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Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by uchwar1: 9:29pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Chrisrare:u mean his NYSC cert was transfered too? help a brother |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by banmee(m): 9:29pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
njiasi30: Lol...what amazes me is how did chick did not figure it out? Dumb, anyone? |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by UjSizzle(f): 9:30pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
This is why lying is very very bad. Tell her the truth... just the necessary truth so you don't shoot yourself. No need telling her you have lose morals and thought she was the same, too. But if she does ask, well... you know the right thing. Do it. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by jennifer22(f): 9:32pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Lienus |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by emerged01(m): 9:35pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Finally,let her see foul yansh |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Justbeu(m): 9:36pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
ebbybest: 10 GBOOOSSSSSAAAAAA........4 MAN WEY SABI.......... Wit small small cikini smile..................walahi she go bless ur life wit double blessings.....e:g......double answers ;I 4GIVE U ,& YES .............= IBEJI.......if she dare say no, oboy waka wit pride @least u don nack & clean mouth.....DOUBLE DEAL..........if u lie again,to convince her 2 say yes dat na DOUBLE LIE......if she finds out DOUBLE FAILURE.........so my guy do d needful, start on a gud foundation,start wit d truth......just do it in style, @ebbybest just gave u d clue,so make use of ur creativity now 2 detail & master ur strategy....u know her beta dan us so play ur game...but make una invite us 4 igbeyawo. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Chrisrare: 9:43pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
uchwar1:Then he shuld come clean and tell her d truth. Wots he afraid of, there r a lot of women out there, if she doesn't accept him then she doesn't really love him and he shuld find another woman. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Styx01: 9:51pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
engrjoseph208:The truth shall set you free....say it alway. Make sure you ask God for forgiveness. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by astute07(f): 9:51pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
engrjoseph208: You should be able to know by now if she is a good listener and of short temperament. Either way, tell her the truth, it would hurt @ first, but if the love is mutual she WD forgive & forget ASAP & try win back her trust by being plain thereafter. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by czarr(m): 9:51pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
ebbybest:too much Korean film |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Kunberg: 9:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
See life |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by fairygeh(f): 9:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
OP,let me be really sincere with you,what you did is wrong, this is not to make you feel bad than you already do,but even if you are a player,cant you still play her even if you were in the same state without necessarily lieing that you reside in Abuja Kwara to Ogun state isn't a distant relationship enough for you?? I think you actually lied to her with Abuja cos u wanna be forming or you are not proud of IB or something. Well,you have learnt your lesson anyways,its bad to lay a relationship foundation based on lies that don't even make sense. Well,the deed is already done,so way forward... If you tell her the truth,i don't know her kinda person though but do you think she would forget!?? Even if she forgives?? The picture you painted of her shows you guys were communicating all through,would she forget all the times you told her you were in Abuja, whereas you were in Kwara? Would she truthfully forgive and forget?? You have to really consider this cos what if she starts misbehaving later to you in future. Marriage is more than all this... I would have actually supported you lieing to her that u were transferred to Oyo state,that is reasonable enough but my dear,what about your conscience, are you gonna keep it from the woman you would be spending the rest of your life with forever?? Lies can't go on forever. And what if someone * friends who knows you actually served in Kwara turns up one day and has evidences with pictures, tells her you both served in Kwara? What would you do?? That would be worse..she would end up hating you ... Either way,i think you should tell her the truth,if for anything,at least to free your mind,and have a clear conscience. However,just pray ,i mean pray she is someone that forgives truly and not a pretender,it is very important. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Godblessaplus1(m): 9:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Nice one babe... Love you ebbybest: |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Aubrey1(m): 10:01pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
U Don shit for church............Oga u Don mess up! |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by DAntivirus: 10:04pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
ogawisdom: Abi o... I don't know d big deal in dis issue; what of me that never told a girl my real age for 4years(she tot we were age mates not knowing she's older by 2years)... Which one is worse |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Slimberry1(f): 10:05pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Be sure of what you want, do your research well over the Lady, if she is truly an innocent lady, just tell her the whoe truth, if she will stay she will, if she won't she will not.. .. As long as you reveal the truth by yourself on time, don't let her get to know from another source... Go clean with her, wha you did is no big deal to me tho', at least you are feeling remorse already |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by stubbornman(m): 10:11pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
ebbybest:the scope master 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
UjSizzle: I know winter is coming. And I know where to put It. Believe me lady, I know something. Lol. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Mandeme(m): 10:17pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
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Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by BackOff(m): 10:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
You never wanted her to get too close until you're sure there's something in it for both of you. That's your best excuse for lying. Confess everything to her that way without including anything about marriage in the discussion. Because if you understand how a woman's heart works, then you'll know that mentioning marriage during confession can muddle up everything. Just tell her the truth. If she is able to forgive, then you'll know you have a wife material indeed. Though you shouldn't expect her to forgive you immediately. Give her time to be shocked, and to think it through. Just don't stop apologizing. All the best bro. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by DAntivirus: 10:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Climax4: Biafran grammar; nna men, e nweren ya |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Mekzyzeus(m): 10:27pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
saintdennis: Bruh!!! You are enigmatic jare!! She's a dimwit |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by fombadi: 10:31pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Stop being emotional or worried over this. You only lied to create an impression. Good thing you don't want to live in the lie. If these are the only lies they aren't too big to be fixed. You may just have to tell one more lie. As someone else already suggested,tell her you got transferred. All the other lies don't matter any more. in the near future you can jokingly tell her about the funny lies you told. Right now you don't want her to start doubting you. Perfect guys always lose don't be one. So tell one more lie and pray to God for forgiveness Lol. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by DedeNkem: 10:31pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Why did you lie about something so irrelevant? Only a compulsive liar does that! Tell her the truth now and stop st*upid lies! |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by Hydra1(m): 10:32pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
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Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by engrjoseph208: 10:32pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
I thank everyone that has commented, I read everything and thanks to the admin of this site. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by predatorX: 10:39pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
You have nothing to lose. You got the bar to maintain a good living status. On the flipside, she would be proud that you lied and she fell for it so long as you are not a pathological and serial Liar. Girls love boyfriends that lie, but when you become the MAN that husbands them, never ever ever lie |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by slimmestify(f): 10:41pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
ebbybest:GBAM!!! |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by nonix22(m): 10:42pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
how are you sure she ain't being so loyal that made you fall over heels with her cos you told her you are an Abuja based... |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by ComrNino(m): 10:49pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
engrjoseph208:if actually d girl in question is in nairaland readin this thread...and seein wat her fiancee or husband in makin its suggestin abt continuin wit d ultimate lie and dia by waitin 4 ur nxt lie again wit a slap n showin u dis particular comment of urs engr joseph208 ? Lwkmd :-P |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by AreaFada2: 10:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Some women tell worse lies than this, including bringing you a child they know is not yours. All without batting an eye. You were serving, just not stated location. You are working just not stated location. Wrong to lie but I see no biggie here if you are ready to come clean and stop bobos. Don't lace your coming clean with marriage proposal. It would seem like a bribe. Come clean and see how she reacts. If she forgives, marry her. If she does not forgive, let her go. You don't need an unforgiving wife, no matter how much you think you are in love. Good luck. |
Re: I Lied To Her And Now I Want To Marry Her (please Advise Me) by ayusco85(m): 10:55pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Holywizard: Begging u said? Don't be a sissy young man. Did he stole her money? He was just been smart and careful. A simple explanation and some subtle apology will do. Not wat u typed up there. Man na man o. Unless he is a boy |
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