In relationships, I have found out that love alone
doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.
Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all,
cheating isn't always a product of not loving your
partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee
not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head
not our heart, It's works out because of emotional
maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.
You see, Times will come when you'll see people
that are better than the one you're in a relationship
with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment
will help you.
No matter how you feel for someone, The person
you're committed to ranks first in your life. You
think married people don't see better people than
the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch
feelings? They do. But understanding that
commitment is greater than feelings is a great
arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love
with anyone, but building a relationship takes
absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving
when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too
fond of loving when love is there but that can only
last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.
After then, You'll realise that the feelings have
dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's
always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you
can always make it work through hard work .

It doesn't because guys don't really love, they just show love cos the girl needs it to feel secured.
So while the girl is busy checking if the guy loves her and is caring for her needs , the guy is checking 3 things
1. Is she good in bed
2. Is she an asset or liability
3. Is she compatible with my needs, emotional, material a even spiritual.

If she doesn't, even after the sex, the guy is already to move on even when the girl was already in love

True talk

Love is nothing without faithfulness

Yeah. Love fades fast esp when the fire is not properly stoked. Hardcore decision to commit no matter what is what matters.

So many failed relationships /marriages cos one partner didn't think to commit enough.

Its hard work that must be done, I learned that the hard way.

I prefer friendship and lust to love.

davimus:
In relationships, I have found out that love alone
doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.
Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all,
cheating isn't always a product of not loving your
partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee
not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head
not our heart, It's works out because of emotional
maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.
You see, Times will come when you'll see people
that are better than the one you're in a relationship
with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment
will help you.
No matter how you feel for someone, The person
you're committed to ranks first in your life. You
think married people don't see better people than
the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch
feelings? They do. But understanding that
commitment is greater than feelings is a great
arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love
with anyone, but building a relationship takes
absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving
when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too
fond of loving when love is there but that can only
last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.
After then, You'll realise that the feelings have
dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's
always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you
can always make it work through hard work .

True talk, love only cannot keep a relationship buh commitment and self control. No wonder relationship get to halt after 3 - 6 months and more for some.

Nice 1 op

DucheSsMerezz:
Money, More Money, Love then More Money

So u finally decided to break outta your shell..

Synzu:

So u finally decided to break outta your shell..

Yeah papi .. I got compelled by smelly

ok

DucheSsMerezz:
Yeah papi .. I got compelled by smelly

Lol

I'm glad u did tho.. Being a silent observer was creepy AF!

Love na wash!


Compatibility guarantees a relationship.

If I were to rank, I'd say Compatibility > Finance > Friendship >>>>>>> Love

Synzu:

Lol

I'm glad u did tho.. Being a silent observer was creepy AF!

No,its not .. I enjoyed erry bit of it plus the drama ere is darn too much.

Love is the simplest easiest bt most failed course ever

8th year of learning it still im nt doing well in it

DucheSsMerezz:

No,its not .. I enjoyed erry bit of it plus the drama ere is darn too much.

Yea, we love the dramas

Makes it all the more fun.


I'm quite sure you do too

Cool.

davimus:
In relationships, I have found out that love alone
doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.
Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all,
cheating isn't always a product of not loving your
partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee
not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head
not our heart, It's works out because of emotional
maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.
You see, Times will come when you'll see people
that are better than the one you're in a relationship
with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment
will help you.
No matter how you feel for someone, The person
you're committed to ranks first in your life. You
think married people don't see better people than
the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch
feelings? They do. But understanding that
commitment is greater than feelings is a great
arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love
with anyone, but building a relationship takes
absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving
when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too
fond of loving when love is there but that can only
last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.
After then, You'll realise that the feelings have
dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's
always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you
can always make it work through hard work .

at least you would have written "copied" at the end of this piece that you copied and paste... It's also on my Facebook