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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by MizTyna(f): 9:28am On Jun 17, 2016

Flashh:
Miztyna.

Why am I tagged tho? You want to propose to me?

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by gerarahiamehn(m): 9:30am On Jun 17, 2016

Naughtysite:

Or how the wives propose to their husbands..

Hian! That doesn't happen here in Nigeria o

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Ezionye(f): 9:32am On Jun 17, 2016

Okudiover:
I did not propose rather she did, with her pregnancy.

Nah, u proposed by getting her pregnant. Must u do?

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by xtenxive(m): 9:34am On Jun 17, 2016

Adisa89:
I proposed to my wife after a Sunday church service. She wasn't expecting it at all. I just pulled out a ring and went on my knees. Then I asked her to marry me. She stunned me with 'What if I say no?' and I begged her 'Please don't. Don't disgrace me before this crowd. Eventually she accepted.

That your wife must be a very funny Lady. grin

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DedeNkem: 9:40am On Jun 17, 2016

Evidence1000:

Swerve myfriend. You don't have a purpose of your existence .

Incoherent as*hole.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DedeNkem: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2016

yinkarh187:
no offense you haven't typed anything reasonable too

It seems you're one of the id*iots I was refering to.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DedeNkem: 9:45am On Jun 17, 2016

MicroBox:

Guy you sef dey surprise me, that fuckaad is a young man in his early twenties that wrote JAMB five time. Read his profile and run through some of topics in education

Thanks for your funny, but true comment. LOL.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 17, 2016

agarawu23:
Adeh39 will see my proposal soon

What is he saying?

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by STENON(f): 9:57am On Jun 17, 2016

Wowww !!! Interesting Romantic stories.

Baba God, I'm waiting for my time and not just with any man, but with God's Elect.

Goodmorning to all Nairalanders.

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by fpeter(f): 10:08am On Jun 17, 2016

met my hubs on social media, we chatted and i deleted him.
few months later we had a video call and he wanted to know
why i was so rude the last time. We gisted and i told him i was
traveling to meet with my supposed to be hubby's family in their
village, he wished me well...he asked how long i had been in a R/ship
with the dude and i said close to 4yrs and he said the dude wasn't
ready for marriage, I was upset and cursed him out for telling me the
obvious. I went ahead with the journey and he kept calling to know how
I was faring, it suddenly dawned on me when i returned home that i may
not be marrying the first guy. My now hubby invited me abroad but i said
no because i felt he would just straff and run, so he asked me when my
next B'day would be. I told him and he said he would marry me on that day
it was a Monday so i disbelieved him. He told me to inform my family but i
was too scared. He came into 9ja on Friday...I was shocked, he proposed to
me and we both knelt down and prayed to God to take control...we got married
two days after. My hubby had been communicating with my mum though...It was
a surprise to my friends,colleagues and extended family who fined hubby some
amount of Naira for taking them unawares...my ex was more in shock too...

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by amtaken(f): 10:09am On Jun 17, 2016

Adisa89:

But at least there must be a certain time he showed you the ring, or didn't he?

we didn't tow that line. We didn't need all that.

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jun 17, 2016

Vision 2023 grin

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 10:19am On Jun 17, 2016

Perfectdanny:
Vision 2023

We gather dey

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 10:21am On Jun 17, 2016

richyblink1:
It was her birthday which coincidentally fell on a working day. I had arranged with a cake maker to do me a cake with this caption written on it, "thanks for this 5 years, let's do forever. Be my wife".

I got a delivery guy to delivery both the ring and cake beautifully wrapped together. When they announced her name that some delivery guy have a parcel for her, she was surprised as the guy pretended to be in love with her and came to wish her happy birthday. She reluctantly opened the parcel. The heading of the write up made her shout for joy as she saw HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DESIRE! THANKS FOR THIS 5 YEARS, LET'S DO FOREVER. BE MY WIFE.

In fact, I was called to come take her home as emotions couldn't let her see through her daily task

I promise mine will be just like yours

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Countrygirl(f): 10:34am On Jun 17, 2016

Some of the comments are just so funny.........rolling on the floor to propose......tosyne, start it others will definitely follow. U no say for naija na copy copy we dey do.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by TaiKuun(m): 10:42am On Jun 17, 2016

akp202:
do u realize u re also an unbeliever to d guy's religion whom u quoted as an unbeliever ?

I DO NOT OWE YOU AN ANSWER.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by chuckdee4(m): 11:01am On Jun 17, 2016

I was out of the country when my wife and I had agreed to tie the knot and I didn't have plans of coming back any time soon.
She had been asking for an iPad, so I bought her one, at the same time I had bought a ring for her but didn't know how to get it across to her.
Since I wasn't going to be travelling to Nigeria anytime soon, I recorded a series of 3 videos on the iPad leading to a proposal, I then put the ring behind the iPad packaging such that she couldn't see it when she initially opened it.

I sent the iPad through a close friend travelling to Naija (u wouldn't entrust that to a delivery company).

The day she picked up the iPad I told her I had loaded up some tutorial videos for her to watch.
Her friends were all aware and saw her reaction (shame I didn't witness it).
After watching the video she called me all excited agreeing to be my wife.
That was 3 years ago and I guess it was the best I could do without physically being there

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:12am On Jun 17, 2016

Please I Dunno if this is cool buh it's been on ma mind. I'm thinkin of making arrangements with an eatery attendant to make a cake with ''Please Marry me'' written on it with icing sugar a day to mine or her next birthday ... Then would take her there on the day for us to celebrate. Then after placin our orders for food and drinks, at a moment I'll give the attendant a sign to bring the cake to the table. And when I open the cake and she sees what's wriiten on it, I'll kneel down with the ring in my hand and say some sweet words to her and give her the ring. Please how is this idea, hope it's cool?

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 17, 2016

agarawu23:
baba, na your story be this?

Hey it worked for the cavemen, allegedly grin

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by bidak(m): 11:43am On Jun 17, 2016

[quote author=Alokendra post=46647289]I wonder why some people say they were afraid their prospective fiancee would decline. Why would you be in a serious relationship and still be afraid. Except you guys have been fooling and playing around. Then you're afraid she might decline. Your gf should be looking forward to your proposal and not the other way round.[/quote
There is more to marriage than you imagine the fact that you guys are into a serious relationship don't mean you will get married and she might decline or ask for more time if she is not very sure she is ready to live with you all her life cos

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:44am On Jun 17, 2016

Great insights Thank God for love and life. Pray mine will be simple full of love im definitely gonna cry

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 17, 2016

richyblink1:
It was her birthday which coincidentally fell on a working day. I had arranged with a cake maker to do me a cake with this caption written on it, "thanks for this 5 years, let's do forever. Be my wife".

I got a delivery guy to delivery both the ring and cake beautifully wrapped together. When they announced her name that some delivery guy have a parcel for her, she was surprised as the guy pretended to be in love with her and came to wish her happy birthday. She reluctantly opened the parcel. The heading of the write up made her shout for joy as she saw HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DESIRE! THANKS FOR THIS 5 YEARS, LET'S DO FOREVER. BE MY WIFE.

In fact, I was called to come take her home as emotions couldn't let her see through her daily task

OMG

I can imagine how she felt.

I pray My future husband be this romantic.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Unlimited22: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2016

CarrotAndStick:

Ok, tell me what other gain there is in marriage besides sex and babies?

Companionship. Why are the married couples over 80 years of age and who are no longer sexually active still married?

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by oluseuniyi(m): 12:35pm On Jun 17, 2016

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Alokendra(m): 12:46pm On Jun 17, 2016

[quote author=bidak post=46655546][/quote]
Trust me bro. You'd know. If your girlfriend isn't anticipating a proposal from you, it only means that there's no bond between the two you. It could also mean that communication is poor and you guys haven't discussed marriage, family, kids et al. These discussions are not preempted. They just come spontaneously. Both of you just find yourselves talking about family, kids and all. I'm not expert on this subject matter, but common sense applies.

Why should I panick that my girl friend whom I'm a serious relationship with would decline my offer. If she declines your offer, it means she's only putting up with you or using you as a pastime. No lady, I repeat no lady that is into you and has a level of emotional connection with you would discuss marriage and settling down with you. If she doesn't then you should worry.

Panicking or anticipating a decline might mean you forced yourself on her, or has rejected you on so many occasions but by the virtue of the fact that you refused to back down, she yielded not out of love, but becuase she needs a breathing space. Girls are not trophies bro. Be an ambitious and a career focused guy and no lady would want to let you go.

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Flashh: 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2016

MizTyna:

Why am I tagged tho? You want to propose to me?

Chill a bit. You snubbed the mail then.

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by ladyF(f): 1:03pm On Jun 17, 2016

PresVA:
*Make I buy a plot of land here*.......

lol share your own na, make people get inspiration. grin

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by PresVA: 1:07pm On Jun 17, 2016

Jamean:

hehe! Mrs coman gist us

I came late oo.. the thread don hit front page since yesterday cry

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by PresVA: 1:08pm On Jun 17, 2016

ladyF:

lol share your own na, make people get inspiration.

No need.. thread is now stale.. Didn't know when it hit front page grin

Next time

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by akp202(m): 1:09pm On Jun 17, 2016

TaiKuun:
I DO NOT OWE YOU AN ANSWER.

am sure u don't but it will be a wise counsel for u to stop calling other person's unbelievers

Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by Jamean(f): 1:13pm On Jun 17, 2016

PresVA:
I came late oo.. the thread don hit front page since yesterday

sorry dear,you had more pressing matters to attend to cheesy

Oya modify your post.

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Re: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by ladyF(f): 1:17pm On Jun 17, 2016

PresVA:
No need.. thread is now stale.. Didn't know when it hit front page

Next time

Chai..see as you just dodge am. I will mention you when the next "share your proposal experience" thread hits FP grin

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