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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by HirstMOG(m): 11:44pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Bro, there is message by T.D. Jakes called Destiny has stalker. Don't let the devil use her to stalk your destiny OK! |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by soulpiano23(m): 11:45pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
bro!from ur write up,i think u still need a counsellor.seems u are a quiet person who enjoy so much secluded life style.seclusion is a silent killer or permit me, secluded person is also a silent killer.pls get friends to hang out with(male) for a while.they dont have to be bad guys but hang out with guys.make u weekend great.check cinemas e.t. in your office look out for some you can always hang out with.but most importantly hang out with GOD.HE CAN NEVER BETRAY U. Lots of love bro |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by adonisgold: 11:45pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Em, which one is now killing you slowly? The insecticide? Abi? Then why are you complaining? Or it is too slow? Drink more! 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by 2undeee(m): 11:45pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
may ur soul rest in peaces dat will b my prayer for u if u dont leave dat gal nd if possible her shadow alone nd d worst is u will not make heaven na hell straight if time is not taken |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by redgem(f): 11:48pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Youngpo413: don't get you... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by fortuneinya: 11:49pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Time wil heal u bro.she is not for u so move on one day u will look back and thank God.dont cry 4 her she doesn't worth ur tears |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by marxweller247: 11:50pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
amaraedec:Guy abeg go mek money 1st, leave women alone, when u are don , I bet u dat time women na point n kill, u no go no wetin u won ten dem do sef, if u tell am say Sidon here now now, she go run do am, I no even know why did kin tins go dey worry some guys, anyway u failed 2 play d games well, see, 90 % of girls believe when u tell them lies, rather than d truth -they will say u are lying, so d best tin is to blend d lie and u see them follow, because they always like 2shy away from, d reality but d reality is always on d ground but they chose to keep blind 2 it. So if u don't know d game, U go kill itself 4it, but if u know d wusup, Then d easier 4 u. nid a tight babe ! wey tight ! gimi a call |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by katman9x(m): 11:50pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
You are an idiot |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
redgem: MEN! DIS GIRL U GO SWEET TO FUK EH! PM ME UR PHONE NUMBER I NEED TO TALK TO YOU. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by worldman(m): 11:54pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Sorry bro such is life, sometime in January this year I was a victim too. Everyone who advice me against her looks like enemy to me but when I begin to adhere to there advice is when I Begin to have peace in my life. Mine was even worst because I see her thru university, infact I trained her like my child. Move on there are so many good ladies out there |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by KangaIye: 11:55pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
I thought he is dead self |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by irondome: 11:56pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
amaraedec: I can't help being harsh here; you are caught between joblessness and insanity!!! Find yourself a project or a major goal in life; work aggressively towards that goal and become a huge success in life. Over time, you would sit back and hand pick the best of the ladies from the pack like Osho baba did with Iara 2 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by sniper77(m): 11:58pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
The only way you can get her out of your mind is to format your memory. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by seanez: 11:58pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by redgem(f): 11:59pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
obiekunie1: Sorry bro, go back to the baba dat did the jasz for you, cos the jasz failed mehn..... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Barigaboy(m): 12:02am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I would have said may your gentle and loving soul rest in peace but since u r still alive that means can still take advice. Someone broke up with u does not mean that she is the cos or its becos she found someone better. She might break up with u because God has not seen her has d right person for u. Forget abt what u have done for her. Humm well this happens to guys who easily fall in love. Seeing girlfriends as wife. Brodas. Stop pikin attitude when d right woman comes u will no let her go. She isn't yours. If she is yours she wud come back. Don't beg her. For now free woman n face your life no woman can b like your mom. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 12:02am On Jun 25, 2016 |
redgem: I dey go collect back my money and return the remaining lizard head concoction! |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 25, 2016 |
redgem: MEN! DIS GIRL U GO SWEET TO FUK EH! PM ME UR PHONE NUMBER I NEED TO TALK TO YOU. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ArikeAriyo(f): 12:03am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Orisirisi |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by redgem(f): 12:05am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Hahahahaha...some nairalanders are wicked oh!!! |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by michelz: 12:05am On Jun 25, 2016 |
OP,I have to be blunt with you: 99% of the whole blame is on you. You may ask how,but the reason is simple: you didn't have a "life" before you met her,or you lost your "life" when you met her. I know how it hurts so much in situation like yours,but when you know that you have a purpose in life - a meaning in your life - and that your purpose in life is not tied with her,then you'll realize she's not worth committing suicide. You see,dating or relationship is mainly all about Psychology. you have to have a life before welcoming another person into your life. Some ladies will cheat on you with someone you might consider less than you. Why? Most times they're looking for someone who has a life. Someone who seems to have mastered life - and that translates to being successful. Search yourself Op. Look inwards and discover where you "lost" it. Then retrace your steps and make amends,focus on your goals and build yourself. Thereafter,If any lady misbehaves like she did,then know that the person doesn't deserve you. Be strong. Life is for the strong. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by TrollTrap: 12:06am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I know depression isn't a jonking sturvs but you need to get a grip man.... Like some people on here stated already you need to set goals for yourself (one that don't involve winning ur ex back lol), focus on the goal. Build yourself Eat healthy, exercise, try achieve your goals, read, travel and try get great sex (sex not really necessary). If you was my brother Na better slap for reset ya head but it's cool still |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ebosed: 12:09am On Jun 25, 2016 |
You decided to take your life because you thought this is hopeless. No man can live without hope for weeks. As a man think in his heart : so is he. You mum is late, and you survived. Assume she (your girlfriend) is late too and move on, far away from her reach. Change your phone no. and date another lady (not for marriage) just to keep your company pending when you are okay. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Hotguy27: 12:10am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I have beautiful love stories to tell anyone who cares to listen. I started dating at the age of 16. Some might say I even started late or too early but the truth is that I have enjoyed more than some people who started before or after that age. I did not double date but I had as many decent ladies as the need arose. I learnt alot. Firstly, I was just an average handsome young guy and very brilliant student. I was in SS1 then and by SS2 I was already doing it real with this most beautiful girl in the town. I loved her but I never felt that she could be mine forever. I said to myself let me extract goodies from this girl before someone else snatched her away. That I did exactly.True to my thought, one Corp member who came to serve in our school snatched her away. I did not feel bad because I imagined it happened before hand. May be because I was not thinking about marrying her. I also quickly switched to another hot chick who obviously was jealous of our relationship. It was fun. The former remained my ordinary friend even when the corp member left. It continued even in my university days. I dated one fine chick after the other. Each was good for marriage but I never thought about that. I was not a player but I easily allowed a relationship to collapse instead of giving me headache. I always imagined that anything could happen to any of the relationships. The point is that I was not afraid of losing any girl. I was not a proud type but I was sure I would get another fine babe if anything happened to the one I was dating. It worked for me. When I left for NYSC, I shortly broke up with the last girl I dated because I could not see her as often as she wanted. Fine! I got job immediately after my service and two years later I married a damsel. An epitome of marriage material. Now a mother of two precious gifts. Life is good! What else do you want to hear? Live positive! Think positive!! Work hard!!! 4 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by redgem(f): 12:10am On Jun 25, 2016 |
obiekunie1:Seriously, what's your p? |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Irishrena1(f): 12:14am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Hmmm OP what can I say? I just got my own shocker about 2 hours ago. OP, just take heart, you can never force a relationship to work. If its really your kind of thing, it will just work itself out. I think since she is really sorry about cheating on you, yet she still cheats, then youve got yourself infatuated and not love(D). If you force it, she will be bearing your name and still not understand why she finds herself cheating when she loves you. She'll just realize there's something she's missing that's not in you that she sees in the other guy(s) she dates. Just let go. Its better now than later. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by streetzdreamz(m): 12:18am On Jun 25, 2016 |
You know i wont even call you names or talk you down,at one point or the other we v all gone through this feeling,or will still go through it,its a terrible feeling when you love and stay true to your believes and morals,trust me u aint the first surely not the last,telling u things will be fine,ur ideal girl is outdia,dust ursef up .... Is like talking to a wall,it wont work,cuz the mind has a cruel way of playing such games,i learnt the hard way too,just know you have the choice to be happy or to be sad over someone who doesnt value u at all,never saw ladies as s*x entities and never will,but i never see past that either henceforth,problem is,we always want a huge commitment from relationships,den we give it our all and expect loyalty and respect in return,which should be for ones wife and not just a gf,and thinking bout ones future wife,if u dont marry her a virgin,you have an idea of the nomba of d*cks she done f*ckd?? Before u guys will meet?? Fo4 A decent lady At least ten!! So whats d fuss bout a cheating gf??had to console maself with this less i commit murd3r!!! 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 12:19am On Jun 25, 2016 |
AyamBlaze:This is no advice. How can you tell someone in pains this? @Op, you'll find other girls, some will still take you for granted but never take women personal. NEVER TAKE WOMEN PERSONAL. Always evaluate a woman's interest in you;if low interest, break up with her first and quickly. A woman who cheats obviously doesn't like you,can kill you. That's disloyalty. Take lessons on how to be a player -Google is your friend. Players don't take anything,including women, personal. Incorporate the player mindset into your attitude, and you'll see success. Learn to laugh more about everything. Never contact that demonic girl ever again. 2 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 12:23am On Jun 25, 2016 |
savydo:thanks a lot |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by alizma: 12:25am On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec:were you born in October or June? |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 12:25am On Jun 25, 2016 |
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