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Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 03, 2016 |
This 5minsmadness guy is single, yet he is flinging marital advice left and right. Abeg, ladies, don't mind him jare. Be sure to stand your ground when/if you get in a relationship. Shout your way to a resolution, and remember confrontation is the ultimate key to victory. Don't let one misogynist bachelor be telling you nonsense. Mr. 5minsmadness, you sef go and marry. If you had a wife you won't be here giving unsolicited, untested advice. I rise. ![]() ![]() ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by shaybebaby(f): 8:55am On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: If anyone had manners, they will realise that the only things needed are respect, please and thank you..from both parties. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 9:08am On Jul 03, 2016 |
shaybebaby: Coming from someone who has marriage experience, emotions tend to run high when both parties feel they are in the right and will not be outdone by the other. There's something about familiarity that neutralizes manners and we are all prone to a momentary lapse in judgement. So, while you may be right, it may interest you to know that the biggest turnoff in a woman for a man is manliness. Most men aren't gay. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by shaybebaby(f): 9:13am On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Hence why I said respect first. You can disagree but still be respectful of each other. The bolded is something that conscious effort must be made to avoid. Appreciate each other, a simple thank you goes a long way. This also comes from someone who experienced both, marriage and failure of such marriage. No one has a monopoly on knowledge. 7 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by HaneefahRN(f): 9:19am On Jul 03, 2016 |
shaybebaby: You have said it all, mutual respect and appreciation 4 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 9:24am On Jul 03, 2016 |
shaybebaby: It's not as simple as that. What happens in cases of extreme disagreement. When both parties are dead sure their own way is the best. How do you resolve that when the husband will not budge? Just because a woman respects her husband doesn't mean she can't have a strong opinion about something and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by oloyede252(m): 9:45am On Jul 03, 2016 |
mrwonlasewonie:lol.e pain am.jumping from thread to thread posting trash no wonder he didnt marry you. Impotent?nah bt i dnt know of your daughter's future husband. |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by BloodyCrook: 11:14am On Jul 03, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: She said advice and you're talking opinion ![]() The internet is where people with superficial knowledge brandish shallow advice from Google. A non-soldier can air his opinion about sambisa, but a foot soldier who had seen combat will give advice and vivid experience about sambisa. He would tell from experience and happenings, not imaginative thesis. Learn the difference. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by BloodyCrook: 11:52am On Jul 03, 2016 |
You often begin your argument with cheap label and blackmail. Any man who doesn't see issues with you is a misogynist ![]() EfemenaXY:No wrong language there, madam. Men are innate fighters. Men are genealogically wired to dominate his environment. Men will always fight to change culture, trend, technology and civilisations. Marriage is part of culture and society. Every true woman knows she can get what she wants from her man, only the genetically malformed ones fight and pretend to be men. EfemenaXY:Men are head of home and society. They put their lives on the line more than women do.Greater responsibility equates to leadership. This is not a cultural positioning. It is designed by evolution. EfemenaXY:Stop lying to yourself! What is the percentage of women who are the main breadwinner in their families when the husband is alive? Very insignificant. Need I remind you that once a woman becomes the main breadwinner, she nags and boasts about to shame the man within her close circle? Women aren't born to be the main breadwinner. Statistics abound that shows women are less happier when they provide more in the home than the husband does!!! EfemenaXY:Another sentimental crap painted with Nollywood phantasies to cajour up cheap emotions of scorn and contempt. EfemenaXY:You tell me! ![]() EfemenaXY:Another cheap rant from an online ranter!!! And the wife just discovered all of a sudden she's married to a man with a 2 year old cognition? You're obviously a nagging woman. EfemenaXY:When are you getting married yourself? 12 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by mrwonlasewonie: 2:49pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
oloyede252:impotent he goat hobiiiii As he oro na dun ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by BloodyCrook: 3:03pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Words of wisdom there. These she-men with wisdom as worthless as discarded tissue won't learn. Later they be wondering why men are so stubborn and unyielding. 5 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
The problem is not that the OP is not married, the problem is his bias and the dogma behind it. 3 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Well, according to the OP it's the woman who has to lure and manipulate the man into having her way like men are some sort of animals controlled by their s.exual organs. Just because a woman respects her husband doesn't mean she can't have a strong opinion about something and vice versa. But her opinion is less important according to some dogma, right? 7 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by BloodyCrook: 3:29pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Argumentative! |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
BloodyCrook: So? 1 Like |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness: According to the OP, the woman has a better chance convincing her husband using feminine wiles than testoterone-induced confrontation. You women can twist it any way you please, but that is the essence of the OP. Whether the man has to do any convincing or not is not the subject of discourse ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
BloodyCrook: This is very instructive. It beats me when women complain about their men treating them like men when it is they themselves that present as men. Oh, well... 5 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Of course not since his word is law according to the dogma prevalent on this forum. If there is a disagreement, the woman has ALWAYS to give in if her female charms do not convince him, right? ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness: She is free to employ any strategy she pleases. Whether her strategies work or not is another matter entirely. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by oloyede252(m): 4:24pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
mrwonlasewonie:lol..you are a goat i swear... |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Your post reveals the underlying misunderstanding that threads like this have in common. It is not about whether her strategies work but about whether THEIR marriage works and it takes two to tango, an aspect which OP has neglected and you continue to. I doubt that any married woman on this thread has encouraged other women to fight their husbands. And I am sure that all of them would encourage other women to resolve disagreements in a civil, mature way but this form of communication requires two people. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by shaybebaby(f): 4:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness:the common mindset is that the male "grants" wishes depending on his mood. In a good and balanced union, no one does the granting, what is employed is mutual consensus. 5 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by An0nimus: 4:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness: At some point on the thread, I think the OP's marital status was a bigger issue. 1 Like |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
An0nimus: I saw it. |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You're just using cliches out of context. How will their marriage work if they cannot resolve conflict effectively? I'll tell you how. By employing effective strategies. Some people shout their way to a resolution, some using physical force, some sulk, silent treatment, etc. Stop painting relationships as a place where husband and wife are programmed robots whose thoughts will always be in tandem and when there is a disagreement all that's needed is a reset of the programme. I would like you to show me where OP or other married men have prescribed subjugating the women in their lives in this thread. The message has been simple: use your femininity to your advantage. I wonder why females are resisting femininity. No wonder there's so much homo sexuality in the world today 8 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
shaybebaby: Well, the question here, however, is what happens if there is no mutual consensus? According to the prevailing dogma, the woman has to give in and consider her opinion less importnant. And they wonder, why so many women don't like it. ![]() I have a simple solution. There are millions of submissive, conservative, traditionalist women out there. Find yourself one and live by this model and I wish you to live with your spouse happily ever after but respect that not every marriage works like this and stop preaching that it has to. It's a free world. ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Fkforyou(m): 4:59pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
cindybaby22: If you were my girlfriend, I would be turned off. True, at first I might melt and want to please you but after the third time I would shut you off completely. Trust me, crying to get what you want might seem like a nice idea on the internet but in reality it's a total turn off. NOBODY ADMIRES OR RESPECT THE WEAK. If I don't respect and admire you, there is no way in hell am going to love you. There is a difference between being gentle natured and outright weakness....while one earns people's respect (to some extent) the other breeds disdain. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by mrwonlasewonie: 5:01pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
oloyede252:mr obuko ![]() |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Timbuktou: I am using cliches? The whole thread is based on the cliche that women have to act in a particular way to be considered female and that they don't and instead behave like belligerent animals who are eager to attack their husbands. I wonder, is 5minsmadness surrounded by aggressive women who attack their husbands unreasonably and have not learned to communicate in a civil way? ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by shaybebaby(f): 5:04pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I cosign, hand, feet.. The whole works 2 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Mindfulness: So, because the thread is based on a cliche(according to you), it can't be pointed out that you're using them out of context? ![]() ![]() And yes, women have to be female to be considered female. What is this twist if nature you're trying to assert? Women don't generally like feminine men, men don't generally like masculine women. Abeg, what is the problem in pointing this out? Why don't you ask him directly? Do I look like his thoughts? 7 Likes |
Re: Wives, Stop Fighting Your Men. Use Your Feminine Wiles To Get What You Want! by shaybebaby(f): 5:08pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Fkforyou:Using tears is manipulative, I can never trust such a person. Cry because you are emotional, yes but to do it because you want something out of it, evil, deceptive.... Let's take a moment to remember the little boy who cried "wolf". We all know the end of that story. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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