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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 7:00pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:ALRYTY BOSS |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 7:26pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:Yes BOSS... NA AS U TEACH US I DO AM... NW SHE DON FALL I NO DEY INTERESTED... I NEVA CLOSE D DEAL YET.. U NO WAT I MEAN.. HW DO I KEEP HER INTERESTED TILL I DO.. SHE'S COMING OVA MONTHS END |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Acermoon(m): 5:04pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx: How can I approach a gal av not met before... a gal that's just passing by..... |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:09pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
JhyMedex: Keep her coming for more. Leave her wanting and missing u. Don't contsct her or talk/ give her all ur time. U need to make her miss u...appear scarce for a while. Keep acting like a bf.... Try to read these two threads. www.nairaland.com/3129312/still-make-mistake-women www.nairaland.com/3151863/attention-single-guys-need-gf Play it cool bro. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by sadly: 4:51pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:bro, Can I speak to you on phone? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:44am On Jun 12, 2016 |
sadly:ok boss .no p |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by guente02(m): 11:16am On Jun 12, 2016 |
So there's this girl that i met lat October and we've been dating (i asked her out and she said a resounding yes). I've been calling and chatting but she's not the interesting type and and she even tells me she's boring but i still try to inject some positive vibes into the relationship and this is the seventh month of my boring ride with her. I wanted to breakup with her but my friends are like just bon her and i did so for like a month and she wasn't bothered or even askedwhat was wrong even though we're course mate. I've come to the conclusion that she's not worth being with. Now she tends to come to my crib from time to time and she wouldn't oblige to my sex moves but tries to suffocate me with kisses while i smooch her with her cloths on as she wouldn't take that off too. Less i forget i do all d calling and she flashes. I'm tired of her and i can't leave her unless i breakup. I know im supposed to game other girls but i dont have time for such dont know if this notion of mine is what is killing me. Just want to know what you think. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by minexpo(m): 12:00pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
I avnt talkd or watsap ma gal for a while nw....and she didn't border to reach me either..should I enjoy or brk d silence..and help me..hw can I start a convo wit a lady u avnt talkd 2 4 while |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 8:06pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
guente02: From what is going on based on your summary, looks like you're her "side chick".. You're like the backup to her main boyfriend.. But she's not the issue here.. You are. How? You're still thinking and trying to keep up with her so you can have sex with her eventually, which won't work. At the end, she'll get bored of the whole turning-on without sex thing, let go off you and in the end you'll feel used.. When I first started attracting girls, things like this always happen, but it doesn't anymore.. Because I don't even care if I sleep with her or not.. I'm not outcome-sex-based anymore. If she meets my standard, fine, if she doesn't, fine and let go.. (Which will make her chase you more..) Here's what you should do next time (because that's one of the best way I teach hundreds of my email clients).. So next time you're doing the romance turning-on thing and you notice she's holding back, do NOT try to persuade her anymore.. ..Immediately you notice her pulling back, pull off quickly yourself and tell her you can't continue the act of her giving you blue balls anymore.. Tell her you're feeling used as a guy.. So deep down you, LET GO off her in your mind/heart.. Detach totally, then you ... Since it's at the HEAT of the moment and her emotions her engaged and you tell her that; It's either you breakup with her (position of power for you) and stop the whole "giving me blue balls" thing OR Tell her that you're not going to keep having romance with a baby/under18 anymore, unless she's mature to have an adult romance with you, she should look for another "nice" guy to play with.. (Which communicates your indifference and power to her..) Either way.. It's a win win for you.. ***** And based on your act of not meeting and attracting other girls, you're killing your game by attaching yourself to one girl, and that's not what I, Josh Diamond, want for you, guente, and every guy who's reading this. We're the world's greatest gardener ever since the creation of human being.. We're are created for us to spread our champion seed over the whole garden, not kill ourselves by limiting to just a plot of land.. Fvck that..! Are you gonna keep wasting your resources on one girl or you're going to go out and join me and become the GREATEST ATTRACTIVE GARDENER you were meant and born to be?? Peace boss.. -JD (Millionaire Playboy) 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Allisonrichy(m): 3:13am On Jun 13, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:Mr Op please I need urgent help a met a girl here in NL 2 weeks ago although I school in Ghana and she schools at UNIBEN and we've been talking well all this while I call a every day and if I don't call her she calls me and we talk for about 15min Now the thing is I've not even seeing her face b4 although she's always saying she's a beautiful girl and she told me she doesn't have a smartphone that's why she has not been able to send me her pictures She has already considered herself as my girlfriend even b4 I said anything about relationship Now her birthday is coming up this Wednesday and she told me I should try and send her something money I guess since I won't be able to come and wish her happy birthday in person but I'm confused and I'm not comfortable sending anything to a girl I've not even seen her face b4 Please OP advice me on what to do |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:50am On Jun 13, 2016 |
Allisonrichy: Bro don't make DAT mistake of sending her money...or giving her any tin. Don't let an unknown girl take u on a worthless emotional ride. U have known her for Two weeks and she cudnt even try to take a pic of herself ( using her friends' phone) and send to u. Hmmm.she tells u she is beautiful... Don't fall for DAT. She cudnt even direct u to her FBI account.. Chai...she no try. Girls like her turn out to be below par when u eventually see her pics or meet her. Don't waste ur energy doing Sth u will regret. I mean, this is 2016, not the days of global africhat, prodigits and my gamma; when hooking up was based on probability. Don't send her anything or do shi shi for her. She just wan use u...obtain u...what are the chances of u even getting to meet her (or even seeing her pics) when she can't send ordinary pics for 2weeks? Free d girl...u are not dat desperate. Focua your energy on better girls. I am very sure if u were in naija..she would turn down any opportunity of meeting up.. All na format bro. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Allisonrichy(m): 11:52am On Jun 13, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:Bro I swear oh I have reasoned all this u said I feel she's only trying to fool me Anyway thanks bro |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:40pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
minexpo: Whats your reason for not contacting her bro?. Hmmm..abi u dey find reason to break up . Contact her biko.....no let anoda guy enjoy ur babe. Call her first..before the whatsapp...jusy say hi...sound fun..." Been a while dear, what happened...i didnt hear from u since,for like 2 weeks now i av been wondering if u av been kidnapped"...say it without stopping or breaking...and with a fun voice. That should do d trick. Just contact her back bro... 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by guente02(m): 11:00pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
guente02: xxxtedyxxx:Look into my matter also na |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I turn ladies off when chatting with them on whats app Pls dnt knw what to do Really need help Help a bro |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by SageNaruto(m): 8:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
bojbest: Just turn them back on nao |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kapai(m): 12:56am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Boss i greet ..! Pls there's this gal i met on N'land,we shared contact n av bn chattin on whatsapp for 2wiks nw.She feel free chattin wit al tym n most tym we talk on phone.I wont be mistaken if i say am gettin attach(fond)to her. My problem nw is...... Hw do i tell her i like her.? How do i mek our chat a warmth n romantic one cos mosttym i get stock wit wat to ask or chat again. Ideas on likely questions to use on her.. Thankx....salute u Th |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 5:24pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
kapai:u need don't need 2 tell her dat u like her straight.....3 things u need 2 do is 2 create attraction by demonstratin higher value of urself....build comfort for her 2 make her invest and introduce romance |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kapai(m): 6:08pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
fabulous2000: Already this morning we chatted such, she came up wit a naughty talk.i took d advantage to open up to her of how attach am gettin with her,atsame like her.She confined to me of havin same feelin bt scared of goin in to a stranger. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 8:44pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
kapai:she was calling u a stranger cos u skip d second phase which is comfort building b4 goin for the romance stage.....so u need 2 go back 2 d second phase....make her comfortable with u...make her 2 invest....start with the mindset of friends..see her as ur frnd....talk 2 her as if she is ur best female frnd.....tease her....make her laugh...neg her....don't spend much on her...make her miss u...tell her u ar busy some times..2 make her miss u...when u see her green light then go 4 romance....don't stay long on d second phase so as nt 2 enter d friend zone. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by kapai(m): 11:45pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
fabulous2000: I got ur point,thnx. Back to my bench"fingers crossed |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fabulous2000(m): 9:25am On Jun 22, 2016 |
kapai:okay bro....make sure u don't lose dat girl cos she is attracted 2 u already as she has seen u demonstrate high value of urself but she is nt comfortable with u yet....any point dat is nt clear 2 u frm my write up...make sure u ask me..so i can expanciate more...best of luck man 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Young03(m): 11:01am On Jun 22, 2016 |
Allisonrichy:Give me her number. I stay in Benin make I control her know if she's beautiful BT Benin girls don't joke with birthday gifts oo |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Alexas58: 6:24pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Teddy aka sweet papa..i dey hail,wel i have a prob,i been datin dis girl since last year,we clocked a yr later and some months,wen i was bout writing ma exams,ma gf told me she had smtn to tell me,and den she broke up wif me and that destablixed me alot..she keeps telin me she loves me,buh wana b alone,she made me loose alot of girls that showed interest in me cos of her..she also made me loose some close friends too,buh wah keeps getn me angry is that she keeps telin me she loves me,well i once told her i kissed one of ma friends.dts wia d eff up started nd shes like she cant trust me..should i let go og her,or is dia a way i can get her ober??..cos ryt now,am groomin myself to b a terible heart breaker |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 10:31pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Alexas58: Fvck dude.. What in heaven's sake is wrong with you? Okay.. I know people might not be telling you the truth, but I will.. You killed yourself.. Yeah, you heard me. I don't know if I should hang your dick for seven days right now or I should lock you up. Can't you see that you're the SOLE cause of everything this girl did with your "heart". You are.. Open your eyes and feel your anger towards yourself.. @bolded, this girl made you loose some girls that show interest in you.. Okay.. I can understand " jealousy".. But again @bolded, you loose some of your close friends because of this girl. What DA fvck? Wrong move bruv, bad move. Do you think she's going to value you if you don't even value your close friends? Fvck No.. Brotherhood OVER Bitches.. Again you worsen the whole thing by being super She held the whole keys in the relationship. She can open or lock you up, if she wants. And it's clear what she already did. The fact that you kissed another girl is not the problem like you think, in fact it made her love you more, but you, yourself is behaving like the Presenter to her QUEEN personality.. I'll give you the first Law to always follow with women: The #1 Law of Fvcking, states; "Women will only fvck men who they perceive are of higher value than her, and will not sleep with guys beneath her". (Exception - prostitute).. Even some "runs girls" still choose classy clients.. Now do you see where you are with this girl? Beneath her. If you don't change your game plan and learn game from people who know the rules of the game, you'll keep experiencing this same issue over and over again. Final say: Let the young beautiful girl be to enjoy her life, and WORK ON YOURSELF, and change from being a cheesy vanilla of women to a Hard Solid Game Creator.. Thanks. -(angry) JD.. 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Alexas58: 11:45pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Yh boss...pls wah are the steps to take??...cos i pity d girls m goin to come in contact wid..dey would date a guy widawt emotions,only sweet words |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 11:49pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Alexas58: Lol.. Don't do the asshole thingy.. Be your BEST ATTRACTIVE SELF, not some unforgiving and revengeful self.. Life's fun.. So enjoy it. Not make revenge. For your build ups, you might want to visit here for a start for you.. www.joshuniverse.com Thanks for a breakthrough beginning.. -JD |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by guente02(m): 12:54am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Djboosting: How do one demonstrate high value to girls? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 1:08am On Jun 26, 2016 |
guente02: Yeah.. That's a good question, but the answer is what I can call TRANSFORMATION. It's not like acquiring a stack amount of cash, a guy can have a $1,000,000 bank account and still might be of low value, whereas a guy squatting with a friend in a room apartment might be higher value than the rich dude.. ..and despite the shitty apartment, he'll still be constantly sleeping with hot girls.. Money or "good looks" is just an external boost, but the REAL value is something more of the internal. E.g beliefs, mindset, do's and don'ts, body language, conversation skills etc.. So it's something of internal been portray outward. E.g. being needy is an internal ish being portray outward, but it's of a lower value. You follow? Good.. So being higher value is getting better and better internally every single day, and that's going to show outward with your behavior, dressing, body language, personality.. Etc.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Omuka: 7:45am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Oga djboosting please there is one girl in my class, she often ask me to help her do her assigment but am interested in her so how do i go about it? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:35am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Alexas58: i hail bro...how levels. trust me when i say u need to free this girl bro. she feels she has gotten u hooked and you will always eat from her palm ( emotionally ). You emotionall dependent on her. she is just a girl...more like any other girl out there. u need to cut yourself loose and explore your true potentials, which is, getting and getting lots of girls. She is not interested in the.convo, but.keep telling u se.loves u, just.to hook u down bro. she is obviously running other packages behind the scene. forget this girl..she will only waste your time and sap your energy. forget her tantrums about not trusting you..all.na.format to just waste your time and keep u stuck with her. meet and flex with other.girls...get ur game back.on bro. lots of sweet girls,cute sexy girls are waiting for u...would u rather stay stuck on one girl that keeps putting u on "is coming" or forge ahead and kiss more cute girls? the latter will give u peace mind..and the ability.to make choices. hope to hear from u...boss. am.sorry.for replying.late. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:53am On Jun 26, 2016 |
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