes u look like a gold digger..

Babe, say no more

And some people will call Tuface Father Of All Nations...




What would you call this na?

AuroraB:
Babe, say no more

Thanks dear... U are the only with good reading eyes and brains to understand..
God bless u dear. .amen...*blowing million kisses 2 u..

Chanchit:
this man na real oga

hehehe that one don form small villa o

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

proud gold digging cvnt spotted people!!! The sad thing is the trash you just wrote makes sense to you!!!!!! Glorified LovePeddler!!!!

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

Nice perspective for saying men are not meeting up but I can bet your mum never asked for Brazilian hair and predominantly contented with whatever your dad could afford unlike the ladies of today who want everything while giving back nothing. However good and responsible men and women still exists.

Wizkid5555:

Wayo man! MTN credit scam... Let me get you there! Idiot!!!

perfectgen:


Nice perspective for saying men are not meeting up but I can bet your mum never asked for Brazilian hair and predominantly contented with whatever your dad could afford unlike the ladies of today who want everything while giving back nothing. However good and responsible men and women still exists.

My mum didnt fix brazillian hair, i dont fix brazillian and i dont intend to ask the man i wil.marry to buy for me, cause i see it as waste of money.. Any weavon i fix goes well with my looks.. I dont need brazillian hair to be drop dead gergous
. Not all ladies want those unnecessary vain things. Someone like me, i dont go to parties, except he or she is so close to me and untop of that my close friends know me, giving me aso ebi of 50k? OYO...
Tell me the colour code and i will wear what i can lay my hands on, but it will be very pretty and classy... Na my body, no be their body.
I wont break bank because i want to follow crowd.. Nope i wont.
Am very frugal in spending.. I only spend on basic things and my man loves me for that.

Amelian:



Thanks dear... U are the only with good reading eyes and brains to understand..
God bless u dear. .amen...*blowing million kisses 2 u..

Bless you too
I can imagine the number of mentions you got already. Pay 'em no attention biko

AuroraB:
Bless you too
I can imagine the number of mentions you got already. Pay 'em no attention biko

My dear, they are up to 25mentions.. i ignore some idiotic statements, while i reply some.. Nigerians can deceive themselves sha...i always say it as it is..
Smiles thanks dear ..

Amelian:



Siddon there... U hear?
A colleague of mine got married, to a guy. Not knowing the guy is jobless but deceived her that he had a job. She and the guy split the wedding bills into two.. Only God knows where d guy got his own money from. After bn married , she moved into the guy self contained flat believing things will be better.. All through the first year she was feeding both of them and giving him transport fare .. Believing things go better.. Landlord came , to swallow shame she paid the rent.. She was living like this for two and half years, when one day , she didnt have money to give to him.
The slap the guy gave her that minute , she was shocked.. She had to remove her last 500naira and give the guy.
That day she packed out of his house, and went to stay with her gf. To cut long story short, she has divorced him and remarried again.
Living ok nw... So ladies, who are castigating me, in Jesus name. U all will marry poor men..... Amin Jesu..!

Girrrl, ur funny. Lmao! But I will give u a better advice as a happily married woman. Don't place ur bar at riches, place ur bar at character. Caroline danjuma is rich and unhappy.

I understand everything ur saying because I have a close friend experiencing d same thing. She's from a rich home, married this guy she loved though he didn't have much. I never saw why she liked this guy cos I just didn't see him as a good man, I always thought he was more interested in her fathers money & was just an all round omoboy hustler. I guess we were raised differently. My mum always told me to marry a hardworking, responsible man like my dad. She would say 'look at how he treats his parents and close friends, does he care for them or just collects from them, how does he relate wt work colleagues, is he lazy & always complaining abt his boss/business partners/d economy, dTS how u know a good man'. U assess all d little things.

To cut d story short, my friend married & this guy kept up his irresponsible ways. She has bn paying rent for 5yrs since they got married. He doesnt know how they have light or how d children eat. D birth of her 2nd child he didn't even show up. He has had like 4 different jobs (dt she always finds for him) since they got married. Always losing it out of LAZINESS & EXCUSES. Its like a brick wall. Now she's regretting her life - she was so depressed after her last baby even she lost her job. I just pity her everyday. Now she's considering moving bk to her fathers house. They are both from d same village in plateau o. Her father is so dissappointed in his mother. They FD out all her children are useless cos none of them even take care of her.

I believe DT any man DTS not mature & responsible has no business getting married. If he's a chicken livered mamas boy DT can't use his brain and work. He has no business having kids. Obviously a good wife should be hardworking also and support her husband. Going through hard times is possible in a marriage but when u go through hard times wt a loser, d woman's life will also be hell. Even d bible says a man DT doesn't take care of his household is worse dn an infidel. 1tim5:8.

janellemonae:


Girrrl, ur funny. Lmao! But I will give u a better advice as a happily married woman. Don't place ur bar at riches, place ur bar at character. Caroline danjuma is rich and unhappy.

I understand everything ur saying because I have a close friend experiencing d same thing. She's from a rich home, married this guy she loved though he didn't have much. I never saw why she liked this guy cos I just didn't see him as a good man, I always thought he was more interested in her fathers money & was just an all round omoboy hustler. I guess we were raised differently. My mum always told me to marry a hardworking, responsible man like my dad. She would say 'look at how he treats his parents and close friends, does he care for them or just collects from them, how does he relate wt work colleagues, is he lazy & always complaining abt his boss/business partners/d economy, dTS how u know a good man'. U assess all d little things.

To cut d story short, my friend married & this guy kept up his irresponsible ways. She has bn paying rent for 5yrs since they got married. He doesnt know how they have light or how d children eat. D birth of her 2nd child he didn't even show up. He has had like 4 different jobs (dt she always finds for him) since they got married. Always losing it out of LAZINESS & EXCUSES. Its like a brick wall. Now she's regretting her life - she was so depressed after her last baby even she lost her job. I just pity her everyday. Now she's considering moving bk to her fathers house. They are both from d same village in plateau o. Her father is so dissappointed in his mother. They FD out all her children are useless cos none of them even take care of her.

I believe DT any man DTS not mature & responsible has no business getting married. If he's a chicken livered mamas boy DT can't use his brain and work. He has no business having kids. Obviously a good wife should be hardworking also and support her husband. Going through hard times is possible in a marriage but when u go through hard times wt a loser, d woman's life will also be hell. Even d bible says a man DT doesn't take care of his household is worse dn an infidel. 1tim5:8.

Exactly ma, am not just looking at riches alone, character too ,goes a longway.. Caroline danjuma is one of the unfortunate married rich women out there but Dakore Egbuson also married a rich man and shes not complaining , neither is she saying anything bad about her husband. There are two sides in every coin.. There women like caroline who cry day and night about their husband's infidlelity and they are the ones even feeding the man and the children..
Its all about good prospects, character and the man should be responsible to take care of his family..
I really pity for your friend.. What a waste of resources on such man.

@Amelian... . . I love you to pieces cos of your comment.

doveda:
I don't need a sooth sayer to be told that you are one of the ladies that would prefer a rich married man over a comfortable single guy.

You should be ashamed of yourself

what is wrong with marrying a married rich man? if he proposes, that means he finds value in her. value she should be proud of not ashamed of

Mtcheww

OlaoChi:


what is wrong with marrying a married rich man? if he proposes, that means he finds value in her. value she should be proud of not ashamed of

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
i suggest u marry ur father. . . we no want too much stress!
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

i suggest u marry ur father. . .we no want too much stress. .

ayoolanr:



proud gold digging cvnt spotted people!!! The sad thing is the trash you just wrote makes sense to you!!!!!! Glorified LovePeddler!!!!

you know this is africa. you will definitely have women in your bloodline who were 2nd or 3rd wives
be careful not to Insult your great grandmothers