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Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 12:23pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
I met a girl who narrated her ordeal to me. She was 15 when she got initiated into lesbianism by her family friend. Now she is 24. As she said, she love having romance with a man when the feeling comes but she have not had sex with a man because it appears irritating to her. She is so ashame of herself. Now she is ready to do anything just to break free and grow in feelings for men rather than her fellow women. What can such a girl do to break free from that shameful act? There could be some persons who have broken free from that habit. Please your best advice will be highly appreciated |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by falconey(m): 12:23pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
I'd love to help but no idea |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jessejagga(m): 12:25pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
she needz Jesus! 11 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by ErnieSmallzz(f): 12:30pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
*Pray for her........ *It's not easy.... |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by ojun50(m): 12:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
She need to spend a month in a man house. Note The man she hv feeling for. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 12:35pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself. She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian. People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same. I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel. She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born. I am praying for her. God loves everyone. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by cruzita(f): 12:37pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
its not easy but if she is determined to,she can she should stay away from pretty girls and associate more with guys |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:54pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: Y re mine hvin a feelin dat u re indirectly supportin her... She was initiated in2 it wen she was 15 and wasn't born wit it. Get ur facts right...b4 poppin a comment 28 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Let her open herself to love a guy. It's just 'mindset' stuff. If I talk now, they will come for me |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by 0ubenji(m): 1:01pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:I percieve some sincere empathy in ur words of encouragement..#IfYouKnowWahIMean 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by 0ubenji(m): 1:10pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove:Ur advice is strange... U're tryna hoodwink the lady into accepting to be wah she doesn't see herself as(a lesbian).. She claims to be ashamed of the deed..u r here encouragin her to accept the situation as a hopeless reality nd gv up.. THAT's NOT AN ADVICE pls...but a CAJOLEMENT... I sense ur advocatin for the acceptance of lesbianism(sexual equality)...I av no prob wit dat..I am not God..but ur advice is nt helpful in dis context.. Help her break free(as she claims to)...not push her back into the chains 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by seyezy: 1:10pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: My dear, you need to read the post well before posting yours, The poster said she was initiated into lesbianism and I quite disagree with you on the opinion that people are born as lesbians. Because if they are,God wouldn't have had any reason to destroy the people of Soldom and Gomorah. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by 0ubenji(m): 1:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
UndisputedBosom:Exactly my point |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 1:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
UndisputedBosom: So you're saying she was raped by a lesbian? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like she participated willingly and now, due to the pressure of society is desperate to become straight. So her life can be easier. She still likes sex with girls -you said that, she wants an easy way out so she doesn't have to deal with her shame and the negative stigma anymore. She's a lesbian. Possibly bisexual. There is no "cure". She has to live her life to the fullest the best way she can. Entering a straight relationship will probably cause her a lot of mental health issues and she will turn to drastic means to rid herself of the emotional trauma she will endure. Support and love her. It's all you can do. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
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Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 1:17pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
seyezy: Spare me. The bible is an old book and if you obeyed everything in there, you wouldn't be cutting your hair, or eating pork or shrimp. Be real. You can't pick and choose what people do and don't obey in the bible. The most important part is to emulate Jesus love, and to show love and kindness to everyone. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bitchcrafts: 1:18pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Tell her to reach me on +17 286210... are u still listening ? |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bitchcrafts: 1:24pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove:Continue talking sense to these fanatics on my behalf... I spent my whole lifetime in a spent moniker showing them the truth and the light... but I guess they are too hungry for HOPE... too strong believes in miracle , deliverance necessitated most possibly by the strikes of poverty... pummelling thinking straight a great deal, their understanding of the God concept too. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 1:29pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bitchcrafts: I will. People can fear what they don't understand, especially when it feels uncomfortable to them. What they don't realise is that you don't have to understand something in order to accept it. Everyone accepts that the sky is blue, whether they understand why or not. No one is forcing homosexuality on anyone. What consenting partners do in their bedrooms is really no one's business. Everyone should grow up a little. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bitchcrafts: 1:32pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove:You too my dear, there are still some concepts that needs to be bluffed off your mind like its cancer but that's a story for another day |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
0ubenji: IknowWahYouMean #I attended only girls school{boarding} and I know wat she is passing through. I have friends who were like dat before. Its not easy. #Always Pray for her #how I wish, I can talk to her...... With time she will get over it..*sad* |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 1:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bitchcrafts: What concepts? I no longer hate all men... 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bitchcrafts: 1:36pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove:patience! I said story for another day cos I'm going offline in like 5 4 3 2 |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by UndisputedBosom(m): 2:09pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: Why re u callin shots in dz matter.... U are just being a "wet blanket" unnecessarily, she didnt ask 4 encouragement rather advice Dia re many pple hia lyk her wishin dy can turn frm dia bad way...yet u re here encourging dem 2 forge ahead.... I use 2 hv great respect 4 u bt u re meltin it down right now |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by UndisputedBosom(m): 2:16pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
0ubenji: Imagine.... |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Vendoor(f): 2:20pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Yes you can... Change your circle of friends |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Pls talk i will defend u Nikita1: |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Mekzyzeus(m): 2:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: Hey!!! Lesbianism is a crime here in Nigeria!! Nobody was born gay, or homosexuality imprinted in one's gene |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Mekzyzeus(m): 2:35pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Nikita1: My dear talk jare!! Am Homophobic!!! Nobody was born gay! They chose the life style |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Laveda(f): 2:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Vendoor: Just my thought, the kinda friends she has now won't just let her break through, would be easier if she begins to move with straight girls or even guys Lol I've never come across a hardcore lesbian tho, they are always Bi |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Taiofil(m): 2:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
No human was born gay! I repeat no 1!! This whole "gay" thing is so spiritual that the feeble mind like some people on this thread who so believe its natural will believe what they were told by scientist.... (Don't wanna mention names)... Her mind, body and feelings has been infested with dirty thoughts of the unceremonious act and she really need change her friends and also go for counseling (both spiritual and psychological) and go away from lesbo porn. She should get a bf who will love, cherish and pray with her and not bug her for sex. May God help her! 1 Like |
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