tushgirl:
Thanks so much for the comments@all

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

Fresia01:
silent treatment... d guy wan break up with u ooo...if u love him jux continue pressing... let d word " I don't want u" come directly from him.....I ve been in ur shoes several times...saw condom in my bf' s house, saw a woman' s necklace in his car front seat , saw a picture of him with a lady and d exact nail d girl in d picture had I also saw in his car...I ve seen a whole lot..I talk... I rant....I wanna call it quit buh I always remember what both of us have been try and I always calm down...most times guys don't like ranting women...even when they are at fault..wen u try to rant nonstop they will now turn d tables on u and make u look like an overbearing girlfriend... I learnt to hold my peace even wen I knw he is cheating... jux be good to him..nice n caring...talk to him about what u suspect about him wen u guys are on a good n romantic mood...let me stop here..

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

tushgirl:
we went out one day and kept staring and girls that were dancing.

Boss13:


You must be married because this is wisdom talking here. The OP is still immatured and accordingly, still lives in fairy tales world.

She is accusing the young man of infidelities without any proof whilst roaming in the world of admirers and brooding potential suitors.

OP my advice is that you reexamine yourself and sort out your insecurities. You are not ready for a relationship or even marriage. Deal with yourself first, before you invite someone else into your life.

Taking a cue from the comment above, life is not a bed of roses, likewise marriage or relationship. It is tough work and serious commitment. It is not where you expect things to be handed to you or go your way or where you lick ice cream all the time.

Just sort out yourself please

tushgirl:
I haven't slept with him

Boss13:


You must be married because this is wisdom talking here. The OP is still immatured and accordingly, still lives in fairy tales world.

She is accusing the young man of infidelities without any proof whilst roaming in the world of admirers and brooding potential suitors.

OP my advice is that you reexamine yourself and sort out your insecurities. You are not ready for a relationship or even marriage. Deal with yourself first, before you invite someone else into your life.

Taking a cue from the comment above, life is not a bed of roses, likewise marriage or relationship. It is tough work and serious commitment. It is not where you expect things to be handed to you or go your way or where you lick ice cream all the time.

Just sort out yourself please

tushgirl:
I haven't slept with him

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

DeeTus:
Just move on with your life. I hate men who can't keep to one.

DeeTus:
Just move on with your life. I hate men who can't keep to one.

tushgirl:
That why I said he doesn't have much,he has never send me money or cards.
I just have this feelings for him

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

Olabestonic001:


you've not sleep with him and he behaved like that because of your accusations- that seems to show he's a correct guy. Don't mind those who said you should just move on. I can bet that unless you change that you sense of paranoia, even the next guy might run away. One of the greatest turn-off for a guy is for you to bring on allegations that seems obvious you wanna manipulate him with. And it seems that was clearly your agenda: accuse him of infidelity, throw tantrums (even when you know you are just preemptive), he pleads his cause and you raise a "bar" on him for monitoring. Interestingly, you have used that to "cow" him in and he now begins to proof that he's not having sexual relationship with any and every girl you see him around with. Dear, you're grandly insecure with that perceptions about men and such an obsession can make you always behave irrational. That could have been the reason why he's re-assessing his love for you.
Just expunge obsession from your heart - no human being is worth to be obsessed on otherwise, you might murder a guy if you suspect him of fornication or if he actual does.
note: We actually marry by faith.

slyIsaac:
you are the best joor!....

Fresia01:
silent treatment... d guy wan break up with u ooo...if u love him jux continue pressing... let d word " I don't want u" come directly from him.....I ve been in ur shoes several times...saw condom in my bf' s house, saw a woman' s necklace in his car front seat , saw a picture of him with a lady and d exact nail d girl in d picture had I also saw in his car...I ve seen a whole lot..I talk... I rant....I wanna call it quit buh I always remember what both of us have been try and I always calm down...most times guys don't like ranting women...even when they are at fault..wen u try to rant nonstop they will now turn d tables on u and make u look like an overbearing girlfriend... I learnt to hold my peace even wen I knw he is cheating... jux be good to him..nice n caring...talk to him about what u suspect about him wen u guys are on a good n romantic mood...let me stop here..

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



Mods help a sister out

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



Mods help a sister out