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Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by flyca: 11:56am On Jul 06, 2016 |
This topic go sweet o Modified: Its not even what I thought |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 11:57am On Jul 06, 2016 |
rexericx:And who told you one has to have the "fear " of God to be a good man ? What does fear of God even mean ? I stopped reading after this post of yours....you religious folks always use this line like only Christians get married or live a just life. Some of you "God fearing " men are worst than Amadioha. Even with the number of so called God fearing men, the country is full of shameless women beaters and pedophiles who are waiting for whose life to devour. One doesn't need to be God fearing to be a good man. It tells me about your level of intelligence anyway. Have a nice day. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Nobody: 11:59am On Jul 06, 2016 |
you guys have not married since?your gist is getting stale 2 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Kunberg: 12:00pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Let's not forget its not easy to wait while there's age on your side |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by sassiemyk: 12:01pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
No responsible and reasonable person can be pressured into doin anything. in life humans do want they want to do, blaming whatever ones does on anything or anyone is total irresponsibility. Marriage is what a person must do alone, even family and friends are removed from it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by miqos02(m): 12:01pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
hmmm |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Pureheart91(m): 12:01pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
I Got One Thing Right From The Post HENRY & JOVIA And not the oda way around JOVIA & HENRY When i get to see the latter oda dan d forma printed- i be like....PLEASE WHO IS MARRYING WHO, the guy or the gal... 9ja been follown dy wrong path since 1959BI Congrats man....wishn u a blissful Life Ahead. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by AndreSalvatore: 12:04pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ayooladee:. He's preaching sermon... Hope u r wit yo bible... 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Pureheart91(m): 12:09pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: Its so certain u clearly dont understand dy meaning of those powerful four letter words..The Fear of God. It simply means been obedient to Gods will, and way. Now i dont see a senario were one wud hve d fear of God and do wat they acclaimed "christains" do...please do knw dat been a "born again" is different frm been a "christain". Hence the former does the will of Jesus Christ, whilst d latter is a Hypocrite(do wat i say n not wat i do people). Obedience conates Fear for someone. Have a nyc day bro, and dont follow religion but strive to be bornagian for the hour is @ us. GoD Bless You! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ayooladee(f): 12:09pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
AndreSalvatore:hmmm |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by rexericx(m): 12:11pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: No vex,therr is no man that is not good,its just that once a [color=#990000][/color]padlock meets it's own Key Then Equation is solved.Gbam! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by trigar12(m): 12:12pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Am in HND 1 The girls in hnd 1 wants to get married, all they think of is marriage. As if marriage is so simple. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Ramanto(m): 12:12pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ileogbenfidel:Marry Her. Otherwise, Quit Today!! |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by chiboy1928(m): 12:13pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Ladies and guys if u feel you are financially and mentally matured to get married then go ahead and Marry,bt dnt marry becos of age,societal pressure etc. Marriage no be beans it comes with its own challenges so jst get prepared.i pity most of our ladies who wants to get married because others are getting married that the shallow Mentality most of our girls have and some failed to see beyond what lies ahead after the Wedding anyway Africa mentalit mostly Nigerians girls is so backward.i no blame them too much of telemundo it's also part of the causes of the so called failed marriages we have out there.pls dnt ask me hw! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 12:16pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Pureheart91:Follwoing gods will ? The same God that murdered 42 children who mocked Elisha for having bald head or the one who chose Kind David who murdered Uriah and took his wife ? I see why the country is like this. You folks really do follow your gods will. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
iykedare: Dumbest thing I've heard in a long while. I know it's your opinion so, no hating. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by kibo: 12:19pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: Why is it so hard to respond in a civil manner and respect an opinion? The bolded doesnt make sense. Not accepting someones opinion as a different school of thought tells a lot about your own intelligence too. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 12:22pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
kibo:Yes it doesn't make sense because what I replied to didn't make any sense too. When your school of thought is flawed I won't accept it and I will call you out! |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Chrisjane(f): 12:23pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
l agree with the OP. Marriage is inevitable but it should be followed after financial and emotional preparedness. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by rexericx(m): 12:26pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Pureheart91: Thanks, corrected |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Smitsam: 12:27pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
you really don't need to be ready to get married because most people eventually stay up their youthful life getting ready. if u really want to get married, all you need do is to be pre- prepared... Get the right tools because it is in marriage that you understand what marriage is all about. # just saying. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by flamingREED(m): 12:30pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Now I know that many here are poor. Imagine what they think of marriage - a honorable thing! |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by kibo: 12:35pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: A person was asked his/her own definition of a good man and the reply was "a man with the fear of God". And you say that school of thought is flawed ?? Where is the power of choice and opinion. Its like asking me for my best meal, and i say rice and plantain and you say its wrong, that i should choose only rice because you've never seen plantain or tasted it. Dont you think that is rather absurd !!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 12:35pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
brain247: is mariage nt one of goals that humans pursue in life? |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ileogbenfidel(m): 12:41pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
I don quite since Ramanto: |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 12:41pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: can u see ursf? Must someone belong to a particular religion b4 he/she has fear of God? Pls dnt dnt confuse ursf she said it all, u must go 4 partner who ve fear of God if u want to succed maritaly 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
computerboy:The insult on NL alone is killing, so many girls are not even after any man's money because they make more money, there's still pressure out there my dear , it may not be from parents like you stated. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 12:47pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
kibo: tanks for letting him knw he is not mature, mariage is not meant for this type of person, hence he wil kill the poor girl 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by peter(m): 12:53pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ayooladee:
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Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ayooladee(f): 12:55pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
[quote author=peter post=47262325][/quote] stalking? |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by peter(m): 12:56pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ayooladee:
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Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 12:59pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
kibo:A meal is a personal thing that you swallow so no one cares if roasted rat and cheese is your best meal. But when you say a good man is God fearing means that if I tell him I'm not God fearing means I'm not a good person, you see where it comes in ? |
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