A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

Well, It is disheartening but guys should be smart enough about falling in love.

There must have been signs because marriage planning doesn't just happen in a week.

Fear them

Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.


Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

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@OP, this is how it works.




Bad boys spoil good girls and they revenge on good guys.

I pity the guy because of the way he looked today so down and depressed he was lamenting and blaming his God for not giving him money, he was talking on how he dried his account just to make this girls happy by providing all her needs .. its so painful when you do things for love and it came back to hurt you in the end...to me I love with my brain

Guys do it also, so it's a two way thing Op sorry had to be a victim experience is the best teacher

After looking at all these things, I still wonder why guys still fall in love. I move with the mindset that no matter how much u please a lady, she'll still subconsciously keep comparing you to her numerous toasters and NO MATTER HOW LONG SHE RESISTS she'll surely dump you when the time comes. The funny part is that she'll do the same to the next guy & the guy after him, it continues. Why do guys still fall in love?

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

You get bad mouth.
So if person GF leave am den his life is unplanned?
Rude

if your not balance as a man no need of spending your last pin on a girl coz she already know DAT she can't settle down with you... girls want want a balance guy so if you know that your not just be wise on how u spend don use the one you suppose to save to make your self a better person to spend on her don't try it..because to every girl their priority in life is marriage...so if she sees dat u cant marry her my dear u become a caretaker before her real man arrive....

sinaj:
Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.


Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

that why we use and dump ur gender

EscobarSnipes:
After looking at all these things, I still wonder why guys still fall in love. I move with the mindset that no matter how much u please a lady, she'll still subconsciously keep comparing you to her numerous toasters and NO MATTER HOW LONG SHE RESISTS she'll surely dump you when the time comes. The funny part is that she'll do the same to the next guy & the guy after him, it continues. Why do guys still fall in love?

The most important thing is make sure u bleep her before anytin

hmmmmmm.

Expect anything..

timsonpreye:
that why we use and dump ur gender

just d way she used nd dumped him huh?



Better wake up

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

at least dere is a sensible guy in diz thread.


Wen stuffs like diz happen de will just make it seem as if it's a girl thing.

honestly... Spending on a girl while dating is one of the biggest folly a man can make in his life even if you're financially stable. You aren't married yet. Tell your friend to wake up.... That gold digging biatch is gone. Let him focus on cash now. He should think about making flows of income. he should improve his life rada than lamenting

she broke his heart and the first thing that came to his mind is how much money he has spent on her! then he is a dumb azz

I know a guy that two weeks to his wedding, he started using girls like cloth and even introduced one of them as ''my madam'' imagine

why is it that some girls are interested in the last pin of the so called broke guys? irrespective of how broke you are still some girls needs that little money that your managing for life.... guys needs to Wise up.

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Romance section seems to be the "whine" section of Nairaland. The funny thing is, when they're narrating their story, it's always a friend or cousin.
If a lady breaks your heart, get over it and move on. If you can't over it, get another girl, make her fall in love with you and break her heart too, if it makes you feel better.
Smh...sad souls.

No big deal here....its a free world...

Very good.
Happened to me today also. The girl i lost virginity to, and it has been only her that once, wedded today and never invited me.

True talk, OP. It is good to define one's relationship from the very beginning.

Well, sh1t happens. Guys shouldn't spend more than they can afford or forgo when dating, so they don't feel cheated when things like this happens. My rule is not to get overly attached to any woman, just enjoy the moment while it last and if she leaves her loss not mine.

Omg... OP we need you to go investigate if that dude is not planning suicide