Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,193,437 members, 7,950,931 topics. Date: Tuesday, 17 September 2024 at 07:01 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! (1493 Views)
Something Men Really Does Not Love About Woman / 9 Sex Positions That Practically Guarantee A Mind Blowing Experience / Opinion : What Really Does A Woman Want? (2) (3) (4)
Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by davimus(m): 2:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
In relationships, I have found out that love alone doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It's works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline. You see, Times will come when you'll see people that are better than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment will help you. No matter how you feel for someone, The person you're committed to ranks first in your life. You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, You'll realise that the feelings have dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility. Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can always make it work through hard work . 6 Likes |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by ITbomb(m): 2:36pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
It doesn't because guys don't really love, they just show love cos the girl needs it to feel secured. So while the girl is busy checking if the guy loves her and is caring for her needs , the guy is checking 3 things 1. Is she good in bed 2. Is she an asset or liability 3. Is she compatible with my needs, emotional, material a even spiritual. If she doesn't, even after the sex, the guy is already to move on even when the girl was already in love 1 Like |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Vendoor(f): 2:39pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
True talk Love is nothing without faithfulness |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by megareal: 2:44pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Yeah. Love fades fast esp when the fire is not properly stoked. Hardcore decision to commit no matter what is what matters. So many failed relationships /marriages cos one partner didn't think to commit enough. Its hard work that must be done, I learned that the hard way. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Kondomatic(m): 2:56pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
I prefer friendship and lust to love. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Antyna(f): 3:14pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
davimus: True talk, love only cannot keep a relationship buh commitment and self control. No wonder relationship get to halt after 3 - 6 months and more for some. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by prince4pro(m): 3:17pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Nice 1 op |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by DucheSsMerezz(f): 3:26pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Money, More Money, Love then More Money |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Synzu(m): 3:38pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
DucheSsMerezz: So u finally decided to break outta your shell.. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by DucheSsMerezz(f): 3:46pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Synzu:Yeah papi .. I got compelled by smelly |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by firstking01(m): 5:25pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
ok |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Synzu(m): 5:36pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
DucheSsMerezz:Lol I'm glad u did tho.. Being a silent observer was creepy AF! |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Loski26(m): 6:04pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Love na wash! Compatibility guarantees a relationship. If I were to rank, I'd say Compatibility > Finance > Friendship >>>>>>> Love |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by DucheSsMerezz(f): 11:27pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Synzu:No,its not .. I enjoyed erry bit of it plus the drama ere is darn too much. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by halfricanadian(f): 11:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Love is the simplest easiest bt most failed course ever 8th year of learning it still im nt doing well in it |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Synzu(m): 11:33pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
DucheSsMerezz: Yea, we love the dramas Makes it all the more fun. I'm quite sure you do too |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by Taiyescott(m): 11:35pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Cool. |
Re: Love Can't Guarantee A Succesful Relationship Guess What Really Does!! by SmellingAnus(m): 4:47am On Jul 10, 2016 |
davimus:at least you would have written "copied" at the end of this piece that you copied and paste... It's also on my Facebook 1 Like |
(1) (Reply)
My Kind Of Guy.. / Must Read: 6 Bedroom Mistakes Women Must Stop Making Today / She Is Tempting Me
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 31 |