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HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 12:19am On Jul 06, 2016
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We have dated for 5years now and have plans to tie the knot this year. Right from the very start I felt threatned by a girl he won't let go because according to him,she helped him back in school and she expects he marries her because of how far they've come.cuz of how bad I felt as to why he won't let the girl know what we have, me too I sought to cool off in the arms of other dudes. (while we were still dating) Even if u won't believe me, I've had quite a numba of good intimate relationships BUT without SEX. Then I met this guy who gave me everything love, sex , money et al...now it's all coming back to me. His mum went to do enquires about me in a spiritual house and was told about all of all this shady deals in the past eventhough I av stoped them. And. He was asked to ask me all about my life since we began dating. But I am scared he could use them against me in the future. He says he could forgive me and move ahead if I tell him the. Whole truth, but if I lie, that might just end it as he was already told about all of it but wants to hear it from me. He even told me f some of d tins I knew I did alone which made me biliv him. nd I am telling him the truth and he has bveen so dissapointed( yea I didn't expect him to do any less and it makes me. Even the more scared. But do I av an option? Do you think it's wise to do so? I honestly love him. I don't imagine ma sef witout him buh he waasnt there when I needed him, I know ignorance ain't An excuse. Yes, u can crucify me but I know it wasn't entirely my fault and besides ve stopped doing any of those buh d past is hunting moi now. Pls I need ur candid advice. God bless u
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 12:29am On Jul 06, 2016
Did you copy and paste this? Who made this?

First, who is the guy? How many guys? Forgive me but I find it hard comprehending the story.

Secondly, a spiritual house to read your past and he wants to confirm from you if it's true like WTF?

Thirdly, why is he bothered about your past? Did you kill someone? What's that secret?

The whole story is a mess. Please revise
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 12:32am On Jul 06, 2016
Strahovski1:
Did you copy and paste or is this you? Let me know so I can make my comment
it's no copy and paste bro. The truth! I need help. Pls help out
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 12:34am On Jul 06, 2016
Chizzy759831:
it's no copy and paste bro. The truth! I need help. Pls help out

Modified.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by WebSurfer(m): 12:35am On Jul 06, 2016
Did you kill someone? Or how many guys did you sleep with during the relationship? After confessing the truth, we can now help you suggest or air our opinions
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Harwehroh1(f): 12:43am On Jul 06, 2016
it will be beta if U can tell him d truth... in fact everything dat happened nd d reasons for ur actions. U cannot build a home (good) on a wrong foundation. whether U lyk it or not.... he's still gonna find abt it sundae. so, my dear, it's better U tell him everything nd let him make his decision. I av a feeling he's not gonna breakup wit U.... since uve stopped dese acts. IT IS WELL
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 12:53am On Jul 06, 2016
Harwehroh1:
it will be beta if U can tell him d truth... in fact everything dat happened nd d reasons for ur actions. U cannot build a home (good) on a wrong foundation. whether U lyk it or not.... he's still gonna find abt it sundae. so, my dear, it's better U tell him everything nd let him make his decision. I av a feeling he's not gonna breakup wit U.... since uve stopped dese acts. IT IS WELL
thanks and Amen
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by emotions1: 12:58am On Jul 06, 2016
sincerely I don't understand your question
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 12:59am On Jul 06, 2016
WebSurfer:
Did you kill someone? Or how many guys did you sleep with during the relationship? After confessing the truth, we can now help you suggest or air our opinions
I slept with only one man and I had 2abortions for him
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ENIGMA24(m): 1:05am On Jul 06, 2016
His mom made enquires in spiritual house....
And thats the kind of family u are worrying your head about getting into...
Don't worry ...... Until they use you for ritual !!!!
My friend!! GAN SLEEP!!!!

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Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 1:05am On Jul 06, 2016
emotions1:
sincerely I don't understand your question
my question- should I tell him the whole truth and not hide it. And by doing that am I nt risking d future? Do u thnk he will break up or forgive me and forge ahead?
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ronald4ever(m): 1:08am On Jul 06, 2016
I have no pity for you, sorry. He should dumb your sorry ass. Someone demands you open up on your deep secrets and you foolishly did? What a nuisance. undecided

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Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 1:09am On Jul 06, 2016
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Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by jamex93(m): 1:09am On Jul 06, 2016
Confess your sins


After all e no go kill u


If e no marry u. Plenty single men full NL dem go even compite to marry u
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by WebSurfer(m): 1:14am On Jul 06, 2016
Chizzy759831:
I slept with only one man and I had 2abortions for him
OhMyGodddd shocked shocked

Come aNd lay down here..


On behalf All Nairalanders, there is need to give you 24 lashes on your booty first
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by alobright17(m): 1:15am On Jul 06, 2016
Even a certain man lied in the bible when he said his wife is his sister.

Forget about that spiritual jargon from his mom and tell him you did nothing wrong in the past be a good girl and maintain it.The only problem you ladies have is trying to go back to the wayward life again that is when your past will start hunting you.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ronald4ever(m): 1:15am On Jul 06, 2016
Strahovski1:


Yeah..

Cc Mynd44 Rule 2.

Your first moniker banned now this your second moniker get ban

Get lost with your lachrymose annoying self. Always squawking like a toddler whose biscuits was snatched. No rule was floated, buzz off.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by WebSurfer(m): 1:16am On Jul 06, 2016
ENIGMA24:
His mom made enquires in spiritual house....
And thats the kind of family u are worrying your head about getting into...
Don't worry ...... Until they use you for ritual !!!!
My friend!! GAN SLEEP!!!!
dont mind her oo, but there again, you see what this generation has caused.. The fear of the evils girls do nowadays can make alot go lengths
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 1:17am On Jul 06, 2016
ronald4ever:


Get lost with your lachrymose annoying self. Always squawking like a toddler whose biscuits was snatched. No rule was floated, buzz off.

Calling someone a fvcktard caucasoid and no rule was floated?
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by emotions1: 1:17am On Jul 06, 2016
Chizzy759831:
my question- should I tell him the whole truth and not hide it. And by doing that am I nt risking d future? Do u thnk he will break up or forgive me and forge ahead?
but shey his mum went to a spiritualist to inquire about u and he already know and just want to hear the truth from u......

see if he loves u with sincerity,nothing can stop him from taking u to the altar except if the truth turns out to be something extra extra large....if u know what am talking about.....
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ronald4ever(m): 1:20am On Jul 06, 2016
Strahovski1:


Calling someone a fvcktard caucasoid and no rule was floated?

You're a caucasoid Indian (like you're projecting yourself to be) and yes a nuisance at that. Now buzz off my mentions lest I make a mincemeat of your cantankerous ego.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by WebSurfer(m): 1:21am On Jul 06, 2016
Chizzy759831:
I slept with only one man and I had 2abortions for him
i stoped having a pity on you as soon as i read that line. You should really go get a new guy and stay faithful to him completely this time around. I think that is one of the best way to pay up for your sins after confessing it to God.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 1:22am On Jul 06, 2016
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Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by WebSurfer(m): 1:24am On Jul 06, 2016
Seun o, two people are fighting in your compound cry
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ronald4ever(m): 1:26am On Jul 06, 2016
Strahovski1:


I want get all your moniker ban. You racist fvck.

You can't do sh1t, you're a clever by half troll. Mynd44, knows better than oblige a troll with zilch nous and has a reputation of chastising the swarthy race. You irritate me, now fvck the hell out and cease from spamming my mentions, troll.

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Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 1:26am On Jul 06, 2016
WebSurfer:
Seun o, two people are fighting in your compound cry

Shut up
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by ronald4ever(m): 1:27am On Jul 06, 2016
Strahovski1:


Shut up

Mynd44, Lalasticlala, dominique rules floated, again.
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Chizzy759831: 1:28am On Jul 06, 2016
Thank you all for your comments so far...
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Strahovski1(m): 1:28am On Jul 06, 2016
ronald4ever:


You can't do sh1t, you're a clever by half troll. Mynd44, knows better than oblige a troll with zilch nous and has a reputation of chastising the swarthy race. You irritate me, now fvck the hell out and cease from spamming my mentions, troll.

Can't we be friends?
Re: HELP! My Relationship Is About Crumbling by Nobody: 1:29am On Jul 06, 2016

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