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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sugah: 10:23am On Jun 09, 2016
Congratulations harjarabadmus...may she continue to bring you joy.
Happy birthday baby Lucas.

Enkaydewdrop you should be fine.

My sister had a 4.6kg baby last year...yes you saw that right, 4.6kg by VD no tears at all. I think it all depends on the expertise of the doctors (in her case, midwives).

Lemme use his birth pix to start off thread cuties.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olatebony(f): 10:30am On Jun 09, 2016
hajarahbadmus:
Hello from the other side...
It's a girl..
Started having sudden strong contractions by 9pm last night..7mins apart..
Got to the hospital by 11pm..was 2cm dilated..
Was checked by 12am..was 7cm dilated..
By 12.30am, the baby's head was crowning
And by 12.35am, my little angel came out screaming and hungry..
Which of the favours of your lord will you deny?
Watch this space for the full episode..
My breasts are sore already..the baby dey vex
Congrats hajarahbadmus . Wao! It can only be God 11pm to 12:35! I rejoice wt u.
@fortius my teamie, happy bday 2 ur darling prince Lucas. The Lord will continue to keep and direct him in d right part
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:33am On Jun 09, 2016
Dunni29:
Was he trying to do a vj sweep? I thought they normally use a speculum to open the place to see cervix. You should have voiced out immediately. Next time don't allow anyone use you for guinea pig


Mama, you know say this na my first time, so I'm ignorant of so many things, and when my sister put to bed there last year, na hand dem use too...
I'm just hearing of a speculum for the first time... I also asked him yesterday if using hands was the only method available, and he said yes... I feel like going back there to punch him...

Thanks so much mama...
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by esof1(f): 10:35am On Jun 09, 2016
sugah:
My sister had a 4.6kg baby last year...yes you saw that right, 4.6kg by VD no tears at all. I think it all depends on the expertise of the doctors (in her case, midwives).

Lemme use his birth pix to start off thread cuties.

Wow! Cute guy. He doesn't even look like a new born.
I quite agree with you on the expertise thingy. My neighbor had a 4.5kg baby last week without a tear. She said d first midwife she met told her they must give her a tear as her baby was big, luckily for her, she didn't dilate till that midwife closed from duty. The second midwife just use hand around her veejay wen baby's head showed up and that was how baby flew out after 3 pushes.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:36am On Jun 09, 2016
sugah:


Enkaydewdrop you should be fine.

My sister had a 4.6kg baby last year...yes you saw that right, 4.6kg by VD no tears at all. I think it all depends on the expertise of the doctors (in her case, midwives).




Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat??
You're joking...

Wow! God is wonderful oh...
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:40am On Jun 09, 2016
waooowwwww....see luvly baby oo...4.6kg...dis s awesome...thanks mumi sugah nd olatebony.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 09, 2016
Fortius:
mumi hajarahbadmus...congrats ooo grin....she takes d lead.

modified..na today she born so?...

Lol.. you dis mama you no go kill me with laff NA TODAY SHE BORN. Oya bring out that gift you promised. Happy birthday to Lucas God bless and keep him. reminds of One tree hill that season film warra lovely name.

Congrats hajarahbadmus..It ended in praise. God be with the Little one

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Dunni29(f): 10:43am On Jun 09, 2016
Hugs dear. Kpele the pain will subside. Though I concur with other mamas on getting a alternative hospital. If the Dr is already breathing CS at the slightest provocation he must be a butcher
enkaydewdrop:



Mama, you know say this na my first time, so I'm ignorant of so many things, and when my sister put to bed there last year, na hand dem use too...
I'm just hearing of a speculum for the first time... I also asked him yesterday if using hands was the only method available, and he said yes... I feel like going back there to punch him...

Thanks so much mama...

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by feddy27: 10:43am On Jun 09, 2016
Fortius, happy birthday to baby Lucas. May he continually grow in wisdom and strength

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 10:44am On Jun 09, 2016
enkaydewdrop:


LOL...

How big is he?
At 36weeks, my baby was 3.05kg,and I'm scared already...

Scan said 3.05kg (plus or minus 458g), dunno what that means... Any idea?

It means your baby might be above 3kg or below 3kg. Mine was 2.4kg at 32 weeks. I'm sure he'll be approaching 3kg now. Lol

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tipsyjules(f): 10:44am On Jun 09, 2016
phummy1821:
Good to know there's another calabar mama in the house, my friend told me about a place at Army junction that they do scan for 1500 but I don't trust them enough to go there.
I thought I was the only calabar mama here o.My dear that area sef they fear me.Its possible because of the army women that live in iburutu barracks.My Dr directed me to one scanning center like that off etta agbor,my dear wen I enter the place ehn see the way the place dey and the way environment dey nobody told me to carry my 2left leg comot.The environment wasn't neat,patients just Sidon like pensioners wey wan go collect dia pension.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:45am On Jun 09, 2016
Please, rejoice with us, as our able captain Hajarahbadmus put to bed a CHARMING PRINCESS in the early hours of today... It was indeed a swift birth...
We give God all the praise...
Congrats mama...
Mmmuah!!!


1....Okeoghene4real------------7th June
2....JoyChioma19----------------9th June
3....Hajarahbadmus----------- Charming Princess
4....GenyEbere--------------------Gallant Soldier(ported - to May)
5....Cassieluv----------------------17th June
6....Osas4G-------------------------19th June
7....Ginababy----------------------22nd June
8....Kokolet007-------------------22nd June
9....Melly245-----------------------23rd June
10..Lilylurv--------------------------24th June
11..Brownsmoothie------------26th June
12..Enkaydewdrop--------------27th June
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17..GodMercy2015
18..Estagirl
19..Ambient------------------------Gallant Soldier (ported from May)
20..Ronnie1984
21..Youngmum
22..Zimunachimdi


Zimunachimdi, how far sister... Any show


May God grant the rest of us swift and easy delivery too in Jesus Name...
#TeamJuneForExtremeSupernaturalDelivery...

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Fabmummy: 10:46am On Jun 09, 2016
enkaydewdrop:
Hello everyone... Good morning...
Hope you guys are doing great...

Biko sisters...

1...Is a VE supposed to be that painful?
2...Will I be able to push my precious baby out when it's time? I no dey do any CS oh...
3...Wasn't the doctor supposed to use lube before inserting his finger, or something?
4...I started having lower abdominal pains (like menstrual cramps), down to my upper thigh last night, up till now... They're bearable, but very irregular. Is it as a result of the VE?

I'm so sorry for the long post... Please, help your sister...

1: it's painful to some ppl but for me while I was active labour and my doctor checked me, I didn't feel a thing, can't say if it was cos my cervix was already dilating

2: of course, don't let the doctor put fear in you. Continue to pray it up, positive confessions only.

3: No

4: it could be. In all since u are very close to ur due date, just keep pray to God to make it easy for you and you'd be amaze how faithful God his to keep His promises

Sorry bout ur pain. All the best

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olatebony(f): 10:47am On Jun 09, 2016
BritneyStacy:

Mummy Olatebony, which one is foldable bed please? Can you share a picture of it ?
@mum BritneyStacy its d normal flat baby bed dat can be folded into 2. Will post d pix.
BTW I am vexing o o! All these prices and lists that u ppl are sharing.. DiarisGoduo. Come to think of it mamas. Some of my prices r even cheaper dan d listed ones, to think dat i am even going to ease u d stress and time of going all around shopping plus i have unique and lovely items. All you need 2 do is add me on whatsapp 08030625817 and request for pictures of stuffs u nid.. You make selections,we seal d deal and i send. We do delivery anywhere. Thanks

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:48am On Jun 09, 2016
Dunni29:
Hugs dear. Kpele the pain will subside. Though I concur with other mamas on getting a alternative hospital. If the Dr is already breathing CS at the slightest provocation he must be a butcher


Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki
Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki
Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki...
Real butcher...

Thanks for putting a smile on my face...

Mmmuah!!!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:51am On Jun 09, 2016
Fabmummy:


1: it's painful to some ppl but for me while I was active labour and my doctor checked me, I didn't feel a thing, can't say if it was cos my cervix was already dilating

2: of course, don't let the doctor put fear in you. Continue to pray it up, positive confessions only.

3: No

4: it could be. In all since u are very close to ur due date, just keep pray to God to make it easy for you and you'd be amaze how faithful God his to keep His promises

Sorry bout ur pain. All the best


Thank you so so much mama...
God bless you...

#Kisses...
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 10:53am On Jun 09, 2016
Ha!!! @favouredmom, fortius romanus and enkaydewdrop, i'm not the capo of kpekus o. I think the baton is with britneystacy grin

Anyway, this is what i did. RATED 18+

I woke up 30mins before dh alarm will wake him up for work. And i brought his hand to my belle first, then took it to my tips, cus i know that's the number one thing that turns him on. Immediately, sleep comot for he eye, cus the last time we did it was last week. While he was playing with my tips, i turned towards him for the usual exclusive breastfeeding. Na from there action start.
When it was time for the real deal, he was finding it hard to go in from the back despite using lube. Had no choice but to manage the usual missionary style with lots of pillows supporting my bumbum and head. It's not as if i was in the mood 100% percent o, but i just had to make myself go thru it. Because apart from making sure that place expands, i know my dh needs it and i dont like starving him for too long.

As for styles, make una ask another person o. Cus i'm still a learner.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 10:54am On Jun 09, 2016
olatebony:

@mum BritneyStacy its d normal flat baby bed dat can be folded into 2. Will post d pix.
BTW I am vexing o o! All these prices and lists that u ppl are sharing.. DiarisGoduo. Come to think of it mamas. Some of my prices r even cheaper dan d listed ones, to think dat i am even going to ease u d stress and time of going all around shopping plus i have unique and lovely items. All you need 2 do is add me on whatsapp 08030625817 and request for pictures of stuffs u nid.. You make selections,we seal d deal and i send. We do delivery anywhere. Thanks


Ndo... No vex...
Very few mamas know that you sell these things, and at cheaper prices too...
I think you should say it more often...

Mabinu, s'ogbo?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 10:56am On Jun 09, 2016
Dunni29:
Hugs dear. Kpele the pain will subside. Though I concur with other mamas on getting a alternative hospital. If the Dr is already breathing CS at the slightest provocation he must be a butcher

Enkaydewdrop, shey you have heard? Come to my hospital o and run away from that vjay butcherer
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 10:57am On Jun 09, 2016
olatebony:

@mum BritneyStacy its d normal flat baby bed dat can be folded into 2. Will post d pix.
BTW I am vexing o o! All these prices and lists that u ppl are sharing.. DiarisGoduo. Come to think of it mamas. Some of my prices r even cheaper dan d listed ones, to think dat i am even going to ease u d stress and time of going all around shopping plus i have unique and lovely items. All you need 2 do is add me on whatsapp 08030625817 and request for pictures of stuffs u nid.. You make selections,we seal d deal and i send. We do delivery anywhere. Thanks

I think you should share pictures of your products during fashion friday. It'll help.
Me i still dey receive gifts o, so i wan wait small

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 10:59am On Jun 09, 2016
mitchyy:
Ha!!! @favouredmom, fortius romanus and enkaydewdrop, i'm not the capo of kpekus o. I think the baton is with britneystacy grin

Anyway, this is what i did. RATED 18+

I woke up 30mins before dh alarm will wake him up for work. And i brought his hand to my belle first, then took it to my tips, cus i know that's the number one thing that turns him on. Immediately, sleep comot for he eye, cus the last time we did it was last week. While he was playing with my tips, i turned towards him for the usual exclusive breastfeeding. Na from there action start.
When it was time for the real deal, he was finding it hard to go in from the back despite using lube. Had no choice but to manage the usual missionary style with lots of pillows supporting my bumbum and head. It's not as if i was in the mood 100% percent o, but i just had to make myself go thru it. Because apart from making sure that place expands, i know my dh needs it and i dont like starving him for too long.

As for styles, make una ask another person o. Cus i'm still a learner.

Lol@ exclusive breastfeeding
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 11:01am On Jun 09, 2016
sugah:
Congratulations harjarabadmus...may she continue to bring you joy.
Happy birthday baby Lucas.

Enkaydewdrop you should be fine.

My sister had a 4.6kg baby last year...yes you saw that right, 4.6kg by VD no tears at all. I think it all depends on the expertise of the doctors (in her case, midwives).

Lemme use his birth pix to start off thread cuties.


Oh my!!! Was this her first baby? Cus i heard its easier when its not your first.
God is truly wonderful! Congrats to her
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 11:01am On Jun 09, 2016
mitchyy:
Ha!!! @favouredmom, fortius romanus and enkaydewdrop, i'm not the capo of kpekus o. I think the baton is with britneystacy grin

Anyway, this is what i did. RATED 18+

I woke up 30mins before dh alarm will wake him up for work. And i brought his hand to my belle first, then took it to my tips, cus i know that's the number one thing that turns him on. Immediately, sleep comot for he eye, cus the last time we did it was last week. While he was playing with my tips, i turned towards him for the usual exclusive breastfeeding. Na from there action start.
When it was time for the real deal, he was finding it hard to go in from the back despite using lube. Had no choice but to manage the usual missionary style with lots of pillows supporting my bumbum and head. It's not as if i was in the mood 100% percent o, but i just had to make myself go thru it. Because apart from making sure that place expands, i know my dh needs it and i dont like starving him for too long.

As for styles, make una ask another person o. Cus i'm still a learner.


Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki...
Very detailed...
Me likey...

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by buccee: 11:04am On Jun 09, 2016
enkaydewdrop:
Hello everyone... Good morning...
Hope you guys are doing great...

So, yesterday was my clinic day, and I had the most traumatic experience ever...
I complained to the doctor about the contractions I've been having and he said they were just BH contractions, but that to be very sure, he'll do a VE...

Na em dis guy wear glove, clean me with disinfectant, or whatever, next thing, e chook hand inside my hoohaa, and kept pushing and pushing in, like he lost something inside me, and was trying to get it out... I screamed and screamed, asking and begging him to stop, the guy no gree oh... He just went on and on... I just kept screaming and screaming and almost fell off the bed, I tried pushing him off, but he kept pushing...
It was at the point I was about to slap him that he now stopped... Oh! It was the worst pain ever...

Next thing, he turned to my husband and said "ah... only one finger and your wife is shouting like this, when was the last time you two had sex" (which is actually a long time)... I was just crying in one corner...
Then he told my husband that we should better prepare for CS, because my pain threshold is very low... I wanted to ask him if he was normal... I just paused from my crying and eyed him and continued crying...

When i got home and peed, my hoohaa was peppering me as if I had an open wound there...

Biko sisters...

1...Is a VE supposed to be that painful?
2...Will I be able to push my precious baby out when it's time? I no dey do any CS oh...
3...Wasn't the doctor supposed to use lube before inserting his finger, or something?
4...I started having lower abdominal pains (like menstrual cramps), down to my upper thigh last night, up till now... They're bearable, but very irregular. Is it as a result of the VE?

I'm so sorry for the long post... Please, help your sister...


Kpele enkay
But wait o, Shey na for ds forum u get mouth, u no fit use dt mouth put d Dr where he should be?
#hugs

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 11:07am On Jun 09, 2016
mumi orirebaby...abeggy na.no allow mamas here catxh me o..na yestaday she born na lipsrsealed..hw cum na only ur eyes c am..oya mak i bribe u wt Amala ati gbegirigrin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ebony13: 11:08am On Jun 09, 2016
Sugah, wow! That's one big cuddly cute baby. kiss Is this Nigeria? I doubt.

Ma'am olatebony. Nor vex for mamas Ma binu. I would add you on WhatsApp now. Shebi my delivery fee won't now come to same thing if not more o coz I'm not in Lag.

I now know y I'm not feeling baby movement as much, my placenta is anterior and d leading twin is already forming senior bro/ sis. Cool calm and collected.

Meanwhile d 2nd twin is d very active one. After viewing d first twin, when we get to d second, d radiologists would start commenting 'ah this baby is shaking o' 'ah, this baby is dancing o' cheesy cheesy

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Fabmummy: 11:08am On Jun 09, 2016
Happy birthday baby Lucas cc @fortius God bless and keep him

Congratulations @hajarahbadmus may God watch over your lo

@ mitchyy mitchyy mitchyy grin grin
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 11:09am On Jun 09, 2016
mitchyy:


Enkaydewdrop, shey you have heard? Come to my hospital o and run away from that vjay butcherer


Mitchyy, I'm seriously considering it oh... Na money be d problem...
Ego! Ego!! Ego!!!
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 11:10am On Jun 09, 2016
Ehen, before i forget. When washing my baby's new clothes and rinsing it with dettol, do i need to keep rinsing and rinsing till the dettol odor leaves?
After i have suffered to wash the clothes my mum sent and spreading them, my landlord's wife said i'm not supposed to allow any trace of dettol smell in them. I nor get power to wash again o angry
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 11:11am On Jun 09, 2016
capooooooo mitchyy....clap clap clap epatewo for d badh mama....thot na Britneystacy b guru now u don dey follow bumpertobumper...cheesy.

@feddy27..tnx. ma

olatebony don ves...abegggiii send my order kiakia oo...b4 vexin go take ovagrin...oya sowie na...*rubbing her belle wt aboniki ah sowie sheabutter*

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 11:11am On Jun 09, 2016
Fabmummy:
Happy birthday baby Lucas cc @fortius God bless and keep him

Congratulations @hajarahbadmus may God watch over your lo

@ mitchyy mitchyy mitchyy grin grin

Chai. I don die today. Enkaydewdrop, see what you've caused now cheesy
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enkaydewdrop(f): 11:12am On Jun 09, 2016
buccee:



Kpele enkay
But wait o, Shey na for ds forum u get mouth, u no fit use dt mouth put d Dr where he should be?
#hugs


Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki!!!

My sister, I was too busy crying oh... No mind me...

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