ChikaSunday:


Seriously? Is this how a graduate talks in 21st Century?

what has graduate got to do with the issue of polygamy?

The value is wife's lack abi?

The rich man stood be ready to tell the world how perfect he is?

I don't have a problem with her. She is the type that doesnt give two hoots about a man. Once he fulfils his fatherly role, she is good to go however that attitude would be detrimental to others. That is my problem. She is the type that would cheat without a second thought. Yes, quote me anywhere.

OlaoChi:


what is wrong with marrying a married rich man? if he proposes, that means he finds value in her. value she should be proud of not ashamed of

doveda:
Mtcheww

One will just know, u are a guy.
And a struggling one for that matter..
Why do people like you, prefer to delude yurself

Am dating rich guy!!!!
He even placed a ring on it.......ntorrrrrr!
Suffocate and high bp, mtcheeeewww

doveda:
The value is wife's lack abi?

The rich man stood be ready to tell the world how perfect he is?

I don't have a problem with her. She is the type that doesnt give two hoots about a man. Once he fulfils his fatherly role, she is good to go however that attitude would be detrimental to others. That is my problem. She is the type that would cheat without a second thought. Yes, quote me anywhere.

U see your life?

I really shed tears for u... So u want to say all rich men are mean and wicked to their wives and are terrible cheats...? Because they are rich? While the comfortable and average men treat their wives like angels.. Really
U honestly make me laugh with your myopic thinking.
While all rich men wives cheats on their husbands... Because u are the one who created them abi? And know how their genes are wired abi? And they cheat on their husband because hes mean wicked and rich....smhhhhh..
Why do u hate success and wealth like this?

Sometimes just try and read what uv typed..
If u r destined to be poor and to remain poor , then thats yur fucvking destiny.. Then dont rub it off on others..

Joygalore:
My O my
I hope he gave them quality education?

Tuface and Wizkid are still learning

As @last 2years, 16 of dem were Graduates.... D remaining 2were undergraduates.

Amelian:



Am so proud of myself... I can NEVER and will NEVER MARRY A JOBLESS MAN OR A POOR MAN.
Comfortable single guy,? Yes ... Rich guy? Yes... No be crime to marry a rich man if he propose, they are human beings too..

So u should be ashamed of yourself, cos it seems u fall in the category of Poor..sorry dude, aint my fault.

correct brutality

I think men of this generation really have a lot of work to do in preparing our daughters for genuine partnership with their men the 21st century way...So many appalling thought pattern.

Everyone should get into a union with the basic understanding that if they are gonna make babies and raise a home, they have to both work hard towards ensuring the kids have the best. And yes it is a two people thing (finance inclusive). How does a woman say a man has no right to ask how and to what degree she's gonna contribute to the family they are about to start...even terming that gold-digging !...

With all it takes to put a single child ahead these days!....You wan born am for better country, you wan send am go schools wey get class, you wan dey carry go vacation at will, you wan raise them for the best neighborhoods yet as a woman you feel all you have to do is lay down, make babies and watch all your dreams come true!...

My honest advise to every young lady out there, including my relatives and daughter....Before you get married, envision the kinda life you want for your kids, ensure you are empowered enough to make 30 - 40 percent of such a dream come true or you are on a sure path to such an empowerment that can make it possible for you to provide up to 30-40 percent support towards the realization of such dream. Then find a man who is 60-70 percent prepared and want same things.

That way, you both achieve your dreams and the man still sees you as a strong pillar of support without whose input he would have raised a mediocre family!!!...And not some liability he had to cope with all his life

Where did I clam that all rich men are mean and wicked?

Like I said earlier, the fact that your father provided for you does not nullify the reality that you grew up without enough. You are simply the type that doesn't care. Nothing wrong with that except that it can be detrimental to some. However you and I both know that you would definitely cheat on your husband of and when you desire to.


Darling, I am relatively comfortable. Please do not compare yourself to me AT ALL.

Amelian:







U see your life?

I really shed tears for u... So u want to say all rich men are mean and wicked to their wives and are terrible cheats...? Because they are rich? While the comfortable and average men treat their wives like angels.. Really
U honestly make me laugh with your myopic thinking.
While all rich men wives cheats on their husbands... Because u are the one who created them abi? And know how their genes are wired abi? And they cheat on their husband because hes mean wicked and rich....smhhhhh..
Why do u hate success and wealth like this?

Sometimes just try and read what uv typed..
If u r destined to be poor and to remain poor , then thats yur fucvking destiny.. Then dont rub it off on others..

I am not a guy. You can ask around

No one is stopping you from aiming high but I hate the way you regard men who aren't up to your expectations.

Amelian:



One will just know, u are a guy.
And a struggling one for that matter..
Why do people like you, prefer to delude yurself

Am dating rich guy!!!!
He even placed a ring on it.......ntorrrrrr!
Suffocate and high bp, mtcheeeewww

There is nothing wrong with gold digging. My problem is when it is used to degrade others.

tunjilana:
I think men of this generation really have a lot of work to do in preparing our daughters for genuine partnership with their men the 21st century way...So many appalling thought pattern.

Everyone should get into a union with the basic understanding that if they are gonna make babies and raise a home, they have to both work hard towards ensuring the kids have the best. And yes it is a two people thing (finance inclusive). How does a woman say a man has no right to ask how and to what degree she's gonna contribute to the family they are about to start...even terming that gold-digging !...

With all it takes to put a single child ahead these days!....You wan born am for better country, you wan send am go schools wey get class, you wan dey carry go vacation at will, you wan raise them for the best neighborhoods yet as a woman you feel all you have to do is lay down, make babies and watch all your dreams come true!...

My honest advise to every young lady out there, including my relatives and daughter....Before you get married, envision the kinda life you want for your kids, ensure you are empowered enough to make 30 - 40 percent of such a dream come true or you are on a sure path to such an empowerment that can make it possible for you to provide up to 30-40 percent support towards the realization of such dream. Then find a man who is 60-70 percent prepared and want same things.

That way, you both achieve your dreams and the man still sees you as a strong pillar of support without whose input he would have raised a mediocre family!!!...And not some liability he had to cope with all his life

Amelian:



My mum didnt fix brazillian hair, i dont fix brazillian and i dont intend to ask the man i wil.marry to buy for me, cause i see it as waste of money.. Any weavon i fix goes well with my looks.. I dont need brazillian hair to be drop dead gergous
. Not all ladies want those unnecessary vain things. Someone like me, i dont go to parties, except he or she is so close to me and untop of that my close friends know me, giving me aso ebi of 50k? OYO...
Tell me the colour code and i will wear what i can lay my hands on, but it will be very pretty and classy... Na my body, no be their body.
I wont break bank because i want to follow crowd.. Nope i wont.
Am very frugal in spending.. I only spend on basic things and my man loves me for that.

If you are truly the way you described yourself, blessed and lucky is the man who marries you. Keep up the good work and stop being bothered if men ask what you are bringing to the table; your values are sufficient to encourage the man. Have a pleasant night.

tunjilana:
I think men of this generation really have a lot of work to do in preparing our daughters for genuine partnership with their men the 21st century way...So many appalling thought pattern.

Everyone should get into a union with the basic understanding that if they are gonna make babies and raise a home, they have to both work hard towards ensuring the kids have the best. And yes it is a two people thing (finance inclusive). How does a woman say a man has no right to ask how and to what degree she's gonna contribute to the family they are about to start...even terming that gold-digging !...

With all it takes to put a single child ahead these days!....You wan born am for better country, you wan send am go schools wey get class, you wan dey carry go vacation at will, you wan raise them for the best neighborhoods yet as a woman you feel all you have to do is lay down, make babies and watch all your dreams come true!...

My honest advise to every young lady out there, including my relatives and daughter....Before you get married, envision the kinda life you want for your kids, ensure you are empowered enough to make 30 - 40 percent of such a dream come true or you are on a sure path to such an empowerment that can make it possible for you to provide up to 30-40 percent support towards the realization of such dream. Then find a man who is 60-70 percent prepared and want same things.

That way, you both achieve your dreams and the man still sees you as a strong pillar of support without whose input he would have raised a mediocre family!!!...And not some liability he had to cope with all his life

Good advice sir, but the irony of it all is that most men these days want the woman to provide 80 -90 percent... While they provide 10 or 0%... No young lady is just sitting down doing nothing and waiting for one man to come and make her a baby machine.. Thats why there are lots of divorces cases and killings in marriage.. Parents should strive and teach their sons to be a leader and there are so many things that makes up a leader, while parents should also teach girls on how to be self dependent and self sufficient
Any lady that depends on a man for survival? OYO
I have good job , and am not expecting my husband to start spending frivolously on me.... He should provide the basic things, then i support in other areas... But asking me what am i bringing to the table is gold digging mehn... Possibly i will buy u a car,i will get a two bedroom flat for us and i will stock up the store room with foods abi
Make he come carry nah.
As a lady, i live in a comfortable flat, i drive a car , i eat good foods, i dont joke with homemade meals and i have a good buisness.. Just imagine if i were a guy? Will i.meet up a lady i love and ask her what is she bringing to the table?
Whatelse will she bring ? Money for food? Or money to fuel my car? When babies comes , it will be a joint effort.. Thats all.

doveda:
Where did I clam that all rich men are mean and wicked?

Like I said earlier, the fact that your father provided for you does not nullify the reality that you grew up without enough. You are simply the type that doesn't care. Nothing wrong with that except that it can be detrimental to some. However you and I both know that you would definitely cheat on your husband of and when you desire to.


Darling, I am relatively comfortable. Please do not compare yourself to me AT ALL.

God forbid, i can never ever compare myself to you... I like the way i am.
. I haveno.apologises for that.... U only assume i will cheat on my man... Na only u waka come for that theory... My man knows me so well... So need arguing with u on that fallacy of yours... How u wish i would cheat..
Lol..

perfectgen:


If you are truly the way you described yourself, blessed and lucky is the man who marries you. Keep up the good work and stop being bothered if men ask what you are bringing to the table; your values are sufficient to encourage the man. Have a pleasant night.

Am.just reminiscing in the past, am no longer borthered..
Uv now reminded me what my pastor mentor always says: Blessed is that man , who will marry me.. The man will be very lucky to have me as his wife..thank God, my man sees such traits in me.

Amelian:






Good advice sir, but the irony of it all is that most men these days want the woman to provide 80 -90 percent... While they provide 10 or 0%... No young lady is just sitting down doing nothing and waiting for one man to come and make her a baby machine.. Thats why there are lots of divorces cases and killings in marriage.. Parents should strive and teach their sons to be a leader and there are so many things that makes up a leader, while parents should also teach girls on how to be self dependent and self sufficient
Any lady that depends on a man for survival? OYO
I have good job , and am not expecting my husband to start spending frivolously on me.... He should provide the basic things, then i support in other areas... But asking me what am i bringing to the table is gold digging mehn... Possibly i will buy u a car,i will get a two bedroom flat for us and i will stock up the store room with foods abi
Make he come carry nah.
As a lady, i live in a comfortable flat, i drive a car , i have a good buisness.. Just imagine if i were a guy? Wil i.meet up a lady i love and ask her what is she bringing to the table?
Whatelse will she bring ? Money for food? Or money to fuel my car? When babies comes , it will be a joint effort.. Thats all.

Well I don't know the kind of man who will sit down and expect his wife to pick 80/90 percent of family bills, that is quite rare except he is going through a phase. What is common these days is a collection of women who have no serious empowerment and don't even plan to get one, targeting well-to-do men or average hardworking men who end up paying all the bills from rent to school fees to feeding to everything. You even have some empowered ones who deliberately hold back and intentionally put the average man under undue pressure except he makes demands.

The downside of it all is that the little addition from the woman can shoot up the average things provided by the man thus the kids end up attending much better schools, they end up staying in a nicer neighborhood, they end up giving them the right exposure just because the woman decided not to be lazy and add somethings to what the man can do....


When most men talk about what a woman brings to the table, it is not about what she gives the man!..It is about how she fits into the future the man is trying to build...How she can help the man achieve his life long dream regarding the family!. except of course the man isn't in the marriage for the right reasons or just wants to collect her money and bail but I'm talking about a man who is totally in and futuristic.

Oga Bello is a learner where KWAM 1. dey

Perfecttouch:
2baba is a learner

What about wasiu ayinde marshal that has 32 children and pasuma that has 10 children


2baba na learner naw, na wa for you Ooooo

mexxyaaron:
U are stylishly avoiding my guy's question lady.

He said a rich married man and a poor(upcoming) single guy.
Please give us us answer biko.

She has the right to choose whoever she deems fit for her and you cant knock her for it!

The same way you‘ll choose a beautiful girl of your choice over a plain one

Ladies consider comfortability when choosing a spouse...men consider beauty

Everyone should stick to their level

A strugling man should look for a strugling lady...marry your type...and there wont be issues of incompatability

Poor dudes always looking for ladies way above their capacity...claiming love...the love they‘ll never have for a poor girl like them

Most men of these days cannot afford so many children even with a very good job. Unless the "man" is a politician or government official that is stealing money.

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

The real oga is here

ikupakuti:


She has the right to choose whoever she deems fit for her and you cant knock her for it!

The same way you‘ll choose a beautiful girl of your choice over a plain one

Ladies consider comfortability when choosing a spouse...men consider beauty

Everyone should stick to their level

A strugling man should look for a strugling lady...marry your type...and there wont be issues of incompatability

Poor dudes always looking for ladies way above their capacity...claiming love...the love they‘ll never have for a poor girl like them

God bless you Sir! Don't mind all these fake men looking for Beyoncé yet they can't be Jay-Z enough.

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

Baby girl, things have changed, times are hard and you can't compare then and now. In as much as I wouldn't take a woman as my partner in responsibility, I wouldn't also entertain laziness in the part of the woman I wanna marry cos there are ladies who are bent on folding their arms to receive whatever the man puts on the table.

I wouldn't mind emptying my b/account to make u an entrepreneur and the proposed mother of my tata should be industrious enough to take up that responsibility when I'm no more.

Amelian:



Am so proud of myself... [b]I can NEVER and will NEVER MARRY A JOBLESS MAN OR A POOR MAN.
Comfortable single guy,? Yes ... Rich guy? Yes... [/b]No be crime to marry a rich man if he propose, they are human beings too..

So u should be ashamed of yourself, cos it seems u fall in the category of Poor..sorry dude, aint my fault.

aunty,talk is cheap. It's easier said than done. You think many of those beautiful girls married to poor men never wished to marry rich men? Beautiful women are too much and there is a time your parents will pressurize you to get married and you wouldn't have anu choice than to pick that poor guy. Women are more than men,have you thought about that? What if rich good men don't come to you and you're running out of time? Will you use jazz to attract them?

Truly Oga as in Oga Bello

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

Shame, shame, shame. You want an ATM for a husband and you are ready to shout equal rights for husband and wife. You life ambition is to be a baby making machine after your parents have spent lots of money training you through University; what a wasted investment. So, the only thing you are bringing to the table is your pussssy. Anyway, it's still good for you. Kindly migrate to Saudi Arabia, that is where women do not work; but mind you, you have no single right as a full house wife. Ask Janet Jackson what her ATM husband is making her go through.

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

You didn't make sense sorry! Were you their house help (maid)? Or how did you get your facts? He could have been a very irresponsible man from the beginning and later helped some or all of them. Do you know if the wives fought tirelessly for their own children's success? Secondly, what do you expect? I should marry a liability? A clueless woman? Don't you get motivated and inspired when you see people like late Dora and several other great women of virtue? Wake up from your delusion and add value/worth to yourself abeg!

MKO Abiola had more than 18children before he died o.. Confirm it urself.

Wickedness! Having much children I wickedness to humanity! Nigerian economy as well

Men who understands what am talking about and concur with me, God bless u guyz... Simple let the like minds interact, o tan..!

Is it so hard for other men against what i desire be ranting like mad dogs, i dont have the rest of una time today. So u all expect me tostart another round of arguements today,abi?
Think again.. I have clients and jobs waiting for me in.my office..
Sighs duty calls...
I dont have time today... Keep ranting guys against me.. While i make my money.
Byee.
Lol.. I go leave work begin argue? Early monday morning? If na swear i dodge am pass... Amen

My dear the greatest mistake any lady would ever make in her life is to marry someone you truly know is not right for you or you see the red signals like him putting out attitude that you know will result into problems after marriage but you still choose to go ahead with him probably
out of desperation or pressure from family and friends because you are hitting your 30s, most time it doesn't work out happily ever after,
as dem take rush in na so dem dey take rush out, thats why divorce cases is now a common news this days.
Am certain Tiwa savage saw the signs that teebillz was going to be a leech on her while they were dating yet she made the mistake of going
ahead with marriage because she was after 30, we all saw how the so called love story ended at the last chapter.

Everybody is not destined to get married to a rich man, if every lady begins to go after rich men (how many rich men dey sef, the few ones
available are most certainly already taken) who go marry the average and poor ones More over the ratio of ladies to guys is imbalance already
we have more ladies ready for marriage than bachelors.
You as a lady should know the qualities you want in the man you hope to get married to and if the next brother that comes your way posses those qualities, my sister settle with him. For me I value qualities like maturity, responsibility, ( a man who will make effort to cater for the
needs of his family not the one that will be waiting for his wife to be the bread winner) ambitiousness ( he must aim high, make plans to move forward in life) and be decent.

sinceraconcept:
aunty,talk is cheap. It's easier said than done. You think many of those beautiful girls married to poor men never wished to marry rich men? Beautiful women are too much and there is a time your parents will pressurize you to get married and you wouldn't have anu choice than to pick that poor guy. Women are more than men,have you thought about that? What if rich good men don't come to you and you're running out of time? Will you use jazz to attracts them?

Amelian:
Oga Bello, is indeed Oga... At least he took care of his children without complaining , woman what are u bringing to the table, if i marry you.
See how fresh and cool headed they all look... And nobody hear their voice outside, cause their dad is more than responsible.

Most men of these days are just so lazy and selfish... U never born, just to marry, u are asking the woman what are u bringing to the table... I wonder why God didnt bring me in the early generation where men are Men...marriage has lost its value these days, because the men are not willing to be the head anymore.
My late dad had 17of us and took care of all of single handedly until after we graduated from school, some of us went to Universitites, some polytechinics.. With such dad as my role model, u can imagine how perplexed i will look at a guy that will ask me what are u bringing to the table

For real?
Isnt your wife meant to support discreetly, must she be delegated a certain financial duty in the home?

Oga Bello, i duff my hat for you ooo
God almighty will continue to bless and empower you, amen.

Stop deceiving your self babe! Go and ask your mum well...she'll tell u how she may have supported u guys without d consent of ur dad somehow. And who told u Oga Bello did all d work on those children u see?? Huh? U only saw photos and concluded. Go to FBook and see a lot of happy profile pics people with miserable life. How would u know if a guy is rich? If its just money and material things u believe in, then am sorry babe because u may tread d wrong path. A true wife seek to build her own home with d man she believes in, not bunch of gold digging ladies pursuing wealth they don't know d source. No offense!!

Evalily:
My dear the greatest mistake any lady would ever make in her life is to marry someone you truly know is not right for you or you see the red signals like him putting out attitude that you know will result into problems after marriage but you still choose to go ahead with him probably
out of desperation or pressure from family and friends because you are hitting your 30s, most time it doesn't work out happily ever after,
as dem take rush in na so dem dey take rush out, thats why divorce cases is now a common news this days.
Am certain Tiwa savage saw the signs that teebillz was going to be a leech on her while they were dating yet she made the mistake of going
ahead with marriage because she was after 30, we all saw how the so called love story ended at the last chapter.

Everybody is not destined to get married to a rich man, if every lady begins to go after rich men (how many rich men dey sef, the few ones
available are most certainly already taken) who go marry the average and poor ones More over the ratio of ladies to guys is imbalance already
we have more ladies ready for marriage than bachelors.
You as a lady should know the qualities you want in the man you hope to get married to and if the next brother that comes your way posses those qualities, my sister settle with him. For me I value qualities like maturity, responsibility, ( a man who will make effort to cater for the
needs of his family not the one that will be waiting for his wife to be the bread winner) ambitiousness ( he must aim high, make plans to move forward in life) and be decent.

Now I believe some ladies also read and think right.....

My crush spotted right here!