ebbybest:
This is how it should Go....
Take her out with the ring in ur pockets, have fun eat, drink and laugh together.
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preselect:
[size=14pt]dude better tell her another lie and get the marriage going. some women can't stand the truth. don't make the mistake I made. I went about telling those girls the truth, based on my upbringing never to lie, my mother never told me that I need a little lie here and there to get the girl I want and to keep her for me, i went about telling them the truth, and these girls ask a million questions, be like job interview, I kept being honest. I lost all of them, the only girl I dated, i had to sit down for 3 good days, developed an intensive educated lie, plotted an algorithm for the lie, refined the lie and practiced it for one week. but you know, i am a very bad liar, i couldn't even deliver the lie, bc lying is something i'm just not used to, so it was obvious that i was lying. she knew instantly that i was lying, she even caught me red handed on one occassion. . . . i kept lying anyway, guess what, she stayed.

these people love lies

yet somehow they say they want honest men.
ever wondered why the bad guys get the best girls?[/size]

#BuhariIsABigLiarToo

schumastic:


YOU HAVE TWO OPTIONS

1.END THE LIE WITH THE ULTIMATE LIE, JUST TELL HER YOU GOT RELOCATED TO A BRANCH IN OYO AND THAT WILL SETTLE IT..

2.IF YOU INSIST ON TELLING HER THE TRUTH, THEN YOU MUST MAKE SURE SHE IS IN A VERY GOOD MOOD BEFORE YOU TELL HER AND IF SHE ASK YOU WHY YOU LIED, LET HER KNOW YOU DID IT CUS YOU WERE SCARED SHE WILL LEAVE YOU ONCE SHE IS DONE SCHOOLING.

engrjoseph208:
I have been a guest on nairaland for 4 years. This is my first topic here. PLEASE DO NOT READ WITHOUT GIVING YOUR COMMENT, THANKS.

In December 2014, I met this beautiful woman while I was enjoying the xmas and new year festivals with my parents in Ibadan. She is schooling here but lives in Ogun state. I never thought we could go far, so I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I was serving at the time and I told her I was serving at Abuja instead of Kwara state. After my NYSC I told her I have settled down in Abuja instead of Oyo state. I have a well-paid job and live comfortably but everything is in Oyo state and not FCT. I didn’t want her to know I am living nearby because I didn’t see a future with her at the time. She didn’t appear to me as a good girl when we met, I thought she was a runs girl but now I know I was wrong, she is even more innocent than me and she gets all I crave for in a lady. Well, I picked her up by the roadside but I didn’t get to sleep with her but we became friends and she still thinks I served, live and work in FCT. We usually see when there is a festivity or holiday like easter, xmas etc. under the pretext that I came to celebrate with my parents. Anyways, I want to propose to her now. I don’t know how to tell her the truth because we are now in love and I do not want to lose her. PLEASE NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS WITHOUT LOSING HER.

Chrisrare:
Marriage is just overrated, just tell her u've been transfered, simple. Some peeps go just dey sweat over nothing. If u get over this, dont lie to her again since ur serious about her.

engrjoseph208:
I have been a guest on nairaland for 4 years. This is my first topic here. PLEASE DO NOT READ WITHOUT GIVING YOUR COMMENT, THANKS.

In December 2014, I met this beautiful woman while I was enjoying the xmas and new year festivals with my parents in Ibadan. She is schooling here but lives in Ogun state. I never thought we could go far, so I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I was serving at the time and I told her I was serving at Abuja instead of Kwara state. After my NYSC I told her I have settled down in Abuja instead of Oyo state. I have a well-paid job and live comfortably but everything is in Oyo state and not FCT. I didn’t want her to know I am living nearby because I didn’t see a future with her at the time. She didn’t appear to me as a good girl when we met, I thought she was a runs girl but now I know I was wrong, she is even more innocent than me and she gets all I crave for in a lady. Well, I picked her up by the roadside but I didn’t get to sleep with her but we became friends and she still thinks I served, live and work in FCT. We usually see when there is a festivity or holiday like easter, xmas etc. under the pretext that I came to celebrate with my parents. Anyways, I want to propose to her now. I don’t know how to tell her the truth because we are now in love and I do not want to lose her. PLEASE NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS WITHOUT LOSING HER.

Velitrace27:
engrjoseph208, what u did was wrong from the ethical view. But, by logic or reason, u are still justified by the fact that u perceived she was a street girl, and therefore, told her what pleases such types.
But, if ur claim of love for her must proved, then it ll b by telling her the whole truth with some logical explanations of ur action.
If she decides to discard u for that, then let her go. It ll simply mean that it's ABJ she loves and not u.

lawnreigh:
my man I really like your signature, its the reality maaan

stubbornman:
the scope master

Godblessaplus1:
Nice one babe... Love you

Justbeu:







10 GBOOOSSSSSAAAAAA........4 MAN WEY SABI..........


Wit small small cikini smile..................walahi she go bless ur life wit double blessings.....e:g......double answers ;I 4GIVE U ,& YES .............= IBEJI.......if she dare say no, oboy waka wit pride @least u don nack & clean mouth.....DOUBLE DEAL..........if u lie again,to convince her 2 say yes dat na DOUBLE LIE......if she finds out DOUBLE FAILURE.........so my guy do d needful, start on a gud foundation,start wit d truth......just do it in style, @ebbybest just gave u d clue,so make use of ur creativity now 2 detail & master ur strategy....u know her beta dan us so play ur game...but make una invite us 4 igbeyawo.

Peacefulgold:

I cant advice anytn beta ....u r so on point and I believe dis should work....

Mekyno:

chei, are u sure ur a gal?
U fit chyk/woo man (or woman) wela oooh....lol. U get sweet mouth, tnx to nollywood!
Thumbs up.

ebbybest:

Thank you bro

ebbybest:

Am a lady and i belive if she love him not because he is based in Abuja, she would forgive him.

Peacefulgold:
U welcome nwannem......

Peacefulgold:
U welcome nwannem......

RadicallyBlunt:
What makes you think she's not forming in d 1st place. Girl see you carry car to pick her up, nysc level for that matter. Which gal no go think say opportunity for marriage don show so make I behave like wify material? Guy do more testing

However if ur testing don sure, then its simple. Plan a time out with her as in take her out. When u come back, start d talk gradually till all her attention is gotten

Go like .."When I met u and picked you up what did u think I had in mind?" Or what kinda man dyu think would pick you up at such a nite time?" You'll be suprised at d response. She probably might know u have such in mind but taking time to also watch you closely.

And if she dosent, just confess to her that u had a playboy intension but she made u fall in love like d-banj

ebbybest:
Not like dat, i feel it's gonna help