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Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by UndisputedBosom(m): 7:47pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: She didn't say anybody is forcing her, just that she's ashame of her lifestyle and wants a change yet you're here giving her reasons to hold back and thats what is irritating me.... |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by iamdurent(m): 7:50pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride:You had better shutup and listen when wise ladies talk. My 2 cents tho. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 7:55pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
UndisputedBosom: She's ashamed, we get that. But Op has already said she doesn't want to have sex with men. I fear that if she does, she'll be damaged even further because she doesn't feel comfortable. So the reasonable option is celibacy. Maybe one day she'll come to terms with herself and accept the way God made her. Telling someone to be ok with themselves is not a negative message. Except in your society amd your church. Seems like the message seems to be "you are only ok if we decide you are ok because of some things we picked out of the bible, while ignoring other things because they would be inconvenient for us". 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 8:04pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
[quote author=foolinlove post=47162053]If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself. She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian. People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same. I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel. She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born. I am praying for her. God loves everyone.[/quoteAT] Umm. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 8:07pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
She would just ve to believe in herself dat she can overcome dis, nd she will. I was once in d league of masturbators. Buh because i embrace mysef, change my mindset wenever its arises. She can change too 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 8:12pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: The girl in question is not being pressured to change her lifestyle. She is not just comfortable with it. She want a normal life. GET IT STRAIGHT FOOLINLOVE |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 8:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
UndisputedBosom:Like i knew she was going to support d act. Buh yet, it wasn't her fault. Her heart has been broken into pieces!! |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
tyhgfrdeswscbhf: Lol, got married tried to disassociate my self from it, had kids , kept myself busy with family. But babe I found myself falling back to it. Went to my pastor , confessed to him, we prayed and fasted but here I am today still battling with it. I made up my mind this year to stop fighting it and live my life daily as it goes weather I have a gf, found love or not. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 8:24pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride: You already said she was uncomfortable having sex with men. I don't think it's right to force her into a sexual relationship when she feels uncomfortable. If she wants a so-called normal life, then there's nothing stopping her, since according to you she's not even a lesbian. Btw, thanks for ignoring my suggestions on how to change your life to more accurately reflect the teachings of the bible. I guess its just too inconvenient for you. You'd prefer to tell people how they can and can't have sex. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by iamdurent(m): 8:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride: what is that |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 8:50pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
iamdurent: Some part of the new testament. I'm a Christian, but I'm not down with the bible. Especially since it's been so heavily censored by the catholic church :-/ |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
seyezy: And your Sodom and Gomorrah had only people involved in same sex relationships? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by iamdurent(m): 8:57pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove:Last time i checked its Romans not "Romance" |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by iamdurent(m): 8:58pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Natotogokillme:Rubbish |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 8:59pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
iamdurent: Yeah, but the poor guy isn't very bright. I'd let that one go and stick to the main topic of debate. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by tyhgfrdeswscbhf(f): 9:08pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
pinkberries:I have a big thought DAT I can overcome it once am married...because i can't live DAT kind of life style .....seriously I regretted leaving in hostel and I can never allow my kids to stay in boarding school because dats d root of all of it |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 9:21pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
iamdurent: That was a mistake....... d issue under discussion was more of inappropriate romance. Guess dats wat led to dat |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 9:25pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
iamdurent: Are u an asshole too?? Una many o |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
tyhgfrdeswscbhf: Boarding school? Like I ever attended a boarding school? |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by iamdurent(m): 9:27pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride:Put ur pride aside and gain knowledge. you are very dumb, bye. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 9:34pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
foolinlove: Screw u........... Shame on you...... Satan is really very powerful. Demonic powers shouldnt be underestimated. Good is now bad n bad is good. I despise u and ur orientation. You just registered in NL few weeks ago and u have only registered ur presence in "Romance" thread bevcause u know dis is were u will meet ur fellow "toy admirers"....... I rather marry a LovePeddler than befriend a "toy owner" |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by foolinlove(f): 9:43pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride: You're just mad that I dont agree with you. You're mad that people can explain something that you have been taught to fear and hate on the basis of a couple of passages in an old book. Interestingly, people who have the most violent hateful reaction to homosexuality are actually homosexuals themselves. Latent homosexuality. Look it up. I'm straight, so there's no point trying to say I'm a lesbian. Not thatI consider it an insult anyway. It's just important that you know the homosexual community has many more allies than just homosexuals. I hope you lead a happy life, and I pray your friend finds someone a lot more well educated, supportive and loving than you. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by MRBrownJ: 9:43pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
bayocute: comparing this issue with masturbation is far fetched.... the best way to compare the OP's story with masturbation would be for you to masturbate for 9 years to gay porn (while claiming to be straight), saying you did it because your friends told you it was the way to go. would it make sense to you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 10:22pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:True, Ur comparism is quite riqht. Buh nevertheless, she can change if she reali wanted to. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 10:30pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Lesbianism is a choice, if she isn't comfortable being a lesbian, then, she should choose whatever dat suited her. Meanwhile, being straight is a choice. Like me, am attracted to both sex. And i loved it. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by bayocute(m): 10:31pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Lesbianism is a choice, if she isn't comfortable being a lesbian, then, she should choose whatever dat suited her. Meanwhile, being straight is a choice too. Like me, am attracted to both sex. And i loved it. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by fearlesschicken: 10:33pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
jpride:Did Jesus *discriminate/hate* same sex thing?? |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Natotogokillme: 10:44pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
iamdurent:Look at this guy. You don't know the power of prick. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
I can be of help to her but I won't say it here let her contact me at toochsamn@yahoo.com |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by Vivos: 1:38am On Jul 04, 2016 |
foolinlove:I dont doubt u are a christian,thats wat everyone say nowadays,in the begining God created Adam n eve, not Adam and steve or Eve n jenny,He knows y He did that,if because of ur advice she\they miss her way n continue in that sinful thereby disobeying God,it will be beta u were neva born than to face what awaits u at the judgement day. Continue following the Americans. If ur generations were lesbians would u ve ever been conceived. I weep for our future generation. |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 6:55am On Jul 04, 2016 |
stnglobal:Whatever assistance u can offer her, pls do it here or pm me. Thank u |
Re: Please Help A Lesby Who Is Desperate To Break Free by jpride(m): 6:59am On Jul 04, 2016 |
Vivos: May God bless you to the fullest. His immense blessings will be on you. Just imagine the stupid words that inhuman is uttering.. |
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