@shitshappen u know what I get ur point, u need d guys details to offer him something yet d guy never send Acc details.
by d way I need job if u can help,currently supervising a block moulding venture to avoid idleness however I'm flexible and can adjust to change of environment,I study soil science and land mgt which is environmental n agriculture
lastly I reside in ayobo-ipaja axis

Holywizard:
I graduated wit an UPPER CREDIT @ Fedpolynek

then go and look for teaching job atleast that is a job u cud easily get. When u are dressed every morning to go out to work believe me the respect will resurface.

u ar a monkey and stupid boy, can't u go out and fetch money or u ask them money to enstablish something dt will give u money. wait untill they put feeder on yr mouth, u ar still calling yrself a baby.

madridguy:
My broda, you're fortunate enough to have parent that put you through the University and you're here grumbling over pocket money after graduation. I am laughing in Congolese, systematically your mom is telling you to start hustling.

You have said it all..Op is one of the luckiest boy on earth and he has one of the best Mum on earth..Op all Mum wanted is for you to grow up, and stop falling ya hand..AS A GRADUATE, YOUR PARENTS HAVE SETTLED YOU IN A BIGGER WAY...common make them proud by taking a decision as a graduate. stop comparing yaself with ur little sibling...#growup.

Geez!,don't tell me you gonna be depending on your folks for tips even after graduation? go hustle jor.

Bro; Go for DNA test to ascertain if she is truly ur biological mother. If yes is the answer. Bro go look for Buhari police or teaching job.

My broda It happens some parent are lyk Dat,, I see no reason y dey can't give u small stipend if dey can afford it,, I went true d same thing after graduation I got no dime from my parent I even had to use my small saving to do my clearance in school b4 nysc and now am don with service year I survive with d little I saved after one year in bauchi state and no job yet,, d thing is don't let it led u to hateing ur mum,, try and find something to do, if u can't just be positive with life,,people are Blaming u but u know if only dey could walk a mile in ur shoes den may be dey would understand!!! Just be positive and let go of hard feeling keeping trying ur best to get do something to do?
!!!

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

You're an ingrate! Your parents raised you and sponsored you through school and you're there complaining like a dumb secondary school kid at the back of the class!

Do you expect your parents to spoon-feed you all your life?

You should thank them everyday you wake your dumb as*s up, for being great parents to you! Many people are orphans and yet they still succeed in life!

Get your lazy as*s off the couch and hussle for once in your pathetic life! You pi*issed me off! If I wete your dad I would shove my foot up your dumb as*s for being ungrateful!

Your parents love you.never dislike them. They are indirectly telling you to work hard and be a man. For the small born this is his turn. I will help you to be successful employ to any establishment of your choice with my spell when cast .or make you to be famous and Rich. Contact me now .

That is normal. D want u to become a man. Stop being mummy's pet. Wise up, day don break.

Firstly, your parens don't hate you. You just have a different understanding from theirs and none of them discussed their reality with you but acted it out, hence your confusion.
And majority of those who gave you 'tough' advice up here don't hate you either, they have just told you the Blunt n Bare truth in a nice tone.

I DO believe you're lazy. You haven't just started to come to terms with the "survival of the fittest" race you automatically signed up for upon graduation.
So here's what you must do:
1) Stop hating your mom. Show her love because it's a privilege you have a mother under whose roof you live and eat.

2) Convert your hate (towards your mother) into passion for what you have interest in and to learn a skill (or get a temp job) that can fetch monetary gains. This will help you a lot as you go for service in the coming months and even beyond.

3) DO NOT EXPECT HELP FROM ANYONE. Don't get me wrong. You can accept help, but never expect it's someone's job to give it. This will give you a sense of responsibility that will give you the edge you need in this competitive world of ours.

Don't leave home now. NYSC will evict you anyway. Just get busy in your current environment and make yourself relevant. Things will get tougher for you from now but see it as a learning process and make the best of it. The best advice for you isn't 'grow up,' it is 'rise up.'. If u were my Son I would have thrown u out of d house by now! My 20 year old son studying mechanical engineering in ghana opened a tailoring shop with part of his next year's sch fees,he works for himself,helps out at his school's mech workshop n never relies on his single parent! Call me for counselling or better still come n work on my farm in lugbe abuja with no pay for one year n u will start praying for ur mother nite n day I bet u! Wake up boy n smell d coffee in Naija "U don't know what God has done for u n still doing" I laugh in Pidgin way!

spafu:

Amen bro and stay bless too.. And may God Almighty continue to crown our efforts. A time comes in the life of a man when he must plunge into the deep world of unknown future, most especially, in the type situations we have found ourselves in Nigeria.

Amen. I belive God wil do is own part as we do our own. My people shal not Labour in vain.
My people shal eat from the fruit of dia Labour. His word cant go back void.

If you begin hate them u r begin to enter hell fire, definitely they r telling u to start ur own life.
For example : pretend that u faint u will c the love they had 4 u

Ademat7:
@shitshappen u know what I get ur point, u need d guys details to offer him something yet d guy never send Acc details.
by d way I need job if u can help,currently supervising a block moulding venture to avoid idleness however I'm flexible and can adjust to change of environment,I study soil science and land mgt which is environmental n agriculture
lastly I reside in ayobo-ipaja axis

no one has asked me 4 my bank account details

in the OP's defence,its not like he doesnt want to hustle..he never said or implied anything of the sort..he intends to stand up and do something he wanted to even go all the way to PH to manage his friend's business..isnt that standing up to hustle?lets nt look at it from just one angle..owk fine the mum wants him to hustle then why refuse him the opportunity to hustle in PH?? i feel it wuf be unfair to say je doesnt wantu hustle..besides,as parents you put your child through school and now he's done and you just be looking at him or her at home..your job as a parent is not done! a child with no job yet and you say your hands are of him financially? dats not a responsible thing to do.of how does he or she get to buy basic tjings dats needed?if you dnt provide for your child and he steals wah will be said of you?? if the boy wants to go hustle,allow him! its that simple..someone wants to use his hands to work and make some money and become useful to himself amd the family and you dnt let him yet you say you want him to hustle??thats ironic dont you think?

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

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What are you still doing at home after graduation?
They spent money to train you in school. It is time for you to go out there and become a man.
You need to move out to create room for your younger ones to be trained as well. You can even assist in training your siblings. At what point are you going to grow up? You are just an ingrate.
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presently, am nt on talking terms with my mother, she told me sumtin that really touched me lst friday, throughout the nite i cried thinkin abt the whole thing, one thing i came to realise is that she is pushing me to be better person, she knows my weak point n hw to trigger me. buh i stil love her so dearly. she is my number 1.

Godmother:
OP

Welcome to the world of being a graduate. In Nigeria, once you graduate most parents stop giving you money and make the environment uncomfortable for you so as to drive you to look for a job. I experienced it and started sleeping in cafes applying for ANY job. But have it at the back of your mind that they don't hate you. Just get a good job and see how you will become their golden son once again.

that's not true, not all parents do that at least my parents dont do that. That does not mean it's wrong, every parent have their own parenting method but I don't think it's ok for a parent not to support your child anymore if the parent still has the means even though the child has graduated from school. That should not stop the child from hustling too, it keeps the child from trouble actually cos when you don't have money even for your basic needs you can be tempted into doing illegal things. I know how many times, I was being lured into illegal runs after school before I got a job but I didnt fall for it and now I have a good job and my parents are enjoying too. Raising a child never ends, until you or the child is dead, you will always be a parent.

Holywizard:
I am so sorry to say this but it is actually the truth.
Ever since I graduated last year my mum has made my life a living hell.
I ve tried severally to get used to her bad attitude but all to no avail.
She complains on every thing I do. In fact once she wakes up from sleep she must look for something to complain with.

Since I graduated, I automatically stopped receiving cash from them & they (she & my dad) doesn't even care whether I have money to recharge my phone. Since last year they haven't given me ordinary #1000 & once I complain they will say 'no money' but my mum especially keeps buying unnecessary things. No money but she'll buy new shoes, clothes, bags, cell phone etc which she won't even put on.

Last week, our last born of de family came back from school & she took him out for shopping & she spent not less than #50,000 on him. Everything she does now is on the boy. My mum can even wash the plates on behalf of him. Everything he does is right. She protects the boy like an egg.

When an old friend wanted me to come over to PH so that I'd be managing his business before I go for service, my mum refused, saying that the days are bad via money ritualism. All my elder siblings called me to talk sense into me that I should just stay back, I missed that big opportunity because I'd ve been having like hundreds of thousands in my bank account.

My parents doesn't care about my welfare. Right now I don't have up to #1000 in cash & in bank. I think they hate me & I
I hate my mum the most!!! I just feel like leaving the house for them.

what a good mother your mum is,if she keeps giving you money,you wont find something to do. She wants you to be a man and go and to strive rather than wasting your time looking for job

madridguy:
My broda, you're fortunate enough to have parent that put you through the University and you're here grumbling over pocket money after graduation. I am laughing in Congolese, systematically your mom is telling you to start hustling.

did u read the part where she didnt allow him to go work in PH?
If you really read that part you wouldnt have responded like this.

Your parents have given you the net by sending you to school. Go and start fishing. Your mothern wants you to fend for yourself as a man, at least that will assure them that you can take care of yourself even if they die today. They don't want you to be a liability to anyone. Your mum is a real mother. Good luck.

Amicable24:
Hi 'Monicker sake'

Hi dear What inspired you to choose this moniker?

You are a spoilt irresponsible brat!
Get off your lazy behind and go get a J.O.B!
You could sell peanuts in traffic if you can't get a better job instead of dishing out crap to your mum!
She feeds your ungrateful behind , sent your lazy behind to school and now you want her to Bresst feed your lazy behind?!!
The nerve!!!
You are as useful as wet paint on a bench!
If I were your mum I would kick you outta the house so you won't just have picket money on your mind but also accommodation and feeding!
Spoilt lil brat!

Holywizard:
no one has asked me 4 my bank account details

check his post again

shitshappen:
Some of us are late bloomers, Pele. It I really difficult to launch at this current state of the economy. And it's entirely wrong of his family to abandon him just because they saw him through school.
I get his sense of entitlement though, but he's not made until he's made.

5k for you from me. Claim it if u want it.

sir, pls I am still waiting.
Should in case u'd be needing my account details...

ACC name--Ndukwe Wisdom
ACC No. 6170634284
Fidelity bank

God bless

The op cannot hate his mum. He only said that just for the saying sake or he was being over emotional.

@p, I believe you have colleagues that did not have any parent by the graduated. Your parents will live very long and shall continue to be blessed by the grace of God. But for your own good just assume they do not have money and in fact, need your financial assistance.

Think very well. There is always a way out. Cut the bridge.

Don't worry every soon you will see her in your dream that she has my bewitching you and you will soon meet a prophet that will tell if you don't kill your mother your problem won't be resolve wink ): .
Make her smile and rob her of money rethink boy !!!
Ingrate pinkin they sponsored you education to university . Guys like you could bite the hand that feed u .

Find you way that's my 2cent have got for you .

Ademat7:
check his post again

but I still see notin but pls u can still help me quote his comment

Holywizard:
but I still see notin but pls u can still help me quote his comment

Hahahhahah...is this not Holywizard d owerri boy that brags everywhere that he wants to Bleep every girl in Nigeria ? The notorious ashawo fuckery industry ...MR FUCKER d okpontu ....after wasting all your energy on ashawo you now expect your mom to replenish it ? Sorry dullard life works not in such a manner ....its simply the law of retributive justice ....all the ashawos you forked are now forking you in their own ways (lol...destiny..lol) shebi money to fork ashawo don cease to show now abi ?olodo


And if you guys think am speaking with my left tongue ,go throw his posts ...agbaya

Mommy's boy, you are even seeing food to eat and you are lamenting, you suppose to be making 1000's of naira and can't even find a means to recharge your phone. #WastedBrainlessGraduate

sorry dear. If you are a girl go and get a husband and if you are a boy start hustling. that's the message.

oga ur own na joke.......mumcy wake me 4 hot afternoon sleep say make I go cut & wash bitter leave 4rm back....i nearly wan die & mind u datz d normal reach frm parents dis transitional stage but i'll advice u go out of ur way to get sumfin doing no mata aw small bkos dat wat I'm equally searching for ......av bin in dis hauz wit ma badfone & e no concern anybody butma kid bro shw frm law sch & due to hiz carelessness popcy is planning to gethim a new fone & ino get ryt to vex rada & I'm praying 4 a gud job so dat I can equally takia ofma sef & blow deir mind