foolinlove:


Maybe not for you. But other people find it. No need to br so cynical.

I wish I can explain to you but I doubt if you will still understand..am not being cynical about it, am just saying we humans believe love exist(in our mind) but in reality we don't practise it or show it, can we then say it is love?.. I believe ther have to be another word for what we feel or show to our partners and stop making mockery of the word love...is more or less like saying one v Christ in him or her but yet, he or she stil lies n commit other sins considered little.

schumastic:


I wish I can explain to you but I doubt if you will still understand..am not being cynical about it, am just saying we humans believe love exist(in our mind) but in reality we don't practise it or show it, can we then say it is love?.. I believe ther have to be another word for what we feel or show to our partners and stop making mockery of the word love...is more or less like saying one v Christ in him or her but yet, he or she stil lies n commit other sins considered little.

I thought the idea was to love like God love us. When we love in godly way, then there is no other word.

schumastic:

I wish I can explain to you but I doubt if you will still understand..am not being cynical about it, am just saying we humans believe love exist(in our mind) but in reality we don't practise it or show it, can we then say it is love?.. I believe ther have to be another word for what we feel or show to our partners and stop making mockery of the word love...is more or less like saying one v Christ in him or her but yet, he or she stil lies n commit other sins considered little.

when u say love only exist in our mind, does that mean that's what will operate in your marriage? You will only love your wife at head but will always lie to her all cus women want to hear lies? Is that what will operate in your home or that's what you will preach to your daughters?

foolinlove:


I thought the idea was to love like God love us. When we love in godly way, then there is no other word.

lol am glad you understood that explanation..yea that's the while idea but v u asked yourself this question..why was it written that man should love thy neighbor as he love himself?

is because he has seen the hate in man's heart n know that we human will find it hard to love others and that's why that scripture was written....mind u i believe there is a word called love, but what I don't believe is finding its true meaning in humans or practice by any of us including me...if we understand this, then it will make things easier for us, just like in your own case or mine..

schumastic:


lol am glad you understood that explanation..yea that's the while idea but v u asked yourself this question..why was it written that man should love thy neighbor as he love himself?

is because he has seen the hate in man's heart n know that we human will find it hard to love others and that's why that scripture was written....mind u i believe there is a word called love, but what I don't believe is finding its true meaning in humans or practice by any of us including me...if we understand this, then it will make things easier for us, just like in your own case or mine..

Love is hard to action. But it doesn't take away the feeling in your heart.

All we can do is try harder to do loving actions every day. We're not God, and only God can love so perfectly. But we can aspire to that, I think.

foolinlove:


Love is hard to action. But it doesn't take away the feeling in your heart.

All we can do is try harder to do loving actions every day. We're not God, and only God can love so perfectly. But we can aspire to that, I think.

exactly my point...so if someone hurts u now after coming in the disguise of love, then it will only make you hate the word love..that's why you see people say they can't love again because that's what they were deceived with.if they understand better that okay o, no one can show the true meaning of love except God n Christ who did already..then we won't b having this much hate in us..

schumastic:


exactly my point...so if someone hurts u now after coming in the disguise of love, then it will only make you hate the word love..that's why you see people say they can't love again because that's what they were deceived with.if they understand better that okay o, no one can show the true meaning of love except God n Christ who did already..then we won't b having this much hate in us..

I think we understand each other then

ayrulez:
when u say love only exist in our mind, does that mean that's what will operate in your marriage? You will only love your wife at head but will always lie to her all cus women want to hear lies? Is that what will operate in your home or that's what you will preach to your daughters?

when i say it only exist in the mind, i mean we don't show its true meaning just the surface.

I will adore, understand n respect my wife..when you respect someone, you won't do anything that will hurt his or her feelings, you will have regards for that person..to me i believ understanding and respect is an important key in marriage.
for more clarification, take your time n do a research on the those two words.

for my daughters, ther is a whole lot that dad is going to teach them about this world from my experience when that time comes.

foolinlove:


I think we understand each other then

yup yup, so instead of love, learn no matter how hard it may be but learn to understand humans both friends n foes n also respect them..so when they dissapoint you, you won't blame t on love but instead blame it on the fact that they didn't understand or respect you back..so any thread u see people hating the word love just let them know it wasn't love in the first place cus its true meaning can't b practiced by any man, but instead they were not respected n their partner didn't understand them better..I hope with this few point of mine v been able to convince u n not confuse u that humans have be misusing the word LOVE for everything..

foolinlove:


I thought the idea was to love like God love us. When we love in godly way, then there is no other word.

love,it exist...
Just that when we have it before us, we bastardaized it..
The way God loves us , yet daily we abuse, insult, spit on his face .. Yet on his own part he still loves us(crazy right?) .. Till one day that love folds up.

When some ladies who were heartbroken by a cliche kind of guy... Finds a new guy who loves them wholeheartedly ... The next thing u see, the girl becomes confusingly confuse.,,,..

*am coming i want to eat*

fuckrey just fuvkrey...