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Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
MY BROTHER OP I'LL GIVE THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH. WHATEVER IS BUILT ON A FAULTY FOUNDATION IS BOUND TO HAVE CHALLENGES! GOING AHEAD TO HAVE KIDS WITH YOUR WIFE BEFORE MARRYING HER IS AN ACT OF TAKING GOD OFF YOUR MARRIAGE. ANYWAYS THE ACT HAS BEEN COMMITTED AND WHAT U NID NOW IS A SOLUTION! DON'T DIVORCE HER: ITS WRONG BIBLICAL NO MATTER THE REASON. AND ALSO U MIGHT ENTER INTO A BIGGER MESS WITH THE NEXT PERSON. WHAT SHE HAS DONE IS A MESS! BUT THE WAY OUT IS FOR YOU TO THROW YOURSELF COMPLETELY INTO GOD. ITS ONLY HIM THAT CAN HEAL YOUR WOUNDS. GET YOURSELF TO A HEAVEN CONSCIOUS CHURCH. THE NEW PEACE GOD WOULD GIVE YOU WOULD CAPTURE HER. AND BY HERSELF SHE WOULD TURN A NEW LEAF AND YOU WOULD BE A PROUD HUSBAND AGAIN. send me an email if you wish and lets talk more. ifeanyichukwueze@yahoo.com 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Let her go 2 Likes |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by ernie1234(m): 9:58pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Simply communication can get it right.... Then put it to God in prayer |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by achoudeh(m): 10:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Mopricelezz:if your husband cheating on you this is what you will sha 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
By the time Op reads All these text books and Assignment his head would just BLOW o!! shobam1410: |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by frisky2good(m): 10:04pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
loveisblind: Your wife has been handled outside and so I think you should just face reality. It's over! She will do it over and over again. Once a woman cheats, she can never stop. Send her away while tempers are still controllable. She will soon start showing you imported attitude. Just close your eyes and do what you have to do. It is God that takes care of children. You can try to get her chat history with the guy. It could help during custody hearing. I don tell you my own. 8 Likes |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by frisky2good(m): 10:05pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
After dem don handle her outside? Abeg make I hear word. ernie1234: 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by achoudeh(m): 10:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
If you have hire a private investigator, and get some fact, them send her packing with that and before then make arrangement for your kids like many or another wife to be ready shine your eye bro 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by NinaMiliano: 10:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
MicroBox: Am with u sir. Well said. U can't control w womans mind. If she's no longer emotionally attached to u, den she's gone. Don't suffer ursef. Else u will be sleeping with her while she's thinking of another guy. Let her go sir. Save ur heart b4 u get cardiac arrest 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Bollinger(m): 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
loveisblind: First thing i will tell you is if you are sure and have proof, you must divorce her. There is nothing like, "oh, let's talk about it". That is absolutely crap. The cornerstone of a great marriage is trust and without trust the marriage is dead. Don't be like most people who begin to stalk their wives to find out who the guy is. That's how you probably are going to do something dumb. If you are thinking about the kids, then you guys talk it through with the understanding that the marriage is over, you move out or she moves out, and begin to split responsibilities of caring for them. You do this until you can afford financially to divorce and or till they hit college age. This option is way better. Nothing should make a man or woman stay with a cheating spouse. 6 Likes |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Theoritical(m): 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@OP, I feel ur pains' I wouldn't advise you to divorce ur wife, but a saying goes ' u don't endure marriage, u ought to enjoy it.. in as much ur wife took a wrong step' did she feel remorse over her action? If she admit it a mistake and genuinely plead repentance, I beg u forgive her' if she doesn't, I advise u file for divorce b4 u die prematurely. As for d kids, try run paternity test, if they are urs, treat them with love; when they grow up, I bet they will understand better.. Try not to rush over decision' seek elders advice " seek spiritual counsel she might be under spiritual influence. If ever there was once love between u both, something might have gone wrong which u need to fix as man.. nothing new under d sun' I pray God give u d grace to overcome this temtation. Good luck Man. 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by sweetcocoa(f): 10:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
OP search your heart for the answers you seek. Meanwhile, all these people saying 'send her parking', why exactly? OP should only consider that option if he's never cheated. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by chidinmauche23: 10:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
bro@wake up from sleep and find out by yourself before you take your step on what to do cos if a woman or a man both cheating believe the man cant be sucessful but things wil alway be hard for the man.you are man enough to know what you want in life |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
iyke926:DON'T |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Bros, you can dialogue, pray,or keep enduring infidelity from your wife but that is except you are not from the same part of this world like me (Igbo). If you were, you can do all those when you are Still SUSPECTING your wife but once you have PROOF as you do, and decide to keep it to yourself and remain under the same roof with your traditionally/legally married wife, without bringing it to the fore and doing the needful(cleansing and rites), no worse way to die a slow and mysterious death than that. Don't fear the unkown. Start from your family. 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by ihedioramma: 10:20pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
[quote author=loveisblind post=46669779]Greetings to all NLs.....i think solution to my problem will come from good people of this forum and such will safe me from doing the wrong thing. It all started wen i was dating my wife of which my fam did not want her as they want me to marry someone else, though they could not tell me to my face why.....Also my wife families did not want her to marry me base on xtian vs Muslim stuff, but we both insisted....after some years we have kids and later we did our wedding witot any assistance from both families i.e. we shoulder it alone......recently, in the night, while she was in her room, PHCN brought light and i was helping her to charge her fon and i saw a guy's number whom they ve been calling each other almost on daily basis, on a normal ground i dont check her fon and she doesnt check mine....but wen i noticed this number, May be you teach her, if not pray over it and call her talk to her like a child you love and see if there will be change in her . |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Mopricelezz(f): 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by crazymommy(f): 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
This is the kind of thread where you will find "hypocrisy".... those that usually say a woman should not stay with a cheating husband will suddenly be telling the man to be patient with her...then you see those that usually say a woman should be patient with a cheating husband will suddenly condemn the wife of the op....i hope people now understand why people like us say cheating is bad whether male or female....what is good for the goose is good for the gander... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by afawokay(m): 10:26pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by afawokay(m): 10:28pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
[/color] FairValue: FairValue:[/color][quote author=FairValue post=46708952][color=#000099][i]The wife has been like that when u were dating-male friends thing, yet u didn't see an issue in that or u believed she would stop once married. The root cause of many broken marriages these days is because most people believe they can change their partner but d truth is that, you can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in their actions. I believe the guy was her friend with benefit before u guys married or newly cheating partner when u had sexual satisfaction problem. The problem with cheating is that, once it starts, it will be hard to quit. In your case, u made a wrong choice already by going against the decision of your family not to marry her. You were blinded by love. A cheating wife could kill her husband knowingly or unknowingly, so u should always watch your back. I suggest you conduct DNA to confirm paternity of your kids. |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Maximus85(m): 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
loveisblind:Eeyah, sorry ehnnn |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by saintmark88(m): 10:35pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Tell ur wife Tht there is everything wrong with a having a male friend in marriage O....... WAh kind of stupid. male friend, if I were in your shoes, I'll surely bring an end to the friendship n if my wife decides to c nothing wrong with it, she would have to choose bw me, our kids n her very special male friend....simple.... |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by oodua1stson: 10:36pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
loveisblind:Oga, never forgive a woman that sleeps with another man . Just send her away before you find yourself in the news for killing her Imi kekere l'eti awo gbegiri Things can never return to normal between you again 3 Likes |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by emvico(m): 10:36pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Dyt:don't mind him. he is just trying to see what people will say. so that he can boldly say 'i do this and that because of so and so |
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Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by SonofDevil: 10:37pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Mopricelezz:Just shut up..!!! What do u mean by praying when God is not involved in the marriage. Listen parents re the Representative of God in life of a child if u don't have their blessing, just forget about the union. sitting her down after 10 yrs marriage for counseling or what..? I guess u re high on cow Dung. Op u re the main cause of problem, it could have being Easy letting go when the two familiies stood against it. Remember both of you never Had the blessings of ur parents. Which means God is not involved , meaning such marriage is bound to fail. You let love blind ur sense of reasoning, you need to Let go at this point in time, A cheating wife is dangerous more than hyena, because a woman begat ur child doesn't mean she can't kill you. If ur Biological mother is still alive,she will take care of the Kids, There re so many kids that didn't live to see their mother yet they re successful.. If you want to live Long, and eat the fruit of ur Labour Run for ur Life. Ur Wife doesn't Worth all this stress. 3 Likes |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I will be extremely jealous.That kitty kat is meant for me alone. |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by MrTour: 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
he just wanted to make front page, fake story everywhere. Teensway: |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by victorazy(m): 10:42pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
loveisblind: Everything is wrong brother! "You didn't get the blessings of ur parents" very very important. There was no marriage! (Truth) u think u just came out to the world by ursef? Because u got moni now u think u just grew up like that? 1 Like |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Mopricelezz: Babe, if the man cheats, divorce him too na. . So that the New Chic will take over... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by deolaarc(m): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Firstly, forgiveness is the key here. Stop focusing on the negative part in the foundation of the marriage. You signed the dotted line for better for worse. I will start from your words, I, I,I..you focus too much on yourselve. When couples fight In marriage 2 of them may be right. Is there anything you are not doing right? Your wife cheating, that is a bad one, have you investigated further?, do you have enough evidence? Keep a eagle eye watch if truly she does you will see more. Try to have many proove watch if that is deniable Be prepared to forgive. When you catch a cheat. Let her be the judge. Peace |
Re: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by greggng: 10:46pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I will divorce her and move on with a responsible wife. I will also visit the hospital to check if she has not given me hiv. Walahi if she gives me hiv then I ve to kill her b4 joining her in hell 1 Like |
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