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Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 2:20pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering. |
Re: Why!!!... by adebayour26: 2:26pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Looks like somebody is scared of being FRIENDZONED 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by foolinlove(f): 2:28pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Not all guys, but it's about chances. A lot of girls will lie about having a boyfriend. Also, it could be read as "I'd love to see you, but my stupid boyfriend is in the way of our love" or whatever. But if you say you have one, chances are you are sexually active. The guy will hedge his bets and see if he can convince you. He thinks if you get to know him better then your boyfriend may just disappear. In this scenario, he believes he has a chance to have sex with you. But if you say the word "friend" they go away immediately. This is a word that lets them know you won't have sex with them. He loses interest. Friends don't have sex, so there is no chance you'll have sex with him. Men are allergic to the word "friend". They believe in the "friendzone" or whatever that stupid thing is. It's usually immature guys that act this way. I'm sure there are many levels of this behavior and it can be more complex. 6 Likes |
Re: Why!!!... by ForeverYoung197(f): 2:31pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Some men like being challenge and they wouldn't even mind being called a side niqqa. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by davymike(m): 2:33pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Because most guys know that some women lie a lot. Guys also like it when they think they have competition... Don't friend zone any guy abruptly or just like that... You wan kill vibes? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why!!!... by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
WE've been over tis issue like a zillion times on NL na....come up with something fresh..... 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 2:40pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
slyIsaac:I dunno that |
Re: Why!!!... by BiafraBushBoy(m): 3:32pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: ![]() ![]() Don't mind them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:41pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy:Lolsss not at all |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:42pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
davymike:What vibes, so you are feeling guilty abi |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:43pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
ForeverYoung197:Abi o |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:47pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
adebayour26:Yes o |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:49pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
foolinlove:I don't think there is anything bad in friendzoning but they just don't want to here that word |
Re: Why!!!... by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:if you want something seek for it atleast there is no crime in trying but ladies matter hmmnn. |
Re: Why!!!... by BiafraBushBoy(m): 3:54pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Re: Why!!!... by Maxi112: 3:54pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
we love challenge, I'd run if you give me that kinda reply ![]() |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 3:58pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
kamel4real2015:Guys matter too hmph |
Re: Why!!!... by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:i can make a case for myself am not complicated but seriously some ladies dont no what they want do you believe that. |
Re: Why!!!... by davymike(m): 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:Lol... I can't feel guilty sisi, I just stating the obvious... Just think of when you use all the courage in you to tell a guy you have feelings for him and he tells you that he Jhs wants friendship and nothing more... Your vibes would go down like the Naira sis. |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
kamel4real2015:Okay |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 4:07pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
davymike:Lolsss, I've never done it |
Re: Why!!!... by davymike(m): 4:10pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:Yh,its normally the other way round. Jhs pray that kinda thing doesn't happen. Have you heard of 'Heart crushing'? |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 4:11pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Maxi112:Really, so you don't have a friend you have feelings for but wants you to be friends |
Re: Why!!!... by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:yeah not all ladies or guys are bad it is just the mentality that some play on like he must give me money everytime,or double dating by guys but i believe ladies are more complicated. |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 4:14pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
davymike:No I havent |
Re: Why!!!... by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:hopefully you dont think like them too |
Re: Why!!!... by davymike(m): 4:18pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:Okay... Let's just take it as something greater than heartbreak |
Re: Why!!!... by Maxi112: 4:33pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:nope, I'd prefer to be distance from the person. it's way too better that way. mhn. friendzone is real, just "Hello" "Hi" is more attractive than total submission to friendship... No 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 5:02pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
davymike:Hmph |
Re: Why!!!... by mizzbouqui(f): 5:02pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Maxi112:Okay 1 Like |
Re: Why!!!... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 5:03pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
lol wat of me we can best of friend ![]() ![]() ![]() mizzbouqui: |
Re: Why!!!... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 5:04pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
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