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Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by LordReed(m): 12:34am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300 Here's how to deal with this issue. Call her (when ever you can get a hold of her) or better still go visit her. Tell her you have a very important thing you need to talk to her about. If it's a call ask her if she is somewhere she can talk to you freely, if you are physically with her take to somewhere you can talk privately. When talking to her say to her that her attitude and behaviour is giving you concern that she is not truly interested in marrying you. Lay out how you feel about the whole issue. Here is where it gets interesting because her response both verbal and body language will tell you all you need to know. Any lady interested in preserving the union will apologize for making you feel uncomfortable and plan how to change things around. From her responses you'll be on course to decide what you need to do. I am reluctant to really make "judgement" call about your girl's character but I will say that I don't think you guys will work. You seem to have been overlooking a lot of things in order to keep this relationship going. I wish you the best what ever decision you make. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by wardell30(m): 12:36am On Jun 09, 2016 |
She's Definitely A Ho ![]() |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Nobody: 12:36am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300: Why not snub this girl or woman for 2 weeks ? Guy the way to handle women is, if she snubs you, snub her back. Its very simple. Tell me you cant stay for one week without calling her. Let her be the one to remind you when its time to collect her next N5k for hair. 1 Like |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by valralph(m): 12:36am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Was in your shoe some years back...while schooling in Ibadan, my babe in Ikorodu, Lag was fond of switching off her phone at night, just like yours.....well the good thing is I found out later that she was a runs girl doing all her paroles at night. The day she opened up to ask me if I expected her to date only me, was when I confronted her abt the phone thing. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Sammyblaq(m): 12:37am On Jun 09, 2016 |
bia Op... You are planning on marrying her, u've spent about 2mil on her education, you do give her 5k/2weeks for hair-do; Bought her power-bank, she collected but her phone stays off every evening. Dem carry the lady do jazz 4 u?? Jisos!. I don add ur matter for my prayer points... 11 Likes |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Misternas89(m): 12:37am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Ekugbeh:After the brake, then accelerator abi ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Nobody: 12:38am On Jun 09, 2016 |
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Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Plus234(m): 12:38am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Is she the same SS girl you dated for 8years ? https://www.nairaland.com/2813072/aa-she-ss-still-yet You think you are smart this was your original post and why did you delete it just now ? I am in my early 30s and consider myself ready for marriage. I have dated this lovely girl for about 8yrs and we have had ups and downs.. Truth be told she told me about her genotype condition right from the onset of the relationship. I do not have an issue with her genotype condition as I am AA myself and truely inlove with her.during this 8yrs of our relationship she has had very few amount of crises and I honestly don't care if its more coz the bible says marriage is for better for worse and I want to start right from now.I am not claiming commando or rambo its just that what I feel for her is real. Problem now am facing as any ther ss female or male patient would think is that I simply want to marry her out of pitty. I honestly do not think of anything close to that.as my love for her is real. Anybody could be ss and anybody could die at any point in life. We must not all grow old before we die. Despite the fact that she doesn't easily fall sick, No one knows of her condition in my own family (friends inclusive)as I know if they do they might descriminate us both..another problem is that she is very sensitive and emotional as I have in the past hurt her without knowing it. I am sorry for this long writeup I just need help.fact is even if I end up not marrying her,it is expected that someone should marry her and at the moment I think I understand and willing. What's opinin friends. Whoevr is mean to me on thi topic shuld remember that this life is short and we live it once.thank u 1 Like |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by omobaekiti: 12:40am On Jun 09, 2016 |
pcguru1:very comforting |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by goodforsomthing: 12:40am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300: Forget you be maga than pay o,your on maga sure past Naijabet own o.5k every 2week for hairstyle for 32 year old woman. You be real confirm maga |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by yankison(m): 12:40am On Jun 09, 2016 |
You have spent 2million , How and why did you spend so much on a girl friend ... she can decide to leave you nah since you are not officially married ..... it has happened and will still continue to happen ... Mehn i feel sorry for you coz u had spent so much .....this Lady is tormenting you .. try and go visit her if you know where she lives and hang around and trace her , do that to clear your mind . i would do just that if i was in your shoes... sorry |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Nobody: 12:40am On Jun 09, 2016 |
martineverest: ..kkkkkkkkkkk .na ur papa born u bro.. mugu fall guyman chopam a student that uses 4 phones, she be call center? he bought her 3 phones and she switches them off to avoid his calls she programmed him on 5k to fix hair fortnightly and if he complains she calls him stingy in order to reset his brain but he fail to tell us how much he spends for her school fees including her accommodation permit me to say what attracts her to him is financial support or you call it love with benefits forget about her age, by the time she is done with her study he will found out she've got a guy who's dear to her heart. this is just one of those love triangle I can't shout, it's his cross let him Cary it |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Mailerchidex: 12:41am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Now my question is, How long have u observed this? could she have been cheating on you every blessed God given night? Secondly at 35, isn't she matured enough to explain her reasons which u did not tell us out? Finally, ur complaint implies dat u call her every day and every night. How den do u think that ur frequent calling doesn't piss her off and maybe she is trying to avoid the disturbance every night believing that d one u have spoken during d day is enough to make her day? My soluton is, Stop being predictable and Quit calling her everyday and be giving urself more reasons to worry but create for urself a little sence of scarcity in her and observe if d evening calling will turn around, then, finally, Believe me, she is not cheating on you. she couldn't have been d only fan of cheating on her man every blessed day of the year? at age 32. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Nobody: 12:45am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300: Quote me and gimme ur number make i help u via whattsapp. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by AhmadMind: 12:48am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Might be a Witch or Runs Girl to survive.....Or Prayer Warrior ![]() |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by tbliss22(m): 12:49am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300: Guy I won't lie to you, she's playing you and you knew it. Why on earth will my girl continuously switch off her mobile every evening ![]() If I ask you as my girl, once, twice and by the third time I'm sure you will see my body language that I'm done with the relationship. If na the PhD dey worry am, I beg tell her to chill that very soon she will join association of "single matured un-married educated" (S.M.U.E) ladies. Them plenty for lagos like water....... Arant Nonsense!!! 1 Like |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by chigirlangel: 12:49am On Jun 09, 2016 |
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Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by kcynho(m): 12:52am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Greenbullet: Lmao ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by touche(m): 12:55am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Bae is a business woman. OP is a minor shareholder trying to claim major benefits. I bet you, after sponsoring her to PhD level, investing in her future: 1. Her dad will still collect bride price without giving you a discount, or, 2. You will sponsor her wedding to another bae. Better start keeping receipts for school fees, phones and deposit slips for allowances. Might help convince her dad to give discount on bride price. Else, receive sense. 1 Like |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by kcynho(m): 12:55am On Jun 09, 2016 |
tbliss22:Asin eh, my guy knows d bae is cheating but wants a spokesperson to tell him that, not bad though,but trust me the bae cheating is spelled out in Blue jor,if a bae loves u dat wouldn't b happening consistently nah,haba! |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Samjr(m): 12:58am On Jun 09, 2016 |
lovingT:Thank for that ugly truth |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Nobody: 12:58am On Jun 09, 2016 |
My guy....Just pay her a surprising visit. Don't call her while visiting. And please do that in the evening.............. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by kcynho(m): 1:03am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Mailerchidex:Must say u gat a mature view on the mara,but u getting ur determinants wrong really,every evening her phones are off,goes through in d day really?,its either she aint fond of me at all or am just a need provider,u just gara spill d truth here,no positivity on this 1 to lead near marriage |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Dharnchuks(m): 1:05am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300:pls let us know how it goes .. might help others too. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by kcynho(m): 1:10am On Jun 09, 2016 |
LordReed:On point advice from ya but trust me ,a player would always be on top of her game knowing fully well she's gat a goal to keep a need/want provider in d guy,trust d bae wld b smart enough to continue to make believe n give d dude, and wt d blokes love for her d game continues, so u gata help spill it out to him that a bae so into u won't hv her line "CONSISTENTLY " off on a "CONSTANT" basis. But nice advice 4m ya chap/bae. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by bqlekan(m): 1:13am On Jun 09, 2016 |
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Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by kcynho(m): 1:23am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Naughtysite:Ur mara small nah,me still d read advice on this by 1:21AM,d bae don turn investment 4 ma dude.he had bera know he shld b counting his losses by now |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by sitos(m): 1:26am On Jun 09, 2016 |
E get Watin u sef dey eye in her wey make u sef neva leave her, bros talk truth... |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by ladyF(f): 1:34am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Na so so males full this thread sha... Opportunity to vent their long bottled anger against the poor, innocent lady. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by balingaonline(m): 1:39am On Jun 09, 2016 |
Give her more tym |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by Gkemz: 1:45am On Jun 09, 2016 |
dante300: You feel so insecure with someone you intend to marry and i wonder how you can marry this lady you can't trust during courtship. Hiding a camera in her apartment suggest that ur suspecting her of infidelity. At her age i doubt whether she'd be playing games except that someone else has proposed to her. |
Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by chachanga: 1:55am On Jun 09, 2016 |
All dis kain "Suegbe" muguns with their ajebo threads sef. U betterngo and install d cams in her flat and get ur customised heart-attack; the type coming for you will only happen once. It will tske u a decade to get over it but, trust me, ur brain memory card will format @nd reload necessary data by itself ![]() Shioor, e pele 4 u |
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