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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Surfboard(m): 9:38am On Jul 11, 2016
realmindz:


oga I only asked a question...

if gays decide to hit themselves in private, of course it non of my biz.

But for gays to come out boldly to the public is an insult on our natural instincts. Imagine a gay approaching a guy who is straight, that will insult his phsycology and cause emotional trauma.

What of gays adopting an innocent child, that child would never grow up in to live a normal live.

Two men kissing in public or on TV insults our natural instincts, it is traumatic, unacceptable and I think gays are rly unfair to us.

With more gays in society, our generations wud be ruined as we would ve forgotten what it takes to be male and female.


that's why we hate them, we'll find them and deal with them without mercy

You think gay people kissing in public is unfair to you, but you don't think that you hating gay people is unfair to them?

Your hypocrisy stinks man.

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by realmindz: 9:46am On Jul 11, 2016
Surfboard:


You think gay people kissing in public is unfair to you, but you don't think that you hating gay people is unfair to them?

Your hypocrisy stinks man.
I think your hypocrisy stinks...

Ok it's my right to walk around naked and I think I think we naked people should be given our rights to move around and work at offices without discrimination.


Well I'm a teacher and it's my right to teach naked..will u allow me teach your daughters naked grin pls u need to respect my right...

I'll teach ur daughters and wife naked. my female colleagues will teach u naked grin (I knw say u go like dat one).

when u come to the bank, u'll meet naked people attending to u. Hmmm imagine those naked female marketers coming to ur offices grin

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by TrajansKong: 9:48am On Jul 11, 2016
realmindz:
Imagine a gay approaching a guy who is straight, that will insult his phsycology and cause emotional trauma.

...I think gays are rly unfair to us.

With more gays in society, our generations wud be ruined as we would ve forgotten what it takes to be male and female.


that's why we hate them, we'll find them and deal with them without mercy

realmindz: behave now grin grin grin
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Surfboard(m): 9:52am On Jul 11, 2016
realmindz:

I think your hypocrisy stinks...

Ok it's my right to walk around naked and I think I think we naked people should be given our rights to move around and work at offices without discrimination.


Well I'm a teacher and it's my right to teach naked..will u allow me teach your daughters naked grin pls u need to respect my right...

I'll teach ur daughters and wife naked grin my female colleagues will teach u naked grin (I knw say u go like dat one).

when u come to the bank, u'll meet naked people attending to u. Hmmm imagine those naked female marketers coming to ur offices grin

Hahahahahahaha...I like this your analogy, but you forget we were all once naked, and then 'Eve gave Adam the apple and it became an offence to not have clothes on'.

Your analogy is wack though and I will tell you why. Choosing not to put on clothes is a choice, being gay isn't(I know you won't agree with this, but it's the truth).

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by realmindz: 10:05am On Jul 11, 2016
Surfboard:


Hahahahahahaha...I like this your analogy, but you forget we were all once naked, and then 'Eve gave Adam the apple and it became an offence to not have clothes on'.

Your analogy is wack though and I will tell you why. Choosing not to put on clothes is a choice, being gay isn't(I know you won't agree with this, but it's the truth).
How... Hormones?
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Tedassie(m): 10:10am On Jul 11, 2016
EgunMogaji:


Nope, you wove around aimlessly but never answered my question. I never expected you to have the wherewithal to do it anyways.

You were done before you even started, your brain just lacked the processing power to figure it out.
Well,your failure to comprehend&fit bits&pieces of info' together is pitiful(putting it mildly). As per your quest to prove your point(even when you've absolutely none to expound on) goes to show the weakness in your person.
First&foremost,i did NOT quote you initially,you simply jumped on my mention to display your ignorance,the person i even quoted had responded to my question.
You got your opinion i got mine,you wanna dispute an opinion do it in a manner befitting of an educated person,not the market people on the streets...Quit polluting this thread with your stench of self- importance!...nobody needs it&the world doesn't care.

Now stay off my mentions,mr
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 11, 2016
Tedassie:

Well,your failure to comprehend&fit bits&pieces of info' together is pitiful(putting it mildly). As per your quest to prove your point(even when you've absolutely none to expound on) goes to show the weakness in your person.
First&foremost,i did NOT quote you initially,you simply jumped on my mention to display your ignorance,the person i even quoted had responded to my question.
You got your opinion i got mine,you wanna dispute an opinion do it in a manner befitting of an educated person,not the market people on the streets...Quit polluting this thread with your stench of self- importance!...nobody needs it&the world doesn't care.

Now stay off my mentions,mr

You're a failure and a total waste, I'm sure that if you cease to exist today no one will miss you pathetic existence.

Stop trying to make yourself a person of worth to me. The truth is that you're simply a frustrated and hate filled dejected being with a faulty moral compass.

Your types are the delirious asshats that think you matter but you really don't.

I read something on here that applies to you, river niger has no fence wink

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 11, 2016
EgunMogaji:


You are absolutely correct.

The minute someone starts quoting some ridiculous verse in the bible to justify their lame position on alternative lifestyle, I just smile. Because that person is an asshat and most likely a closet homosexual anyways.

I mean I have nothing against homosexuals, but be true to yourself and live your life and don't live a fake life.

unfortunately, gayizm is completely rejected in our society.... dead on arrival.

there's no amount of crusade or awareness that will solve it,
even though some countries tolerate it but nija....hehehehe

is a no go area
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by shadeyinka(m): 10:29am On Jul 11, 2016
If gays are born gay, are kleptomaniacs born kleptomaniac?

Nonsense...and educated folks accept this as a valid argument.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 11, 2016
carmag:


unfortunately, gayizm is completely rejected in our society.... dead on arrival.

there's no amount of crusade or awareness that will solve it,
even though some countries tolerate it but nija....hehehehe

is a no go area


Frankly I don't care nor spend anytime worrying about the sexual preference of others.

What's important to me is supporting any group of oppressed Nigerians.

It's that simple.

PS: Nigeria is one of the top countries that views gay porn wink

"Kenya tops the Google trends rankings for both ‘gay sex pics‘ and ‘gay porn pics‘, with an extraordinarily high search index.
South Africa came second, follow by Nigeria and Pakistan – with the US and UK ranking a distant seventh and eighth."

I'm not suprised though since we're a country chucked full of hypocrisy. I'll wager that most of the violently opposed posters are in the closet grin

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Sinkills: 11:05am On Jul 11, 2016
Yes, God loves those who are openly or secretly homosexual the same way He loves thieves, liars, adulterers, fornicators, drunkards and idol worshippers. As a result of His love, He sent Jesus Christ to pay the penalty of our sins at the Cross of Calvary so as not to end up in hell. Gays aand other sinners, God really loves you but He detests the sin you are involved in. Justvthe way He will only accept a yhief who trully repents and stops stealing, that is the same way he will accept a former gay who genuinely turns away from the sin. So you need to appreciate and reciprocate His love by turning away from your iniquities and receiving Christ into your life. I pray you do so now before it becomes just too late.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by achemajulius(m): 11:12am On Jul 11, 2016
Is this for real?All iz well!!!!
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by TrajansKong: 11:15am On Jul 11, 2016
Sinkills:
... he will accept a former gay who genuinely turns away from the sin. So you need to appreciate and reciprocate His love by turning away from your iniquities and receiving Christ into your life.

Hmmmmn. The voice of experience? grin grin
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by zabonespen(m): 11:33am On Jul 11, 2016
[b][/b] how you take be pastor sef. By reading the Bible and choosing your favourite verses.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Colyxbro(m): 11:55am On Jul 11, 2016
End time pastor..........It seems we are in the era of smart phones and stupid people.

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Melkysam(m): 12:18pm On Jul 11, 2016
EgunMogaji:


I know your ilk operates on hatred but I refuse to hate my fellow human being and a fellow Nigerian because of his sexual preference.

I grew up in a progressive society so I'll let you wallow in your putrid hatred existence grin

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Under current law, individuals are protected against discrimination based on race or skin color, national origin, genetic information (such as family medical history), gender or pregnancy, religion, disability, and age.


I'll only discriminate, and violently with extreme prejudice, if you are attempting to take from me what's not yours.
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U ar like dx pic

Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 11, 2016
Melkysam:
n


U ar like dx pic

Your nearndrathal tribe is looking for you grin

Only another sad and dejected being would want to keep company with you.

Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Angrymode: 4:06pm On Jul 11, 2016
Emmaesty:
Don't be so judgmental. Matt 7:1 Jugde not that you be not judged. Whenever you see a gay person, please don't judge the person. You can pray for the person instead

He made his choice of being a gay and just as society frown at anomalies such as rape, murder, thieving, etc, I am going to frown at him.
I am going to frown at him more so because he is trying to justify his actions with The Holy Bible.
Remember that even even terrorist and murderers can find justifications for their actions from holy books. So are we to pray for ISIS, Boko Haram, rapists, thieves, etc, instead of rebuking them?
You can argue that gays are not hurting anyone but they corrupt the world with their foul behavior which needs to be stopped vigorously.
Let me conclude by asking you if you will not rebuke your kids when you see them dancing with mad men?
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by TalkHoha: 4:50pm On Jul 11, 2016
I wasn't going to comment, but I have a duty here. Jide Macaulay is right to share his story, and stop people destroying their lives and others' lives when they know they are gay. It's very stupid to force gay men into marriage with women. Marriage is very hard to sustain even for straight couples who love each other, let alone for someone who enters into it to hide his nature. What of the social ills? Having children of doubtful paternity, the wife sexually and emotionally frustrated, the man frustrated into drunkenness, violence, depression, all sorts of problems. Let's get wise.If you did a bit of research, you'd find that gays are part of nature, that gays exist throughout the world of mammals. The earlier homophobic argument was that even animals didn't do it, so how could human beings? Now that a few minutes' 'googling' shows us it pervades the animal world, the argument becomes 'are we to emulate animals?' There is abundant medical evidence, from the gay gene to women's bodies femininzing the male embryo which is like a foreign quantity in her womb, to show us that being gay is a straighforward biological phenomenon. The Western world has faced up to this fact, but we refuse to. The Biblical arguments are too selective. What about eating shellfish, wearing poly-cotton fabrics, or even a girl not marrying as a virgin? These are all abominated in the Bible, but casually forgotten when we start 'It's a sin before the Lord' arguments. Those who hate on gays are on the same mental level as those who'd kill twins as being of the devil, whereas twin birth is perfectly rational biologically. Infact, there is a theory that the gay is a higher/more advanced creature than the straight man, and if you study the lives of the greatest, most creative men who ever lived, almost all of them showed a gay orientation. I leave you with this quote from D.H. Lawrence: 'Nearly every man who approaches greatness tends to homosexuality, whether he admits it or not...'

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Coldfeets: 7:12pm On Jul 11, 2016
I don't believe this nigga at all

Thot gay people use to claim they were born that way

So if they are really born that way, how come he didn't know about his sexual preference from the word go?

Or maybe, he acquired the habit somewhere along the line, who knows...

Anyway sha, all the gay people in the house, I dey troway salute for una becos say una too mush, I swear

Nothing do una so Make una jus dey do una thing ( behind closed doors, abeg)

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by grandstar(m): 10:39pm On Jul 11, 2016
Tolexander:
It seems the Pastor could not perform the masculine sexual activity with his pen¡s. Probably that is the reason his wife divorced him. He seems to have taken solace in sodomy to enjoy sex, hence the reason why he feels he wasn't born to be straight.

True gay men are not sexually attracted to the opposite sex. So, they get no kick from sex with a female. Will your manhood rise if you saw a fully nake.d man? No. Neither will a gay man's by a woman's body.

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by stevedre: 4:02am On Jul 12, 2016
Kakamorufu:
He's even quoting bible verses. Buntyman, guess u forgot why sodom et gomorah were destroyed. Mteew. Iranu

My thoughts exactly... Why do they always ignore the parts where same sex was condemned in the Bible? angry

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Kakamorufu(m): 5:54am On Jul 12, 2016
stevedre:


My thoughts exactly... Why do they always ignore the parts where same sex was condemned in the Bible? angry
yeah, i just don't understand those set of human, maybe their own bible skipped that.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jul 12, 2016
TrajansKong:


This mindset is constantly on the lookout for gays and will spot them everywhere.

Especially glimpsed in the mirror.

This is a typical small-minded, HYSTERICAL, obsessed and small-minded African response to gay people.

Why do we care? Why are we so occupied by this? How can the gays possibly affect us

Almost like we're terrified that stuff can INFLUENCE us, or take us over.

We are too pathetic sometimes. Mtcheeew
Na you sabi son.
Read you comment again and listen to yourself

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by grandstar(m): 7:28am On Jul 13, 2016
TalkHoha:
I wasn't going to comment, but I have a duty here. Jide Macaulay is right to share his story, and stop people destroying their lives and others' lives when they know they are gay. It's very stupid to force gay men into marriage with women. Marriage is very hard to sustain even for straight couples who love each other, let alone for someone who enters into it to hide his nature. What of the social ills? Having children of doubtful paternity, the wife sexually and emotionally frustrated, the man frustrated into drunkenness, violence, depression, all sorts of problems. Let's get wise.If you did a bit of research, you'd find that gays are part of nature, that gays exist throughout the world of mammals. The earlier homophobic argument was that even animals didn't do it, so how could human beings? Now that a few minutes' 'googling' shows us it pervades the animal world, the argument becomes 'are we to emulate animals?' There is abundant medical evidence, from the gay gene to women's bodies femininzing the male embryo which is like a foreign quantity in her womb, to show us that being gay is a straighforward biological phenomenon. The Western world has faced up to this fact, but we refuse to. The Biblical arguments are too selective. What about eating shellfish, wearing poly-cotton fabrics, or even a girl not marrying as a virgin? These are all abominated in the Bible, but casually forgotten when we start 'It's a sin before the Lord' arguments. Those who hate on gays are on the same mental level as those who'd kill twins as being of the devil, whereas twin birth is perfectly rational biologically. Infact, there is a theory that the gay is a higher/more advanced creature than the straight man, and if you study the lives of the greatest, most creative men who ever lived, almost all of them showed a gay orientation. I leave you with this quote from D.H. Lawrence: 'Nearly every man who approaches greatness tends to homosexuality, whether he admits it or not...'

I am not homophobic but do not accept your arguments here.

The Bible condemns homosexuality and also homophobia. We are under the Christian law and not the Mosaic law which you quoted.

Homosexuality like smoking should be condemned. That does not mean that you should hate smokers with passion.

Because you condemn a practice does not mean one hate the doers
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Oluwalosheleyi(m): 9:50pm On Jul 15, 2016
EgunMogaji:


And may the same fate and worse befall you and your generation from this day forth.

In sha Allah.
Sorry Sir.I shouldnt have been aggressive.

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Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 19, 2016
Oluwalosheleyi:
Sorry Sir.I shouldnt have been aggressive.

Apology accepted Sir.

You and your linage will be highly successful, any endeavor you enter into will be fruitful in Jesus name.

Amen.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 19, 2016
TalkHoha:
I wasn't going to comment, but I have a duty here. Jide Macaulay is right to share his story, and stop people destroying their lives and others' lives when they know they are gay. It's very stupid to force gay men into marriage with women. Marriage is very hard to sustain even for straight couples who love each other, let alone for someone who enters into it to hide his nature. What of the social ills? Having children of doubtful paternity, the wife sexually and emotionally frustrated, the man frustrated into drunkenness, violence, depression, all sorts of problems. Let's get wise.If you did a bit of research, you'd find that gays are part of nature, that gays exist throughout the world of mammals. The earlier homophobic argument was that even animals didn't do it, so how could human beings? Now that a few minutes' 'googling' shows us it pervades the animal world, the argument becomes 'are we to emulate animals?' There is abundant medical evidence, from the gay gene to women's bodies femininzing the male embryo which is like a foreign quantity in her womb, to show us that being gay is a straighforward biological phenomenon. The Western world has faced up to this fact, but we refuse to. The Biblical arguments are too selective. What about eating shellfish, wearing poly-cotton fabrics, or even a girl not marrying as a virgin? These are all abominated in the Bible, but casually forgotten when we start 'It's a sin before the Lord' arguments. Those who hate on gays are on the same mental level as those who'd kill twins as being of the devil, whereas twin birth is perfectly rational biologically. Infact, there is a theory that the gay is a higher/more advanced creature than the straight man, and if you study the lives of the greatest, most creative men who ever lived, almost all of them showed a gay orientation. I leave you with this quote from D.H. Lawrence: 'Nearly every man who approaches greatness tends to homosexuality, whether he admits it or not...'

Bravo.

Every Nigerian has a duty to speak up against unfairness.

I do, at each opportunity.
Re: Jide Macaulay: "I Regret Not Knowing I Was Gay Before I Got Married" by Oluwalosheleyi(m): 1:11pm On Jul 19, 2016
EgunMogaji:


Apology accepted Sir.

You and your linage will be highly successful, any endeavor you enter into will be fruitful in Jesus name.

Amen.
Amen and you too Sir.

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