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Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ojuu4u:Tell me who else fears an imaginary God other than religious folks ? Name one! |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by totorimi: 1:01pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
One thing I know and that I am sure of, is that never ever marry someone you do not truly love and who you know does not equally loves you back. If you do you will kill yourself slowly instead of having a constant smile on your face you will have a constant frown and and by then you look older ans age faster. Sometimes people marry for benefits for the things they wish to benefit or gain from the other person. Thats very very wrong. Marriage should be based on true love only not money, not good looks, not a good job or green card. When you are truly in love, when all else fails, money, good looks, fantastic sex, deportation. The real love will stay. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by VeniceTown: 1:03pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ojuu4u:Go and get married. Just let me know when the govt starts giving married people an entitlement. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by computerboy: 1:05pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VenusBetty: I agree with you. But do you girls really take the insults you get online (esp. Nairaland) to heart? And count it as part of the pressures you receive? Lol....you people are really emotional beings. It must be hard being a girl |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by yemmit90: 1:12pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: Wanna test your level of intelligence too. Who is a good man? What is the right opinion? Why do we have different opinion? |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by micxwell(m): 1:20pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Pureheart91:Good explanation bro but for me I don't believe in all this saying of "born again" being different from "christian". Christian means CHRIST-LIKE. If you are not a christian you are not a christian. Going to church doesn't make one a 'christian'. I don't use it @born again, cos I believe a true CHRISTIAN should be one. If you call yourself a christian and it doesn't reflect in your words or actions, you are deceiving yourself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by computerboy: 1:21pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Chrisjane: Just to make a quick correction. My dear marriage is not death so it's not inevitable. In as much as girls don't like hearing it but it's true Not all girls would marry. Some would die as spinsters likewise some men would die as bachelors More reason you should make something meaningful out of your life so you'll have a reason to live just in case you didn't get to have your own children/family 2 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by MrDavidson: 1:33pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: And how do you define being 'good' ? The hard truth is, no man can be good enough, without having the fear of God. And my Bible tells me that the fear of God means to depart from evil and sin. Even the op, rexericx, who mentioned the fear of God, will be guilty himself if he has been sleeping with that lady before marriage. Because in the eyes of God that act is evil. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Missmossy(f): 1:52pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Marriage is a life time investment,if you rush in you would rush out. It goes beyond the money factor too as some ladies won't recognize this. Being prepared in every ramification matters a lot,physically,mentally,intellectually and even emotionally. Marriage isn't for babies because it can't always be rosy,when the seat gets hot you would want to run out if you aint strong. For those doing i want to get to get married because every of my friend is getting married OYO is your case 3 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by nurusystem(m): 1:55pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
all this talk to me is rubbish,is just because you are lucky to find your wife,,so marriage is comes from God,it can be reach,poor, any way,,but just Marry because of God thats all o,,.no be money,,,God blessing is the most Important,, 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
being successful is more important than marriage. if you are going to be stuck with a person for the rest of your life, why not take your time? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by MrFabs(m): 2:58pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
eph12:You just spoke my mind there..[right][/right][b][/b] 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ZUBY77(m): 3:12pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Targaeryian: Especially in Nigeria. Girls don't do anything else except thinking of one rich man to Marry. As a matter of fact, the entire family of the girl sees it as an achievement for their daughter to hook a rich guy. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Chrisjane(f): 3:24pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
computerboy: You are right. l meant inevitable for most people. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by chronique(m): 3:27pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
When you're well over 30 or going to 40,the pressure to settle down gets real. It becomes an issue when finding someone honest who you're compatible with,becomes a serious problem. These days whenever my age mates or people get to meet me in the course of doing biz and they suddenly pop the "are you married question",I notiice I get jolted and a lil bit tensed... On a personal note,I wish I was married. Few days back,I cchipped in 1 or 2 words into a discussion between some pple close to me and 1 of them jokingly said: "egbon,you nor suppose dey follow us talk girlfriend matter;you suppose dey talk about wife". I felt a lil bit embarrassed though and the truth is,comments like that being said overtime to one,has a way of putting pressure on people. When you sit with your mates,they talk about their wives and you really don't have much to say. You sit with younger folks and they remind you that you're not supposed to be discussing gf matter with them... Truth is,nomatter how much we try,the pessure will always come(directly or indirectly). one just has to be careful in managing this pressure. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by alfredbisong: 3:33pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
edimat007:hmmm,tnx Anyway.I Am 33 n male 4 dat mata am no more border 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by alfredbisong: 3:37pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
eph12:u de reason well |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 3:51pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: and you we ar equall b4, am a fully responsible my since years past. Kip on merry-go-round a point and expect manna frm heaven. One of convenants almighty God had with humans during creation was that we sud dominate and multiply. A man that become milion and dont mari, he is a failure 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by northvietnam(m): 3:53pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Targaeryian:Seconded.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by adecares(f): 4:02pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Believe me or not, marriage itself has its own issues whether u rushed in or not. it depends on how u can handle its challenges. My view and experience though. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by wishy30: 4:08pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
It doesn't make sense to RUSH into mariage but it makes loads of senses to marry on time. The fun of the family is growing with uя children in love not at a very old age 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 4:31pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ojuu4u: 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by ojuu4u(m): 4:34pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
VeniceTown: you dnt fear imaginary God but very unfortunately imaginary gods/satan had blindfold and criple ur sense of reasoning 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by rexericx(m): 4:49pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
ojuu4u:Make una take am easy |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by aribilola2002(m): 4:52pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Marriage is sweet and good when their is money and discomfortability come in unionism when change is no more at the pocket; let us pray for real love and money then u will enjoy marriage, 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by CoCoLav(f): 4:53pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
rexericx: The bolded is what keeps a marriage going after the love fades 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by rexericx(m): 4:59pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
CoCoLav: #VeniceTOWN# |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by CoCoLav(f): 5:03pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
totorimi: I kind of disagree with you. When you are friends with someone, have mutual interests, goals,sexual chemistry, respect, understanding and tolerance I believe you can make a marriage work based on these attributes. Friendship, sexual chemistry, mutual respect, understanding and tolerance are the bane of any marriage. If love was really all that then it will not be possible to have loved all your EXs. How many times have we felt we really loved someone and years down the line we fall in 'love' with another person?. At some point in your life, you felt you loved your EX didnt you? but you alslo now love your current girlfriend and you will love your next girlfriend as well. There is nothing like true love, love is just an intense emotion you feel for people who are dear to you at that time. 1 Like |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by CoCoLav(f): 5:05pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
rexericx: What is Venice Town? |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by joekine: 5:34pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
rexericx: |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by Skmoda360(m): 6:34pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
kennygee:you said it right to some extent...mind you most guys this days don't wana get married cuz of the stress attached to it. So when a girl date a guy within a short frame of time and get married with little or no courtship that's how they come in contact with frog instead of prince. |
Re: Why Rush Into Marriage? by jesusjewel1(f): 8:32pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
iykedare:I disagree with you. Anyone can be old enough for sex but ain't MATURE for marriage. Besides what's your definition of been old enough for sex and old enough for marriage. 1 Like |
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